2 girl best friends and 2 guys best friend

My ex keeps contacting me out the blue. We dated for nearly two years and due to his emotional abuse, the relationship ended four mouths ago and we have not had contact since then. When the relationship ended, I blocked most methods of contact so that he couldn't reach me. Last week he started contacting me through other e-mails and IM. Despite of me repeatedly ignoring him, he keeps on being persistent. Towards the end of the week, he somehow bypassed the block I put on his number and the call went through and he left a message, saying he misses me and hopes I don't have any grudges on him. Truth is I do not hate him, I just don't want to deal with him anymore. Any suggestions on how to handle this situation? He keeps on reaching out despite my ignoring him. What's with this guy?

So before I go off on a tangent I'm gonna explain who I am (for circumstantial reasons). I'm 14 (turning 15 in may), and live in the U.K. I'm a guy. So basically up until the summer of last year (2016) I was a happy kid who talked to his friends a lot and always went out to hang out. However, a couple of girls joined our group, and they all went off on a school trip. I didn't go as I didn't think they were going either, only a couple of us stayed behind. When they came back it was all fun and games. We had real fun that summer. However as they went on the school trip and I didn't, after the summer I felt like I was drifting away from the group. I didn't want to, it just seemed they were paying so much less attention to me. Now let's skip forward to now. My friends keep reassuring me that they all like me but i don't believe it. I'm never involved in much drama anymore (you know, like there's a limit of how much you want to be involved in, I'm so much under it's unreal), these girls fell out with us so I can't speak to them without getting abuse from my "Friends". I spend my days now sitting here listening to rap that's supposed to have meaning but the lyrics just make me more depressed, anxious and make me feel like I want to go back to last summer. Sorry if this was a mess, this is the way I've got stress off my back.

My friend is a HCA and thinks they are. She told me they make her do all the dirty work and dont work as a team. She said loads of them just sit down all day doing paper work and don't even answer a call bell. I've noticed lots of them are overweight and miserable too. When did nurses get so lazy? People think they're saints but my friend is doing all the work. She tried to get me to go and work with her there but I have been put off from what I have been told and seen from when I shadowed her for a day to see if I would like it. I feel so disappointed I want to work where the people actually care!

my new boyfriend I could tell was not being honest with me about what he was doing..hence why we argued and decided to end things. Pretty sure he was talking to a few other women...which leads me to my ?...if you're obviously entertaining other women why do u care that I slept with my ex the day after we broke up? He's the sleezeball here who was prob sleeping with women while we were still in a relationship..at least I waited till it was over. Is he trying to insinuate that I'm a slut for sleeping with someone else so quickly or did I hurt his ego a little bit?

sooo My name is Erik and I was bestfriends with a girl. a little over a month ago she came to my house and she began accusing me about something I did not doo. she was leaving without letting me talk and She said " Never talk to me again." soo I lightly held her and asked her to stay soo that I could explain my Side of the story. eventually she told me by text that she was abused in the past, and putting my hands on her crossed the line and cut me out of her life. I felt bad so I sent flowers to her house with a letter of explanation, but police came to my house that its considered harassment if I dont leave someone alone.......we have not talked for 1 whole month, were friends 3 years and I'd hate for this to end this way!!!! with time and space could she talk to me again??? any advice please I know I was wrong and I feel like sh*t because I cant stop thinking about it

So my mom told me that I can go one of my friend's houses next weekend. She said that I have two options 1. My best friends house that is not very clean. or 2. My other friend that is sort of annoying but has a clean house. Which one do I pick

So there is this girl. She sits with me and my friends at lunch and kinda ghosts around us. But the problem is she s annoying. She s hung out with us since the beginning of the scool year and she hasn t taken any of our hints (that honestly weren t subtle) that we aren t very fond of her. How do I end this "friendship"?

They come off as a little cold and defensive, it feels like they see me as an annoyance for not being a 'clued-up' as they are on certain things, there's very little real interaction with us. They are on my Facebook friends list but that doesn't exactly mean much and I may just be on their friends list as they're being polite. I've met them in person but I likely didn't make the best impression; I wasn't getting on with the guy I was dating at the time and he made us late to meet her (he wouldn't call her to apologize or let her know we'd be late). As she's friends with him it's possible that when we broke up he gave her a false impression of me too.

He says that he loves me a lot and wants to be my life partner. He wants to talk with my mom about this to make me believe. But I'm so confused and I wanna really know that if he is actually serious about me. SHOULD I TRUST HIM AND GIVE HIM A CHANCE????????? He says that he loves me a lot and wants to be my life partner. He wants to talk with my mom about this to make me believe. But I'm so confused and I wanna really know that if he is actually serious about me. SHOULD I TRUST HIM AND GIVE HIM A CHANCE?????????

I have a friend whom I know for some months because we are in the same programme in the university, she is nice person but she acts very strange when she is drinking and she often is drinking heavily. She is 25 years old, when you look at her, she is cute, sweat, pretty and looks very interesting. You can have such good conversations and have fun but for example about politics, she is not into. However, for bands, lots of different kind of bands from past to now, she is very knowledgeable. I really like her but sometimes, she is really weird. When I invited her to a dinner party at my friend's place, she brought his boyfriend, then she started to make out with my friend! Her boyfriend was, it is okey, she is just trying to get my attention. Then she kissed me to but she continued making out with my friend. After that day, she doesnt see us. My friend told me that, she sent him a message that she is very embarrassed and now she ignores both of us. After, then I hear she is often getting drunk in parties, but she never behaved like that. I really want to be close with her but dont know how?

Basically I have beef with everyone right now except a couple of people who got accepted into a different high school than I did. So basically I'm going to be in high school with the same people I've been with but maybe a couple more people in my grade. I've had it. I come home crying because of the **** people say about me. The counsers at my school do nothing. My mom isn't home a lot. My dad is and he tells me to just suck it up or fight them and I'm not strong enough I just cry and I'm so broken down that I can't even. So then I thought what If I stayed with my grandparents and went to the high school in their town all my cousins and close out of town friends would be in my class and I feel like I'd be happier problem is would it be a battle worth fighting? Do I dare ask?

Do you think I should stop hanging out with him? People call him a loser, a loner and this kind of thing. I don't want to be bullied too, I got a reputation at school. I know I sound stupid but who cares? I'm popular and that's all

I've had this friend since 4th grade who is so judgy. She invites me everywhere and calls me her best friend but is so rude to me sometimes. I just don't know what to do she does it to all her close friends/family. How should I deal with this??? It's like she thinks because we are close she can say rude comments. Like for example I'll say "la la land is a good movie" and then she would be like "what no it's awful you like dumb movies" LIKE IS THAT NOT RUDE???

can you lift and carry her over your shoulder? it's Kim Kardashian by the way

So i was in the grocery store last night and was in the soup isle. A coworker of mine (annoying douche) sees me in the store and calls my name. I just wave and say whats up. Seeing him annoyed me so much, i accidentally drop a bootle of chicken broth and it spills on the floor. I rush to the check out, pay, and leave without telling anyone what happened because i was so embarrassed and didn't want my coworker to see me again and find out what happened

Well so we ve know eachother for 2 or 3 years, we are really close she is my age too and both girls So, recently she avoids me, she left a group chat we had together, she ignores my texts, doesn y like to be besides me etc. I don t really know why so I have two theories 1. She kissed a guy some days before and they were going on a date, I talked to that guy and he told me he thought she was disgusting, I told to 3 of my friends what happened but didn t tell her and maybe she found out 2. She may think I m clingy since I told her to get away from him (note we two liked each other) Do you think I did something wrong? She is talking to me but very little and doesn t like it, ignores some of my texts and those she doesn t ignore she replies normal bur brief So tell me what do you think?? I'll answer if you want more details

She is so pretty, skinny, has long blonde hair, rich, always traveling, confident, gets all the guys I like. Her life seems so amazing and like she has everything handed to her. It makes me envy her so much and constantly compare myself/life to hers and makes me so insecure and upset.

so basically, i was at my friend's house and he has this really cute poodle dog and i dont have a dog so i wanted it so i grabbed it and ran towards my house bc im his neighbor and he was like "What the heck are you doing?" and i said I WANT IT and so i got to my door with the dog in my arms and tried to get in but my friend came and screamed give it back so i screamed GO AWAY and threw the dog down my steps and it cried so then my friend screamed "STOP IT" so i kicked my friend to the floor

I am a college student and just to make this clear we usually work individually rather than in groups so I'm not doing all the work others should be doing. But when we do work I usually work at a much quicker rate than everyone else because I've taken the lower level course first before doing this one so I know a lot about it. Anyways because I'm a bit more advanced than the others if we get set work for 2 weeks I will usually finished it in a week whilst the rest will have to ask for extensions. Even though it doesn't exactly concern them everyone gets annoyed at me and doesn't like me because of it. As well as this usually I don't like speaking in class so instead I will sit quietly and every now and again the teacher will call on me. Because I dread this situation I always make sure I know what the answer is therefore pretty much most of the time I get the questions right which again annoys everyone because no one else knows the answers. Why are people getting so annoyed at me for just doing the work and how do I prevent this as it's leading me to become increasingly isolated.

my new boyfriend I could tell was not being honest with me about what he was doing..hence why we argued and decided to end things. Pretty sure he was talking to a few other women...which leads me to my ?...if you're obviously entertaining other women why do u care that I slept with my ex the day after we broke up? He's the sleezeball here who was prob sleeping with women while we were still in a relationship..at least I waited till it was over. Is he trying to insinuate that I'm a slut for sleeping with someone else so quickly or did I hurt his ego a little bit?

In case anyone needs to know what happened and how it happened in order to help me out, I ll give you the story. Me and my friend are always fighting about dumb stuff I mean we fight like gf and bf sometimes. But me and my friend got into a fight the other day. We both got mad at each other and said hurtful things. I knew she was mad and even though what she said did hurt me too, I tried not to take it too personally. Well I also said some hurtful things too and I really really hurt her. We unfollowed each other from social media and went a couple days with no contact. Then I realized I don t want to lose my friend, so I swallowed my pride and said sorry to her. I really put my heart into it and it was as genuine as it could be. I really did scoop low with what I said. She should have probably cut me off but she gave me another chance (yet again). We followed eachother back on social media and we re starting to talk. The problem is it s not the same anymore. I can tell she s hurt with what I said. There s much less effort in her messages than there was before. I asked her if she needed more time before we started to talk again and she said no.. But the way she texts me tells me she does need it. I just don t want to stop talking to her and make her feel like I don t want her in my life anymore. What should I do about the situation? She still texts me but It isn t the same and she doesn t want more time to kinda heal. How can I help her heal from the things I said? Also, If I stop texting her she'll probably think I'm doing it because I sense she's still not okay and get mad about it... seriously. I don't know what to do because I can't stop texting her to give her more time to heal but I also know she's still hurt. How can I help her heal? I doubt she'll want to talk about it too. The situation is pretty difficult.

She is 10 and ever since she started school she never made any friends. She tries she really does. But what usually happens is a child asks her to play a certain game and she is OK with that. She can't learn how to express what she wants to do though and decides she doesn't want to play anymore and people just give up. I started bringing her to Social Sparks. Am I doing this right? She has 0 friends. Is she suffering (possibly) from a disorder?

this problem has been depressing me alot, My name is Erik and I was bestfriends with a girl. she was the most amazing person I ever met, a little over a month ago she came ro my house and she began accusing me about something I did not doo. she was leaving without letting me talk soo I lightly held her and asked her to stay soo that I could explain myaelf. eventually she told me by text that she was abused in the past, and putting my hands on her crossed the line and cut me out of her life. I felt bad so I sent flowers to her house with a letter of explanation, but police came to my house that its considered harassment if I dont leave someone alone.......we have not talked for 1 whole month were friends 3 years and I'd hate for this to end this way!!!! can time heal this Situation??? I dont want to lose her forever..any advice

This girl that doesn't like me at my school cracked my Iphone on purpose (her boyfriend & one of only friend admitted to me that she did it because she was jealous of me.) Now the glass screen is broken. She doesn't want to pay for it and claims it's accidental: when it's not. The school won't do anything about it either & her mom does not want to pay. I can understand why she's jealous as I am a honor role student, on the varsity team in two sports, I'm known by many people,pretty, have advanced classes,etc. Many people have had problems with her too. Not to mention, not that long ago, on social media, she posted nude photographs of a boy and girl she doesn't like. (Mind you, they are under aged.) Im just so mad with her, and the repairs cost $200 and it's coming out of my birthday. (Basically, which means I won't have a birthday basically and it's all her fault.) I can pay for it, but I want her to. Not only this, her mother was being rude to my mom that just came out of the hospital when she KNOWS my mother is recovering from a brain tumor. I'm not one to go down to her level, but since shes being rude I really want to spit on her. Should I spit on her? If so where? (Obviously not on school property) How can I make her pay? Advice? Help? (Be mindful were all under 18 and her boyfriend/friend wont rat her out in front of authority.)

To be honest I'm an 18 year old male and I don't have any friends and I don't want any. The reason why I don't want any friends because there's no such thing as friendship I'm not interested in being friends with anyone I'm not interested in getting to know anyone. I want to stay alone for the rest of my life meaning no friends and no girlfriend. I don't need friends it's not important to me I've never had friends before so I don't know what friendship is. I don't want a friendship with nobody and I mean that. Is there anything wrong with that?? Is there anything wrong with wanting to be alone for the rest of your life?? I want to be alone forever no friends and no girlfriend I mean that.

When I was in middle school I used to lie a lot, it s not white lies I often lie about my past for example I lied about going overseas or have had a boyfriend before those are the big lies I told sometimes I also tell small lies too such as I lied about losing my ID card to avoid going on a school trip when my friend ask me to join it, etc. I did this because I was afraid of losing my friend plus I am a very socially awkward and quite person so most of the time I don t know what to say and end up making things up or saying stupid things and at that time my parents really demand me to get some friends because I was bullied before, I don t want to disappoint my parents anymore but once I befriend someone I am not usually comfortable opening up to them so when they ask me questions I would lie to protect my privacy.I don t want to let them know that I have a terrible past so every lie kind of connect to the next. But note that I only did this at school while at home or another places I would be bluntly honest now that I am not in school anymore most people even my mom know me as a honest person just a while ago I talked about it to my mom and even she didn t believe it, I regret it so much that it keeps me awake at night thinking why I did that, but it kind of stop now but I still lie about small things to people I don t know well. Any advice or opinion about my situation? Thanks.

I was on the floor putting my stuff in my bookbag when this boy name jaden come behind saying bruh what all this. I said go around me. He did so he start kicking my bookbag with all my stuff in it. I said dont kick my stuff the hell wrong with you. The other boy say if she beat you up im going to help her.

I went to work this morning with a huge headache and stomachache. My coworker saw me feeling pain in both areas. He asked me if I was okay and I told him I wasn't. That I felt really sick. He poked my stomach and I hit him playfully for it. He smiled and left. He came back and brought me some ginger ale, an apple, some Advil, and some crackers. I smiled and said aww to him. He said he went to the grocery store to get some, so I could feel better. He made me sit down and he proceeded to pour the soda inside a cup. I was really happy. He was there for me for about 20 minutes. I learned that he was on his lunch when he was helping me. Also, he didn't eat anything. I feel bad.

Ok. So basically, I had this friend. She was really irritating, annoying, gets me involved in drama (and I hate drama!), gossips about MY friends, lies, is delusional, and much much more. I met her last year from one of my friends I've knew since 5 years ago. They do a sport together, alongside another girl who I'm also friends with because of that friend. About after winter break, everyone started to hate this friend (call her friend A, the ex friend) Including the friend I met her through (friend B) and her friends. Friend a and b would get into fights non stop. But once everyone started to hate friend A, people started treating me badly. So one day I had enough and started ignoring her. She started sending me snapchats like "why are you so mean" "why did you ignore me, ur mean."So I decided to eliminate the problems and block her on everything. All of my friends hate her. So we made sure she didn't sit with us at lunch, my other friends helped out and told her to sit with them, then they left her there. (She had one of the friends with her, so it's not like she was alone. She also started crying a few days later because I wasn't talking to her, but she loves attention. So now she makes sure to get to lunch extra early so she can sit with us. Today she hit me in the head with a with a wheely chair, on purpose, didn't even say sorry, kept repeatedly doing it. And my friend threw a water bottle at her and then friend A threw it at me. She tries to steal my friends. Help me.

So they asked if I could hangout last minute yesterday. Which I said yes if I didn't have work. Well, I read the wrong acheldule (u have to take pics of it bc we don't waste paper. Eco friendly company). Anyways, I got the wrong schedule date and it turns out I didn't have work that day. But tbh, I don't have money. I get 4 hours a week and all my friends want to do is spend $. I've told them my financial situation and I don't think they get it (their parents pay for everything). So I didn't bother telling them I actually didn't have work. I mean, I didn't think it mattered as they planned this before asking me. So anyways, they came into my job asking my manager if I was working, which she told them no. And I'm positive they made me look so stupid at my job. So then my phone blast and their calling me a ******* liar and all this. I have not responded as I don't appreciate them coming into my job and asking my boss questions. And yes, I should have told them once I found out I didn't have to work, but at the same time I don't think they have any business doing what they did. I'm really hurt and upset by their actions and I'm sure they feel the same. Anyways, do you think they were in the right coming in and asking and stirring stuff up?

I'm 23 & an actor based out of NYC. I get just enough roles (broadway & indie movies) to keep at it, but not enough to think I'm going to really make. My biggest role was in a 2014 movie Fort Tilden that won a lot of indie awards & sold relatively well. The two leads are millenial girls on a desparate trip to find boys & happiness. At one point they show up uninvited for a beach trip 2 boys are going on, when they arrive the boys are already there with two girls. I'm one of those "other" girls and am in the scene for 10 minutes. Part of the point of the scene is how awkward it is for the lead girls to be surprised by us, and we are also topless throughout the scene (its a topless beach). The movie did well enough, and my scene was large enough, that its often gotten me auditions and even parts. My sister, in an attempt to convince me to quit acting, swears up & down I only got the role because i have large breasts, she used that claim to demean everything I've ever done. But I don't think its true. The scene did require nudity but (1) I was always fully clothed for the auditions (2) the other girl they cast had fairly small breasts & (3) none of the roles its led to me getting auditions for have included nudity. Her claim is really eating at me.What if it IS true? My biggest role, that gives me the most hope? Its not something I can really ask my agent (and expect a straight answer). I keep watching the scene over & over. I just don't know what to think. Thoughts?

Let me make this clear to you. There is a boy in Year 10 who had a problem with me in the past. That incident was cleared up by one of the teachers, *Mr Rupert, who didn't listen to mine or my friend's side of the story, just took his side. I won't lie, I annoyed and irritated that boy in the past, but he'd responded back to this in a worse way. I believe that the situation was unfairly dealt with, and she should've listened to both sides of the story before judging. Recently, my learning manager had told me and my friend that two Year 10 boys had complained about us. At first, I believed it was this same boy (I'm going to call him Samuel). Me and my friend both believed Samuel and one of his sidemen had complained, even though we haven't DONE anything to him recently. I even tried to apologize to Samuel after the incident, to which he responded with a smack, "**** off" and "I'll kick your mom in her ****". I left Samuel alone after this. However, another boy who used to be my friend (I'll call him Aaron) had told me that he had told Mr Rupert that me and my friend were annoying him and his friend, Charlie. The worst thing about this situation is that Charlie was my friend, and I used to talk to him nearly everyday. Lately, Charlie has called us "bitches" and an "asshole". The worst thing is that Mr Rupert dealt with the first incident. Now he's told my LM everything, and I'm worried. I was responsible for Samuel, but I didn't do anything to Charlie and Rupert. what2do? We were friends with Charlie and Aaron. They were our friends. So the name calling was bad enough now, but they told Mr Rupert that we are stalking them. Mr Rupert is apparently "making a report" and "taking action". We didn't do anything! Even in the first incident, even though we took part, we weren't to blame 100%. Samuel encouraged our behaviour, he made us believe that he liked our attention, then turned on us and snitched. I avoid him now, but I'm in a relationship with his best friend. I don't even know what my Learning Manager has to say about this, or what Mr Rupert told her! My learning manager didn't tell us anything, only that Year 10 students had complained and she was getting information from a "teacher" before asking us. Me and my friend (who is as involved in the situation as me; maybe even more?) put together lots of information, and this seems to be the case of what is going on. I am anxious for what my LM has to say, because I didn't do ****. she'll believe rupert

So, I have this one friend is absolutely adores Jojo and the other whos from the movie Horton Hears A Who (it's her special interest). And lately she's been drawing a lot of pictures related to him, and sending them to me when we talk on messenger (which is daily at the moment. Only downloaded the app because she had sent me some of those pictures, and she wanted me to see them.). Frankly, I don't have the same enthusiasm for the subject that she does, and often have nothing to say about her drawings. I've told her this, but I think she doesn't really have any other friend to gush about it to, so... And it's gotten to the point where I'm, and I feel bad typing this, annoyed by it. Am I awful?

Ok I was mad st my guy friend because he wasn't replying to my snaps so I texted him saying: "you know Idk why I even like you. You have a beer problem, you're the only one of your roommates who didnt make the bball team, yeah you're cute but not like some other guys I've seen. Why don't you answer my snaps you look like a fat pig why don't you go wallow in the mud with your beer. Ha I bet you would look more attractive covered in mud. You're missing out on a lot. I'm fit, pretty and a cheerleader what is your problem? I sent this to him a minute ago but I reamky regret it now he is a great friend to me who has helped me through a lot and I only hope I didn't hurt him i feel awful I can't take the message back so he will see it can I save the friendship

There is this guy that I met last year from high school, his name is Dan. We are really close but we aren't a couple (even though he knows I like him and he calls me gf), he always give me a big heart every time I see him and gives me different attention than other girls. But this year, he is different..? I don't talk to him anymore and we only stare at each other (ALL THE TIME). There was once I smiled to him and he told me (while smiling) "c'mon, be a bit shy will you?" Its his birthday today, and I wished him happy birthday. He said "thank you sis." I am not sure if he looks as me as a good friend or someone special. I am really scared. I don't want to ask him anything about relationship since he told me before that he wants me to wait. And I don't want to force him to love me.

I am the only girl in my High School AP Physics class. My classmates are my friends and we like to gather at my home and jointly do on our homework. It is a very hard class with lots of homework. Some of the problems we have a hard time solving. One of my classmates said let's ask you mom Jill for help. He did and mom instantly came up with the answer. They did this several times and mom always came up with the answer. This was amazing to my classmates. One of them said to me "How is it possible that your mom is so beautiful and so smart? That does not compute". Is that a compliment for my mom or an insult to all women? YOUR OPINION PLEASE.