After 26 years of marriage I thought everything was fine. He hid it good until he came home from working out of town and said he already filed for divorce. I was shocked and devastated. Then in an hour later he told me someone was at the door for me it was the process server. That was so horrible. I asked if there was someone else and he said no but there was a flight attendant that he enjoys spending time with as just friends. Going to dinner with etc. He moved all his stuff out and I found out he cancelled my health insurance. I noticed the past year he's been losing weight,dying his hair, working out and wearing my son's clothes. I have 2 teenagers. I went to the bank and found out he closed our joint account and took all the money except a few hundred. I don't know anyone to borrow for a lawyer. I'm so depressed and now I'm broke, i never imagined this could ever happen i trusted him and I don't know what to do.

I recently started an affair with a married women, it was going on for 3 months then her husband found out, and they split up. We then got together, it was going great for 3 months but then we split up as I told her I didn't trust her. Now I believe she's trying to get back with her husband, do I tell him details of the affair, as I don't think he knows most of it, or just leave them to it? Her husband was unfaithful to her on more than one occasion. And will there releationship work now?

Do you have problems having kids cos of her older age?

he didn't care if my grams has no one or if I wanted to go to school that I was leaving and I was explaining to him that I need to go to school do better ourselfs he lashed out started calling me a ***** and ugly Spanish bad words and I felt so horrible about my self he told me I was a fat *****.. and he knows I'm trying so hard to loose weight I jog every day 3 miles.. so I got angry this time and upset and I told him that I didn't deserve to be treated like crap he hung up then started texting me mean things hurtful I cried for a while then told him that he was miserable and I'm miserable so maybe we shouldn't be together any more and all he said was ok 👍 And where do we start 😭 This hurt me aooo much because he didn't even care so I told him to Google it and haven't talked to him the rest of the afternoon I'm not sure if I should apologies or take this as an operatinity to get out.. yes I'll be a single mom but.. I can do it right? I'm so upset and hurt and it seems like it didn't even bother him.. I don't know if I can start all over again

So my husband has always been a little.. moody and angry but latly it's been worst so right now I'm living at my parents house with my 2 kids because my grandmother doesn't have anyone to take her to appointments and stuff and she's very ill I do this because I love her and want to spend more time with her my husband works about 3 hours away and comes on weekends but he hates being at my parents house which I compliantly understand so we try to stay out most of the time but.. he's so mean.. I feel like he's always putting me down and when I want to do something good like go back to school he tells me no! Ur not going ur moving over here with me and I get that he misses the kids and me but there's no one else to care for my grams and I want to go back to school and my kids are doing so well here at school and at daycare they have so many friends I honestly don't want to go and well anyways something happened today.. he told me again that he was taking me back over there and

The effort is the same and love is the same so you might as well make your life easier by targeting a wealthy wife.

Feelkinda bad for ignoring her but she wants kids and marriage plus as i mentioned she is a westernized headstrong woman. Ask any muslim man that marries an americanized muslim woman what that means. It means feminism on steroids. Plus this one is broke financially and expects the man to be the breadwinner even though she isnt a virgin. I can cite many examples of a man marrying a rich woman who's father owns many usinesses or the woman herself is a pharmacist or some other high paying job. not only that but she is close to a virgin on top of the huge financial benefit she confers. I personally know several guys that did this. Anyways i havent answered her texts but then again i only spoke to her for an hour at the temple and dont feel obligated to coddle her.

My husband and I have been fighting a lot lately and I've been planning to leave for a few months. I'm due with my next baby soon and he's not known to help with housework, pay his share of bills, or do more than he has to. I've gone to counselors for a year about his drinking problem as well. For the past couple of weeks, he's been really nice, cleaned, hasn't picked fights, and has been really enjoyable to be around--totally not him. What could cause the sudden change because I don't think he's scared of me leaving? Am I paranoid to think someone else could be the reason for his good change in mood

My boss has been a little extra friendly, or so others around me have pointed out to me. Recently, I had my spouse meet me at work for lunch (this is allowed you know) and when I mentioned that I was leaving for lunch to meet my spouse, my boss began asking where we were going, how long I was going to be gone, and texting me during my lunch break. These are things that he has never done before during my lunch. Also, he about knocked me down to run out the office door to meet my spouse and shake his hand, introduce himself, ask his name (he knew this), etc. My husband said he felt my boss was "not impressed" by him. Then, my boss began telling me that if I was gone too long with my husband at lunch, I might miss making money. Really odd behavior in my opinion, is this normal? Was this jealousy? I have never had a boss act this way before. He has also made little snide remarks about my husband- or changed the subject if he is brought up

Me and my wife have been married for 5 months. Shes 4 months pregnant with our son. Shes really obsessed with me. She gallows me around. She holds my hand. She always wants to cuddle in bed or on the couch. She gets upset and cries whenever I leave the room. Last night I went to use the bathoom when I came back in she hugged me tight acted like I been gone for hours. She does this all the time. Why is she obsessed with me ?

Yes im feeling miserable without a woman taking care of me and i wish to take care of a woman and seeing her happy etc. But is it too late ? Honestly life isnt worth living alone. When i was younger i had the looks, money and plenty of hookers and parties. Now im not sure i've anything to offer to a woman except money and a crappy attitude. Advise please. Flouride: yea thats another point..options available aren't too attractive.. PLUS her kids.. So basically its like she's marrying to secure HER kids a future rather than wanting to take care of me. I mean i tried but they dont really have time for me; they just focus on their kids and what i need to provide for HER kids. Hookers are stone cold money drains. Last option would be a mexican or indian housemaid with benefits ( sexo ).

I've never honestly imagined myself ever being in a relationship. I wouldn't be much healthy to stay with now, also. I was wondering if there are such things as intentionally sexless relationships? Is it a known "thing"? I won't seek one and wouldn't really work in one, but things maybe would've been different if yes and if I'd have known. I don't manage well alot of subjects, so I get lonely and the question felt relevant and comfortable.

I know my husband would never cheat on me, despite this, I sometimes have dreams that he does cheat on me. He thinks I have a subconscious fear of him cheating, but I have solid faith in him. Can there be other reasons to have dreams like that? The girls I dream about always have really random names, like Jessica and Sue, and I don't know anyone with those names...the dreams always end with me killing myself and becoming a ghost lol

He was on top, for like 3 minutes and was going really fast and making noises like he was about to nut then went slowand pulled out, I seen he was soft so I figured he came inside me, I got mad because I thought he had but he swears he didn't and it was weird because he wanted to lay down for a little cause he was tired I know once you nut you get tired, then he started to finger me and we went again. So basically did he just get soft or actually nut inside of me?

even if there aren't any written rules, who would the family want them to marry

His health isn't the best and he's overweight. But I don't think that's the right way to word it. My mom was talking about my husband.

Would you support your country or your family?

I have been on here before because of a situation I worry about CONSTANTLY. I have a question about it. I won't get into details, but bottom line is a family friend, Bob, cosigned a loan for my hubby when he was 20 (14 yrs ago). Hubby let sister take over payments of vehicle (but it wasn't in her name) and Bob paid it off for the sister. The family friend and the sister had a falling out. My hubby talked to Bob and he thinks the SISTER, not my hubby, owes him money now. HERE IS MY QUESTION....I have always thought that Bob has something the matter with him, and that maybe he didn't fully comprehend what he was doing. I worry the sister took advantage of him. I don't think my husband knew at 20 years old that Bob maybe had a disability- he grew up with Bob; thought that was just how he was. I do NOT think he said "ooh Bob doesn't know what's going on...let me have him cosign." Recently,one of my mom's colleagues said she knows Bob. I don't really talk to her,other than if we see each other casually. Should I ask my mom's friend if she thinks Bob has something the matter with him?If she says yes,it gives me a TON more reasons to worry and I want my husband to talk to him again about if he wants money from my hubby. If she says no,he doesn't,I feel like I can move on.In the past, we've known others who know him.Some have said "yea, he has issues or something up or yea he has something, but he's capable of making his own decisions". Do I ask this woman?Or,do I drop this? I know I sound annoying. I just can't stop worrying. I am aware that sometimes at 20 people make not so great decisions. I know my hubby should have transferred ownership to the sister, then none of this would matter. And the only reason I think he has a problem is because I have been around him and he acts a little slower. He also lives with his elderly mom. My husband says he helps take care of her. He has a job working for the city and has for 20 years plus. He has a CDL license, too. My husband says he sometimes plows for the city. He also does maintenance work. I guess....if he DOESN'T have a problem, then in my mind we can talk to him again,and when he says y hubby doesn't owe I can relax. But if he DOES have a problem,I feel like my hubby should give him money, even if it is really the sister's responsibility. My husband is a good person. He always helps others and is so nice. I can't imagine him doing something on purpose. I am also aware that everyone makes mistakes. And he was 20 at the time, I was still in college. But I feel like people make little mistakes....and this to me is a big mistake. I don't know if I am being crazy, and need to seek therapy, or if I need to get to the bottom of this. I do have a history of anxiety/OCD. Maybe I have over thought this SO much, I am making myself crazy. I just didn't know if I should be asking people that know him if he has a problem or if that is crossing a line.

We are both 32. We have been together for only 2 years now and married for 1. The sex dwindled about 9 months in going from several times a week to about this often.

Here's the details. My husband is from another country and I grew up in the US. It is very custom for a woman from the family to go help out when a new baby is born. It's a very kind gesture. I appreciate the gesture. However, there are many things that concern me. First of all, we don't know her. We met briefly a few years ago at my wedding, but that's the most contact we've had. Secondly, she is bringing her two year old son. I know people have babys with other siblings, but I don't know this child, and he doesn't know me nor my husband. I know he's a very active child and being a first time mom, I was looking forward to figuring out this whole motherhood thing in a quiet home. Lastly, we arent prepared for guests. We don't have another bed, extra car seats, anything for accommodating two more people except for a little couch. All of this is causing extra anxiety, but I am wondering if I'm making a mountain out of an ant hill? Should I be concerned? Please give any advice!

I've asked this a couple of times, but I haven't found any answers that help. My dream is to become a father. It's more important to me than anything else. But I'm too worried to get married as I don't want to get a divorce and not get custody of my children. I want to actually raise my children, not just visit with them. I don't even want to risk this happening. What should I do?

In the early day, the man earns the money and the wife takes care of the kids. In that time, the wife s only income is the man s bank account. Nowadays, both gender are working, so naturally both should equally contribute to the family, right? Now, I m (f) gonna earn more money than my future husband, so he thinks I m gonna have to pay more, because I earn more. If we re being logical, that s the rational behaviour.... but the traditional part of me still wants the man to be the main provider. What do you think?

This is the penalty for harlotry!!!

I honestly can't see how it wouldn't, because you don't have time for each other anymore.Most married couple with kids that I know are like platonic roommates. I feel like kids are like little intruders in your relationship.

As in cheats, has a temper, is a addict, a gambler,etc. Did you know that thinking this way, is IN the bible and it's a sin to divorce someone for these reasons? What I learn on the Internet This question is in no way related to me. Just conciliating curiosity Some people don't show their true colors;at first. Once again, not about me. What part of that do you not understand. Not about advice either

My husband cheated and we divorced. I was quite a shy introvert before and whilst married but have found a new wild 'me' I have had a series of very exciting liaisons from one nighters, car sex, public sex to having a guy for several weeks. I have lost my inhibitions and tried lots of sex I wouldn't think of doing with my husband, even two guys at once! My old self has gone.My therapist said it's 'divorcée syndrome' has anyone else experienced this?

without being judgemental? She also has kids I don't know what words to say, to respond back to her after told me this. She likes to keep in touch.

Never trust a man , not even your daddy , always keep a safe and or a piggy bank . When he says he loves u don't relax keep ur eye on the money . Never go out alone and always keep a phone . Friends are important too , but don't trust them either don't even make plans for a family until you know for sure his job is secure and you are too . Never be a slob at not listening to someone who has experience., Never trust her son trust your mother's word and your dads wallet . Men are not the worst but if his account sum up to trumps , then don't waistline your health and time on his word. I receive social security due to trust issues in society. Don't copy my way , find a safety net that works for your stability and wellbeing. I don't hate men but there's to much influence, like TV .Get help find sources for security financially. Never get naked in front of men , worse mistake. Use condoms until your account is established, always keep your own apartment and never pay more than it's worth . Remember im a national player . I HAVE MONEY IN THE BANK AND ILLITERATE THAN A B I T C H . Common sense will take u a long way. Girls is all i have , to protect them is all i know, so gals protect your purse and smile with guard on your account . Always remember a man reach for his wallet first . GOD BLESS

I have a wife and I'm not going to lie, her body doesn't intrigue me as she is massively overweight(though I'd never tell her that) but I love her very much. I've asked her in the past if we could have a FFM threesome and no such luck. Understandable.. Though a let down. Anyway, I was talking to a couple tramsgendered women(obviously men or were men) and I asked my wife if she would be ok with me having sex with said women(again obviously really males) and she went on a long rant about how that hurt her feelings and that's cheating etc so forth. I told her it's not because they're actually men, and I'm not even bi so I'm not into dudes. I think she's being dramatic and she said no woman would be ok with their man having sex with a trans woman. So am I right or is she? Let's get some perspective