Family: Question: What do I do if my Dad forces me into slavery this weekend by making me and my brother do slave work in the yard when its his work?

Question: What do I do if my Dad forces me into slavery this weekend by making me and my brother do slave work in the yard when its his work?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:37 PM PDT

He makes us do his work like slaves in his yard.

Question: My Dad is a very ignorant person. How do I accept this and move on?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:35 PM PDT

I have hopes of getting him to have compassion on me but see he is too ignorant to care. He is as ignorant as dirt.

Question: I don't know how to approach a situation with my significant other and her child, my step child. Anyone have step kids?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:32 PM PDT

My fiancé and I have been together a year, she has a 2 yr old daughter who is mean to me. She does not give her child any structure or punishment, the kid does what she wants when she wants she gets what she wants when she wants it. Because of the no structure, the child is very mean to me and other people, she tells us no, she acts like she scared of everyone and that the world is out to get her. She's very clingy to her mom as well. My problem is, we don't spend much time together, every time all three of us are together we fight, I say something about her kid being mean and she gets mad and dont want anything to do with me. then we don't speak for a week. She's very defensive of her kid and she will not talk about it.Every time I try to bring it up she ends up telling me to stop that her blood pressure is rising. I don't know what to do here, I just want the child to have some structure and some manners, be sweet and successful. I'm not allowed to have any say in anything at all, if I say anything I'm in the doghouse. How can I very easily bring this up, how can I approach this without striking a nerve? Has anyone ever been here? Any advice?I would like to be a part of this child's life but acts like she scared of me and I really have not done anything to her to make her scared of me and her mother thinks I have done something to make her scared of me. The child also will not share her mom at all, we are not allowed to have physical contact when she's around. She cries.

Question: Can a 16 year old driver drive his friends or siblings?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:27 PM PDT

I m 16 and I was wondering if I could drive my friends/siblings with a parent signed note saying that they re allowing me to drive them

Question: How do I get my sister to stop being such a bully?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:18 PM PDT

Question: EMAILREG_STOP_PAGE?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:12 PM PDT

Question: Is this weird?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 02:05 PM PDT

I have always wanted to be a dad ever since i can remember i'm 22 now and never been in a relationship but have already been buying things for a future son i want to have like a used tv for when he turns seven and saving kids books for when he is younger , is this weird?

Question: Why does my love interest lose interest in me?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:40 PM PDT

I'm a senior in High school and I had a guy interested in me, but I said I am saving myself for marriage. He wanted to be my boyfriend, but... when I said I was saving myself for marriage he started to hook up with another girl and another and another. He sleeps around. And there r rumors he is MEAN!

Question: My hubby beats my daughter but I dont want him to go to jail are leave him what should I do?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:35 PM PDT

Question: Why does my father try to still run my life when I'm married and have kids?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:30 PM PDT

I'm 34 been married 6 years and have a 3 year old daughter and my dad continues to try and run my life. He tries to be involved in everything I do even when it's pointless. He asks me every day if he can come over and do my laundry for me or to clean my house for me or to wash my car for me or to cut my grass for me. Like what the hell? I do this stuff in my own, why does he want to do it for me so badly? It's like he's desperate to be a slave for me just so he can have some sort of control on my life

Question: My step dad caught me masturbating?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:01 PM PDT

Okay so I was masturbating on my bed because I was home alone and I was naked well only bottom down and I had my finger around my vagina all off a sudden my step dad walks in and quickly leaves and then he asked me if I seen a package? I'm scared hell tell my mom

Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:57 PM PDT

I just got home from taking my sister to her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for 15 minutes I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: Mom saw me naked?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:11 PM PDT

My and my mom were staying at a hotel I slept naked and told her I like sleeping naked she was cool with it so I just started walking around naked. I had a parshal hard on and she was looking. Is this wrong? Ps I'm 21

Question: My younger brother is spoiled?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:11 PM PDT

My younger brother wanted to go to the fair with his friends. So he asked my dad for money.But my dad did not have cash so my dad said "why don't you pay for it and I pay you back when I get back" my brother said "no" then my dad said "I'm gonna pin the money I give it to you there" and my brother said "call me so I can pick the money up" so my brother got dressed and he got the call. my dad "I'll give it to you I'm in the city close to the fair" and after that my brother freaked out and said "I don't want my friends to see him! why couldn't he pin at the grocery store! away from my friends!" with other words he is embarrassed to be seen with his dad. he is 17 and im his 21 year old sister and im angry. my dad did all he could to give him the money so. that he could have a good time and now he is calling him a stalker. and now my dad is crying because he hurt my his feelings. so it took away his laptop and playstation and brought to back to the store because I have that to him for his birthday. but since he is acting like a spoilt brat he gets nothing. please tell what I can do to cheer my dad up he's really upset? and my mom is the same. My dad wanted to reward him for getting good grades.

Question: Does fiance hate parents?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:06 PM PDT

my fiance told me awhile ago he had a bad childhood and has told me why. he only sees his parents 6 times a year for holidays. All he ever says is "they are the biggest pieces of sh*t in the world, wish I could never see them again in my life, my moms the biggest C*** in the world. Does he mean these things? is this how he expresses anger?

Question: How can I get my girlfriend to flash me her boobs in my house? She is shy and she has her boobs showing a little bit and I am horny?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:01 PM PDT

Question: Am I a bad son and will my Dad forgive me?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:53 AM PDT

Just some background: So ever since I was little my Dad played catch with me, bought sports stuff and video game stuff for me too. He s always been there for me. He s a typical loving Dad that will do anything for his son. Present Time: I m a smart kid, in all AP/Honor classes and my Dad thinks I hang out with scumbags as friends. Recently I got caught by my Dad taking the car out while he was at work and I don t have my permit. Also, my friend made me steal alcohol from Walmart and I got caught and the police came to my house.( This was my first crime I ever committed). Then he grounded me, he is really into drumming so I thought it would be a good bonding thing if i took up drumming too. We really bonded and he seemed to forgive me for the alcohol and it turns out I like drumming too. Then last night before he came home from work I left the house without telling anyone with my friend although he told me I cannot leave the house. I left at 6pm and came home at around midnight. Now he s telling me I am disrespecting him and after everything he s done for me I m just pissing on his face. So I guess I m just looking for other peoples perspectives on this. Thanks

Question: How did my nieces' grandparents get custody of them within a month without notifying my sister?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:52 AM PDT

My sister sent my two nieces to stay with their father and grandparents for the holidays back in 2012, and we haven't seen them since. They were supposed to be coming home the following month, but in the short time they were there, the grandparents got custody of the two girls. How is that possible in such little time, and considering that my sister had a job, had a place to live, could provide for the girls, and did not have any charges of abuse or neglect filed? also, I might add, their father is wanted in the state of MA and cannot be around schools and his father, who also lives with them, has a history of alcohol abuse. It's been almost 5 years, and it seems as though no one has had answers for my sister and the rest of my family. Any feedback would be appreciated!

Question: House was left to me in a will but the spouse won t let my family live there. Legally what can I do about this?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:52 AM PDT

My grandmother passed away a little while ago and left me her house and all it s possessions. My family has come on hard times and I thought it d be easier on them to live in my house that my grandmother left to me but her husband won t let them since in the will it also says he can always go there if he needs a place to stay. He won t let my family move in and is renting it out to his new girlfriends family. I would handle the situation myself if I knew how but unfortunately I m 3,000 miles away at my duty station and that makes things even harder. My mother has been trying to handle everything for me but my grandmothers husband is also giving her trouble. I really wanna get this taken care of soon so I d appreciate any help. Thank you.

Question: Even when I'm not around my dad I still feel like he's here controlling my life?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:49 AM PDT

I got an apartment to be away from my dad because he was controlling me and made my life hell But even when I'm here at my apartment I still feel like he's here controlling me and attacking me, What do y'all think about this behavior?is this normal for me to feel this way?

Question: My sister won't go to the movies with me (her brother) but will go with my older brother?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:38 AM PDT

my sister won't go to the movies with me or do anything with me.. I'm 22 years old I have muscular dystrophy. my sister is 20 but she want to go do stuff with my 25 year old brother or her friends..

Question: If our parents never met....?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 11:15 AM PDT

If my parents never met each other and your parents never met each other, but met someone else and had children, would we still exist and be born to different mother or father?

Question: My parents are hoping for me to never speak to my mom's sister again. What do I say if they find out I see her and get mad?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 10:48 AM PDT

They hate her because she makes everything about her and also because she shows favoritism among her kids and has the kid who was a little harder the "scapegoat" child now as an adult. So what do I do if they find out?

Question: How do I run away or escape my mother?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 10:08 AM PDT

I am 13 years old and all my life I have had to deal with my mother physically and emotionally abusing me. Her and my dad got divorced when I was 2 and ever since then, she has been raising me to despise my dad. She has the majority of the custody. All my life I have been told by her that I don't matter, no one cares about me, I'm not good enough, etc. Also when she is angry she will sometimes hit me and leave horrible marks. I am tired of not being happy and being treated like garbage. I've been suicidal, but I have realized that I don't want to die because I have hopes and dreams and plans for the future and I wont have to be a part of her life forever. But the situation keeps getting worse and worse and I can't put up with it anymore. My dad has tried to get custody of me and my brother for years, but somehow it hasn't worked. I just want to live at my dad's house permanently but I know if I run away to there my dad will tell my mom and my situation will get worse because I will be sent home. We live in the country and there are no bus stops or anything that could get me to my dad's house that's in the city. I don't know how much longer I can deal with her and I want to run away, even if it means leaving my dad for a while. What is a foolproof way I run away without getting caught? Also, please don't tell me I'm too young to be making this decision. If you would spend one minute with my mother you would understand. I found somewhere that I can go that's safe and they wont tell my mother, but its pretty far away (2 hours) and there are no buses where I live. And I'm a girl so I don't want to get raped or anything..... The place I found is in a big city and I will still be able to go to school there and get a job soon

Question: Is it Safe to Wash Your Hands in the Kitchen Sink After Defecating?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 10:02 AM PDT

We had the shower faucet fixed recently because my sister has stubbornly uses the shower to wash her hands each time. My mom suggested that she wash her hands in the kitchen sink after my sister washes her hands if she doesn't want to do it in the bathroom sink. I asked mom "Even after pooping?!" Mom replied "Yes, what's he big deal?" I was horrified! Is that safe? If not, what can I do so we don't end up sick?

Question: What does it mean to you, to have someone who always makes you smile?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 09:53 AM PDT

Question: My sistet dislikes me because I am talkative and not real clean (like my car is a mess) should I change for her or just be myself?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 08:54 AM PDT

Question: Mom is threatening to send me to the orphanage at 15, need help on what to do...?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 08:42 AM PDT

I'm a 15 yr. old homeschooled kid, and my mom has been starting to become outright abusive and is even threatening to send me to an orphanage. Back on Monday (3/27/2017) I was in the middle of working and my mom had sent me 45 text messages full of hatred, assuming I wasn't doing my work. I eventually even ran out of texts later, and she sent tons of hate on Google hangouts too. I then just asked what's wrong and she didn't even read that, she just continued with "No, you're a liar" and continued spamming me. So I eventually blocked her on hangouts and her email address, and when she comes home, she kicked me out and told me to never come back. So I called the police and told them what she did, and I managed to get back in as they explained it is illegal to kick a minor out of the house under 18. However, they ALSO said you can't be arrested for hitting and that you can send them to an orphanage. And now, he behavior has ultimately changed. She's now more abusive than I've seen her be. She's beating me with a belt, taking my passwords for my stuff, and she's destroyed my phone with a hammer. I'm doing my work, but she's still doing this and threatening to send me to an orphanage next week. So, what can I do? Who can I talk to? I can't see any kind of public counselor since im in homeschool. She's threatening to put me in an ORPHANAGE. At this moment, she's even going as far as deleting everything off my computer. How can I deal with this situation? It's relieving to know she can't send me out, but how do I confront the abuse?

Question: My aunt had a secret plot to keep herself kids from my parents, siblings, and I. How do we stop her?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 08:39 AM PDT

Question: How to stop feeling guilty.?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 07:59 AM PDT

7 years ago I was made redundant by my company. I was scared of the future but was given an opportunity to do something totally different. The only problem with this was that it was aboard and away from my family. We talked it over and my children, who were teenagers at the time said we'll miss you but it's an opportunity not to be missed. The way I looked at it was It's about creating a future for my children. So I took it. Now we have a very successful and thriving business. It's been hard work and at times I've felt like giving up, but we've perceived and we're successful. I work away for 10 days and then travel back to spend 4 or 5 days with my children. I travel a lot and spend a lot of time thinking, that's my biggest problem. I feel guilty for leaving my children. They're both doing well and they say they miss me but soon they'll be leaving home to make their own lives. How can I stop feeling guilty all the time?

Question: Ricky gave the spare key of the house to a squatter and my dad came home and found him sleeping under the table and my dad is very angry?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 07:45 AM PDT

Question: Do you think a mother should get in trouble for not telling the dad he is the father until 8 years later? Then wanting child support!!?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 07:41 AM PDT

Question: Is it harder to lose a parent or a child?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 07:32 AM PDT

Question: Im super jealous my younger sister !!!?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 07:10 AM PDT

Question: Did we come from our fathers and that's why we take our father's last name not our mother's?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 05:48 AM PDT

Question: I'm trying to find my father Fredrick mcghee?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 05:40 AM PDT

One day he texted me on Facebook and quickly finding out it was him he blocked me then deleted his account, I only really need a picture if he truly doesn't want anything to do with me ive never met him and he's always been in my heart I feel as though he's a part of me that I'm missing and I only need to see to feel comfort but I wish he would come into my life this year I will be 18 a grown man I have a job and I make all A,s it just hurt me that he wouldn't want to be in my life just as a friend I wouldn't care I just want my father hopefully someone can help me

Question: My mother-in-law come to me in private and said she wants to sleep with me-what to do?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 05:20 AM PDT

Question: I think my sister is using meth and also stealing money from me what can I do ? I m starting to feel so much hate and resentment...?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 05:14 AM PDT

I think I m losing my mind. I stashed $120 in my backpack a week ago or so checked a few times to make sure it was in there because money has come up missing before and my sister has a history of going through my things without permission.. However I guess Ive been in denial believing her little sob stories on how she would never steal.. But now I m starting to suspect it s been her this whole time, and the reason behind it is because she may be using meth.. she s taken markers and lighters but never money... However she watched my son a few nights ago she said he was crying so she sat in my room with him for awhile until he fell back to sleep. She said while sitting on the floor she grabbed a few bags off the floor but I remember no bags being on the floor... Which means the only other place the bags were, were in the backpack which coincidentally was sitting on the floor next to the baby bed.. I went through my backpack only to find $50 instantly I lashed out on her and again she swears she has no reason to steal money. She claims she had no money but goes to a hotel to stay for 2-3 days... Comes back home coming down off of meth what it seems.. and pays me back with a twenty dollar bill that was intentionally crumbled so it wouldn t look brand new... So I would be less suspicious of the twenty being my own... How does $70 just come up missing ? Does my sister think I m stupid... ????

Question: Hello everyone I d like your opinion on a matter that has been bothering me for months now.?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 05:05 AM PDT

My mother in law has been destroying my relationship with her attitude towards me and her son,she acts like he is her possession she doesn t respect the fact that he is in a relationship and makes us fight constantly even on special occassions like X-mas B-Days,sends texts calls every single day and she wants to know everything,doesn t respect our privacy and she thinks that me and her son are not a family of our own but she believes that I entered THEIR family she also keeps insulting me by saying that her son has always been a mommas boy and has always been under her skirt,he didn t wanna leave her not even for educational reasons and that he will always put HER before EVERYONE(meaning me of course)she always says these kind of stuff behinf his back of course...what can I do?please help!!!!? She even interferes with decisions that are ours to make like if we are going to buy a house or where we are going to move to.She keeps saying to my BF that I'm a slacker and she even said that right up to my face in front of everyone else. On top of all she is liar and two faced because she lies to me about my boyfriend and vice versa so she can cause more problems,she treats him like a baby chasing him around the house so she can touch his butt.I seriously feel sick watching this kind of stuff

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 04:17 AM PDT

I just got home from dropping my kids off at school. Since I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: Parents keep threatening to kill me?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 04:08 AM PDT

Mother has threatened to chop up my body because I forgot to hang up my jacket. My father kicked me out of the house because he keeps sneaking into my bedroom to turn the light on while I'm trying to sleep and I turned them off. Please help

Question: My parents are forcing to have a serious talk with my bf before he takes me on vacation WILL THIS SCARE HIM OFF?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 04:06 AM PDT

I'm 22 still live at home...my parents are super christians (my dad is a pastor) and ive been dating this 30 year old guy for 8 months who treats me like a queen loves to cook for me gave me a key to his house and sometimes i spend the night over some weekends which FREAKS THEM OUT Cause they claim (im foricationing and acting married which is immoral) always asking if im pregnant even though we always use protection always begging him to go to church with us he goes sometimes but not enough to their liking anwyays next week me and my boyfriend plan on going on vacation to his moms beach house in another state and they're fliping the f**k out saying "were acting like a married couple he wont marry me cause im giving the milk for free we better sleep in different rooms" mind you his whole family will be with us LOL its really stressing me out! and they want to give him a 'serious talk" before we leave and wants to know if he'll ever marry me since we've been together 8 months WTF SHOULD I DO?? he hates pressure and i feel like my parents will just make me look like a scared little girl that needs her parents approval to go on vacation with my boyfriend so should i let my parents have this "talk " with him before we leave this weekend or nah??

Question: Are my parents being too hard on me?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 03:50 AM PDT

I'm not gonna pull the whole "OMG MY PARENTS HATE ME" BS because I know they love me and only want the best for me, but a lot of times, like right now, I feel like they're being a bit hard on me. I've been planning to go to a soccer game with a friend for months, and tomorrow is finally the day. They told me I needed to finish a computer course I was taking in order to go. This computer course was progressively getting harder and harder, and the quizzes in the course are literally 2 or 3 questions (meaning that if I miss 1, I fail the quiz). My teacher graded 10 or 12 of my assignments yesterday, and I failed 4 of them (I missed one or two questions). It's a hard course, but I saw it and I was still upset about it. I told my mom I would re-do them, but because it was already 10:30 I was going to go to bed. Next morning, my mom opens the door and starts (legitimately) yelling at me telling me how I failed 'everything' and how my teacher must be so ashamed and how she's so embarrassed and that I'm not going to the game tomorrow because I failed "every" assignment. I carefully explained to her that if I miss a single question, it's an automatic failure, which just made her even more angry and I don't know why. She then enrolled me in summer school and I have to finish an entire year of 11th Grade English & History in the summer. I feel a bit like she's being a bit harsh, and I can even go in and re-take these assignments.

Question: Is there a difference between if a father or mother raises a son ? Like will be be more feminine with the mother? Or no?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 03:38 AM PDT

Question: Why is my family always disappointed in me.?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:41 AM PDT

I get straight As, I work.... why is that not enough for them? I'm always getting compared to my cousin who's a brain and an extrovert with many friends and connections. Meanwhile im "not normal" for wanting to keep to myself. She's focused on having a "real job" and I'm just a dreamer for wanting to sing and model and act.... well, being a dreamer for wanting to model could be true because I feel I'm ugly... unless I'm wrong? Idk I feel like with this face, I got nothing going for me and that's my ultimate dream too :( even if not for modeling, I'd feel better if I atleast saw someone I actually want to see in the mirror :(

Question: What are some of the health benefits of feeding alcohol to house pets?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:35 AM PDT

I've heard that cats enjoy drinking wine and dogs like mixed cocktails and hamsters like doing shots.

Question: I saw my brother try to kill himself last July.?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 01:34 AM PDT

I saw my brother attempt to kill himself. Baisically here's how it went. He had a alcohol problem and came home shitfaced every night. My mom was very mad about this and so they were yelling back and forth. Then my brother said "I just want to kill myself" and then my mother said back "so ******* do it then" (good parenting, I know) and he slit his wrist. He is alive, but I still think about it every day. Is there any way I can stop thinking about it?

Question: Should my daughter visit her sister in prison?

Posted: 31 Mar 2017 12:03 AM PDT

her older sister who is 21 is in prison for two years for helping her boyfriend and others commit certain crimes . I wonder If I should take my other daughter who is 16, to visit her (she said she wants to visit), but I am not sure I want her to be in that kind of environment. I also hear it is a hassle to get in and you don't even get much time to even speak. Also seeing her sister in jail might be a bad image or influence. If I do take her what should I say to her beforehand to prepare her?

Question: So the other day I told my mom I like sleeping naked & ever since then I've been walking around in front of her naked Is that wrong I'm 22 m?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 11:57 PM PDT

Question: Should I forgive ?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 11:22 PM PDT

I'm a 15 year old girl, yesterday my sister and her husband were arguing because she wanted to leave him. She's currently seeing someone right now but they aren't official he's a great person . The only thing is my sister has 3 kids with her husband and they pretty much hate him my niece who's 8 (the oldest ) told me she was happy when he got hit by a car on his bike. Anyways they were arguing and I heard my sister scream "GET OFF OF ME" and crying. My niece was bawling and so were my other niece and nephew I ran into the room crying and pushed him off her. I thought he was hitting her but he wasn't just hugging her and not letting her go, he told me if I touch him like that again he'll hit me like a man I didn't care I still don't. I was even upset at myself Then I realized all the things he's done to me when I was a kid, from throwing hot food at me to telling me he'd buy a BB gun and shoot me with it, calling me names. Cheating on my sister and her attempting suicide. He's even fought with my brother and dad.I think of how I was so quick to protect my sister.. yet all those years of him saying things to me in front of her and she could never protect me she didn't care. She made excuses for eveything he did and if my mom tried to kick him out she'd leave with him. I know I should forget about it's been years but I can't. Ever since they met it's like i haven't had a sister he changed her so much .thank you for reading this I just didn't have anywhere else to turn.

Question: I can't forgive myself for the lie I told?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 10:54 PM PDT

I scammed my own Grandma. My OWN GRANDMA. I told her I work for the U.S Government so we could go on trips to King County, Orange County, Siskyou County, L.A County and SFO. I feel really bad. I don t know what to do. I just don t feel like I should live. She s the greatest person in my life and I Fuc*ing lied to her. I don t know what s wrong with me. I don t know how to forgive myself. Please help. I don t want people telling me how terrible I am because I already know. I feel like I m going to hell and I just don t know what to do.

Question: Should we start checking up on our daughter more often?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 10:34 PM PDT

My 12 year old daughter has started acting as if she's hiding something when she's in her room. She started locking her door more often and once I saw her quickly putting away something that looked like a case (not a phone case, but maybe those small sized ones where you can lock it and put small things in there?). She put it away as soon as I walked into the room and she was talking abruptly. I told her that she should not be locking her door just in case of an emergency and that we need to know whether she's safe or not in there. I don't recall ever buying her an object that looks like a case and she's getting more and more secretive about her life. She doesn't even want us to clean her room or beg us to vacuum for her anymore, mostly because she doesn't want us to be in there. I don't want to invade her privacy, but I'm getting concerned as a parent because I have no idea what she may be hiding. I started with open communication and asking more questions but she is still secretive. Should we be monitoring her more closely, including her phone, school life, and electronics?

Question: How do you deal with this hatred of a family sibling?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 10:23 PM PDT

To be honest, I hated my little sister so much. I hated so much that I said to her that she is no longer my sister anymore. Well she is a sister because my mom gave birth to that selfish *****. Other than that, she doesn't act like a sister to a brother. First of all, I always remember her children's birthday. Brought those monkeys, toys and barneys (they are 10 and 3). BUT in return during a lifetime, she never gave me any birthday present even a cake. Selfish *****. When I told a story of somebody did something bad to me, out of nowhere she told me that I'm the one who did bad things to them. First of all, I was not the one who started the problem with those idiot people. But regardless, she is a F$$# selfish ***** and always thinking of herself. Funny thing, when she was dating her current husband, she said she wanted a rich husband who can buy her rings on her birthday. Well, now her husband is running an electronic shop but nobody buys from his shop and they are running a financial problem. How ironic that her gold digger wish shot back at her. How do you deal with this spoiled and selfish sister like her? somebody who did something bad is simply an idiot across my office who park their truck in front of my office entry and blocking the way in. Across my office there is a computer company who keeps loading and unloading crates and the truck parks on my office entry..... stupid selfish people really. @PEARL: well how do you stay away from someone so selfish like that? she feels she doesnt do anything wrong and she is persistence with her foolishness. Bad thing, we have a family gathering during christmas and new year and I couldn't stand being in the same room as her. I used to be away from my parents. I lived in another country for 5 years. During the time, I remember she asked me to buy some things and send it to her. And now, she acts like she doesn't remember. And I have no idea (when I was away) when what really happened to her to become someone with poor characters like this. Growing up she always looked up to me.

Question: What would my 1st cousins, cousin be to me?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 10:09 PM PDT

On my dads side of the family his sister married a man and had kids, they got divorced, but my cousins dad has a sister who also had kids making them my cousins first cousins. So would i consider them my second cousins? Cousins by marriage even though they got divorced? Or not even family to me?

Question: Brother got a ***** for me?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 09:53 PM PDT

So my brother who is 20 (I am 15) is home for spring break but last time he was with us we had a different house and this house only has 2 bedrooms so he was just going to sleep on the couch which he did but the dog decided that it would be funny if he were to pee on the couch where he would be sleeping so my mom decided he would sleep in my room and my bed is quite small and can hardly fit 2 people, we would either have to be planking or the more comfortable position, spooning which I did not want him to sleep on my bed in the first place, I asked my mom if he could sleep on the floor but since it has been a while since she saw him she just said let him sleep on the bed (I also usually sleep naked, so this time I just wore underwear and a T-Shirt). So sometime throughout the night I feel something touching my underwear so I reached back and realized it was his *****, he quickly pulled back realizing I felt it but he didn't say anything and I tried to act as if I was asleep but I wasn't able to for another hour and a half. shorty after that (Like 30 mins) he put is back in the same spot but pushed a little further. What do I do? Do I confront him? I mean he is my brother and I don't think he should be getting boners from his younger sister I thought boys are able to control it. The ***** is B-o-n-e-r

Question: How do I deal with my 11 year old who bullies her autistic brother?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 09:20 PM PDT

My 11 year old daughter will sometimes tease my 10 year old autistic son. She says mean things to him and knows that he's over-sensitive. At one point she told me that she thinks me and her dad love our son more than her. I was shocked because we love our children equally, it's more about who needs more support and protection. My son, on the other hand, is very sensitive and he will scream or cry over something that was being said. He has poor social skills, and has trouble making friends. He sees a therapist once a week to help him with his social skills. The therapist said that she's seen many children bully their siblings with special needs because they may be jealous of the attention that their parents give them. I know that my daughter is acting out because my son requires more attention and she feels like she's not the "favorite kid". We started by trying to be equal with both children and spending quality time with them. It's hard for my daughter to develop a positive relationship with her younger brother because he lacks social skills and he is not developing the same level of maturity that is expected at his age.

Question: My x husband married my aunt My kids want to know is she really their aunt or or now their step mother. Really my x husband really my uncle?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 09:20 PM PDT

Question: What is a domestic violence center like ?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 08:45 PM PDT

the judge is sending me & my mom to a domestic violence center tomorrow to get us away from my dad , what will it be like ? will we have to share a room w people ? how will the living arangement be ? we'll be there for 3months so im just wondering . please give all details you can , thanks in advance !

Question: Since my sister likes to boss people around and in a mean way is she an adult bully (she is 26)?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 08:24 PM PDT

It is worse when she is having her period but she does it at non-period times also.

Question: My mom is all ways fussing at me?

Posted: 30 Mar 2017 08:13 PM PDT

My mom is always mad at me or fussing idk what I do wrong I don t normally talk back and I never raise my voice just like today we were coming. Back from my favorite food restaurant and she asked for half of my burger ik she didn t plan on cooking so that would be my only food I also paid for that food so I said not this time mom sorry and she went completely ballistic she started screaming shaking the steering wheel when I brought the fact that last time she got somthing and I asked for some she called me a greedy pig and told me no she screamed more and started to cry I asked mom why are u crying she responded with because your so ******* disrespectful when I asked how she couldn t tell me, after we got home I was walking to my room with my food and she took it out of my hand and threw it into the garbage I had to eat chips for the night I m thinking of moving out of her house because she told me if I get any academic scholarships that she ll through them away because I don t deserve them I honestly don t know what I ve done