Is it possible to ensure both? I am a former beta incel who was a virgin until his 30s when I met my girlfriend on a videogame. I am sure that the only reason she stays with me is because I make a lot of money and because she has histrionic personality disorder along with a colostomy bag. Anyway, we want to have children one day but I want to ensure that my future sons will not be beta incel cucks. I want them to be alpha beasts who slay and score with hoards of hot women. I noticed that most men who are robust alpha slayers have a mother who looks like a beastly dog, yes she is unattractive but she will produce godly sons. However, my girlfriend is very petite, feminine, and attractive. I am also an ectomorph. I want to have her carry the egg of a hideous robust samoan woman to carry my robust alpha son. However, I also want my future son(s) to have my high IQ. I don't think this is possible because samoan women have low IQs and that might block my IQ from being passed down to my son(s). So what is more important? Godly slayer looks? High IQ? is it possible to ensure that my future son(S) will have both? I want to ensure that my future son(s) will rise and not live in celibacy for years. I do not want them to be cursed with being beta incel cucks or ectomorphs but also not be cursed with low IQs which are common in people of color.

My husband is British his accent is really cute and sexy. Sometimes he talks fast I can't understand him. I want to try to learn British too. He's from England his family moved here when he was around 9-10 years old. He's 27 I'm 24 we just had a baby girl. He's really sweet and handsome. I really love the British I mm hoping to learn how to talk like he does I want our daughter to learn it too when she's older. I was wanting him to teach me. Is it possible to get a British accent ? Will our daughter have it too ?

I have been dying my own hair for probably 14 years. I am not a professional, but I always do a lot of research and I always know exactly what I want, including what technique to use. The problem is that it's really hard to dye my own hair, I always miss spots, ect. My question is, would it be ok to instruct my hairdresser exactly how I want my hair done? "use this level of developer and this kind of dye, and this kind of technique"... Or is that really rude? How do I get exactly what I want without telling a professional how to do their job? After years of doing my own hair, I started going to professionals because I thought they could do a better job. But I have been disappointed. I have tried two different colorists, both came with raving reviews, but they don't do things how I want them to. The 2nd one I've gone to twice, and I think she does have the skill and the knowhow that I'm looking for, but I'm still really picky, and after 14 years of passionate study and practice at home, I know what I'm talking about too, and I'd like to go to her and tell her exactly what to do. But I'm afraid that she'll be offended.

Not necessary "in love" with that ex, But I'd meant like caring about him or her and you want them to be happy. Why is that my ex wants me to be happy and still loves me when I don't?

Her father is a rich man. She's used to a certain lifestyle. And I'm a simple man. I only require food and a roof over my head. I don't like it when people waste money. Especially when it's mine.

shoved an iPhone inside her privates for talking to loud. Should I leave her?

I've been with my husband for a few months. We have a daughter together. I'm really obsessed with him. He's the drummer for a band when he has people crowded around him I get nervous sometimes I get mean and push them out of his way. I don't like big crowds they make me really nervous. Also I just had our daughter I don't feel like putting up with it. I don't get why people are chasing after them already they're not even that famous they're just a local band. Their normal like everyone else in this state. I had a bad dream the other night that him and his band were doing a show two girls were fighting over him they were pulling him by his arms trying to take him from me I couldn't do anything. I tried to tell my cousin who is the band manager he couldn't do anything to stop them he just let them take him. I know it was just a dream but I woke up crying my eyes out. I'm afraid of it happening. I don't know if that happens to famous people but it probably does. Like I said they're not really famous. I love him and his band they're really good also the guys are really nice he does a great job at it. Is it ok to cry in front of him ? How can I talk to him ?

My bf wants to get married. I know money's not everything, but sometimes he doesn't pay for dates. When shopping for rings, he asked the salesman "got anything smaller?". One time in the supermarket, I said I liked flowers and he put them in my cart for me to buy myself. I know money's not everything, but he has the nicest things for himself (iPhone, Surface Computer, brand new car, expensive vacations, etc). Is this a bad sign or am I just superficial?

For those that split, why did you do it? Were you uncertain in the beginning? Were you certain in the beginning and things just changed? My bf wants to get married and I'm just curious of reasons why people split.

My wife doesn't like the gifts I buy her. They are things I know she wants but she just says thanks and doesn't even open them. On Christmas I got her what she wanted but all I got was a self help book on what she thought I needed help on. And for my birthday all I got from her was a gift card. Money is no problem and we make 6 figures. No cake, no dinner, no gifts, nothing but that gift card. I want to tell her that we should never buy gifts for each other again. I'll just do my one. Besides it makes me feel bad when she doesn't put forth any effort as I do.

They fight about it so I am afraid they might divorce.

My father in law of 6momths now insists on being on our bank account bc he helps us out once in a while. Don't know how to address this anymore. It's simple unacceptable to be for my father in law to know every bit of our financial business. If he wants to help us it should be out of the goodness of his heart and should have to look at our bank account. It's humiliating and incredibly uncomfortable. And there is NO reason for him to be attached to our account anymore. We are married adults 26 and 31! How in the world do I handle this??? He needs to sign the paper and get off the account in my opinion. It really should have been done BEFORE we got married. I'm so frustred it's not funny. Feel like he is an extremely controlling Italian man! He even wants control over our taxes! Yeah no BUTTT OUT! Help!! Please please help!! I'm over it!

My wife's girlfriend arranged a night out, her boyfriend arrived at the bar with his friend.They had drinks then went to her boyfriends house, the couple made out upstairs leaving my wife with his friend. She told me that just talked then he hugged her a little. I cannot believe this, why wouldn't he try and fvck her?To her merit she told me of it next day to make sure there was no misunderstanding

I am married and I just got a job offer from a place where my husband works. But, we kind of want to hide from HR that we are married since they might change their mind about hiring me. I was wondering if it's illegal to do that? I want to pick "single" on the form I need to fill out. Ps: if you are going to judge us don't waste your time answering me.

I finished my job early last week so drove home arriving on Wed night at 2pm couldn't believe it when I went in the house, wife comes rushing down stairs in a panic crying followed by a much younger guy half dressed who pushed past me and ran to his car barefoot She's been cheating on me for months, apparently. The guy was a new teacher from her school. She cried for days then begged me to forgive her. I can't and working away has compounded the pain How do you deal with this?

I'm tired of being treated like sh**. Let me begin my so called husband cheated on me and didn't pay bills because he used it on other women. Im separated moved out 2 years ago, BLOCKED his number and got my own place. after a year a much older man pursued me. And guess what he had a female friend who he claims there platonic. I'm thinking omg. So, he professed his love for me taking me out to dinner buying gifts, telling me he loved me etc. And after a year of seeing him every day he decides to take a week long trip with his so called platonic female friend. He just got back in town and the past two days I've been sooo nice now it's time to do him like he did me.....TURN COLD AS ICE. He thinks he is going to just come over my place with drinks and go oit to dinner but HELL NO I'm NOT going to be home tonight. I'm going to let him get the voice mail and then block his number.

I ve been with my boyfriend for going on three years. I m going to be 31 and he s going to be 34. Our relationship seems great I would like to think of us as having a deep respect and love for one another... four weeks ago I found out I was pregnant I m terrified I absolutely would not have a child out of wedlock at my age and when I told him I was pregnant surprisingly he was happy. He immediately wanted to get an ultrasound and start genetic testing and find out if it s a boy or girl as nowadays you can find out between eight and 10 weeks into the pregnancy through the genetic testing ..he expressed the same thoughts as I did as far as marriage and said that we can go to the courthouse solidify the marriage and then have something small with family so naturally I was all in. Fast forward three weeks I find out that he does not want to get married before the baby comes because of his finances and he was once married with no children born of the marriage.. I make more money than he does but he does own a pre-marital residence and I just don t get it he just doesn t love me enough. what do I do? There s no way I would have a baby with a man that cannot or will not marry me if he doesn t love me enough to marry me why would I have a baby with that man on the flipside it s incredibly emotional and difficult to consider termination of both my pregnancy and relationship and any advice would be greatly appreciated thank you

Other times she will follow up a flirty or romantic text with a picture of our kids. Don't get me wrong; I love the kids but it seems almost defeating of the purpose. Oftentimes when we are romantic, she tells me how innocent she is, and acts like she doesn't understand my sexual advances. These things are such a turn-off. Any advice?

that's sick and gross! seriously the guy must have a problem or be sick.. I bet the guy is very insecure and wants to have the upper hand in the relationship.. In any case only someone with a sick mind would think of d8ing a girl that looks like a kid next to him

My boyfriend and I are both 25, and on the verge of starting a life together . He is always talking about financial stability , having a solid foundation , God etc. I, on the other hand , am more of a day to day planner . I like fun and excitement . I want to buy a house and have kids soon because many of are other friends are already living together . He claims it s silly and that we can t afford it, but we can take out a loan and pay it down. He is too conservative . A house is an investment I thought ? What should we do? We both make around 30,000 a year but we do have loans from college to pay .

My husband owns a car dealership m, and recently fired their marketing specialist in order to "take matters into his own hands". He is about to finish his first line of commercials that are scheduled to air next month, however they are absolutely horrible. I am begging him not to run them. Basically his commercials revolve around the idea that everyone in the dealership is so stupid that they will give away cars for a horrible deal. They call themselves "Duncan's dipshits" or "Rick's Retards" in a few of the commercials (my husbands name is Rick Duncan lol). There is also one where the employees all state their education status, most of whom dropped out of middle school or early high school. They use this as a bragging point as well, stating that they have the dumbest people working imaginable, and they will give you a car for an extremely low price because of their stupidity. I think this idea is very bad. How do I convince my husband that this idea blows aids?

I keep taking on too much pressure all the time. I have a hard time trying to say no to things. I work hard in my job as a shift worker and balance it with my studies. But adding to the stress is my wife. Lately she has been going down a road of not loving memail anymore. Criticising me and saying I give her nothing. I gave her a lot. We hardly talk because she doesn't approach me. I try to approach her but she spends even longer hours in her company than I do. This leads to distance and tension. But at the end of the day, lately she has spoken about divorce and wanting to find a man who understands her. I'm getting tired. This cycle of being threatened with divorce, going through unhappiness and struggling to relate is taking its toll. She talks of wanting a child but we have nothing in common anymore. No common dreams, no plans for a getaway, no friends in common etc. I called her tonight to say I was coming home and she spoke very coldly and unloving. Right now I am praying to find love and that she will change her mind and see that I'm still the young, kind and generous man that she married 5 years ago. But I'm afraid that I'm losing hope with every day and might end up walking out on the family. Albeit we don't have kids. I'm tired and don't want to walk a hard road anymore. I want to have enough time to enjoy life. I don't want to get trapped looking after a family that don't respect me or care about me.

A co worker is married, so am I but divorcing. He asked me the other day if it was true I was divorcing (probably listened to me talking to a co worker) and I said yes. He asked me if I was seeing anyone, and I said- I hang out with guy friends but not really. He then acted happy for me, then his facial expressions changed and he kept asking me if I was going to be single soon (he wont get off this subject despite me saying I dont want to discuss it, but we get along great and I work directly with him). After work, we walked outside together and he turned to me and asked if I am really seeing someone and if I am "doing things" and I asked if he meant intimate and he said yes, I said no, just talking or hanging out. He then started asking about the cause for the divorce and said if I had second thoughts about seeing other guys there must be a reason and he is really scared for me meeting strangers and seemed really hurt. He is constantly staring at me and asking me to help him with things at his desk. He acted as if he was going to cry yesterday when he kept saying "you are seeing some other guy?" What is his problem? His wife was going to show up at the facility yesterday and I never even saw her and he left for lunch when she must have came. Does he like me or just nosy? He has become very nosy when I text people and asks who I am talking to as well. He also mentioned I went someplace and must have checked me out online. Boss* not co worker Today, he even asked if I behaved last night and if I "did anything"

I broke up from a 3 year relationship in 2012. Since, I have been in a serious relationship, joined the military, and gotten married (happily married) but after all of these changes, and being madly in love with my wife...I m still devastatingly hurt from my ex. I would never go back to her or even change a single thing...but I still feel hurt by my ex...why?

Sorry this is going to be a long one. I met my husband when I was 15. We dated for an year and went our seperate ways. When I was 18 he came back around and we dated for 5 years, and have been married 2 and have a one and a half year old son. We've had arguments here and there but always loved eachother enough to try. Well last week I got really sad because I felt a lack of affection from his part. And this last Monday he finally said that he loves me as our sons mother but that's it. Right now he's going to try but is still okay with getting a divorce. I feel crushed and lost I dont want our marriage to end. He says he's willing to try that he does care for me just not the same way and doesnt know if he wants anything from us. I don't know what to do. Is it bad to try if his feelings are gone. Can love come back if it's gone? Do long marriages go through this? I try asking what changed, what I can do better but he just says he doesnt know. Right now he is being kind of routine he asks about our sons day and mine, kisses us before work is making sure we have what we need like a really good husband/father. But as far as our intimate connection he is pretty distant. Doesn't really hold my hand, doesnt want to cuddle and isnt all that attracted to me. How do I handle our relationship if we keep working on it?

I cut all contacts with her and declare it done but seems like no matter how many men she sleeping with she still think of me sometimes even if it just for her just to fight with me. But it hurts when she talks to me that she lies and hides the guys she sleeps with always says she single. I mean she would have sex with several or as much as she can and when she does want sex from me it would be right after she done with another. I used to be mentally strong against it but she disappear and comes back after months at a time. I tried to tell her u can have any man you want where not married but she has in her personal image she only has sex with me how can I forget. This person

I'll try to make it short n simple; i love a married woman and she loves me too but her husband won't divorce her due to two simple reasons. First, he is mentally sick ( sadist ) and enjoy being her master and controlling her feelings and life. Second, divorce translates into a huge monetary lose and lose of face infront of the community esp when she gets married the next day with me. He beats his kids on a daily basis; yet he is regarded as a smart and prestigious member of society due to his numerous unuversity degrees, job position etc. I also found out his mistress is her younger sister. At this point i see no solution other than annihilating him. She lives in constant terror and humiliation; i've seen it with my eyes - without him knowing who i am - I'd prefer to pay all divorce expenses and take the legal / civilized way out; but he won't listen to her saying that she's insane and mentally ill; plus he keeps her on sedatives and anti depressants against her will. The police or whatever won't look into the matter claiming that they should solve their issues etc. When we get a chance to talk together ( always less and less .. he took away her phone and internet ) she wants to be free from him; and be with me etc. Therefore, i see no other solution other than making her a widow. Needless to say that im not your average joe..by a far shot. And that i adore her. Suggestions ? Solutions ? Btw her husband does not let her to use phone or have friends visit or possess any money in any form. Eliza: i saw everything with my own eyes; at first i also doubted what she claimed. She has no interest in money - i offered her 20K in a new bank account if she could come up with the guts to ask him for divorce. She is too scared and is pleading me to take her away physically. NB im not your average joe...by a far shot. Thanks Arch, Anne and everyone else. We are not in the US or UK or europe..things are different here. Yes she did mention a slight mental instability due to her husband physchologically stressing and abusing her incl in bed. Of course id be a liar if i said that im 100% mentally sane. Thanks again, good bye.