I have been with my fiancee since 2014. In December 2016 we hit a rocky patch. I started noticing her behavior changing towards our relationship. This lead to me becoming curious and then suspicious. We had no intimacy or romance and when i tried she shot it down. We have really been struggling lately and today it came to a head. She tells me "she doesn't know what she wants." Now usually theres options there but its between me and going back to live at her parents. Something doesn't add up there because she hates living at her moms. Then the ultimate low blow was she told me she didn't find me attractive anymore. That was a total gut check but when i asked her what sprung all this I got a big "i dont know." We have so much invested and next year we are set to get married. We even put money down on the venue. What do I even do?

I have a 5 year old daughter whom I love with all my heart. My ex husband has a girlfriend who has been trying to play my role with her. She tries to buy my daughter and today she cleaned my daughters belly button claiming I don t clean her thoroughly. It boiled my blood because god knows that s not true and it seems like she wants to paint a bad picture of me. I called my daughters dad pissed for her not to touch my daughter but obviously he didn t care. I don t know how to feel and it sucks I have to send my daughter to them every weekend. I feel rage for her.

I had to pick up my wife from the airport. Since it wasn't too cold out and I was running a little late, I decided to wear nothing but a t shirt. I was kicking it Winnie the Pooh style, completely naked from the waist down.

My kids, Haley 20, Cal 14, Weston 11, Zane 8, Everett and Taylor 4. All of my kids get along with their older siblings, and love her and she loves them. But I don't want her to feel pressured to help, but she claims to love helping me. Did I screw up?

She has 300 pair of panties and the best part she is from Mexico where taste will be hot..Plus could gringo find sexy latina for marraige ?

Should I be worried?

My lover is older than I am. We have a pretty good income. He's got a good job, owns a home, college educated, all that jazz. No credit card debts, loans, etc. for either of us, save a mortgage on the house (which we always over pay on- the bank loves him!) He doesn't work long hours- Leaves at 8, home at 4:45 most nights. He's a very willing father; wants to hold baby and read stories, and even wear the child if he can! I will be a stay at home mom. After we get married we want to wait at least one year. I had a miscarriage of an unplanned but much wanted child, and do crave a rainbow baby. However, will we be missing out? He loves to visit the national parks and wants to take me along with him! Will I be missing out on a lot if we start a family, me at 20? And will it be tougher on my body? Wow, great answers already. They are certainly confirming our suspicions.. I am thinking it' will be best to go with 25 or so. Thanks to everyone so far!

that really hurt. We only live an hour away. We are in contact with many of them on face book, no excuse...: ( My advice to my husband is just forget it and don't bother asking why we were not invited. Not the first time not the last.

I moved to St Louis in July for my fiancé job transfer. We had a huge argument and we ended things. He actually moved out of the apartment and relocated to another city 6 hours away. He just quit his job and left. I'm still here, I have a job but I'm very depressed. Every time I drive anywhere I think of him. I get very lonely in this apartment by myself. I took a week off from work to visit my family in California. I felt this huge sense of relief being away from St. Louis. Now I'm back. I have NO family in St. Louis, I have no friends except 1. My boss has mentioned my work performance is starting to slack. I don't know what to do? I STUPIDLY put only my name on the lease and so I'm stuck here until at least July. Any suggestions? Thanks

I lived in Austin Texas for 6 years. I was engaged but the engagement ended. I moved to a new city and started seeing someone new. When he heard I was engaged to someone in Austin he wanted no part of the area. He'd get so angry when I'd bring up potentially wanting to move back to Austin and would threaten me and say if I move back to Austin we would be done. He'd tell me anywhere else but Austin was fine. He then proceeded to take me for Valentine's Day for a week back to Austin. We had the BEST time of my life then on the last day he dumped me because he said my past engagement was "too much?" for him and being there made him uncomfortable. He told me he wanted me to always remember Austin as a place of heartbreak and pain. I should note he insisted I not bring him to any restaurants or places I went with my ex fiancé. He reached out to me apologizing saying he wanted to get back together. He found out I have an interview in Austin and has tried to talk me out of going for the past week! He told me how Austin changes me as a person etc. I have my interview on Tuesday and he's now told me he wants nothing to do with me. I almost feel as though he's being controlling/manipulative I feel like he wants to "hurt me." so I'm distracted and perform poorly at my interview. Now, I am a bit hurt and I'm having a hard time focusing. What are your thoughts?

He says he doesn't want to continue his ministry alone and needs a helpmate. He misses his wife terribly. His fiancee is a widow and lives alone. My husband and I are cool with it, but other family members are saying he didn't wait long enough.

Today I cooked dinner for me and my husband and I wasn't sure if her was going to like what I made. So, when I fixed his plate I only gave him a little bit. Even told him I was not giving him a lot cause I wasn't sure he'd like it. It was shrimp, sausage, rice, and some of his favorite flavorings. Once I fixed his and my plate I went ahead and put the rest of the food in bowls and put it in the fridge. Half way through dinner he asked me where was there rest of the food cause he wanted some more. I told him I had already put it up and he questioned me why I put the food away before anyone had a chance to get seconds. He said now the food was cold and he'd have to warm it back up again instead of me just letting it sit on the stove till everyone had eaten, or they had had enough. I tool that as a "teachable moment" from him and that pisses me off when he feels like he needs to teach me anything. I told him that sometime I'll put food away to make it easier for me to clean the kitchen. That's just what I like to do. Why does he question what I do?

I found out that my father is cheating on my mother. They have been married for 22 years. I have evidence on his text messages. The sad part is he wouldn't buy new furniture my mother wanted because he has been giving it to his side hoe. What do I do? Should I confront him without my mom knowing? She doesnt know my father is cheating.

Let's say : Female Brown married Male Brown will she be Female Brown - Brown

a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation?

Assuming you've communicated to each other but your spouse gets upset when this topic is brought up. In addition counseling was also brought up but spouse was not interested. Is this a valid reason to divorce? Would you leave your spouse for such a reason? What if there are children involved? I should've added all attempts to fix marriage (including romance, massages, date nights, vacations) were taken into account. Not much success to report.

I am olive brown but the thing is that I like White women more. I just don't know why. They like me and I like them. I think they are very beautiful and lovely. Is it wrong to like White women more and have a conviction to marry a good looking White girl.

Do I deserve to be shunned forever? Since I met my husband in 1998 I've only been with him. most were relationships, all were single, some weren't to home plate. i think i only had actual sex with 20 at most, but def. not more than 37. it's so long ago and i don't like to think about it. most were relationships, all were single, some weren't to home plate. i think i only had actual sex with 20 at most, but def. not more than 37. it's so long ago and i don't like to think about it. my husband has no problem with my past, only dirt digging women who love to lie and gossip about me, and their thousands of followers.

Daters: Do you consider this emotional cheating if your mate stalks members of the opposite sex and tries to make sure they dont leave by getting her friends to comment on their page when they stop flirting with him? She doesn't talk to them privately just via public content?

I'm stable, have a house, great job, family. I'm scared that we will get married and she will change her mind about wanting kids. She said when we first started dating that she didn't want kids. Then she said she would want kids with me, but I want to be sure. Is it wrong of me to ask her to have kids prior to marriage? I keep hinting as having kids now. The other day she flipped out on me, said it was wrong to pressure kids before marriage. I just want to be sure.

I know he's married but if he wasn't would he?

My husband has recently been talking to other guys and has no shame. I've confronted him about it but he still doesn't care. What should I do? I don't want to end my marriage. Anyone else who has gone through something similar, I would appreciate your advice. Thank you in advance. We are a gay couple. I don't know if it makes any differences. By talking to other guys I meant hooking up with other guys.

My husband and I are living in different countries awaiting his visa. We have 4 hours difference. It seems to be a habit where we communicate at night & he asks me a question of how my day was or to explain how I m feeling & the moment I do, I m literally pouring out my feelings, to find that he has fallen asleep while I was talking? I get that he has had a long day or he could just tell me he is tired. This isn t the first time this has happened. Is it selfish of me to be upset about this?

My husband told me the other day that he wanted to talk to me. Basically he has been having urges to have sex with other girls. He saids he loves me and he just wants to be honest. He seperates love from sex. I asked him if it was me and he said no. He doesnt know why. Because we still do it almost 4-6 times a week. And he saids i turn him on like crazy so he doesnt know where the urge is coming from. Said he doesnt want to lose me. No he hasnt cheated. But ever since he told me that. I have been crying. I dont feel like i am enough. Everytime he touches me i feel like he is picturing a random girl. And i am very depressed right now. I dont wanna sleep because i keep having nightmares. Any advice please. We have been together 6 years and married 5. We have 4 kids as well. I am noy smiling. Im spacing off into nothing.

My wife's parents live with us in the same house. I'm not that happy about it but accepted it as part of her culture. They help us a lot with cooking etc whilst we are working. I posted a question a couple of hours ago about my wife's abuse last night. Her parents understood that she had hit me. Her mother then abused her and smacked her for being disrespectful to me. I'm so disturbed by that. And I can understand why she is still fuming and trying to avoid me today. Not much love between us at the moment. She gives off sour vibes like she wants me gone. I challenged that carefully over the dinner table and she softened for a minute because I was trying to look in her eyes. The only real response was that she loves me but that I should be more mature?? She then went back to the sour cold facade. I am actually beginning to wonder if I was married as a convenience and not love. Part of me is changing and yearning for more than what she can give me.

So I am about to be 23, when I was 20 I started dating my now husband and well I got pregnant the first time we had sex a few months later. Although I was unhappy with him then I decided to stay with him so our daughter could have both parents. We got married when I was 7 months pregnant. Fast forward to now and I have a beautiful little toddler and a husband who is awesome at being a dad. However, I am not happy. My husband is a great guy and I love him as a person but I can't help but feel that I made a huge mistake marrying him. I feel trapped. I know he loves me and I have discussed my feelings with him but he rarely gives any response ( he just says "ok" or "I don't know how to respond to this" because he isn't experienced in relationships or talking about feelings). I said to him that I am not happy with our relationship and I think we rushed into a marriage for the wrong reasons and he just said "please don't divorce me" and started to tear up. I hugged him at that point and told him I wouldn't divorce him. Now I feel stuck in a relationship that causes me to regret most of my life decisions in order to not hurt him. At times we get along great but it is more like a friendship. I am not physically attracted to him at all and I would rather hang out by myself than go somewhere with him (unless it's a family activity). I think I should seek counseling. Any advice? Thank you.

This guy I'm dating, we were lying in bed drunk and he joked "damn, I don't care, whoever I may be married to, I want you to come over and do that to me. Wow lol" I then joked "well what if I'm the one you're married to" and he smiled and said "You very well could be, you could be the one. But a lot can happen between now and then. You might end up getting sick of me lol" Few days later we were hanging out sober & we were talking candidly about our past and our futures and he joked "Your future husband could be with some chick right now and my future wife could be getting laid lol" then he said something funny and so I joked "says my non future husband" he smiled and said "Hey you could be my future wife, you might be future ex wife haha ya never know" I've known him for 3 years. We were friends first and He's NEVER joked before about me being his future wife. But he did it in a weird way, why bring it up?