My sister is a wicked human being.

His dad died when I was a baby suddenly but after that he'd only go see his mom like twice a year and she lived only a half hour away. I'd see her once a month with my aunt but my dad only went once each October for her birthday and at Christmas. Even Mother's Day he usually skipped over or simply called her only. Meanwhile he had a grandmother that live to be 93 and when I was a kid he never took us over to see her yet she lived about five minutes away from my dads work. He'd go see her maybe three times a year and that was it and I would see her with my aunt. Lastly his other grandmother he never visited when she came to town in her later years though some of that may have been because she had dementia. I was only five when she died she don't remember her as well. So this always bothered me that my dad was so cold to his elders. So should I bring Karma on him and not bother seeing him much? He's 68 now and has cancer and I'll see him occasionally

He's making the dog get an abortion so she can't have babies

I was at my wife's mothers, my mother in law's house and she was showing me her family photo album. It had pictures of her when she was in high school and college and to say she was beautiful would be an under statement. She was gorgeous. I told her I bet she had guys lined up around the block that wanted to date her. She said she had a lot of dates in high school and college but they all wanted to get into her pants. Talking about getting into my mother in laws pants was the LAST thing I wanted to talk about so I told her that is a problem most exceptionally beautiful women have. I think that is true. Anyone know for sure?

I have this friend. She's a great friend. We met at work and it is really fun and supportive. We've been friends for about seven years and go out every now and then. The thing is I think she's kinda selfish. I don't know if another thing could be wrong with her but when we go to try stuff on she always tries things on and shows me. I go out on a limb to help her with problems but she does help me but not as much. Sometimes she doesn't say please and thank you. After I told her she was demanding she told me that I misunderstood and that she wanted me to show her something because she was having a bad day and I knew that. What should I do?

my brother died a month ago, I have not spoken to him in years, he has nothing, he was an addict and alcoholic he died of cirrhosis I am told, no realities left nut me, I refuse to pay for his cremation, I'm in ca.i feel I should not be responsible, he never married or had children to my knowledge

My dad was writing a song and i peeked amd saw it it said "Yeheeeeaaaah, my sons a pos, yeeeeaaaah, my car got nos, yeah it aint pos my son aint nos"

My older brother and I used to be very close but lately all we ever do is fight. I have to walk on eggshells around him and if I say the wrong thing he blows up and starts yelling. His anger problems are getting out of hand and I don't know what to do. I try to stay away from him most of the time but it sucks because I miss hanging out with him. Does anybody have some advice?

My mom married my dad because she thought he was a multimillionaire, but he lied. He works 16 hours a day at a store and my mom has a BS in accounting but she decides to stay home. She blames my dad for everything. She doesn't try to learn a new college degree ( she did but she failed). She just walk and stay at home and cooks. She doesn't want to work or volunteer or do anything new. She is 46 and I think she ruined her life by staying with my dad. Their marriage is a failure and she doesn't know how to communicate properly. Just insult and nag, she doesn't have friends. No career. No anything. My dad is a child. He is 50s but he is a child and my mom decided not to do anything about it.

My mother is staying at our house for a few day while her home has some remodeling work done on it. My husband and I are enjoying every minute of her stay. She has a great personality and is joy to be around. Working gals, can you imagine how it feels to have bacon and eggs and home made biscuits ready for you when you get up in the morning. And then have a hot home made meal ready for you when you get home from work. At the dinner table one night, I reminded my husband to lock the bath room door when he takes a shower, something he normally does not do. I said to mom "Wouldn't you be embarrassed if you open the bath room door and my husband was getting out of the shower. She said "Yes, I would". There was a long pause then with a BIG LAUGH she said "Unless he was really hung". Mom and my husband had a BIG LAUGH about that. OH MY GOD. I almost fell out of my chair. My mom must be losing it. I did not know she even knew what it meant for a guy to be hung. Should a 44 year old mother even be thinking in terms of guys being hung?

Basically my sis has a 5 month old son and my mom always goes on and on about how gifted he is. I don't care that my 2 kids seem "normal" or even "not gifted at all" lol. I try to deflect her goings-on with "That's great! Then all the kids will be able to play together sooner" or "he'll be able to fix our computers in a couple years lol". But I am so sick of having to hear about how gifted this 5 month old is every time we talk about him, or see him. I'm truly not jealous, I just don't care that much. I don't want to hear anybody go on and on about their child in general. I'm trying not to be a jerk but one can only talk about the giftedness of a child for so long before the topic gets boring (or any topic for that matter!) So conversation diverters anyone? Just an fyi but my mom is one of those people that goes on and on about a lot of things nobody cares about, like her dad's brother's son from his 2nd marriage who has a baby, not with that nice girl from Facebook but the crackhead, that looks just like her dad, and how crazy is that! OMG who the heck cares.

Okay, didn't get to enter the details. Basically my sis has a baby that my mom always goes on and on about how gifted he is. I don't care that my 2 kids seem "normal" or even "not gifted at all" lol. I try to deflect her goings-on with "That's great! Then all the kids will be able to play together sooner" or "he'll be able to fix our computers in a couple years lol". But I am so sick of having to hear about how gifted this 5 month old is every time we talk about him. Other response suggestions?

They always want us to bring her over to them but they seriously let her get away with everything and I don't mean how regular grandparents do I mean everything. When she's there she becomes a brat and is constantly whining and is so disrespectful to them and to us. I don't enjoy being around my child there because it's so extreme that she IS the boss there and so I stay away from her over there so she doesn't directly disrespect me so I don't have to get on to her or let it happen and my child lose respect for me because the inlaws don't like us getting onto her at all. They want her all the time but we can't enjoy our child when we have her when they are here. We get her 4 days a week and she's great with us but while we have her they want us to be there where she disrespects us and when we leave she cries the rest of the day. And when we try to get onto her the in laws will comfort her and give her validation for disrespecting us or them. The other day she tried to hit my husband and was screaming and kicking and they were just like "I know" hugging her and saying "she can stay here" I know how grandparents are but it's too extreme and it's not my child's fault because she's doing what she is allowed to do. It would be different if they saw her every now and then as grandparents do but they see her at least 2-3 times A week and that's enough where they need to be better influences on her. we don't know what to do. We've talked to them about it but it's not working

Yesterday I was on my family's computer downloading some files, and in one zip file I found a video of my 13 year old sister... Well, playing with herself. I have no idea why she would record herself doing it, and I don't know what to do... Help, please!

We hooked up on a weekend ski trip and he acted as if he was interested in dating me but stated that he worked nights. I told him we'd make it work. All week it took him really long to respond to my texts. When I pointed this out to him he said that he works nights and it would be unlikely that he'd respond during the daytime. When he got off work on Saturday he called me and said that he had to do something with his son but that he'd call me when he was done with that. I didn't hear from him anymore the rest of the day. I was really mad especially when I saw he was posting on FB but wouldn't respond to my texts. When he apologized to me the next day I asked to come over to his place and he told me no because he wanted to clean up. My friend and I were already in his area and I begged to come by to see him if only for 5 minutes. He told me no but stayed on the phone with me for an hour. I said some mean things and he said he wasn't feeling my vibe in that moment. The next day I apologized for over reacting and asked if we could be friends if nothing else. He said that he accepted my apology. We have text each other a few times since then but no mention of us seeing each other. Do you think we can start over? If not why does he keep responding to my texts?

My sister had her baby prematurely at 28 weeks and he is in the Nicu, and will be there for a long time. At about 3 months pregnant, she decided she didn't want to be with the baby's father (they are not married) who is a long time family friend. He didn't do anything wrong, she just all the sudden couldn't stand him. She didn't tell him he was born until the next day when she had already given the baby her last name, and not put the father on the birth certificate. She didn't give him a bracelet for the nicu, and made it clear to him she could only see the baby if she was there allowing it. He tried talking to the nicu staff and they said there was nothing they could do since he wasn't on the baby's birth certificate and they weren't married. He made a comment about a week ago that pissed her off, now she's telling him he can't see the baby at all while he's in the Nicu. My sister said they won't DNA test a nicu baby, so he can't file for paternity until after the baby is home. Is this 100 percent true? That is going to be months that he can't see his own child, and he did nothing to deserve this! My sister doesn't want to hear it anytime I try talking to her. Does anyone know if there is anything he can do right now to get some kind of rights to his baby in the Nicu? In New York state.

At the minute I'm spending five nights away from home for university (studying in another city) and work the two nights I'm home at a bar (meaning I'm finishing shifts at around 3am). On top of this I'm barely getting time to see my dad, brother and girlfriend and it bothers them - one time I only saw my dad for an hour and a half in a whole week, this week I only saw my girlfriend for three hours. Not only does not seeing them as much bother them, I'm always tired and they tell me that I look exhausted and recommend going back to bed. I know they care and everything, and I can see why they don't like my plan because the only day I really have off I travel back to the town I study at. They're, as well as my friends, are telling me I should get another job because they hate seeing me like this - what should I do? Last night my girlfriend said to me "whenever I see you you look exhausted and that you need sleep" and that I'm handling too much

Ever since I had a stroke and nearly died, my Mother's personality has become unbearable. Which in turn is causing me to grow to hate Her. I'm happiest when She's not around. Here's what She does: 1) I'm only as independent as She allows me to be. 2) She assumes all strange men will rape or try to sex traffick me because I'm vulnerable. 3) She refuses to leave me alone anywhere, even at home! 4) She often tries to control any potential romantic situation. So I am like Rapunzel being guarded by a witch. 5) She shoves Her Christian beliefs down my throat.

because my sister took the basement and my dad pulls me out and starts saying things like "What do you think you're doing? What kind of girl are you?" and "Have some pride." all because we closed the door... keep in mind we are usually in the basement (never checked up on) and theres also a guest room down there. And he used to let my ex and I close the door. I'm 18 and I feel he is being inconsistent.

Ever since i was very little my mother was very violent to me and my brother. She would beat us almost everyday very violently that times i felt like she was trying to kill us. Not only that but she always added verbal abuse. She has always said the most horrible things to me and my brother like she regrets having us and she hates our father, we're ungrateful etc etc anything you can think of. The beatings didnt happen to only us though. Even to all the men she's been with. Shes always been manipulative, controlling, and envious. Shes never supported me. She has rediculed everything i liked or said i wanted to do in the future. I never had any friends because she starts accusing me of having relationships with everyone i talked to. I dont go out either only when i work. She treats my two youngest siblings the best. She never hit them the way she did with me and my older brother. She praises their father even though shes the one who chased him off and never saw him again. Her verbal abuse causes me to fall into deep depressions and suicidal thoughts. I already attempted suicide when i was 16 because she would not stop the verbal abuse every single day. She tries to control every part of my life. I dont move out because i dont have any money. But i want to runaway as soon as i start saving from my new job and never come back. The problem is i dont want to leave behind my siblings..but i get suicidal when im around my mother..

Okay, so I live with my parents and siblings. My sister's room is basically off-limits as she yells at you if you come in there. My brother has his own room. I have literally part of a room. Okay, so I have a bed and a small dresser in part of the room (that was once a garage but was turned into a room) and there is a big TV in the room. But there's also a large treadmill, a large desk, a bookshelf, a movie case in the room. So the room I sleep in is basically like my room/the office/the playroom. And since my dad uses the desk for work a lot, and our game system is connected up onto that big TV (so the TV isn't even fully mine) and my brother plays on that game system a lot, I get no privacy, whatsoever! But yet, my sister can get away with yelling at someone if they step foot in her room. This room that I sleep in is also connected to a hallway that leads to the kitchen. And there is a door, but it cuts off the room and the hallway from the kitchen. AND my cat's litter box is in the hallway the room's connected to, so I'm stuck with the smell of the litter box all the time. Sometimes I get so angry that I can't have my own privacy, my own room, my own space, and I"m stuck with a litter box! Don't get me wrong, I'm VERY grateful I have a roof over my head, but why do my parents treat me so differently than my siblings? Why do my siblings get a whole room but I don't? I just feel so angry and sometimes even sad that I get treated so differently, and not in a good way. Plus, my sister was the one who REALLY wanted a cat. The cat likes her, hates me, and I'm stuck with a smelly litter box in the place I sleep in and an arm covered in scratches because of that cat, but yet my sister's room is literally off-limits to the cat. And they say I'm so lucky to have such a big TV in my room when I don't even have a room to myself! They don't know what it feels like to be in my position, and they never let me say how I feel.

I just received a group text from my brothers and sisters about the 7 of us getting together and taking another family portrait for our parents, including the 6 natural grandkids. It's been quite a few years since we took a group photo for them and at that time the youngest grandson was an arm baby. He's not about to start high school. Well, here's the problem. I married a girl with kids. So did one of my brothers and one of my sisters. Considering that this will only be the 7 siblings and 6 grandkids how should the step-grandkids feel about this. The reason I'm asking is I tend to know how my wife will think about this. Not only would she not be in any of the pics, but her sons wouldn't either. There are now even some step-great-grands who wouldn't be in the pics either. How do you handle this situation of do the steps just understand that they aren't natural / biological grands so they won't be in the pic?

I am the oldest of four children. Years ago hard times forced me to move back to my hometown. Since I have been back my father got ill and passed away. I DID everything! My siblings did next to nothing ( because they all live far away and I was right there, why couldn't I do it? Well I did! Problem is my sister in particular is the most SELFISH person I have ever seen. She has everything, money, big house married etc. I on the other hand am currently without a job, verge of losing my home etc. Yet when she calls with a problem and expects my mother to run down there and handle it she does. These are issues she should be able to handle on her own. I am by myself with a child and the only person I have is my mother and that's nothing because she often tries to work against me and pulls my child into it. Its not that I envy my sister or am angry about my situation its that I know she is being VERY selfish and I want to make it known to her that I know and want her to in some way acknowledge it The problem is not only that my sister does this behavior engages in this behavior she continues to make devisness in the family by insisting that holidays be held at her house because her kids have to have holidays in their OWN home. I do not go as she invites the family of brothers and sister in laws that for some reason cause problems with me. Who do I confront and hold accountable for this problem? I think its wrong and I do not think the problem is with me, but feels very wrong

My step-son, now 20, recently graduated from college (in Dec) with his associates degree in graphic design. He thinks he's going to be the next big thing in the G.D. world. He works part time at a sandwich shop which is only about 4 miles from our house. The problem is this. I told him that he's grown and needs a full time job making real money and can't hide under the "college kid" theory anymore of working part time while in school. His mom gave him one bill to pay which is the smallest one in the house and he has trouble paying that one. I told him that come April he would be responsible for $200 a month in rent and of course my wife isn't happy with that. She thinks we should just wait till he's up on his feet. Well, whenever he needs to go to work she tosses him her keys and he drives the 4 miles down the street to the sandwich shop. However, when she's low on gas she looks to me to put gas in her tank. I told her that if he can't afford to keep gas in her car since he's using it then he needed to find another way to work. Hell, it's just 4 miles, a straight shot from out house. My daughter, who's also 20 and still in college has a summer job and last summer she'd walk a mile to the closest bus stop, ride it uptown, catch a train to another bus stop then another bus to get to work. That's about 17 miles one way. However, my wife doesn't want her 20 year old son to walk 4 miles to and from work. I told her that when I was his age and out of college I took my first paycheck and bought myself a bike and rode to and from work that way until I saved up enough money to buy myself a car. Plus my parents required all of the adult kids to chip in financially around the house. He's old enough to go spend 2 or 3 nights a week at his girlfriend's place but can't keep gas in her car. That she asks me for. I drive her car maybe, MAYBE, once a month and that's only to move it in the driveway. But I'm suppose to keep gas in her car when she runs short. I told her she's spoiling him and not teaching him to be a responsible adult. And she usually argues back not to mention her son at all. Is he too good to ride a bike 4 miles? Hell, I rode my bike rain, sleet, snow, and sunshine cause I had to get to work. It didn't hurt or bother me and I don't think it will bother him.

My step-son, now 20, recently graduated from college (in Dec) with his associates degree in graphic design. He thinks he's going to be the next big thing in the G.D. world. He works part time at a sandwich shop which is only about 4 miles from our house. The problem is this. I told him that he's grown and needs a full time job making real money and can't hide under the "college kid" theory anymore of working part time while in school. His mom gave him one bill to pay which is the smallest one in the house and he has trouble paying that one. I told him that come April he would be responsible for $200 a month in rent and of course my wife isn't happy with that. She thinks we should just wait till he's up on his feet. Well, whenever he needs to go to work she tosses him her keys and he drives the 4 miles down the street to the sandwich shop. However, when she's low on gas she looks to me to put gas in her tank. I told her that if he can't afford to keep gas in her car since he's using it then he needed to find another way to work. Hell, it's just 4 miles, a straight shot from out house. My daughter, who's also 20 and still in college has a summer job and last summer she'd walk a mile to the closest bus stop, ride it uptown, catch a train to another bus stop then another bus to get to work. That's about 17 miles one way. However, my wife doesn't want her 20 year old son to walk 4 miles to and from work.

Ok well one day my mom body shamed me I know it's probably cause she's jealous she weighs over 200 pounds I weigh 150 pounds but she knows that my self esteem is so low she said something rude to me I could do the same to her there is much more she did I tried talking to her about it but she won't admit what she did wrong and I know it was in the past she hasn't been like that it was about a year ago but I had a dream of running away last night because of her my older brother is mean most of the time to but he's not as bad as my mom used to be it follows me around when I move out soon I don't know if I want to talk to her anymore unless she admits what she did and says sorry and means it.

I lived with my grandparents all of my life with my sister, My half brothers grew up with my stepdad and mom, Just until recently, my brother got out of highschool morphed became a very nasty bully, he has been out for years and his attitudes haven't changed. I blocked him on Facebook, and cut off from him, my family hates me for this and already told the his behavior but they fired at me saying 'if you have a issue with him then it's maybe you' 'there is nothing wrong with him at all! You are the problem!' And other nasty argument break out defending him. My half brother when he is anywhere with me, the whole people surrounded me gets angry at me and I really know that he is talking about me, He talks to me abusively and twists words and manipulates, and gets onto me all the time, When he is around my family his face changes and his behavior changes. Was it right for me to cut him completely out of my life? I feel better since I did!

The only two rules are don't break the law and no drugs. Everything else goes and when my brother was caught with marijuana our parents said it's OK it's pretty normal just under the dangerous stuff. Once were at the age of consent we can have sex with whoever we want whenever we want. Condoms are in the cabinet. You're free to bring porn and if we want and we can do absolutely whatever we want. We don't feel like going to school mom doesn't make us. Is it pretty normal and on my friends just conservative and that's why their parents have rolls?

In terms of freedom I mean things with parental supervision such as walking home from a school. I'm just wondering because I'm 12 and my doesn't let me do anything without supervision not even going to other people's houses when other adults are there I'm just wondering if me wanting more freedom is just me or if my moms standards are unreasonable. Just wondering so no hate comments.

Ok so I'm 12 years old and my mom is very overbearing. She is relaxed in terms of things done around her or in the house but she doesn't allow me to walk to school, roam around our neighborhood,go to shops,go to sleepovers,go to a friend's house,the mall, or walk the dog alone. She doesn't allow me to do anything outside her supervision. And it's not like I want to go places alone but with friends. Because of her being so scared my friends don't invite me anywhere anymore. They think I dislike them. She watched a lot of news and recently an 8 year old was kidnapped and escaped and she thinks it will happen to me. I am a little depressed and I NEED some time away from people sometimes. But she doesn't understand that. If she would just let me walk or ride the bus home that would make all the difference. She says she'll let me go to the movie theaters but SHE WILL WAIT OUTSIDE FOR TWO HOURS TIL I COME OUT. I've talked to my sister and she says that mom didn't let go of her til 19 when I was born. I asked her to allow me more freedom before and she says I'm only 12 but SHE TREATS ME LIKE AN ADULT AND CURSES AROUND ME WHILE TELLING ME ALL HER PROBLEMS SO IF I CAN HEAR ALL THIS WHY CANT I BE ALLOWED A LITTLE FREEDOM. She has a friend that was kidnapped and raped at 42nd street but this is a much safer time and she's suffocating me. My grandma let her walk from school and not go out alone but all I want is a little taste of freedom even if it is for one day. Pls help me...

I'm a 17 year old girl oldest of three I have two younger twin brothers they're 15 one night I came home from work while my parents were on vacation they share the same room I just went in to check on then and found them sleeping naked and cuddling on the same bed. I'm not sure if this is normal if not they're twins but they have separate beds it was just out in the open. I haven't say anything to them yet I feel kinda awkward being around them they both have girlfriends what should I do?

My dad works two jobs, a full time, and his own mechanics shop part time. So he's not home, and can't really help with my siblings, mom, or my siblings schoolwork (homeschooled), etc. My mom has depression, (likely from hypothyroidism, but depression non the less), and has chronic back pain that can't be helped much by pain meds. So, understandably, she's in bed a lot. I wouldn't have a problem with this, but she doesn't keep up on my (3, younger than me, aged 9, 11, and 15) siblings, when it comes to chores, making sure they pick up after themselves, their schoolwork, etc. The breaking point was when, after we ran out of drinking water the night before last, my mom still hadn't gotten any. So I had to get it, at 10pm, after driving an hour home. I don't mind getting it, helping out, etc. I really don't. But I go to college full time, I'm 17, there's only so much I can do. I can't help all three of my siblings out with their schoolwork. I don't have the time or ability to make lesson plans. I can get on them about chores, and the like, but all they need to do is ignore me, and then that's where it ends, because I can't discipline them, or be "Mom" because then I get yelled at for it. By mom. I want to help my mom and family out as much as possible. But it's not my place to tell my mom what to do. But at the same time, she needs someone to. So I don't know what to do. Any realistic ideas? I'd like to keep my family safe and together.

Me and my wife already had a daughter. It was on purpose but took like 4 years of continuous sex. Well she went off her pill I found out after doing her for a month and I found out because I found a full container and we are at the end of the month plus we share a joint checking for expenses and no money went out at the end of February for the pharmacy she goes. She said she wanted another baby. I said hell no. I wasn't about an abortion before but I'm full on about it now. So I want to get laid all the time now what? It's either I use condoms like we were dating, I do pull outs or if I do either one she knows that I'm not trying to get her pregnant. If I mention I want to get fixed knowing her I am selfish and she won't give me any at all. She compromises on many things for me but I know she wants another baby. Should I get fixed behind her back? I'll just say I have a business trip for a week or something and stay in a local hotel. I don't want to piss her off and I just want sex.

Okay first off I want to say I love my step daughter to death. I have no kids of my own, so she is pretty much my world. We have a good relationship for the most part, but sometimes after coming back from her father's house. She has this racial stigma towards me as a black man. By the way her mother is Puerto Rican and her father is white .Yesterday her mother was discipling her while I was driving her and I chimed in. She didn't reply to anything her mother said, but as soon as I said something she said ,"Stay out of this." I then asked her, "Why?" She followed with ,"Because it's none of your buisness ." I asked her why is wasnt any of my buisness . She then said because I'm not like her mom. I asked her what does she mean by that. I expected her to say something along the lines of saying I'm not her real dad. But no she said because I'm black and I'm not like them. This was completely heart breaking to me and it has bothered me ever since . I love her to death and I would die for this little girl. How could she feel this way when it seems as if we get along so well? My wife talked to her father and he denied teaching that to her. But he said he thinks our relationship is morally wrong because I'm black and he will tell her that if she ask. So yahoo, how would you handle this? Should I talk to her? Should I just let her mom handle it? Or should I just ignore it because she is 5 and she doesnt know any better .

I am a 17 year old girl my "sister" (it's hard for me to even call her that) is 30 years old. She went through my phone and found text messages between my friends and I. The text messages revealed that I am bi and liked girls. She then called me, questioned me about it, told my mother, told her friends, used the word "Dyke" all of the above. I literally hate her and I want nothing to do with her. It just seems like she's jealous of me, and goes out of her way to try to tear me down.

I am 30 and I cave to my parents like a ten year old. I am very anxious when in conflict with people. For example last Christmas my parents went to Florida to avoid my mom's family. I wanted to stay home as I like her family. My parents objected so I caved and had a miserable Christmas. My siblings,two of them, fight all the time as teens with our parents and the girl still does at 22. So how do I handle conflict and standing up for myself as an adult? It often involves family relationships my parents try to stop me from having due to their grudges.

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I need adult opinions on this. If a kid is too sick to go to school, does that mean they are to sick to have a phone or to watch tv?

I'm 17 right now and my mom suffers from PMDD so because of this my step dad and my mom fight a lot. Lots of times they get very explicit and my mom may pack her bags and leave for days or say she wants to die what should I do my brothers are only 7 and 9

A lil background: My daughter s dad has 2 daughters from a relationship he was in before we were together. Those 2 kids are now in foster care. My daughter has had no contact with her sisters in 4 months. The only way she used to see them was when she was with her father on Saturdays (he gets to keep her sisters every Saturday for a few hours). My daughter s dad has not been consistently active in her life. He has went 2 consecutive years with absolutely no contact with her (she s 7 years old). In those 2 years, my daughter also had no contact with her sisters. It has now been 4 months since we ve last heard from my daughter s dad (which is why she s also had no contact with her siblings in that same time). Even if my daughter s dad doesn t want to be a father to my daughter, it would break my heart for her not to be part of her sister s lives. Besides me, they are really all she has, Is there anything I can do to get visitations for my daughter and her sisters? Please help. I ve been searching all over the internet and can t find any answers.

Bear with me as this will be lengthy. I'm 22 and my older sister is 3 years old than me. When we were kids we got along pretty well and shared everything. When we got older however, things went south. We both went through a terrible experience and left together. She started seeing this guy during the terrible time even though all he cared about was having sex with her. She stopped seeing him when we moved but remained in contact with him even though it was a bad relationship. I kept to my own life and said nothing about it. I met my husband, who was my boyfriend at the time and spent a lot of time with him. Since she was alone, she wanted my attention all the time, but I was getting to know my then boyfriend. I guess she got tired of me spending more time with him. We moved back to where we grew up, though in a different house. She started sneaking around with the same guy from before having lots of sex with him. One day, she comes to me in tears that she was pregnant and I, having the big heart that I always had for her, was willing to be there for her and her baby whether or not the father wanted to be there. I knew eventually the guy would leave her but she didnt believe me no matter what I said. She moved out of the house as if she were escaping a warden to live with the father and his family. I took that in stride, though I wasnt sure what she was doing. I end up on a phone call in which the father started flying off the handle over something small. my fiance at this point and I decided we would go there and grab her baby and her to live with us. She lived with us for a long while, and a year later the father took off never to be heard from again. When her daughter was barely two, she was all over the place sleeping with different guys and basically being reckless as she could be. She started telling her friends on facebook things about me that wasn't true and getting angry at me when I would try to ask why she was being so promiscuous She started hiding even more from me and I knew less and less about her life. I should have mentioned our mother left us when we were tiny children so I was surprised one day when I end up getting a message from her on facebook and my aunt. She talked about wanting to catch up and make things right. I wasnt going to contact her back but I did tell my sister about it. I said she could make the decision she wanted. She said she didnt want to talk to her either. With the way my sister was so shady about her personal life, one day I noticed her facebook was open on the kitchen table and I know I shouldnt have looked at her messages but I did. What I found made me really upset and I cried a lot. She had contacted our mother without me and they had this long conversation. My aunt and mother had requested a current picture of me and without my permission, she gave it to them. Then they talked about how she looked more like her mother and her mother was so beautiful. That I looked more like our father and how pretty my sister was. I felt so awful about myself and was extremely hurt that she went behind my back with this. Eventually I forgave her, but I gave her hell for doing all that without telling me. This is not all. After I had gotten married, she found this nerdy electric technician about her age that became her boyfriend. My sister started sharing custody of her daughter with the father's family and had it so she had her daughter 2 1/2 days and his family the rest of the week. This was so she could spend lots of time with her new boyfriend. Her daughter was only 2 years old so thats a crazy amount of splitting houses for that age. But I could only say that and I knew she wouldnt listen to me. I noticed she was getting tired of me helping her or suggesting things to her and we started getting into lots of fights. She shut me out even further out of her life so I had no idea what was going on. she is so good at telling people half a story and twisting the rest of it with lies so she fed her boyfriend a lot of untrue things about me, how I like to tell her what to do and she cant be free around me. He started receiving a negative opinion of me and because I couldnt be there to defend myself, his opinion got worse. I struggled to keep her in my life and her daughter because I love them so much. It seemed the more I did that, the more she pushed me away. We had a fight through texts she is so good at telling people half a story and twisting the rest of it with lies so she fed her boyfriend a lot of untrue things about me, how I like to tell her what to do and she cant be free around me. He started receiving a negative opinion of me and because I couldnt be there to defend myself, his opinion got worse. I struggled to keep her in my life and her daughter because I love them so much. It seemed the more I did that, the more she pushed me away. We had a fight through texts she is so good at telling people half a story and twisting the rest of it with lies so she fed her boyfriend a lot of untrue things about me, how I like to tell her what to do and she cant be free around me. He started receiving a negative opinion of me and because I couldnt be there to defend myself, his opinion got worse. I struggled to keep her in my life and her daughter because I love them so much. It seemed the more I did that, the more she pushed me away. We had a fight through texts and her boyfriends mother from out of nowhere texts me from my sisters phone and curses me out and says awful things about me. I was shocked that people I didnt even know had such awful perception of me. Through every way she back stabbed me, I forgave her over and over again. Today was the very last straw for me. I had taken her daughter this weekend because my sister was sick and I wanted to see her anyway. I took good care of her daughter and gave her the medicine she needed because she was sick too. When I had picked up her daughter, I told my sister i'd try to drop her daughter off at the same time I was picking her up. Try obviously meaning no guarantees. She agreed and I left. Today was the drop off day. My husband said he needed to run out and do a couple of errands and because he drives and I do not, whenever he said thats when we would be leaving. I called my sister to tell her that my husband wanted to head out and he'd probably be able swing by her place around 1pm. She said in a snotty voice that she was shopping right then and I could hear her boyfriend talking frantically in the background. I could barely make anything out. I told her, I'm sorry, but my husband and I can't just drive around until you decide to come home and stop shopping. Another fact, is she hadnt texted me to let me know she would be out the same day, because last I knew she was sick. Her boyfriend muttered something which I made out as hanging up on me and that they would tell me what time, as if my life revolved around theirs. He snatched the phone from her and hung up on me. I called back 7 times, full of disbelief at what had happened. Finally she picked up and said yes? in a rude way. so I asked why he hung up on me. She started lying to me and said he didnt. I argued otherwise and out of no where her boyfriend who I wasnt talking to explodes in the background starts cursing me out and telling me that I need to make set times which is extremely impossible with my husbands schedule and the fact that I dont drive. Plus, plans change sometimes you just cant do that. after I said this, i said let me speak to my sister and he refused that. He said I had to talk to him now or not at all. I hung up because I wasnt dealing with drama on the phone. He called my phone and left a message saying in a calm voice, like he hadnt such yelled and swore at me and said I could drop her daughter off at 1 and they would be there. If I was 5 mins late, that he would blow up my phone and harass me. My husband took us there and there was a giant entourage there, her boyfriend his 4 friends dressed to intimidate and her boyfriends mother. I ignored them all, handed my niece to my sister and then his mother started trying to attack me. I ignored her and shut my door. My husband drove off and as we went down the street, her boyfriend was barreling down the street toward our car. My husband stopped the car to find out what was up. He rolled down his window a bit and her boyfriend gets close to me husbands face and says "choke me!" as if my husband had threatened him in anyway. Then a green car full of his 4 friends cut in front of our car and block us from leaving between a snow bank and the curb. They got out and asked him if hes alright like we did something bad. He waved to say he was fine. Then proceeded to talk to my husband like I wasnt even there in a calm voice again about how we have to do things a certain way with timing and plans and then he said hes not talking to me because hes trying to be civil even if the person he hates isnt going to, meaning me. Then his mother walked up beside him and started chastising me through the window. Then she said we need to talk everything out and and dont I love my neice? I told her I had no interest in talking to either one of them because everyone is acting crazy. She said she had my sisters best interests and her daughters but I knew I had to work around their lives and their schedules and take her daughter whenever my sister needed a break so they could do things with her because I dont love my neice unless I let my sister use me. Thats the thing about her. I cant watch my own neice unless my sister has things planned and doesnt want her daughter to ruin them for her. She has done so much awful things in my life and I know this is so long but this isnt even half the story. I need serious advice They just walked away from the car and we drove off. My sister sent texts when we left saying I was completely in the wrong and that I caused the whole thing. All I ever did early today was tell her that I could only drop off her daughter at 1 pm. I just want her out of my life, which I never felt before. Im tired of being hurt by her and her crazy life. should i just let her go?

My mom has also never been able to actually raise me (like I've never lived with her) and that what also makes me worried that she gave birth to me and never got the chance to raise her own child. Btw I'm 13

I grew up pretty sheltered and with strict parents . I'm now 19 and I live at home and go to school. I just want to travel the world . I want to improve my social skills but daily I feel like there's just no getting out of my shyness, afraid to let my parents down.But I want to experience life . My parents threatened to kick me out if I travel out. I need advice . I feel trapped.

I believe in the beauty of nature and want my daughter to be connected. What are pretty flower/plant names for a baby girl? Lotus? Daisy? Sunflower? Dandelion? Daffodil? Oak? Coconut? Strawberry? (instead of Apple) Berry? (instead of Barry) Pine?

I've never realized how poorly I've treated my mother... I always just thought she was "crazy" which she is, but is no excuse to treat her like I have the past few years, I'm 16, and for some odd reason I've just realized how arrogant, rude, and angry I've been toward my mom. I never talk to her really, in fear of an argument, it's hard to explain this situation, just I don't think I can make up with her. She said she's done with me, and can't wait till I graduate and go to college, I feel terrible... again, how can I make things better, I feel terrible.

So, here s the deal: I m homeschooled and I have my exams printed out. I just started tenth grade and I m taking longer with my tests. My ma just started working again(she had my baby sister a few months ago) so she s really stressed and I m worried that if she finds out that I haven t finished my exams, she ll freak out and get mad and scare little Lizzie. Help?

My dad just turned 40 last June. He's pretty friendly for the most part, I guess. He's really, really into consipracy theories, mainly with the government. He also believes strongly in witchcraft and spirits. (He claimed he had been interested in witchcraft ever since he was a teenager?) Anyway, I noticed that he is super weird. One day, my friend and I were eating lunc and noticed something wrong with the radio. We told my dad and he said it was "trying to brainwash us," in short terms. A few years ago, he thought that the government was going to take me away and that they're locking up "people who know more." I'm not sure if it has gotten worse over the past 7 or so years, or of I just noticed it until now. He claimed that he has had depression in the past, but that's it. Any opinions?

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So my sister always getting in my business and constanly checking my phone and stuff but when I check up on her or say who she texting she gets so rude and say it none of my business. When they give me attidue and I give it back or roll my eyes its like Im the world most attitude girl and they get so mad and tell me all this stuff. I talk to my parent and they sad its fine for me to defend myself but when I do my sister always tell me to not talk back to show more respect or Im your oldest sister, watch your mouth. What should I do? Any advice? btw I'm 15 and the youngest of my sibling.