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- Question: How old do i look?
- Question: My best friend is going to be an army wife?
- Question: How to Deal With Feeling Left Out/Social Anxiety?
- Question: I feel like I always need reassurance?
- Question: I need help with getting a guy to break the bro code. Or I need you to tell me if it s a lost cause.?
- Question: I'm so over friendships?
- Question: My friend stole from work and I'm worried sick!?
- Question: What should I do for my 17th birthday?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me sleep over at a guys house with all my closest girl and guy friends sleeping there?
- Question: Best Friend PromPosal ideas?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: My friend isn't answering her calls?
- Question: Former "best friend"'s mother exploited my eating disorders on Facebook. How to get over what she said about me?
- Question: Why can't I seem to fit in or make friends?
- Question: Why have I been think so much about my ex-bestfriend lately?
- Question: How can i not be embarassed when going out in public with my morbidly obese friend who refuses to excercise with me or even bathe?
- Question: Two guys dirty sleepover dares?
- Question: How do I help a friend with "bullies" I guess you could say.?
- Question: Growing up in the shadow of my best friend?
- Question: Why do high school students make fun of the theater kids?
- Question: What does it mean if someone only hits you up if they want something?
- Question: Does making friends get harder as you get older?
- Question: I was out past curfew with 2 of my friends and I snuck out. my friend had weed and I had a lighter on me. Can I go to juvy? (We were high)?
- Question: All my friends are gone?
- Question: Should I apologize for screenshotting my friend's snap?
- Question: We ran out of things to say. What next?
- Question: My family member only talks about their problems?
- Question: How should I handle friend's innapropriate PDA?
- Question: How do I get a friend to pay me back?
- Question: Gf wont do anything sexual.. do I just wait and see if she tries to start it?
- Question: Why do people talk about the degrees they don't use?
- Question: How do you deal with someone whose views hurt your feelings?
- Question: HOW TO PUT ON A CONDOM?
- Question: Is it okay to move out so soon? And if I do move out do you think my roommmate would be hurt?
- Question: Sent to friends house. Stepped on old used needle and it went in my foot. Willi be infected?
- Question: Can I get advice on my girl problem please?
- Question: Mi trattano tutti male...?
- Question: OMG Calvin an Stephen told every one at school that I got a POP Station! Now there laughing at me an so is every one else!?
- Question: As an asian woman in new zealand, my daughter geT discrimination. She tried to mingle and offer sincere frienship to them. Any suggestion?
- Question: How in any way, shape, or form is this my fault?
- Question: What should I do about a friend that wants me to lend him money because that person says he's a friend?
- Question: How do I get out of this depressed state?
- Question: How to deal with and discern the vibes I get from bad people?
- Question: Why are people so nasty to me at school?
- Question: Can anyone give me some ideas the first one who answer with good ideas will choose as best answer!!?
- Question: Can you please answer this????!!?
- Question: I have no friends in one of my classes and I never talk to anyone so they think I m some quiet weirdo. Sometimes I even sit by myself.?
- Question: Why does the average Arab guy look subhuman next to the average white guy?
- Question: Why I changed a thought for a good job, I was going to catch (matter was ,that friends ceased me & friends of my parents.)?
- Question: How can I get a phone early?
- Question: Girl who is crazy? What do i do?
- Question: Why is my classmate egoistic?
- Question: How do I stop feeling weird around friends?
- Question: Crazy insane possible jealous woman?
- Question: Emergency. My friend is killing himself and I dont have his address.?
- Question: Who wants to talk to me on gmail? I just need a friend right now?
- Question: Should I join the club?
- Question: Is this okay for an Instagram caption with a guy and his best friend?
- Question: Im going to smoke Reggie (a type of weed) with two friends tomorrow?
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Question: My best friend is going to be an army wife? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 05:26 PM PDT She got pregnant after being with him 3 months and they've arranged to get married very quickly and will of only known each other 18 months when she becomes his wife. She said she's moving up the country a few months after this too to an army camp. I will really miss her and won't see her again. She's been my best friend for years and as soon as she met him she changed. She has given up her job, her flat and everything else for him and I'm worried what will she be doing all the time on the camp? Obviously she'll have the baby but what else is there for her to do? |
Question: How to Deal With Feeling Left Out/Social Anxiety? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:57 PM PDT Okay here's what's going on: I'm a senior in high school. For the past couple of years, I've had two very close friends (we're basically sisters), and a couple of other pretty close guy friends. Recently, we've kind of "merged" with this new group of kids that one of my close friends is in with. While I like everyone in this new group well enough, I don't know many of them that well, and I often am anxious to go when this group is hanging out. I have made an effort to attend and try to get to know the people in this new group better. However, I often still feel like an outsider when I'm with them. My other two close friends, contrastingly, seem to have merged seamlessly with this new group. In the past, the three of us hung out at least once a week alone. Now we seldom do—my two close friends always go to hang out with this new group. Furthermore, I often miss invites to hangouts with this new group. Although I'm in a group chat with them, plans are often made by word of mouth, and I'm sometimes left out of such plans. I'm naturally very shy and socially anxious, and I have this nagging fear that people don't want me around. This new group dynamic has heightened those fears, and at the moment, I'm pretty miserable. I'm worried about losing my two close friends to this new group and being excluded from the group, and of being left without friends. I guess I'm just looking advice about how to respond to this situation and deal with my anxieties about it. Thank you :) |
Question: I feel like I always need reassurance? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:49 PM PDT This usually only happens in friendships.. I always question if my friends truly care about me or if they don't really care for me at all. I mean they wouldn't stick around me or talk to me if they didn't care/like me right? Like my friends will tell me they care about me and I still feel like they don't? Like no matter how many times I hear it, it just doesn't click in my head that they do? Is this something else anyone understands? It really only happens in my friendships with people and I don't have that many friends which is probably why it happens so much. But is there a way to avoid or stop this? I really hate this because it screws me up and on top of my depression it really just makes me feel unwanted and sad. I like to think Im a good friend. I always help and talk to my friends when they need something and I'm always willing to drop my plans for them and stuff. I feel like I just depend on other people too much and I hate it. Anyone have any advice on what to do about this? |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:46 PM PDT It s a little difficult. There are 2 guys X and Y, they are best friends. Y has been my friend for 15 years. Y dated my bestfriend for a year when we were teenagers. Over the last year Y has grown to like me more than friends. I on the other hand like X. Him and i have a connection. Other people noticed the connection including Y and have become angry. Y told X and I separately that we cant ever get together or he won t be our friend. Sad because we are in our 30s. X is trying really hard to follow this. X and I have even talked about it and both looked at eachother like this really sucks. Anytime I talk to X, Y gets pissed off. All the while Y hits on my friends and still is hung up on my bestfriend. I have came to the conclusion I don t care what Y thinks, I really like X and i want to be with him. The problem is how do I get X to say screw Y and commit to me? How do I make him feel comfortable that he isn t breaking any bro code? |
Question: I'm so over friendships? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:38 PM PDT I just get in these moods where I feel like I don't want any friends anymore and I feel like it's just not worth it anymore. Is this normal? |
Question: My friend stole from work and I'm worried sick!? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:25 PM PDT |
Question: What should I do for my 17th birthday? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:22 PM PDT So my birthday is in May and I'm not sure what to do. Last year my birthday was awful. I invited my "three friends" out to eat and I told them in advance two weeks before to make sure you have some money so we can split the bill. On my actual birthday, they didn't have enough money and I had to spend almost eighty dollars for food. They didn't give me no gift or anything and when we left the restaurant they had the audacity to ask to buy them drinks cause they were thirsty. I didn't get any gift from them either and I when I told them it was disrespectful that they did that I never got anything in return. I'm no longer friends with them. I just want my birthday this year to be better. What's so funny is that one of my "friends" has bought her boyfriend of two months an expensive gift for his birthday but didn't give me anything and we knew each other since kindergarten! What should I do this year? I'm not really into throwing a huge party but like something small |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:19 PM PDT I've had a few co ed sleepovers with my friends at girls houses that I didn't tell my parents that guys were there until the morning and they've never had a problem with it at all. Today I asked them if I could sleepover at a guys house with all my closest guy and girl friends (my parents know all of them very well) and they said no because they think that its "not appropriate" yet they know we've done this before and everything has been fine. They said they don't trust high school boys but they know all of my friends and know they're good guys, I offered to have them call the guys parents to confirm everything and they had no interest. How do I convince them to let me go? |
Question: Best Friend PromPosal ideas? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:00 PM PDT I'm a senior in high school this year and this is my last and final prom, but I don't have a date 😭. So I'm thinking about taking my friend that I've been best friends with for 6 years. This Saturday, we're going out for lunch and then maybe the beach. So I'm going to ask her that day. Does anyone have any good ideas for a promposal for a friend? |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 04:00 PM PDT Hello, I am 17, and I realize that I am starting to get really annoyed with my friends. I have tis one friend who finds faults in everything. For example, I was saying that I really like the beauty and the beast live action movie and she started ranting about how the plain her dress is, and it kind of ruined my mood for awhile because she seems to do that a lot. Also, she's hypocritical and she gets mad at me for something when she also does the same thing. She's kind of rude too. For example, we have 6th period together and I noticed she was panting so I said "out of breath?" and she said "what do you think?" in such a rude tone. It pissed me off. She has done worse and said worse, but I seem to forgive her and stay by her side. I can be rude to her, but I always apologize but she doesn't unless I confront her and when she apologizes, it is in a rude and annoyed tone and sounds fake too. I have this other friend too who is pretty nice. She's not mean or anything, but I kind of realized she's a bit of an attention seeker...? Maybe I am reading too much into her actions. For example, she came over, and she asked if she could take selfies on my phone cuz her phone sucks. When we took selfies together, she kept saying eh to the pictures and when I tried to compliment her she just shot it down and I was thinking maybe she wants me to compliment her...Also, she's a religious Muslim, and she talks to me about how she doesn't want to go to hell and blah blah blah but then I found a little fault when she came over. She and I took a selfie together. In the picture, her chest was showing a little, and she was like "ooo my cleavage is showing. I like it." I got annoyed because she tells me I should pray and how she is religious and all. I am not a religious muslim, so it just kind of irked me that she was kind of hypocritical about that. I started getting annoyed at her, but I didn't show it. What do I do? |
Question: My friend isn't answering her calls? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 03:53 PM PDT My friend calls me every night and usually messages me everyday. She's quite clingy because she's autistic and has special needs, she isn't coping well at all on her own she has epilepsy and can't cook or anything and is vulnerable. I'm just worried because she hasn't been in touch all day or night, she's not been on Facebook either, any suggestions?? This is very un usual should I contact a parent? |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 03:47 PM PDT About 5 years ago I was close friends with this girl, we'll call her "Rebecca", and things ended badly. I had been going to their church every Sunday after she invited me and I kept going. I eventually made them mad because I showed up with a sinus infection one week during her mom's "special group meeting" and I didn't want to go home because I was taking antibiotics and promised I wasn't contagious. "Rebecca" got mad and yelled at me in the parking lot in front of everyone and told me I was selfish and to never come back "unless I changed". I tried calling to apologize but she ignored all my calls. We saw each other 5 years after this in a local store, and we both kind of froze up and didn't know what to say. I later messaged her on Facebook explaining why I had been coming to her church so often during that time, because I was dealing with anorexia and bulimia at the time (yet I never told her because I didn't want to make it about me). She wrote back a few sentences that basically said thank you for apologizing, sorry it didn't work out, and I hope you have a great life. Her mother posted a very hurtful Facebook photo of two girls in the background with a quote that said "never seek revenge, just wait: those who destroy others usually destroy themselves". After I read this I was furious. I opened up about my eating disorders and I feel like they now see my suffering as their "revenge". What are some ways for me to forget about this experience and cope right now? |
Question: Why can't I seem to fit in or make friends? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 03:31 PM PDT I'm a college student, and until now I've never really found myself without any friends. Growing up, I've always had at least a few close friends and lots of other friends I could talk to at school or work. After being in college for a while I stopped talking to my friends from home. I think a lot of it had to do with them all being in sororities, and I decided to drop my sorority after a year. Being part of greek life made me realize that I just couldn't fit in with the other girls. I was making very few friends, and I found myself wishing I had more time to work on my school projects instead. I started to seclude myself, and then I realized I had nobody. I joined a small group in my church so I could start meeting new people, but for whatever reason they are all friends and I'm still an outsider. I will say this: I find that so many of the people I meet in my college town are so overly nice and picture-perfect people. To me, that seems fake. I've tried "upping" my nice-ness to other people, but it doesn't help me make any genuine connections if I can't be myself. I can be really funny, super nice, and a lot of fun to be around, but i just feel like whatever reason I can't be my true self around the people here. |
Question: Why have I been think so much about my ex-bestfriend lately? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 03:31 PM PDT For the past week I have been thinking about my old bestfriend. I really don't know why it pretty much just came out of nowhere. for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind it's been almost 6 months since we have talked to each other and now I'm randomly thinking about her over and over again. Can somebody please help me I feel like I'm gonna go crazy!!! |
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Question: Two guys dirty sleepover dares? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:59 PM PDT Me and my friend have sleepovers all the time and like playing dirty truth or dare but have run out of them so any suggestions. Thanks |
Question: How do I help a friend with "bullies" I guess you could say.? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:57 PM PDT My friend she is such a sweet, shy, and quiet girl. She had a PE class with awful people and sadly they are in the same study hall as she is. They switch after a while to study hall after the required amount of time for PE. Anyway, these people are ******* bitches. My friend has never done anything to them and they don't help her anxiety and depression at all. For example, today she was texting me and I was in the hallway, I heard what they said because they can never keep their ******* mouths shut or they can never be quiet. Something happened with a loud sound and then one guy said "Hey Alex if you don't shut up Rose is going to beat you up" then I guess this guy thought it was funny or something, but it sounds dumb as **** "Bro she can't use her hands." then one guy said "I bet she texts herself" and "I think she has no friends" and they were being very rude about it too. They pick on a guy in that same study hall mostly, but they go after her too sometimes. The people in my school are extremely stupid and complete and utter trash. Not stupid because they can't learn properly or something. Most of the people at this school are trash, and only care for themselves. So disrespectful to teachers, so rude to everyone, one guy even punched a teacher and got expelled, in his senior year too. Such stupidity, senior year getting expelled for stupid **** like that, what person with a brain does that? They're rude, disrespectful to teachers, parents, other students. |
Question: Growing up in the shadow of my best friend? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:06 PM PDT My best friend who is my cousin is the superstar of the family. He is the star football player on our high school football team. He drives a nice car, dates attractive girls, makes friends easily etc. He has a good life. I'm sort of the outcast in my family. Nobody ever brags about me like they do for him. Recently we started applying for college and I got into some really good schools because of how smart I am, I just won't be able to attend because my family can't afford it. My cousin is going to an ivy league school (my dream) and my family is thrilled. They call him the star of the family. I'm smart, I am a good kid, I achieve things too, but my entire family seems to care. Everytime I bring this up they all tell me to "quit crying and trying to steal the spotlight away from mark." They don't even care. Honestly, if I have to go to another party for my cousin because he broke a high school football record I'm going to go crazy. How do I move on with my life? |
Question: Why do high school students make fun of the theater kids? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:04 PM PDT It's not like the theater kids are bothering or hurting anyone else. Why does the rest of the student body see them as total freaks? |
Question: What does it mean if someone only hits you up if they want something? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 01:21 PM PDT This guy that I work with only texts me for rides to work, or to buy him alcohol, and stuff like that. He doesn't even invite me to hangout, however he asks my other friend to hangout all the time (I give both of them rides everyday) I always feel left out when I hangout with them three, he always talks to him but not to me. And yesterday I went through surgery (8 teeth extracted) and today he asked if they both can use my car to get something to eat. Didn't even ask if I was okay or anything. Why do you think hes like this and have you ever dealt with this kind of person? |
Question: Does making friends get harder as you get older? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 12:58 PM PDT I remember back at school and college making friends and keeping them was so easy. There was always someone to hang out with in and out of school. Now I'm in my late twenties my friend group is pretty much non existent. I find people already have their friends at this age and don't want any new ones interfering. I'm considering a career change and never went to university when I was 18. Would this also be a good way to make new friends again? Or am I too old? |
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Question: All my friends are gone? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 12:28 PM PDT All my friends have gradually moved away. Two of them have married army men and now have lots of children and live on the army camps. They've met other wives there and made new friends easily. My other friends have had children and moved away and have friends with kids through the schools etc. Others have gone travelling and not come back and met loads of new people this way too. I've stayed where I grew up, now live with my boyfriend and work with the same 8 people every day and so never meet anyone new. They are all much older than me and not really people I would be friends with. I've tried clubs, a craft group, college course, dance class. I just can't make any new friends. I feel very lonely as I'm at home alone a lot as my boyfriend works shifts. I feel depressed too as I have no one to invite round and no one I know lives local to me anymore. I don't even think I could count on one hand the people who would make the effort to come to my wedding. What can I do? |
Question: Should I apologize for screenshotting my friend's snap? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 12:10 PM PDT On snapchat, my friend posted a short video of my crush rubbing her head. I was trying to figure out how to save the entire video (I am unfamiliar with snapchat) and ended up screenshotting just a picture of her. I deleted it from my gallery, but she's probably going to get a notification and wonder why the heck I saved a pic of her. How should I handle this? |
Question: We ran out of things to say. What next? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 11:51 AM PDT Shes a girl in my computer class. We see eachother in class 3 hours a day & 5 days a week!!! Im with her alot and literally dont know what to talk about anymore. We hung out once already & kissed. I know alot about her, she knows alot about me. Im trying to be more "funny" but its not working so well. What next?? She works evenings after school 7 days a week. Its almost impossible to take the next step cause shes so busy. We hit a wall. I dont know what to do.. |
Question: My family member only talks about their problems? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 10:53 AM PDT I am a very nice person some even say too nice. I have a family member who only wants to talk about their situations or problems but whenever I try to do the same it gets blown off. I don't want to be mean but i'm also getting tired of it and sometimes they are even rude or make assumptions about me being boring or whatever I am quite shy and quiet i'm more comfortable around certain people it doesn't make me boring. |
Question: How should I handle friend's innapropriate PDA? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 10:42 AM PDT My friend got a girlfriend a few months ago and she hangs out with our friend group occasionally. Everytime we hang out with them(sometimes in very public places), they are all over each other. I do not care if they want to cuddle, hug, hold hands, or even do a bit of kissing, but last time we all hung out, she grabbed his crotch several times and he grabbed her breasts on top of them making out and her sitting in his lap the entire time. It is annoying to everybody else and really not appropriate when we are in a public place. How should we handle it? Should we just call then out the next time ot happens or talk to them before then? I don't want to be rude, but it is getting really annoying. |
Question: How do I get a friend to pay me back? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 10:37 AM PDT Should I go to court?. :'( I just want my money back and I had a lying friend who said they were going to pay me back Answer my other question plz https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20170323092549AA4CbqV |
Question: Gf wont do anything sexual.. do I just wait and see if she tries to start it? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 09:37 AM PDT Happened to see her three days in a row this week.. stayed over her place.. anyways... i tried to initiate stuff, and she would say 'no' or 'stop'. This morning, we showered together, and I started playing with her boobs. She says that Im turning her on and to stop... I'll be seeing her again this weekend.. do I not touch her or anything? |
Question: Why do people talk about the degrees they don't use? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 09:09 AM PDT My cousin did a degree in photography but works as estate agent and when we went on holiday together and people asked what we both did she kept saying her job but also liked to throw in she had a degree in photography. Another lady I work with she's a receptionist and she went to university in the past and has a degree in psychology. She's literally told all of us at work and keeps saying how over qualified she is for the job. It's annoying me. Why brag about something you don't even use and isn't relevant? Are they trying to make us think they are better than everyone else or cleverer than we are? Some of us were talking about it at work saying we would be more embarrassed that we have such a good qualification and aren't putting it to use so would if anything keep quiet about what we have achieved in the past. Why do they do this? |
Question: How do you deal with someone whose views hurt your feelings? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 09:08 AM PDT I was an unplanned and unwanted child. When I was a child my mom told me that she regretted choosing this life, that she regretted getting married. She filled my heart with hate towards men. When I was 17 when I met my boyfriend, he had good feelings he was a good man. I destroyed his feeling because of all the ideas my mom had given me. In college I had a best friend but she started talking about how ridiculous and irrational people who stand for life are. I never said a word but it hurt me so much because how could I explain to her that I was unwanted, and that my life mattered whether or not my mom wanted me or not? I couldn't stand it. We stopped being friends. Then I met another friend and the same story repeated, but in this case I told her about my story and she told me that I was lying. Now after not having friends for two years I met a coworker and we were having such a great time we started to hang out outside of work. Then we became friends on Facebook and here it goes again. Her wall is full with pro-choice messages that try to ridicule pro-life people. It hurts me to see those posts even if she is a good friend of mine. I have been feeling like I don't want to hang out with her. But she is a good friend so I just try to see that but it still hurts me to see how many posts she makes about killing the unborn as if unwanted babies are worth nothing. |
Question: HOW TO PUT ON A CONDOM? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 08:26 AM PDT |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 08:06 AM PDT So ever since I have been in college I have always lived in one place for a year and then moved. Mostly because in the summer I would go home and this past summer after graduating I had to have a summer place so my best friend and I could live together once she got a job in the fall. I finally am in an apartment where there is no deadline. I have a job and I am no longer in school. Well recently I have realized I want to move back home. Not literally in my parent's house but the same location. I even discussed living with my other best friend Rebecca who already lives in that area and we agreed we could live together and save money. My lease is up in August and I originally signed the lease with my best friend Taylor and we said we might even live in the apt up to 2 years. Well now that I have decided to move back I am wondering why sign the lease again even for a half a year when I know where I want to be. The problem is I live with my best friend and she is working part time and barley makes enough to get by. If I move out I think she would have to move back home and I think that would devastate her. What do I do? |
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Question: Can I get advice on my girl problem please? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 07:43 AM PDT I had a really close friend for the past 4 years, we were so close that I even lend her money for rent at the beginning of the year.. And she would always help me out as well.....But at the end of February we had an argument because she thought I lied to her when I didn't, I softly held her because she was leaving my home without letting me talk... she later told me she was abused in the past and she said I crossed the line when I touched her. I kept. Texting here trying to apologize but she blocked me from everything, Soo I sent her a heartfelt apology to her house with flowers. Later that week police came to my house that I need to just leave her alone because I could get in more trouble for harassment ... (She did not tell police I touched her) but I cant stop thinking about the situation, does she just need time to cool down??? Would she talk to me when she calms down? |
Question: Mi trattano tutti male...? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 07:33 AM PDT ciao a tutti, mi sento veramente uno schifo. la scuola che frequento non fa altro che darmi delle delusioni ogni giorno. purtroppo sono capitata in una classe di merda dove non mi parla mai praticamente nessuno, neanche quando io e quella persona siamo vicine di banco o vicine mentre facciamo la strada insieme, se non sono io a parlare, il dialogo non ci sarebbe affatto. inoltre molti mi trattano freddamente, anche se io a loro non ho mai fatto niente di male, anzi. frequento la 5 superiore e anche se tra poco finisco, questo non mi consola affatto.. è più forte di me, non riesco a non soffrirci. sono molto sensibile e quindi è molto facile ferirmi. c'è un ragazzo della mia classe di cui purtroppo sono molto innamorata dalla prima. anni fa purtroppo ho fatto la cazzata di farglielo capire e quindi ha sempre fatto lo scemo con me, ero arrivata anche a pressarlo però poi quando mi hanno fatto capire che avevo esagerato, non l'ho più pressato. certo gli parlo ancora, ma in maniera normale, non più pressante come prima. negli ultimi 2 anni e mezzo, ho fatto di tutto e faccio tutt'ora di tutto per non fargli capire che a me lui piace perché so che è stronzo e che quindi se ne approfitterebbe, infatti non lo presso più ecc...e quindi credevo che tra me e lui le cose si fossero sistemante, ma invece no. perché quando magari gli parlo, mi risponde in maniera fredda, quasi a monosillabi tipo mentre invece con le altre mie compagne è completamente diverso, ovvero ci scherza (continua sempre, ci fa sempre le battute, continua a ridere con loro, fa sempre commenti su quella persona piuttosto che su quell'altra ecc.. prende sempre l'iniziativa di parlarci, mentre invece con me tutto questo non lo fa. anzi, quando magari io faccio una battuta su una persona lui mi risponde dicendo tipo "ehm... si è un po' particolare" cose cosi, cioè con me non vuole mai sbilanciarsi.. non mi dice mai tipo "eh ma che palle quello li, ma che strano quello la" e poi non prende mai l'iniziativa se non sono io a parlargli, tra me e lui non ci sarebbe alcun dialogo. oggi per esempio per caso siamo usciti insieme da scuola e dato che eravamo insieme, ho provato un po' a parlargli ma lui mi risponde freddamente, a monosillabi, mai una volta che rida con me, mai...se fosse per lui, manco ci sarebbe un dialogo. ma perché sono l'unica con cui si comporta cosi?!? non lo presso mai, quindi che motivi ha per comportarsi cosi?? ci rimango tanto male quando si comporta così... i miei dicono che lui faccia cosi perché lui sa che io lo amo ancora però ora non avrebbe proprio alcun motivo per pensarlo visto che negli ultimi tempi non glielo ho più fatto capire e non avrebbe senso rimanere ancorati a una storia vecchissima di anni fa. mia mamma dice che lui è in imbarazzo ma secondo me non è vero, perchè lui non è una persona genuina e semplice, è molto calcolatore. sembra che faccia apposta a comportarsi così. io quindi stavo pensando a una cosa, di scusarmi per tutto quello che è successo anni fa spiegandogli che se mi comportavo in un certo modo, è perché mi hanno diagnosticato un piccolo disturbo d'autismo (sono sotto certificazione con la scuola per questo) che ho scoperto da poco di avere che m'impedisce di socializzare nella maniera giusta con gli altri e quindi magari ho pensato che lui potrebbe cambiare ma i miei dicono che è meglio lasciar perdere perché cosi lui capirebbe che a me piace ancora ecc...però d'altro canto questa situazione mi fa stare molto male, soffro davvero tantissimo..ogni giorno per me è una tortura essere trattata in questo modo, odio chi usa 2 pesi e 2 misure, è da scemi totali. che cosa posso fare per fare in modo che lui cambi verso di me? lasciar perdere o dirglielo? se mi risponderete mi fareste un grande favore perché sono disperata, non so più a cosa pensare :( |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 07:04 AM PDT I pictured it in my mind, I walked into school with my Nintendo Switch an every one in school would run up to me an want to see it. I would be the coolest boy at school, all the boys would either respect me or be jealous an all the girls would be in love with me an want me to be there boy friend. Now, just like I suspicioned, I am the laughing stalk of the school. Calvin told every one I got a POP Station an they printed a picture off the internet an showed every one an now there making fun of me! If people would just understand how allsome I am, but the only time people notices me is when stupid stuff happens, like getting a POP Station instead of Nintendo Switch or my dad yelling at me cause I forgot to wipe after I took a crap an he can smell poop or last week I peed my pants in gym class or when James Nice said he was gonna kick my *** an I got so scared I started to ballin. Thats all people remembers, not the cool stuff! |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 06:28 AM PDT |
Question: How in any way, shape, or form is this my fault? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 05:33 AM PDT Alrighty, so I have twin daughters, they are a year and a half old. About three weeks ago, I had a party at my house. I invited a few friends, my family, etc. My one friend, call her T, comes from California to come to this party since she hasn't seen me or my twins since they were born. In all the time I've known her she has been sane, normal, no signs of extreme stupidity. Anyway, at this party I had little signs over everything so people knew where to find food, alcoholic drinks, non-alcoholic drinks, etc. I don't drink a lot, and even less now that I'm a mom but if I do drink it is generally mixed drinks with a ton of booze but little alcoholic taste since I hate the taste of alcohol. She knows this, like in our circle I am literally called "The mixed drink queen" I make really boozy drinks that don't taste like it. So half way through the party one of my twins needs to be changed as I'm feeding her sister, so I ask my brother and T to stay with her while I go change the other one. Half way through changing, my brother comes busting in telling me T gave my daughter some of the mixed mango drink. I originally don't believe him when I see her cup because it looks exactly like the mango juice I had originally given her, until I taste it and realize no it's the ******* mixed mango drink. Took her to the hospital, she's okay after two ******* weeks but my friend is literally trying to counter sue me for getting her in legal trouble. She's saying its my fault, how could it be?? Let me add, I didn't drink anything but water and soda the entire time. I labeled what drink was what. I didn't leave my baby alone with just her, my brother was there also and discovered what she did when talking to her about refilling the baby's drink, and she said she already did and points to where she refilled it at. She has been charged with child endangerment and she has to pay for my daughter's hospital bill. |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 05:26 AM PDT To keep a friend you don't be a borrower or a lender. Anybody that thinks friendship is a one way street is a moron. Friendship is a two way street, never a one way street. You can't be a friend if you only think for yourself and have no consideration for the other person. |
Question: How do I get out of this depressed state? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 05:07 AM PDT I am a male, 20 year old, and I've been depressed since I left school in 2013. I used to be popular, have loads of friends, but now I'm just a nobody. I have had so many regrets in the last 4 years and I cant stop thinking about them. When applying for college I did not know what to choose as I did not have interest in any subject apart from graphics, but due to having a teacher than was never in the classroom, I failed it, and couldn't take it at college. During this time, I was absolutely addicted to video games, I mean I would wake up at 8am just to get an hour in before college and play all day when getting back from college, this obviously meant that I never revised for the subjects I chose, resulting in me being constantly mocked in class my pupils and teachers. I texted my mom saying that I want to quit college and get a job, but I absolutely hate it and it a terrible pay. Now, I hardly have any friends, I never go out and I can tell that parents are still disappointed with me. I don't drink, meaning the friends I did have don't want to have anything to do with me, because somehow not drinking alcohol doesn't class me as cool. I also don't drive. I am constantly mocked by the way I look, I am 5'6 short ****, who head and nose is way to big for my body, so people constantly take the piss. I hate almost everyone I know in my life, and I all want to do is lash out at someone but I don't have the balls. The only thing that keeps me happy is money. Any guidance please? |
Question: How to deal with and discern the vibes I get from bad people? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 03:17 AM PDT I try not to judge anyone. But this guy I work with (I am man also) gives off very weird vibes. He has the be the loudest and get the most attention in the workplace...I notice him quickly buy lunch for people or give them things and instantly come to me or someone else and bash the person for being a leech... He is trying to be my friend and get me to hang out with him but I can't trust him.. I just feel that he would destroy me if I let him close..(I have a family).. I just don't get good vibes from him and I work beside him....everyday... We are both friendly with each other (in the workplace only) but the guy just feels wrong... but others praise him.. |
Question: Why are people so nasty to me at school? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:24 AM PDT I said I had a TV in my bedroom, and these people in my class sneered at me and said I didn't. It's my parents' old TV. I said I took ballet and someone said, "You? Ha!" I don't seem to be able to make friends. Everyone is snotty at this private school I've been sent to. |
Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:04 AM PDT Should I change the class? I Suddenly joined in one school All the students in the class have known each other for along times except me who is a new student and don't know anyone in that new class so I try to be smiling at them and want to be friend with them but they seem like they don't like me and start judging me whenever they saw me and especially when I work in a group with other males in the class that female friends always stare at me and they start rumors about me and I feel very annoying and uncomfortable and my class always have to work in group and I also have to work with males friends almost everyday ands I can't stanthat female friends behavior toward me so what should I do? Should I change the class? |
Question: Can you please answer this????!!? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 02:04 AM PDT Why one time when I watched porn i felt like an friend WHOs no longer my friend and neighbour was trying to enter my brain and not making me enjoy pleasuring myself. Keep in mind this guy was very clingy, always looking at me on how I did things and stuff. Very irRitating |
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Question: Why does the average Arab guy look subhuman next to the average white guy? Posted: 23 Mar 2017 01:15 AM PDT Look at this lol |
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Question: How can I get a phone early? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 11:56 PM PDT I am in eighth grade and do not have a phone. I have asked my mom numerous time I am mature (perhaps more mature than my little and older sisters) enough. But lately, everyone in my class is making fun of me for having an Ipod touch still. It happens a lot... I cannot handle it anymore! I would like to know a way to get one early. Thank you... (please no mean answers) |
Question: Girl who is crazy? What do i do? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 10:48 PM PDT Okay so here's the story, and this is a real story I'm telling you. Once apon a time I was 5 years old and I was a socially awkward shy little girl and I prayed to god,"God, please give me a friend." And there she was her name was Kaitlyn and we got along famously. We never fought, never argued, until we were 15. Then she just randomly kind of turned on me and told me to kill myself, would put notes in my locker calling me anorexic, and then she made multiple social media accounts pretending to be me on the internet. Then she went to vocational school and I did not hear from her in two years. I think I did say some ignorant things to her and then we kind of reconciled and became acquainted again and I thought okay maybe she's better now (she was kind of bigger at that time so I understand it probably was her own personal issues). But then she randomly told a girl in my grade that I thought she was a bad mother, for no good reason. And she was reusing my pictures on social media websites. So I sent her these pretty crazy text messages around a year ago and then she kept them for over a year, and sent them to people I graduated highschool with (she's 21 years old and I was completely oblivious to the distribution for a real long time). So I left her these humorous/mean comments on facebook. But these random people from my highschool keep trying to start stuff with me about it, like people I don't even know. Is this normal/what do i do? |
Question: Why is my classmate egoistic? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 10:23 PM PDT She is behind in following instructions for class assignments, but thinks that she is a student. Just today she asked me if I'm done the upcoming assignment, which I said no, and she said she feels much better. |
Question: How do I stop feeling weird around friends? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 09:35 PM PDT All of my friends are "daddy girls" and I feel like I stand out. I moved down south from savannah and everyone who is my friends are close to their dad's, they are so southern and I feel weird bc my grandma raised me, then when she died I had to move in with my mom and dad. I'm not that close to my parents because they didn't raise me, but I am kind of getting closer to them, but I will never be the same as my friends. I'm not a daddy girl so when they keep saying it over and over it feels weird. |
Question: Crazy insane possible jealous woman? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 09:23 PM PDT Okay so here's the story, and this is a real story I'm telling you. Once apon a time I was 5 years old and I was a socially awkward shy little girl and I prayed to god,"God, please give me a friend." And there she was her name was Kaitlyn and we got along famously. We never fought, never argued, until we were 15. Then she just randomly kind of turned on me and told me to kill myself, would put notes in my locker calling me anorexic, and then she made multiple social media accounts pretending to be me on the internet. Then she went to vocational school and I did not hear from her in two years. I think I did say some ignorant things to her and then we kind of reconciled and became acquainted again and I thought okay maybe she's better now (she was kind of bigger at that time so I understand it probably was her own personal issues). But then she randomly told a girl in my grade that I thought she was a bad mother, for no good reason. And she was reusing my pictures on social media websites. So I sent her these pretty crazy text messages around a year ago and then she kept them for over a year, and sent them to people I graduated highschool with (she's 21 years old and I was completely oblivious to the distribution for a real long time). So I left her these humorous/mean comments on facebook. But these random people from my highschool keep trying to start stuff with me about it, like people I don't even know. Is this normal/what do i do? |
Question: Emergency. My friend is killing himself and I dont have his address.? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 09:22 PM PDT He just took a lot of pills and I dont know what to do I am desperately tyring to contact everyone he knows but they arent answering what do I do |
Question: Who wants to talk to me on gmail? I just need a friend right now? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 09:05 PM PDT |
Question: Should I join the club? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 08:39 PM PDT I am in middle school and there is this really fun drumming group I want to join but I don't know anyone in it and I am extremely shy. I tried it with my friend for a little bit and it was sooo fun but she quit and I've been thinking lately I want to join again so hi should I get a friend? Or find a way to go? (Don't say get over your shyness because that isn't that easy) |
Question: Is this okay for an Instagram caption with a guy and his best friend? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 08:21 PM PDT "Mr and Mr ❤💜💙 #bestfriend" |
Question: Im going to smoke Reggie (a type of weed) with two friends tomorrow? Posted: 22 Mar 2017 08:04 PM PDT How do I not get caught by parents were doing it at a skate park |
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