Family: Question: How would you handle a nosy and rude step sister?

Question: How would you handle a nosy and rude step sister?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:42 PM PDT

I have a step sister and she is awful. She pushes herself into my life and into my relationships ALL. THE. TIME. She has literally come to my house uninvited and then takes it upon herself to throw out my alcohol or go through my letters and such which is just ******* annoying, not to mention flat out wrong. If I buy a couple hundred dollars worth of alcohol, I ******* want it. She has no right to throw out stuff i have bought. I'm a tattoo artist and keep a very large book of drawings and original designs and such. And she has gone through it and ******* nearly ruined some of the pages. Like, 7 years of my work and my time and dedication is in that book, and she's just treated it so ******* carelessly. This would make more sense if she were a kid; she's 29, older than me! I'm also bisexual, I do not like being in monogamous relationships. I like to be able to have sex with who I want when I want, and that's my and my partner's business. She, however, disagrees, and when I'm dating someone she will say I'm cheating on him/her and being an awful person and just have my whole family turn on me. If I go out and drink, she freaks out and tells everyone I'm like doing drugs again. If I wear long sleeves and pants, I'm cutting myself again! I'm just cold, damn it. It sucks, I'm an adult. I have a total right to do stuff yet I now walk on eggshells and feel like hiding everything I do because of her. I don't know what to do or say, but I need to do something. What would you do?

Question: How do I convince my mom she is still beautiful?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:40 PM PDT

When I got out of high school, I had a hard time finding a job. I finally found a job with good pay and a GREAT boss. One day in his office I saw his high school graduation picture on his wall. I told him that my mom went to the same high school. He asked me her name in school. When I told him, he said "I knew your mom in high school. I can see were you get your good looks. She was the most beautiful girl in the school." WOW was that nice to hear. He asked if I had a picture or my mom now. I said no. He said "I would like to see her again to catch up on old times. Why don't you let me take the two of you to lunch some time. I said "great I would arrange it". It sounded like that would be fun. When I told my mom about this she said she did not want to see anyone she went to high school with. When I ask her why she told me she had gained 10 pounds since she was in high school and didn't feel like she looked good. I told her 10 more pounds in 20 years and after 3 kids did not change her great looks. She still looked great. How can I convince her she is still beautiful and should join us for lunch? Would taking her to get her hair and nails done and helping her buy a new dress make her change her mind? It is always good for your job to make your boss happy don't you think? Moms and others, PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS.

Question: My daughter misbehaves around me, but when her dad is home she great?!?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:40 PM PDT

My daughter 14 She is usually misbehaves around me, she doesn't listen, talks back, yells at me, doesn't do anything, the only thing she does is her gymnastics which she has been doing since she was 5 everyday day 4 hour sessions! But she is so different when her dad is home! My husband how has been in the marines for 15 years and comes home every 2 weeks for 3 days! When he is home there isn't one time she would talked back to him! Or didn't do as told! I don't get it?! What is up with her when he is around!? Maybe she is scared?! because when he gets mad he takes all her electronics away, one time she was doing really bad in school and he- took the door off, took the tv off, left her with 4 sets of clothes, took all the makeup away, I didn't really like it but guess what she got her grades up and she was focused on school! When he saw it she got her stuff back! Is she behaving well out of fear?! What should I do my daughter treats me with some respect like she gives her father!!?

Question: Was this man just playing a game?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:25 PM PDT

I contacted the brother of my on-off again boyfriend of 10 years, to tell him that his brother has died. They haven't spoken in 8 years, he said because he loaned him $12,000 and was never paid back. They are 1 year apart and look like identical twins. I miss my friend dearly and naturally transferred that affection to his brother. He sent me pictures of his beachfront home in Costa Rica and very quickly started a potential serious " longterm committed" relationship. I have a beloved 5 year-old dog. He said no dog will ever live in his house and started saying very mean things about how to give my dog away. When I said, geez you sure do hate my dog, he got angry that I was causing "drama" Before this there were always very subtle put-downs and diminishments. He seemed so serious & then just dropped me like hot coal. The last thing was him calling me a stupid b*tch from his brothers past. I've re-read all the emails and they seem sincere. Does it sound like in retrospect, his brother got to him or he got revenge on his brother through me somehow?

Question: How to tell my dad i dont want him to come to a university interview with me?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:16 PM PDT

in 2 weeks i have to go to the university to be interviewed for a place, they'll be a tour and stuff as well. he spoke to me today about how he's planned the times to leave the house and fastest way to drive there etc. HES BOOKED A DAY OFF WORK TO TAKE ME. and hes in a job where booking a day off work is a big deal. i dont want him to come. like i know some people bring their parents but i dont want to be one of those people. 2 yrs ago he came to my 6th form enrolment with me. half of the kids didnt have parents with them. it make us with parents look like babies. im an almost 18 yr old guy, i want to get the train to the university ALONE like an adult. also dont want to hurt his feelings or make him mad either.

Question: Why didn't my mom tell me about this?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 01:02 PM PDT

I was visiting my cousins (my moms sister's children). They were showing the family picture album. It has pictures of my mom when she was young and was she ever beautiful. WOW. I told my aunt that I had never seen those pictures and I thought my mom in those pictures was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My aunt said "If you think she was beautiful then, let me show you some of national magazines she modeled for". Moms pictures in those magazines just blew me away. I had not idea mom had ever been a model. She had never told me about that? I ask my aunt if she could make me a copy of mom's pictures so I could put them on the wall in my room and she agreed to do so. Do you think my mom would have a problem with her daughter putting her mom's pictures on my room at home as I am so proud of her? Can anyone think of a reason mom never told her daughter she was a model and had appeared in national magazines?

Question: Why does my brother act so bad?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:40 PM PDT

He always jokes about women, cusses, disobeys everyone, smokes, and drinks. He ll even start yelling at people and cuss at them when a minor annoyance occurs. He hangs out with bad people. He s 17 and a junior in high school.

Question: Sister and I got into a big fight...over tomato soup?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:39 PM PDT

We got into a fight over me wanting to mak e a can of tomato soup for myself. She knows that I always have one can for myself, and I was going to offer to make her one before she started yelling at me, and attacked me...I retaliated by hitting hi in the chest with the pot I had in my hand to get her away from me, and she yelled at me some more, then attacked me again. I hit her again to get her away, and then my mother came in...and then she s making us wait for dad (great job mom). I feel like this spun completely out of control for no reason, and could use some help in dealing with this situation. Sorry if this sound really stupid.

Question: Why does my mother always keep me from opportunities?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:38 PM PDT

I am 16 years old, turning 17 in October. I have played music for a good portion of my life; Instruments including the electric bass, piano, a little bit of the church organ, and the chromatic harmonica. Last year I was offered something very significant to me, I was offered to play the bass at a church about 10 minutes away from me. They were going to pay me to come out every Sunday. My father was excited, however, my mother told the pastor "no" and that "He needs to do his school work". This is actually laughable to me, because she was implying that I wasn t/am not able to multitask school and a paying music gig. I am in the National Honors Society, there hasn t been a year in my life where I haven t been on high honor-roll. My grades stay at A s and B s, mostly A s. My mother always does this, in fact, I have an audition this weekend for a church to play bass. She doesn t even want me to do that, even though that s the church we go to as a family. She doesn t only do this with music, she does it even with regular 9-5 jobs. About 2 months ago I approached my parents with a permit from my school which they were required to sign in order for me to apply for a job. My father told me to ask my mother. At that point I could already comprehend her answer. She went rambling about the same thing she did with the whole music thing. All I want to do is make my own money doing what I love, or even just working at Taco bell for the time being. I ran out of writing space. Please help!

Question: I can't live like this anymore.?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:32 PM PDT

Today has been one of the worst days of my life, my sister told her husband she didn't want to be with him anymore. Her kids were crying and my niece heart starting hurting she begged me to check what was going on after my sister screamed get off of me, I went and I pushed her husband to the bed and I tugged on his shirt he told me he was just talking to her I tried to get her out the room but he closed the door and told me the next time I touch him like that he'll hit me like a man and I told him to do it I don't care anymore. My sister and him left somewhere I don't know where he took her and they just left me with the 3 kids crying. my niece keeps saying she hates this life I don't know what to do I don't want her to see this. I'm so broken I don't want to live anymore. I told my mom and she got angry I told her stay at work she said she'll kick him out tonight. I'm scared of where they went it's been about 30 minutes. I keep hearing the screams ringing in my ear. I don't know what to do please help

Question: My dad is mad at me because I found a job. What do I do?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:09 PM PDT

So I just turned 18 and after two years of job hunting since I was 16, I was able to land a job as a bartender/waitress. Now me being the only child and my parents being persian, my dad is not taking it well. He does not think I should work at all, period. He wants to take care of me financially until I'm 30 and able to get a "real job" as a "doctor" or a "lawyer". I don't think he gets that I want to grow up and take care of myself. He is RAGING and really mad. He said that if I go to work there tomorrow I will be embarrassing him to the core for working for "middle eastern peasants". Mind you he knows the owner of the bar/restaurant. I've made my decision as a newbee adult to take the job and see what happens but he is so stressed and no joke I'm scared that he will end up in the hospital because of me. But I can't just say no to experiences and stay daddy's little angle forever. We never had a relationship at all and if we did it was terrible so ain't no way he gon listen, I already tried explaining. My mama wants to stay out of it. My friends think it's a good idea. At the same time I feel like if I decline this one opportunity now, it will become his habit to throw tantrums and get me to do what he wants forever, just like I did at 16. I'm very stressed. Any advice?

Question: I don't want to give up my foster great niece back to her mother.?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:02 PM PDT

Long story short: My great niece was placed with our family 18 months ago by child services. She was taken from her mother (my nephew's ex-girlfriend) and my nephew because of drug use. She was 2 years old. Our great niece has mild to moderate FASD. When we got her she was underweight, had lice, and wasn't saying any words. She has made great strides, is finally talking, and his happy. Six months ago her mother finally decided to quit the drugs. Before she was granted supervised visits 2 hours twice a week. Half the time she wouldn't show up or would show up late or leave early. Two months ago she was granted unsupervised visits after having 6 clean drug tests. The social worker is increasing the visits to two overnights a week. I'm trying hard to prevent this. I don't believe my great niece will do okay with her mother, who is uneducated, living in a rundown apartment on the wrong side of town. I'm told if I prevent the visits they will take the child. I've hired a lawyer but he is saying that there may not be much I can do if she is following her case plan. It's a shame that these deadbeats have so many rights. The social worker said if everything goes according to plan she'll be back with her mother full time by the end of June. From what I gathered and from the social worker. She is working part time as a waitress, and working toward getting a GED. They have made visits to the apartment and they deem it clean and safe for her to be there. My concerns of it being a low income, semi high crime area isn't enough. She is only 3 1/2. I have tried calling her during her visits. The mother will answer and say that she'll bring her back at the end of the visit and not to worry. I tried asking to speak to the child and she said that she is fine and that I needed to stop interfering in her visits. Again I tried to talk to the social worker with my concerns and she told me that I needed to stop interfering. I have no biological children. I have adopted one foster child at age eight in 2004, and did respite care until shortly before I took in my great niece.

Question: OMG MY MOM IS IN THE STORE AN I AM ON THE CAR AN THEIRS NO BATH ROOM IN THE STORE AN I AM ABOUT TO CRAP MY PANTS!?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 11:59 AM PDT

I cant hold it in much longer, I have been letting poop toots (thems the farts you cut when you have a huge terd log ready to come out) an an Dry Richies (little squeeker farts when the terd is about to crown) an I think it may come out like in the next couple minutes an theirs no bath room in this store its some fabric store an I dont have nothing to crap in accept my back pack an mom would kill me!

Question: I work with a constant complainer. All she does is complain about little things. How do I deal with it?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 11:44 AM PDT

She complains about her job, the sun shining in the windows, the loud people in the shop next to us, the weather, her son, the phone ringing... I could go on. I try ignoring her and keeping to myself but her desk is right next to mine. She makes me hate coming to work because I know I am going to hear her constantly ***** and moan all day.

Question: Is it bad that I'm pissed at my boyfriend for not having his license?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 11:30 AM PDT

He is 17, almost 18. He said he was going to the DMV today which he did, twice because he forgot some paperwork(which I reminded him to get but he ignored). He said that he's doing it later because he "would have had to take a driving test". I told him that he has to take a driving test (how else would they freaking know if he could drive or not 😑), but he kept saying that it's just a multiple choice test. I think he's mad at me because I kept giving him advice Anyways, my parents think that it's really weird that he doesn't have a license so I think that's contributing to my anxiety I think that I'm also worried about him being really immature/codependent. He relies on his parents for EVERYTHING, and seems to avoid thinking for himself. We were baking awhile ago, and before he even looked for the ingredients, he would tell "DAD!! WHERE ARE THE EGGS?" and it really pissed me off because he asked his parents about every little step in the recipe. He's going to community college. He says it's to save money and stuff, but I feel like it's really because he likes living at home where his mom makes EVERY SINGLE MEAL for him and does his laundry. I mean, for God's sake, he doesn't even know how to preheat the oven or use the microwave He has a lot of good qualities too, but this codependency on his parents is a real turn off sometimes. Like I haven't been that dependent on my parents since I was 10. Am I an asshole or what? Should I be annoyed by this? What should I do??

Question: My daughter is taking too long to graduate?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 11:25 AM PDT

My daughter is 23 and still in school it has my husband and I thinking she won't graduate at all. She doesn't live with us, she moved out at 20 but she says she couldn't get financial aid bc my husband made too much and she was only taking 1-2 classes because she was paying out of pocket. That sounds fishy, why did she have to include her Father's taxes if she didn't live with us? Then at 22 she got pregnant, it was high risk and took a year off! She got married too, and got a scholarship this past year but says it will take her at most 2 years! That's way too long, and I don't know what to think of it. Had anyone heard of such a situation? No, we do not financially support her, but it is hard to see your child take so long to finish school knowing the more time that passes the chances of her finishing goes down the toilet. What concerns me is, both she and her husband have decent jobs and I'm afraid she'll just pick working for the city she currently works for and abandon her studies for good.

Question: Why do I feel some people don't appreciate the good I do for them?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 10:31 AM PDT

Like one girl in my class I got her an ice pack and a chair to sit on, but the next day she ignored me and acted like I didn't do anything. If I make people laugh they love me, but when I seem upset they dont want to hear me story.

Question: How do I accept that my parents have no desire to help me with my mental illness and just move on?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 10:30 AM PDT

They choose ignorance over compassion (my father especially)

Question: Since my Dad is an ***.ho.le is there anything wrong with me disliking him as long as I show family love towards him?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 10:29 AM PDT

He is a bad man

Question: My Dad likes to lie to people, does this make him a conman?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 10:20 AM PDT

Question: My Mother is by nature a negative person. She hates my husband although won t admit it, has never had a positive thing to say about him.?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 10:05 AM PDT

Question: What is wrong with my parents?!?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 09:36 AM PDT

They met in Orlando, and lived there for a year, they moved to New York for a while but then decided it was too expensive so moved to Chicago, they got bored of that and wanted to live by the ocean so moved to freaking Hawaii where they finally settled for a while and had my older brother. Then they moved to Estes Park Colorado for a change of scenery and had me, my mom didn't like the mountains after her pregnancy and got sick so we moved to LA where I grew up. So they've lived in the nicest places in the US and now want to move us all the Nebraska and buy a farm. I laughed and thought they were joking at first but we're leaving tomorrow and I hate them. It's not that they can't afford our lifestyle right now, my dad has an awesome job (I don't actually know what it is but I know he makes 150k+ a year) and my mom is a nurse just because she feels like having a job. Then they just got a ton of money from my millionaire great grand parents who passed away a year ago. Now my parents want a farm, I think they're crazy. They want to raise grass fed beef and poultry or something. I don't like our new house and I don't like how far we are from any major city. There will be zero opportunities for me there (I take ballet and hip hop dance, art, and play cello and piano, and we won't be able to get lessons for any of those anymore) I think they're being very selfish. I won't get to graduate from a good private school and I won't have a chance with the college I want to go to. I'm 16 I'm not trolling, I know I got lucky with my parents but that doesn't change that they're crazy in wanting a farm, I'm not the only one in our family who thinks so

Question: How do my parents cut the cord with my high-functioning, autistic brother?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 09:32 AM PDT

He's 18 and he's book smart, but doesn't have any friends by choice. My parents, especially my mom, worry about him being taken advantage of when he goes to college this fall because he has some social ineptitude and because of stories she hears in the news about autistic people being taken advantage of. We're going to the same college (I'm 21) and I told my mom to let me handle getting him acquainted, which there's next to nothing to do but introduce him to my friends, but she still worries and treats him like he's a retard that can't take care of himself. I'm in Electrical Engineering and he's going to do Chemical Engineering, so we don't have time to do mischievous college things, but my mom still doesn't understand that.

Question: How do I get custody or guardianship of my little sister?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 09:19 AM PDT

My parents died in a car accident when I was 14 years old and my little sister was only 2 years old. We were separated between family members. My aunt took me into her care, and my grandparents got guardianship of my little sister. Now I am 26 years old, my little sister is 14 years old and she wants to live with me. My grandparents refuse to give her up and rarely let me see her. She feels mistreated, and there is a lot of emotional abuse in the home. She is not in any danger, but I would like to take her out of my grandparents home as soon as possible. I live in Las Vegas and she lives in California. What can I do to get custody of her??? I don't think I will be able to afford a lawyer.

Question: I've lost my care for people and I'm randomly crying?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 09:13 AM PDT

People have just started to give a damn about me and by now it's too late to fix my relationship with them. I feel different towards my parents, it's not hate, it's not love. It's just "respect me and I'll respect you" relationship. I don't care about my friends problems anymore unless if they have a problem that has to do with me, other than that I told them to just keep it to themselves or ask help from someone else. I've always cared for people so much and this new thing I'm doing makes me realize people never cared that much about me and that's why I feel like this. Is this normal? Because i don't think it is Is this me letting go of all the negativity inside of me and just looking for a little space from everyone else?

Question: Does every family have "THAT" family member?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 08:27 AM PDT

Question: Please help I need to feed myself & my baby!?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 08:21 AM PDT

I m pregnant & have applied for food stamps. However since I live with my mother she is the head of household & has the ebt card. She was already receiving $16 a month & now with me added she will recieve $173 a month. She doesn t buy food to prepare meals she only buys what she wants which is mainly junk food that she keeps in her own room & she refuses to let me use the card. What should I do? UPDATE: I called the human services department & tried to remove myself from her case but they said I'm a mandatory member & cannot be removed until I'm 22 or until I move out. I don't have the money to move right now & there's nothing the department will do to help me.

Question: How to get regular hugs from my sister-in-law?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 06:55 AM PDT

I am a 19 years old guys who's in serious emotional pain.. a have an older sister-in-law. She's so nice and sweet. I love her as a SISTER and nothing more. I so want to hug her a tight, long hug... so many hugs. And I know she will let me if I ask her, and I know she likes me alot, too. But I want her to feel attracted to me doing so, not feel annoyed or obligated to hug me. How do I tell her or let her know????

Question: My father was never good to his elders other then his father. Is this true of most men in America?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 06:54 AM PDT

He very much neglected his two grandmothers when I was little and he was somewhat negligent towards his own mother as well. By negligent I mean ignores.

Question: My Dad is a bad man who chooses ignorance over compassion. How do I get him back?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 06:50 AM PDT

Question: My father lies to avoid getting into trouble with my Mom who is moody. Is this true of most couples?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 06:43 AM PDT

My Dad is a frequent liar.

Question: Need some advice?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 06:35 AM PDT

I need help cux i'm 17 and my mother is leaving my father and she wants to take me to im stuck between a rock and a hard place i am currently trying to find employment and almost done with senior year but enough about the real thing is my mom is evil ( alcoholic abusive and molested me even my friends tell me she has an evil vibe to her) and she is just one of the most fakest people my dad i dont trust either even tho he says he loves me i feel as if its fake to

Question: Does this make sense ?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 05:29 AM PDT

"Choose to look for the good and make the best of where you are regardless if that's where you want to be or not. No one can make that choice but yourself. "

Question: I need SENDERS ASAP?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 04:40 AM PDT

So, at home I always feel like no one loves me. I have alot of friends by the way, and none of their parents yell like a psycho like my mom. She is divorced, a smoker, and really have anger issues. She hits and screams at me when I cry, she hit me when I was 1 month old cause I wouldn t stop crying then when I was on my phone she screamed at me for about 3 minutes. I m really feeling like suicide or running away is better than my life RN. Also I m 11 and in 6th grade if your wondering

Question: She turned me on?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 04:36 AM PDT

i'm 21. today i was searching for a paper in my mother's room , i found it and start reading till my mom enter to the room . she want to wear to go to work ,i take the paper and about to left but she tell me stay it doesn't bother me , i was socked but i like to stay . she undressed and she turned me on ,my d*ck get hard. after she wear she go to work and i left the room and go masturbate , she make me so horny. what should i do next? i want that again as you like but it's happened.

Question: Mum is trying to make me quit my job?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 04:22 AM PDT

My mum would never let me have any money to go out with friends and told me I needed to get a job when I was 13/14 to get things for myself. I've been working at a pub for the last year on Friday nights washing up and they have asked me to start doing Saturday nights and Sunday lunch times as well which I have agreed to. Now my mum is telling me she doesn't want me to work there and I need to concentrate on my studies! She also takes half the money I get on Friday nights for herself but says it goes into a saving account so I'm literally left with £7 a week and working the extra shifts would really help me out. She never wanted me to socialise and I only could through this new job and now she doesn't even want me to do that! I'm nearly 16! What's her problem?! She didn't care when I was even younger.

Question: Ayudenme tengo problemas en mi casa con mi mujer....?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 03:03 AM PDT

Ayudenme porfabor Tengo problemas en mi hogar miren yo trabajo de lunes a sabado de 8 a 5 de la tarde y estudio lunes martes y jueves Mi mujer estudia de lunes a jueves solo 3 horas al dia y tenemos una hija al salir de la escuela va y cuida a mi hija ella no trabaja ella es muy enojona tiene un caracter demasiado fuerte yo le ayude en la casa yo cosino los miercoles viernes y domingo pero ahora hoy que llege martes Me dice que no cocino hoy dia porque no le dio la gana de cocinar que no era mi sirvienta y dijo que desde hoy yo tenia q llegar y cosinar cuando ella no le de la gana de cosinar entonces yo enojado le pregunto entomces que cuando te de la gana solo vas a cosinar y me dice que si entonces le digo que se large a buscar un trabajo para que ayude en casa si no quiere cosinar si quirre portarse asi ..... consejosss

Question: How do you deal with someone who has an semi narcissistic personality?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 02:48 AM PDT

My dad thinks he's the best that he knows everything, just cause he went to one of the best collages in Europe and graduated. He thinks he's perfect. He never do anything for the family (or rarely) and he's very arrogant. When I talk to him he never listens to what I say because he feels it's BS because he think he knows better all the time. Can he ever change?

Question: Is it wrong to have children if you can't afford them?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 02:48 AM PDT

My dad is self employed and out all day, he never takes any holiday and my mum is a stay at home mum so we never have money to do anything. She doesn't want to get a job outside the home so says we can't afford anything. I have one older sister. We are both in our teens. We've never been allowed to do any after school clubs as it can involve spending money. We have never been on holiday as a family and never do any day trips anywhere as we have no money. My mum doesn't drive and we only have one car so can't go anywhere. We don't get given pocket money or Christmas/ birthday presents. We aren't allowed on any school trips away as again no money. I get all my sisters old hand me downs including school uniform and people at school have started laughing at me and making fun of me saying I'm a pikey. I talked to my mum about it and she said im old enough to get a job myself if I'm that bothered about it. I've just turned 14! I just keep thinking what's the point in having children if you can't afford to do anything or have fun and spend time as a family?

Question: Do you think I have no life?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 02:40 AM PDT

I am trying and want to get a job. However, I just do not get the motivation to apply anymore. I had retail/supermarket jobs but I just do not like serving/greeting/smiling to customers etc so I resigned. My family is suporting me atm... but here i am using y/a daily, eating and sleeping. I don't like going out. I don't have a life right?

Question: Why won't my dad let me move schools?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:44 AM PDT

Ok, so before you start saying things like 'omg maybe its the cost of the school you want to go to. stop being so selfish.' nope. The school i want to go to is actually CHEAPER by alot. Not only that, but it's next to his work aswell. So it's not far away either. he says i cant go there. he still won't take into consideration THAT THE CONSTANT ARGUMENTS ARE NOT COMING FROM MY MOTHERS MOUTH! My mum, is on my side. My parents are divorced. She doesn't have alot of money so we cant fight my dad in court about it. but everything i'm saying about my current school is coming from me. for two whole years i've hated it here because of the bitchy people and the school system. AND, my dad's friend has talked to him about it and how they got bullied at their old school and was allowed to move and were 10x happier but he just told her that he's not letting me move. I dont know why. It's all about reputation i guess. He started a business with one of the parents whose daughter goes to my school in my year. anyway... does anybody know what i can do? and please explain why he wont let me move. thankyou i've told him all about it and it ends up with us both ignoring each other and hating each other. another reason why i hate it, is that i dont feel like i belong at ALL. yes, i do have friends there, but they are not true friends. If they had the chance to choose me over a popular person, they would choose the popular person in a heart beat. i've told him all about it and it ends up with us both ignoring each other and hating each other. another reason why i hate it, is that i dont feel like i belong at ALL. yes, i do have friends there, but they are not true friends. If they had the chance to choose me over a popular person, they would choose the popular person in a heart beat.

Question: How do I deal with being homesick?

Posted: 29 Mar 2017 12:32 AM PDT

I just moved out of my parents' house and in with my sister and brother in law. It's been about 5 days and I'm already really wanting to move back. I thought I'd be happy to move out of the small condo we've lived in for the past decade into this slightly bigger townhouse and not have my parents telling what to do or hearing them argue. But I'm not. I miss my home, I miss my parents, our dog (even though I have a cat of my own), my room etc. (plus I'm facing some inconveniences worse than any back at my parents') This is supposed to just a short two months. But that just seems too long. Yet even though I could pay for it (cause I got whatever took all my stuff) I just can't imagine how they would react to me wanting to leave after not even a week. And it's not like I can't go see my parents almost every day as we're only 7 miles away. But still, I really want to go back...

Question: How can I cope very abusive parent?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:38 PM PDT

I really wish I had a mother. My biological mother doesnt really want me around. Our relationship is very dysfunctional. She has abused me physically and mentally. For example, everyone gets parties or support from their parents when going away to college Right? I told my mom I was moving on campus I got serious beatdown, push downstairs and even hair pulled out. SEVERAL OTHER THINGS HAS HAPPENED BUT THAT'S JUST ONE EXAMPLE. But it has been hard for me because she has been unstable towrds me for the past 11 years....Pray for me....

Question: I want out of here?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:05 PM PDT

Cutting to the chase. I am 18. Still living with my folks. I ran away when I was 17, got into drugs, alchohol, wasted a unique college of the arts opportunity, and blew my chance to get into the navy. I was forced to come back home and live here (Arkansas) in order to try and get my life straight. But after the Navy failing, and after exhausting all my other options to run away again, all I have done is hurt my mother and disappoint my father. It was never supposed to be this way, and I cant bear to watch them look at me like im a screw up. Even if I just moved out, they still would never look at me the same again. So I wanna leave and forget my life. I am smart, and I am a pianist (12 years). I am a great actor, public speaker, and occasional comedian. Those are all my skills. Please, somebody just give me some sort of good advice, I have gone on long enough. Im beginning to second guess any worth I was told I had as a kid.

Question: Am I over reacting or is she just being a selfish sister?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:48 PM PDT

I've 35 weeks pregnant and has been staying with my sis temporarily till my mom comes back and we get an apartment together. I've appreciated everything everything my sis has done.. well giving me a roof over my head that's about it. Moms been sending me money for food and everything else since I'm not working. I basically buy my own food, cook my own food. We only went grocery shopping together just once. I've been sleeping on a twin air mattress since I've been staying with her. Luckily moms coming back in two days now. Well my air mattress is damaged now and I'm basically sleeping on carpet floor. I slept on it that way last night and my side basically hurt and it was extremely uncomfortable with my bump and trying to get up and pee at night. So tonight I suggested sleeping with her on her bed and she said no saying she won't be comfortable sharing her bed but she rather share it with her dog and let me sleep on the carpet. She went off saying how I'm never satisfied, she's done this, she's done that, when the only thing she's really done is give me a place to stay. Isn't that heartless and selfish or what. I would never treat her this way.

Question: My mom has a new boyfriend and I feel lonely. Advice?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:14 PM PDT

This has only started a couple months ago. Before it was just me, my mom and little sister. We all had a very close relationship. More like best friends than mother and daughter. My parents had been divorced since I was eight and I liked it that way. Recently my mom started dating a old friend of hers. I was super excited and told her to go for it. Flash forward we are living with him. At first I was really happy. He is a nice guy but is kinda clingy with my mom, kind of like a dog with his owner. My mom works long hours so I only get to see her two hours a day if even that. These hours I have to share her with him. I use to hug her all the time and talk to her about my problems. We would spend time eating dinner and watching shows together. I've lost that time with her. I haven't had physical contact in so long. I feel so alone, I just want things so go back to the way they were before. I don't know if I should tell her or not......... I want her to be happy too, I feel so selfish.

Question: Brothers from another mother, what do I say?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:07 PM PDT

I found out I have two half brothers and they turn 18 & graduate this year. I know what I want to tell them, but how much is too much? I don't even know how to start out he letter. I nees advice.

Question: My father abuses me?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:51 PM PDT

I can't stand life with my father anymore. He is the most cruel, evil bastard I've ever known. I can no longer tolerate his verbal abuse. It's driven me over the edge. I live alone with my mother and father and my dad has been drinking for many years, almost every single night. Just tonight, I was in my bed sleeping and I hear him rummaging through my room and I get up and tell him to stay out of there. He does not listen to me and eventually he is cornering me I my bedroom. I tell him constantly to leave, but he just stands there and doesn't listen. He tells me I'm not his son. I don't want you in my life. I'll have you sent to a foster home. I wish I could put a bullet between your eyes. He says the most cruel things ever and when I get physical with him, he gets even more angry. I unfortunately have major emotional issues including depression, anxiety, and I have sever anger issues. I will admit I am very disrespectful to him, but I can't control my illness. He treats it like a joke and he is like an uncontrollable animal. I am terrified of him and I want to call the police, but I'm scared. What should I do? I have no other family to go to and I'm to afraid to tell people at school. What do I do?

Question: Should I feel bad for letting my cousin touch me last night?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:37 PM PDT

So last night my cousin and I had to share a bed because there is a lot of people staying at my parents house right now. It is something we have done in the past so didn't think anything of it. But last night I woke up to him rubbing up against my bum with his penis. I was shocked but didn't say anything and just pretended that I was asleep. But now I feel guilty because I actually really liked it and I think it made him orgasm because he got out of the bed really fast. And now I really want it to happen again, but am I bad for wanting this??

Question: I wish I were an only child - help!?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:45 PM PDT

I'm a 14 year old girl with two brothers who are 8 and 11. Life would be easier if I was one of those people with no siblings! Whenever there's pizza or chocolate, they always fight over who gets the most. Even with pop drinks they compare who has the most. They also snitch on me and to each other. Articles even show that kids who don't have any siblings are happier and there's sometimes less stress for their parents. I'm one of those people who don't have any friends so I never go out. I've been anti-social since I was in preschool. I don't play with my brothers and I'm a loner at school. Only children can get away with things without being snitched on. I have Asperger's and I'm always in my room alone listening to music, going on social media, or doing homework. My mom deals with lots of stress when it comes to my pre-teen brother. He's addicted to video games and has mood swings. He's also constantly talking about what's fair and what's not fair. He whines and says all his friends are allowed to do certain things (spending money without parental permission, eating lots of junk food, buy video games, etc). I sometimes wish things were quieter at home without constant arguments.

Question: What age can I move out legally?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:44 PM PDT

What age can I move out with my girlfriend. I m so tired with my parents bull sh*t. I can t see my girlfriend for a long time cause then they get mad I can t take my girl friend anywhere because they say that s not my responsibility. My friends literally go with their girlfriends all day and night and their parents don t say nothing. My parents say they are going to take my car away I literally payed my car by my slef it s just under my dads name. They say I m a mistake in life and that they wish I didn t exist. I don t care what they say it doesn t hurt me honestly. I m independent I pay my phone bill my gas my clothes my parents don t buy me nothing. I want to move in with my girl but she says I will get her in trouble because I m 16. But I just don t want to be around my parents at all. They don t see they good things I do but they see all my bad things. If you just gonna say nothing irrelevant don t even bother to leave an answer. Help me please

Question: I have a father who believes anxiety disorders are a choice. Since he feels this way how do I get my anger out and move on (I have anxiety)?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:35 PM PDT

I have anxiety issues and my Dad believes they are a choice like doing drugs. He is a very ignorant person. He wasn't like this when I was a kid but has gotten this way in my teen years (I am 24 now). I have only brought up anxiety two times in a year and he acts like I bring it up daily. How do I get my anger at him out for being so disrespectful so I don't begrudge him for years to come? He is a very ignorant person despite getting a diploma from University of Chicago thus shows this is choice ignorance.

Question: My Dad lied to my step-mother and said taxes had been filed when they hadn't for the past 5 years. Why would a man do this?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:32 PM PDT

Question: My Dad flunked out of Yale in 1976. What would make someone this careless when he had a scholorship?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:27 PM PDT

Question: My ex girlfriend is having a seizure should I unlatch her daughter and put her boobs away or leave her baby attached to her boob in my house?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:47 PM PDT

Question: Why is my mother so mean to me..?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:24 PM PDT

I'm 15. Before I start, I want you to know that this isn't a normal "adolesence" experience. I do understand that teenagers, especially at my age, are emotional, but you've got to listen to me :/ All my life I looked up to my mother. She was my role model. All of a sudden, the past years have been feeling like hell. Ever since she's remarried (2014). In 2015, I was self harming and literally wanted to die..2016 things were okay. But now, it's getting worse than it was in 2015. My mom is always making me feel bad about myself. She seems so dismissive of me. Making me seem irrelevant and not important to her. She never comforts me, never supports me. When she does something really mean, I usually start crying (I actually feel pain) and all she does is rolls her eyes. The reason I cry so much is because she makes me feel more and more like a nothing. Everyday I try to make her happy, but nothing works! I'm literally the only person in our household who actually respects her and is obedient. My brothers are so disrespectful and she treats them like angels, while I'm respectful, smile at her all the time and all I get is emotional abuse. Honestly I've had thoughts of killing myself many times, but I would never do that because I'm too afraid. I even see her giving me really mean looks as if she hates me. I've even lied to my doctor last August about our relationship..I said my mom was a nice and loving parent. I lied. She's not. She's always talking to me as if she hates me.

Question: According to my mom i am a liar while my dad told me he is mad at my mom for getting upset at me?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:13 PM PDT

I just started a new job. Anyways I am currently in the training process. I havent got my hours yet but my mom assumed I would get full time since I was told there were full time shifts available. I nevet told her I was getting full time, its what they currently have and need. I found out I would be placed in the day program instead of a grpup home since I have my bachelors degree.( get my hours and cpr training class friday) However I was informed that they only have part time and temporary full time (meaning somebody s on maternity leave and once they come back we have to go to part time). However, we can find out if there are more available shifts and can get full time in the future. People been with this company for over 20 years. I told my mom this because i was told to keep her informed and she called me a liar because according to her my story has changed today. My dad (parents are separated live in different houses) told me hes sick and tired of my mom getting mad at my sisters and I for no reason. Was there any reason for my mom to be mad at me? I agree with my dad and earlier i felt like I was going to cry since i always been sensitive to my mom getting mad all my life (she gets brutaly mad sometimes) and she goes "how old are you? 24? Act your age and stop being upset at me" yet she starts crying when my sisters stick up for themselves and goes to me "they think i am a monster " :/

Question: Please Help I am not who I used to be and I'm scared of the new me?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:01 PM PDT

About a year ago I got into a huge fight with my friends and lost them all and since then haven't made new ones. Around that time I began my bad relationship with my parents. We had always gotten along until around that time but since then it has been terrible. My dad and me get in huge fights at least once a week that involve screaming and yelling. My 11 year old brother makes me so mad and just being in his presence makes me upset. Everyone at school isn't nice to me. I'm not taken seriously. I have this anger inside of me toward the world and a lot of people. The smallest of things make me mad. I try so hard to fit in and make friends but it doesn't work. (don't say be yourself cuz that's all BS) I hate myself and can't find a reason to like myself. I don't know what to do anymore.

Question: I need advice on how to talk to my parents.?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 06:56 PM PDT

So I'm 19 and still live with my parents. I have been going to college for almost a year now. I want to take the summer off because I want to go in a vacation plus I have to work full time as a summer school teacher in the summer. My parents are trying to force me to take summer classes when I want the summer off. I understand they are trying to look out for my future but I also have to take care of myself and my needs. I don't see why I can't take the summer and go back in the fall. I also recently joined the Air guard so I'm waiting to leave for basic sometime after July. Honestly my parents are impossible to speak to because they don't care how I feel or about my opionion because I try to reason with them but they never want to meet me half way. Any advice or should I just listen and take summer classss as they told me.

Question: Would a 4 year old kid understand what is happening in a porn video?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 06:41 PM PDT