no family, no kids, no one to help.. and she doesn't want help.. we are both in our 80's and we have lived long enough to see it all. Sometimes, death is better than living in pain, no?

And his response was thanku????? Wtf It was so difficult for me to say and painful... and he didn't even say I miss u too

If a divorced man's child can only visit if the child comes also with a friend?

I have a job interview in the city I live in! It's a great opportunity!! Problem is I'm with my father. He had surgery. I told the company I'd be back in town on Friday. (Today) My flight has been cancelled due to snow. I've tried endlessly to get another flight out its Newark Airport but due to the next "impending" storm I may not get a flight out until late next week. My interview is scheduled for Tuesday. This is a HUGE opportunity for me! I'll be absolutely devastated if I miss this opportunity but I am struggling to find a flight back! Any suggestions? Driving isn't an option they live in NY the job is in Arizona.

5 years into out marriage he somehow impregnated a woman whom he claims raped him while he was blacked out drunk. He said there was absolutely no way he could have had sex with her because he couldn't have had an erection while being that drunk. She apparantly worked at a fertility clinic, and he suspects she somehow impregnated herself. The baby girl looks IDENTICAL to my husband. I am absolutely devastated. I don't want him to be in contact whatsoever with the rape baby. However, his mother and sister keep communicating with the mother of the baby. I am at a loss and just need input from others. I am alone in this, and have no outlet to talk to anyone about this. We already have a tumultuous marriage, this has just compounded the issues. Am I an awful person for wanting there to be no acknowledgement/ communications? Should I stay or leave? He says he was raped, I feel awful for feeling animosity towards him. I am absolutely unwilling to accept this bastard child in our/my life. This is killing me every day. Thank you for any and all commentary!

I don't respect women they are all on drugs, they only want to get married so they can steal everything from the man in a divorce, they only want kids for the child support checks.

I m a father with full custody of my son. I ve been full custody since divorce final 3yrs ago. In that time my son s mom has been in and out of jail twice in rehab because of drugs lost a new born child because she was on meth while pregnant. Now that she s been out of rehab for 1month now for the second time. She wants to take our son with her. She still keeps company of the same people that she was running around doing drugs with. Now she says she s getting a lawyer to get some custody of him. I just want to know what can I expect for her to be granted, what is the most she can get. I m terrified of the court making a mistake. There is just no trusting in her. She has no respect for authority.

I agree that they don't owe you sex... but what if you are in a sexless marriage and it's been years.... Is it right to make the partner live sexless? If you don't want to have sex, should you at least allow your partner to have sex with someone else?

My mother married a guy 13 years young than her who doesn't work and basically mooches off of her. He even has a gf now his own age who is on drugs and steals. My mother has chosen to stay married to him and has spent most of her retirement on him and will criticize my brother and I for not being married yet even though we financially support ourselves and put ourselves through college and have good jobs and stay out of trouble. All she talks about is us not getting married. She shouldn't even be married to her loser husband so why is she?

My wife wants a divorce, we are trying to find a solution. We have an open custody as of right now cause there is no court order. We want to divorce but want to keep the what we have going with the kids going. She brings them over everyday and lets them stay the night whenever. Is it possible to keep this for the kids? Also she does NOT to come after me for child support, will the state make her?

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have no children and still go out on the weekends together like a young couple. He doesn't look at porn (I've scoured the search history in all the devices), he doesn't cheat as he is either at work, home, or with me. He never initiates sex and often turns me down when I do. Should I cheat on him? I don't want to leave him but I'm starved for affection and I'm sick of talking about it with him. Help!!!

So I was on lunch break a few hours ago and I was on facebook,when I saw my husband's new profile picture.His son was a Marine KIA in Iraq in spring 2007, I think it could either be the 10th anniversary or the boy's birthday,anyway should I adress this thing when I come home tonight or should I act life nothing happened? I mean it's one thing had he told me today it was some anniversary but like this...I don't know.Any advice?

I'm a 28-year-old man. My parents are Indian, but I was born and raised in the United States. Anyway, over the past couple years, I've had a long string of short-term relationships, most of which I'm sexually attracted too but have no emotional connection with. I've never dated any of the women I've actually liked have liked. I have no problem attracting women I'm not attracted to, because I have nothing to lose. If she likes me, that's great. If not, it doesn't matter. On the other hand, I'm petrified at the very idea of talking to women I actually like, because I'm afraid I'll mess up and cause them to hate me. Anyway, I'm tired of dating woemn I don't feel anything for. My parents have been urging me to get married, and they want me to have an arranged marriage. Should I accept?

I caught my wife embracing another man with a hug and a kiss on the cheek, but didn't think much of it. Saw the same guy working at a place I go to for lunch and wanted to ask him if he knew my wife. I figured not to ask cause I didn't want to seem cross but overheard him telling his work buddy to flirt with the girls cause eventually he will get it. I kept quiet thinking maybe it's nothing and he wouldn't get it from her anyway. Fast forward about 2 weeks and we see this guy at another place at random and she gets nervous and awkward. I knew it was because of him, but she didn't. They talked for a bit, clearly against her wishes, not once did he look at me and she didn't acknowledge our marriage or that I was her husband. I asked her the questions I already knew and she lied to my face about it. I told her what I knew that night and she started to cry. I asked why did she lie and act like that but all she kept saying was I don't know and kept saying I'm sorry. I told her if that's her answer then I can't be married to a woman who doesn't know. This seems very suspect because if it wasn't anything why the lie? The nervousness? And the holy crap look on her face when she saw him? It's that behavior that makes me think she was up to something.

So I posted this last week but may have not worded the question correctly. Very simply my parents and wife are not on speaking terms and won't see each other due the fact my wife and mom don't get along. . I am done getting in the middle of it as I only make matters worse. I simply visit my parents in Fla.( I live in NY) and life and my marriage seems to happily go on. Now my parents are coming to NY and staying in a hotel about 1/2 a mile away and my wife is freaking out and for some reason is mad at me for allowing them to visit for 2 weeks (She says they should stay for one week). I told her I cannot control the time they are here only the time I spend with them- and that will be limited. I'll see them here and there and they are OK with that but she still seems upset. How would you handle a situation like this would you tell them to shorten their stay??? thanks for the advise. ***MY dad still has a business in NY and friends too***

My husband had a child support review today in another city ( where his ex currently resides). From the moment he received the notice, which was a few weeks ago, I asked if he wanted me to go with him for support. His response was," what would this have to do with you?" Actually, a lot. The child support payments do financially affect myself and our kids. I was willing to leave it alone, but he went on to say that he was worried I might say something to his ex. Really?? I ve been to many public events with him, and I ve never embarrassed him. I always try to be pleasant, etc. Then this week, he suddenly asks if I would like to go. I thought about it and, trying to be understanding, said that I respected his decision if he truly wanted to do it alone. He then went on to say that the drive would be a lot for the babies, etc. That same afternoon he calls to say that he asked his mom to go with him. He said he asked her if she could watch the babies so he and I could go, and she refused, stating she d rather go. He refused to compromise with me, but completely gave in to what she wanted. That s the price for me trying to be considerate/ understanding I guess! Aside from this, he rarely takes my feelings into consideration most of the time. I m fed up! I want to feel like I have a partner, not a controlling parent.