Family: Question: My parents won't let me go out? HELP!!!?

Question: My parents won't let me go out? HELP!!!?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 01:54 PM PST

I'm 14( almost 15) and my parents won't let me hang out with my friends. I make good grades (A's & B's) and I always stay take care of my younger siblings after school while they're at work. I can't go over and hang out with my friends unless it's school work and I can only be there for like an hour. So one of my friends birthday is coming up and she invited me and 3 other girls to the movie. I ask my mom if I could go. I told when I'm gonna leave, where I'm gonna go, how many people will be there, how many adults will be with us, where my friends live, and what time I'm gonna be home. She then ask if my friend is white, Mexican, or Asian( I seriously don't know why she ask me that) I answer that question and she said no. I say it's just ONE day, I've never hung out with anyone besides school related before and it's kinda a big thing for me. She said she can't drive me to my house bc she have work and I have to take care my siblings ( sister who's 13 and brother who's 7). I said my sister can take care of my little brother fine. When I stay after school, she would be the one home alone and take care of our brother. My mom then said my sister is too young to be home alone and I said when I was 13 you always left me home alone to take care of my younger siblings. How can I convince my mom to let me go? I have like a week to convince her.

Question: How to destroy my younger sisters confidence/self esteem without getting introuble?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 01:46 PM PST

Im a 16 year old guy and my sister is 13. She hits me, spits on my calls me names right in front of my parents and they do nothing. If i say anything back after being called ugly, stupid, ***** etc. Im made out to be the bad guh, even just by saying "shut up". If shes punching/kicking me and i push her away i get in trouble. It is ridiculous. Ive tried talking to my parents about it but they dont care. I dont want to aggravate her or annoy her, she'll probably just tell on me, i want to completely destroy her confidence and self esteem. additionally shes always making fun of and bullying Our younger brother as well who cant physically defend himself, and i hear shes a bully at school as well. Any thoughts? Ive also seen her picking on the smaller neighbourhood children, being a girl she gets away with just ablut everything, teacheds and parents wont get off their a$$es and do something, so i will

Question: I made my sister cry?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 01:44 PM PST

Yesterday I had an argument with my 16 year old sister (who is shy and very sensitive) about some some stupid meaningless **** and I was even the one who started the fight. So I'm a person who gets really impulsive during arguments, I tend to yell a lot and sometimes I say hurtful things that I actually don't mean and always regret later. Somehow I can't control what I'm saying when I become angry. During this argument I got really loud after some time and started yelling at my sister. Then I got personal and said something really mean to her which I immediately regretted but it was too late... she turned away from me, sat down on my bed and started crying. I felt really bad and told her that I didn't mean to say this. I sat next to her, hugged her and said that I'm really sorry for what I just said. I also promised that I will never yell at her again. She just said "it's okay" and left my room. But now, one day later she's still very quiet and reserved around me. I'm worried that she still feels hurt although she said it's all okay... I feel so bad and don't know what to do. Please help me.

Question: My 11 year old cousin keeps doing random things for no real reason?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 01:40 PM PST

My little cousin keeps doing bad things around my aunt's house. She's been destroying her makeup kits, putting glue on the lips of juice bottles, poured nail polish remover inside the washing machine (while there were still clothes in it), and worst of all my aunt found one of her cigarettes half smoked behind my cousin's dresser. I don't know why she's been doing all this, she never used to do this type of stuff until recently. Is this some type of behavioral problem or is she just being a kid? I really need some help on this.

Question: Mom found my sex toy, what do I do?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:38 PM PST

She brang it to me and called me a perv. I cant even look at her in the face anymore. Im so embarssesed/ashmed how do i deal with this

Question: How do I sort out my sister once and for all?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:29 PM PST

I swear to you, I have had enough of her. She is the most irritating, rude, and pesky person I have ever known in my life. She sees it as her obligation to know everything about my private life, go into all of my belongings, interrupt and disrupt whatever quiet time I have, and just cause endless trouble. I'm 15, and she is 11 (almost 12), and I just can't seem to catch a break from her nonsense. If I'm very honest, I don't have time for her bullshit, as I have exams coming up soon. I've told her numerous times that she is causing problems, but she just doesn't seem to understand, even my mum has tried to tell her she needs to stop, but she is such a conniving piece ****.

Question: How do you live with angry older brother with no one in the house?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:24 PM PST

Like he gets annoyed , triggered, short tempered and anger by the smallest things. Like for example. I decided to buy groceries one day and moved all of his food away from mine to seperate(he doesnt even eat them some are already expired) He never does his dishes He just stacks them and leaves them there for me to clean He says he will clean but never does hes always games His rooms a mess and makes a mess in the living room. I even keep everything in my room now I tried to clean the living room and place all his stuff in organizing boxes (e parts with e parts, office suplies) and then he complains that this is how i lose his stuff He even leaves his dirty laundry in the living room And when he goes do the laundry he always asked me to use my laundry card because he doesnt want to go talk to management to refil his card He tells me to go buy him food from carls jr or something Hes making a mess everywhere And when i try to talk he just says "it doesnt matter just shut up" likes really hard to live with this guy. I would only lock my room and listen to my noise canceling headphones or go to the gym This guy just watches tv not even studying for school or cleaning up his junk I feel all he wants to do is pick fights but he is fat and lazy Always eatting fast food and leaving the trash in the kitchen or living room or even his room Infact he once had like 6 plates and like 5 cups. Some wiith food a week old in his room on the computer desk

Question: How do I convince her?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:13 PM PST

I'm an 11 year old girl about to be 12 in June. My mom will not let me get my hair straightened. She always makes me get braids and I hate them. Everyone in my grade gives me crap about them and tells me to wear my real hair for once. It really hurts my self esteem. But I also do really want to get it straightened becauseI did it before and it looked pretty in 4th grade and I have longer hair now. And don't tell me to take my braids out because that will make everything worse! You usually keep in braids for 1-2 months and my school years ends at the end of May and I really want to show everyone my hair before Summer. What do i do?

Question: Help! My mum changed the locks?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:06 PM PST

Question: Alcoholic father-in-law, am I being a bad wife by wanting to keep my distance?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 11:33 AM PST

My father-in-law is an alcoholic. I feel really claustrophobic around family drama and have always been super uncomfortable when he s so drunk he s eating his food with his hands and falling down stairs. Everyone in his family has always treated it normal and that makes me feel even more uncomfortable. Last year my mother-in-law had to call an ambulance in the middle of the night because of his drinking and at Christmas, she brushed off his surliness saying he had stopped drinking. This was without AA, rehab, etc. Well, last weekend my husband was called home late at night because his dad got a DWI. I m not sure if he planned on telling me if I hadn t asked where he d been because he tends to keep his family drama away from me. I assumed it s because he knew my extreme discomfort with it all. As someone who has little family drama, I m just not used to it. So I was surprised when he told me today that we are both going to his parent s house tomorrow so his dad could "say something" to the family. I figure it s either an intervention or something and honestly told my husband I d rather not go as I really didn t want to be involved. The way I see it, they ve kept me out of the loop before and so why shove me into the drama now? My husband basically demanded that I go and I don t know what to do. I don t want this to turn into an argument, but I honestly feel super panicky about having to sit through something I want no part of. Am I being an unsupportive wife?

Question: Should I mind my own business? And how?

Posted: 11 Mar 2017 12:04 AM PST

Ok. So I am a 20 something year old woman. I work in the same place as my mother and we share an office. There is a man who comes in sometimes who occasionally acts as our superior. He and my mother have known each other for years. They are both married but alway flirt with each other. This man has a tendency to cross the line and I sometimes end up telling him to back off but it s usually all fun and games. Today, however I felt like they went way too far. My mother took something of his and put it in her shirt. He got my attention, like he usually does before doing something silly, and then went to reach into her shirt to get it. It instantly pissed me off. I ended up telling him to keep his hands to himself in an aggressive tone while he argued that I should mind my own business. My feeling is that my own father doesn t touch my mother that way in front of me. We are at work. And I have enough respect for my mother not to do things like that in front of her and expect the same in return. I really felt like telling him completely off but managed to stop myself. I m not sure how to bring this up to them or if I even should. Help.

Question: Are we in our fathers before we're in our mothers?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 11:42 PM PST

Because we existed in our father before we were conceived.

Question: My dad rages a lot for small reasons?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 11:36 PM PST

So basically my dad rages a lot in the house... he sometimes randomly asks questions in another language and expects me to easily answer, sometimes i get them but he keeps asking till i get one wrong. and if i do get one wrong he rages the hell out of the house. he swears at me all the time when he rages and tells me that im the most stupid person in the world and that he wasted money on me, i dont know if he knows its hurtful but he just keeps doing it after i tell him to calm down, even worse he tells my mom that she is too flexible on me and that i play so many games (which i dont)i only spend 30 mins on friday playing and the rest of the week working. and whenever i do something wrong like spilling a cup of water on the table he gets so mad he shouts the entire house down i need advice on how to live like this

Question: Random but do you lock bedroom door when you sleep too?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 11:23 PM PST

My mom gets really really mad when i lock the door at night... the reason i do this is because i sleep shirtless and im a girl and i guess i dont wang my mom or dad to just barge in on me one morning telling me to wake and then seeing me on my bed with a titty out... or etc you know? But its soooo annoying how she tells me to keep the door unlocked

Question: How would I go about changing my child's last name to mine?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 11:18 PM PST

My child's father has very minimal interest in her. After the break up, I let it be known that he could see her anytime he chose to. I offered nearly almost everyday to meet somewhere half way or even to his parents house so that he could have visitation, (I'm strictly breastfeeding, no bottles) and every single offer was declined. He's never given me money for child care, never offered to give me diapers, or clothes, has never asked me about her, i.e. How she is. What she's learned. Her milestones. If she's healthy. How her doctors appointments go (and I let him know everytime she has one). I've even texted and said she was ill before and once again no response. I will be moving away soon with my baby in tow, of course. And with him being out of the picture I don't want her in the future to be confused as to why she doesn't have the same last name as me. Because I know that feeling. Also, I think that it would be easier with filling out paperwork, her schooling, passports, etc. If we both shared the same last name. I am not trying to be spiteful in changing her last name. I am trying to think of what's best for my child. So, my question to you guys is, what should I have in order to be the most prepared I can be? Have any of you went through the same ordeal? Did you accomplish your goal? Advice, please and thank you.

Question: Me and my girlfriend look to alike, anyone else have this problem?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 11:15 PM PST

A few times people have asked if we're siblings so far which is disturbing, or related in general. Not even my own siblings look related to me so i just find it strange.

Question: How can should I come out to my parents again?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 10:12 PM PST

I told my parents I was gay a wait back but they didn't believe me should I tell them again? Or should I just ignore them in live my life and do what I want.

Question: Toddler question?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 09:46 PM PST

A play date between two 2 year old s gets unpleasant. The other kid came to our house with his mother and he started slapping, beating and hitting my child s head with his fist contuiolsy my daughter when on crying looking at me helplessly she is not timid so I don t know why she didn t ask the other kid to stop she just kept looking at me and cried as that mom you are my hero do something the other mother was very courteous and tried to be with her son all the time but her son was uncontrollable with very aggressive nature this went on for over 20 mins so that mother left with son in a polite manner. I have no complains I understand the boy is just a kid and mother had etiquette enough to intervene what I am feeling guilty is all k told my daughter is its ok he is just playing with you. What was the right thing to do please other mothers tell me? Should I have said sorry to my child and held her or just ignore or what I did was right trying to show it wasn t a big deal though it was a big deal she was getting hurt!

Question: My little sister bullies me but I can't even tell her "stop" without being yelled out. Parents also don't care she bullies me.?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 09:33 PM PST

My little sister if five and I'm eleven. She has started hitting me and scratching me about a month ago. Now she is hitting me, scratching me, jumping on my legs and stomach, slapping me, stealing things from me, throwing stuff at me, calling me rude names, yelling in my ears, making obnoxious noises, and bragging about how she is more pretty than me. I talked about it with my mom saying when they give me the chance I'll go live with my dad and she called me a brat. I don't think it's fair that they punish me for telling her to stop and not punishing her when she abuses me nonstop. Don't tell me to talk with my parents or siblings about it because I already have and they side with my sister. But, what should I do? I am sick with being abused by her and I can only choose which parent to live with when I'm thirteen but that's in two years.

Question: What kind of mental issues could my mom be having?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 09:26 PM PST

The basics of the situation, i'm the only one living with her at the moment. my mom thinks there are people in the basement of our house and believes my dad is responsible even though everyone has agreed that theres no place in the basement for anybody to hide in, along with that she also experiences smells that she describes as someone smoking, which again no one in the family agrees with, followed by the fact that when she loses things she blames it on the people she thinks are in the basement, only to end up finding it later, at other time's she gets desperate to the point of asking me to tell my dad that this is going on, to tell him i've been feeling the same smells and hearing these people she hears, even the slightest disagreement pertaining to what she experiences quickly upsets her, she also ends up arguing with the people she says are down there, she's even bought a camera that looks like a pen only to give it to someone she knows out of fear of having it get stolen. this has been going on for a year now, the smells she experiences have been going on since 2011 if i remember right, which was after a surgery she had on her head. the fear of people being in our house started just last year. i apologize if this sounds rushed but I'm sort of in a battle with yahoo answer's character limit which ended my last question short. i got most of the important details this time, i just have what is making her act like this, and to know if there's something that can be done.

Question: I was doing my friday night fantasy time like I always do an I hurt my worm real bad!?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 08:55 PM PST

I like to do like fantasy time every friday night, I turn on the radio an listen to music an then set up my yearbooks an pick out a girl from school an pretend that she is like after me! I am usual doing some thing allsome an she is like stalking me an stuff. Tonight I pretended I was a basket ball player (I went up for the slam dunk an it said BULLS acrossed my jersey) an I was like the best player in the game an natalie johnson was watching an she was like "Arnold is so hot, I wish he was my boyfriend" an after the game I went to a club an was having a drink an Natalie was their singing (Love On The Brian by Rianna came on the radio an I was having a drink like alcohol an Natalie was singing to me an stuff) an I was like ignoring her even though she was like AFTER me. I love having them kind of fantasies, I like act them out in my bedroom an it makes me feel good about my self. Any way, I was jakein off in the shower after than an pretending it was natalie in their rubbin my pecker an I accident slammed the shower door closed tlright on the tip of it. OMG it hurt so bad I balled, its still soar but I dont want mom an dad to know! What can I do?

Question: Would it be a bad idea to write a paper on why black women are abusive towards black men?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 08:53 PM PST

I'm 17 and African American. My father was abusive towards my mother (physically and emotionally) before I was born and a little after so I'm not going to say black men can't be abusive. With that being said, in my experience, black women that I've met are usually emotionally abusive, and sometimes physically abusive, towards men and often use the "victim card" to look innocent. For example my mother is, in my opinion, single for a reason. She believes she can hit a man whenever and wherever she wants. It's to the point that I've raised my hand back to her because she tried to hit me, though I didn't actually hit her. That's not even the worst though, my mother openly hits my brothers and as a child she would call me "A stupid, fat, ugly, crybaby". She isn't the only one either my "aunt" told my mother about how she punched her son in the face and gave him a bloody nose because "He raised his hand while I tried to hit him" I think this really contributes to a lot of black men becoming abusive and I know this is a very tough subject because of how often black women experience abuse but I was wondering is this a paper worth writing?

Question: Why is my religious grandma reminding me that my life sucks?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 08:39 PM PST

My grandma who is a jeahovea witness keeps having depression studios with me and keeps reminding me of me and my moms troubles. Jesus i'm only 13 and she keeps dropping depressing stuff on me like preventing me and my mom to move, making me loose hope on getting probably our only source of income our disability. Also she's trying to convince me to get rid of my dogs because she doesn't like them. SHE'S LITERALLY REMINDING ME OF MY DEPRESSION! What can i do to make her stop so i can be happy?

Question: Why do I feel disgusting when my parents "care for me"?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 08:29 PM PST

so my parents are meth addicts, we live in a small trailer, they neglect me, I sell dope to buy clothes and food, and sometimes I have to pay rent to the trailer park for we wont get kicked out,(im 14) sometimes VERY RARELY when i go out late at night to sell drugs my mom or dad would say "you shouldnt go out this late its dangerous" I feel kinda weird and disgusting when they do that, last week my dad hugged me, he only hugged me one other time I could remember in my life and that was when I was 6, after that I was really disgusting. Why am I disgusted when they "act" like they care about me

Question: My parents won't let me go out?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 08:00 PM PST

My parent won't let me go out. I'm Asian and I'm 14 (almost 15). The only time I can go over my friends house is if it's related to school work. Every time I ask my parents is I could come over to my friends house just to hang out, they would ask if my friends is white ,or Asian, or Mexican and then they would say no bc I have to take care of my younger siblings. So one of my best friend birthday is coming up and she invited me and 3 other friends to the movies over the weekend. I ask my mom if I could go. I told her that I would go in the morning at 8 and be home around 3pm. There's gonna be an adult driving us to the movies and a restaurant. Then I said if I can't go somewhere that far then my bests friends can celebrate her birthday at her house( plan B if anyone parents said no) and her house is about 6-8 miles away from my house.I said that I'm 14 and I'm just asking for ONE day if I can just hang out with my friends for once. I've never been to a friend house except when it's related to school. My mom then said no bc my parents will be at work and I need to take care of my two younger siblings( my sister is 13 and my brother is 7). I said my sister can take care of my little brother. When I stay after school she would be the one taking care of my brother fine. My mom then said my sister is too young to be home alone and I said she's 13. When I was 13 my mom and Dad also left me at home alone to take care of my siblings. My mom still said no. How can I convince her?

Question: I don't want my dad to be at my college graduation? 10 pts?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 07:35 PM PST

I'm graduating from college this May, however I don't want my dad to be there. The reason I don't want him there is because he's just never been a father to me. I feel like the reason to invite a parent to your graduation is so that they can be there to support you and reflect on all of the memories they had and how much they helped you get to where you are that day. He never did anything worthwhile for me. He always told me I'm never going to finish college and I'll never do anything with my life and has been verbally abusive to me. Maybe I can become a stripper he said. So basically, I feel like he doesn't deserve to be at my graduation. This wouldn't be such an issue if I didn't want to invite my mother to my graduation. She's done more for me in my whole life than he ever has and I do want her there. I know that if I invite her, she will then mention it to my dad and he will know. I don't even want him knowing about it so that there isn't any trouble. In fact, I don't even want him giving me away at my wedding... I'd like for my mother to do that. So anyway, what would your advice be for me in the situation? Do you think I should just go ahead and invite him, or just invite my mom?

Question: My birthday is in less then a week and my family hasn't even asked what I want to do. Did they forget or something...?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 06:55 PM PST

My birthday is March 16th and it's the 10th, my family just said they have to work all week and all next week because of spring break, yet they haven't even said anything almost at all about my birthday... I feel like they don't care anymore. Every time I try and say something everyone never pays attention, they just don't ever look at me when I try to say something, or I try to say something about it. A few months ago they just kept nagging me about it, and now it's just dead, why is this. To all the parents in the world why do you do this? Why is it you all lie and just drop everything and leave it alone? For once I actually wanted to do something, but my parents don't care anymore... I wrote a list down and put a copy on my parents bed, along with my siblings, and they still yet to even notice anything. They just ignore it. I'm the middle child, I have 2 sisters, a younger and a older, my parents pay more attention to them then me... Why is it that I am the only one not getting any attention or any freaking support for any of my decisions? To all the parents that are on here please answer my question, why is it that whenever your kid wants something/ wants you to pay attention to them for once, why do you just ignore them. Why is it that since I'm the middle child, I get the least attention, and I'm the only boy!!! I freaking hate this. I'm sorry for the Ranting, but why is it that my parents don't pay attention to me at all???

Question: People in my family tells me my siblings are better than me and i will never amount to anything?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 06:46 PM PST

Question: What is my right in this situation? What should I do?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 06:25 PM PST

So my brother and I have shared a house pretty much our whole lives. Our father left it to us after he died. And our mom moved out after she remarried. So pretty much my brother and I have continued living here for the passed 12 years on our own. Everything has been fine up until now, except now he is in a serious relationship that may end up in marriage. Well my concern is that if they do end up marrying, what will happen to our house. My fear is that he is expecting me to move out or something so he can move in with his GF /then wife. Why this is relevant at all is because the other night his GF was joking with me that she wanted to find me someone to get married to so she could move in when they marry and "take over my closet space". I know its a joke, but obviously its showed me that they've talked about it before. But what is my right in this situation? I feel like I won't have any favor in this. It doesn't seem fair that just because my brother will marry that he's thinking he will automatically get the house. I've lived here all my life. I've taken more care for this house than my brother ever did. In our culture the girl lives in her fathers house until she marries. The man is suppose to move out and start a new home with his wife. I just feel like its an unfortunate situation that is going to happen once it does. I don't know what I should do to make sure I am protected in this situation. I feel like I may lose my right to this house.

Question: How do you say my father sister?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 05:54 PM PST

Question: Why do you think my family wants to control me I am 23?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 05:49 PM PST

I moved back home and am starting college again this coming fall. Since last July I have been contemplating vandwelling. My family however is strongly opposed I wouldn't tell them anything or at least I shouldn't but I did and I am getting lectures about how when I am older I will want q house. For me I don't want anymore student loans. When I start school all the money I would waste on an apartment can go towards my education. An education they keep forcing down my throat. I am not opposed to school but when I have to work just to go to school just to pay for some dumb place that I only use to sleep and shower. This isn't helping me. I want to have freedom which I don't have. When I did live on my own all I did was work two jobs and pay bills that isn't a life I want to live ever again. But no one gets it. They want me to be a slave to work and buy a house that I will work to often to ever even enjoy. Literally if this is not what I want why are they dead set on making me live that life. It is my life after all. Anyways please give advice. I am really getting to the point where I will just go away.

Question: How to get an abusive, grown kid out of the house?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 04:42 PM PST

I'm the brother of the kid, not the parent, though I am still very concerned about this person's future, and the safety of my family. I honestly wish I could refer to my brother as an adult, but a grown man throwing tantrums after being presented with reality does not fit the term. For years, my 28 year old brother has been struggling with anxiety, as well as other unspecified mental disorders he has never disclosed with us. Since he was a teenager, he has been rather abusive and beat whoever just happened to piss him off. These random bouts of violence are just the beginning. Crying and screaming at all of us was a weekly occurrence. Self harm, "panic attacks" at every little thing he found to be uncomfortable(just more screaming and crying at the thought of moving out, responsibilities, etc), and being a recluse that never leaves the house. This still happens to this day, and honestly, I have no idea what to do from here. Talking calmly and reminding him of reality and responsibilities results in the same violent tantrums as before. Worst of all is his parents have always coddled him and apologized after causing him every hissy fit. They are just pathetic at this point. He refuses to take medication for his conditions, and shows no signs of improvement. I genuinely fear for our safety as this child refuses any amount of help, even psychiatric, to assist him in going through daily life. He will not get a job or even finish school. What can even be done here?

Question: Something is wrong with my fifteen year old daughter?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:46 PM PST

So one day I went to wake her up and she looked really pale, so she stays home sick. She sleeps all day, but when it's dark she gets up and starts doing stuff like normal. That was a week ago, and the same stuff is happening except she's really antisocial and she started going out at night and I have no idea where she's going, but whenever I try to stop her she hisses at me and runs out the door. She got good grades, never got in trouble, and even went to bed early. Anyone know what's wrong with her?

Question: How do I get my mom not to kidnap me for my dad on holidays like Christmas or others?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:45 PM PST

She won't let me see him and he won't take her to court because he says he's done fighting with her. I miss my dad on those days and his family and I'm only 13. I always have to wait till like two weeks later to see him like this past Christmas it was January before I could see him. I'm tired of her using me to get him back for having leaving her. I hate my life because of this and my mom won't budge even with the counselor try to talk to her about it and neither will my dad.

Question: Bigger, annoying, younger little sister ruining my life? Please Help?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:38 PM PST

The second my little sister was born I tried to put her back in my mom s stomach. She s a spoiled stupid brat, but somehow she gets called mature and responsible (most likely because of her looks). I m twelve and she s ten, but she s taller/the same size as me, so everyone thinks we re twins or she s older. All my mom s friends are like," Oh, I forgot she s older. Hey, Charlotte(using a fake name for me) you look a lot younger than your sister. Paisley (using a fake name for my sister), you look so old!" Sometimes strangers have the nerve to go up to us and ask us if we re twins, and then be extremely surprised

Question: What is the perfect birthday gift for my sister?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:32 PM PST

my sister is a nurse, and she is pretty young (22), she graduated a little while ago and is a total perfectionist she loves to be organized. She is a generally happy go lucky person, and is in love with disney (especially zootopia, and frozen.) She is a very kid-ish person. she is also a giant harry potter fan. she loves cute disney scrubs as well, and singing, and she is a major painter/ piano player (she has awards.) Her birthday is coming up soon and she asked me for something that she can use for work, that relates to disney/ harry potter. She also loves trinkets and little knick knaks. WHAT SHOULD I GET HER???

Question: My uncle is raging at my aunt in the parking lot should I call the police?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:27 PM PST

He's not hitting her is just screaming at her the C word and the F word and she's just standing there. My mom just pointed out the window and showed me. Do I call the police or does that do no good because he's not hitting her ? He's known to rage at her which is why I stay away from him usually but we had to see them at a funeral today. You're fighting because she didn't make all the kids come to the funeral for his uncle.

Question: Everyone's gone but my mom and I we are alone. Everyone has rejected us and it's only us left how do we go on living?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:24 PM PST

We are here for each other but we've lost my dad and brothers and cousins and aunts and uncles. After her grandparents died my mom's parents they all turned on us including my dad and his family. We have no one were alone in the freezing cold in North Dakota everyone else is left us forever.

Question: My dad and I are alone in his office tonight and there's bodies as it's a morgue. Are we safe in here or are there zombies?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:22 PM PST

There's no electricity and the lights are out it's just us alone could we be eaten? We are sleeping under the couch so they don't attack us, the zombies. We were accidentally locked in here. And were alone in here till least 1 PM tomorrow no food no water just us and the Dad. My battery on my phone is dying and I hear the zombies dad this is it. Ahh!

Question: Since my brother is a felon should I tell everybody I meet since my mom won't?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:19 PM PST

She enables him by not telling people with that loser he turned out to be as a felon!!

Question: My stepsister is naked and making out with her boyfriend should I call my parents to come home I'm scared?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:18 PM PST

Question: Are my parents having sex??? And how to deal with it??

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 03:12 PM PST

I think my parents are having sex and it is really bothering me cause a couple of weeks ago I was sleeping and I awoke to my dad saying " does it feel good when I touch you" to my mom and when I went in their room they were cuddling (which they never do) and my mom raced out of bed and asked me why I wasn't asleep....then she took me back to my room but I just couldn't fall asleep that night...I'm so uncomfortable when we are all together and yesterday I had a dream that they had sex and I walked in pls help how do I deal with it? Should I say something?

Question: Mother applied my name as the father on the birth cert. I ve never see the child, we both live in fl , the child was born in another state?

Posted: 10 Mar 2017 02:40 PM PST

do I have pay child support on a child I've never seen?