Family: Question: My aunt likes to hold grudges and does not like her daughter and my mom. What do I say when people ask me not to be nice to her?

Question: My aunt likes to hold grudges and does not like her daughter and my mom. What do I say when people ask me not to be nice to her?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 02:21 PM PDT

My parents are hopeful that I will have nothing to do with the aunt unless I have no choice like a wedding or a funeral. I prefer to see her a few times a year and be pleasant even though I agree she's one to be bitter. So how do I respond when my parents get angry that I associate with her? Like they see that I have her on Facebook. The aunt lives 10 minutes away so it would be weird never to speak to her again other then weddings or funerals. The main issue is my parents feel she is picking favorites among her children by disliking one daughter and praising another daughter with the son left as the "other one".

Question: My 25 year old daughter is renting a room in NYC from a 49 year old man who also lives in the 2 bedroom apartment, just the two of them?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 02:12 PM PDT

I don t like this & it keeps me up at night, how can I convince her to move. She is only paying $900 which for NYC is cheap but I know she can find better elsewhere. I did meet her "roommate" he seems to be a loaner, down on his luck & needing extra money. No, there s nothing romantic going on between them but he may want to pursue her. Please give me the right words to say.

Question: And my sisters and me and him and banquet find some gardener?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 02:10 PM PDT

Question: I cant stand mom. (sorry this took too long.)?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 01:43 PM PDT

Theres a huge generation gap. Im 17 and shes 54. Since im not over 18 i cant move out but shes suffocating me. I talked about this to dad, with whom i have a better relationship - im a girl by the way. Hes afraid of mom himself! And hes 58!!! Unbelievable but this is my life. Moms so angry ALL THE TIME. i think thats due to her job partly. Im a teenager but im WAY calmer. She looks after my cousins and even though she earns much from it, the children are so naughty - one of which is 4 years old. One of which is 1 year old. She looks after them and apparently she loves them more than her own daughter but that's not the problem. Trust me i don't need her love. I just want some space! I said im a calm person. Seriously my life's about internet and a peaceful inner world. I love nature and all, im a geeky person you see. You can hardly fight me. But since moms a crazy woman, she fights me every day. Im writing this after our last fight. I have pimples on my head unfortunately. Its a recurring thing. Ive head them since i was 5 or something. Since im her daughter, she feels she's responsible for my illness. Maybe shes eight2but does she have to do that by telling me, a teenager girl to SHAVE HER HEAD?! when she said that dad didnt care about it for he didnt take her seriously methinks. But im afraid of that crazy woman who might cut my hair while i sleep! Then you may ask, why dont i tell all these to a psychologist or something. She WONT accept to see one, trust me. Maybe she's *right but

Question: Is my dad spying on me naked or something?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 01:41 PM PDT

he knows about the mole i have at the top of my azz crack. its almost in the crack. im starting to think hes gay for me

Question: I keep inviting my sister and husband for dinner and she does not ask me back or just rarely?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 01:23 PM PDT

Question: Family Issue Advice?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:53 PM PDT

I believe that my mom is a good person and has a good heart. However, I'm just really feeling confused about things along with feeling that I don't know how long I can continue to deal with her and the negativity she brings in my life. I've never really gotten along with my mom since I was diagnosed with Autism when was in young child in school. She had a lot of realistic expectations for me and she would sometimes get verbally abusive when it came to homework. My dad eventually told the school to stop sending stuff home with me because it got so bad. I've had many negative years with her all through school. It hasn't been since my first year of college that she's been somewhat better. She still hasn't really change and I think she has borderline personality disorder. I can't really move out because I'm getting services for learning disability and I'm kind of stuck. I have to admit that I'm very logical and rational and she's very very sensitive and non-rational and over dramatizes things. I probably I have to live at home for another year and I've told her twice in the past that I've not wanted her in my life when I get older and she has said before she won't let that happen. We've had a long negative history where I've been blamed for ruining many birthdays and holidays, for which my dad thought the complete opposite and thought that she was making a big composion over everything. She's moved on, but I haven't. My therapist thinks I have PTSD. I haven't moved on. Help me.

Question: I'm failing in school and my parents are just making it worse?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:53 PM PDT

It started with one C, I used to get A's and maybe one or two B's. My parents yelled at me and started taking things away from me (internet, my phone, etc) They yell at me all the time now because I'm failing grammar and algebra, and it doesn't help at all. I try my hardest but instead of studying I have to sit around and take them calling me stupid and lazy. Then after that I don't even want to study I just want to lay in bed and cry. So I rarely get my homework done. It doesn't help that they take away my internet all the time so I can't use anything online to help me study or research for a paper or email my teacher for help. Whenever I say I need to research things online they say I'm lying and I just want to play video games. I've tried talking to them but they just call me a liar and say that they're in charge so they know what's best. I feel depressed and overwhelmed all the time. Idk what to do. When I do study my dad has the tv volume all the way up and my little sisters are running around the house being loud. I never get any sleep because my dad stays up until like 1 am watching tv and I have to get up at 6 am at least. I hate my life and there's nothing I can do about it. My parents won't listen to me no matter what. I'm in 10th grade btw

Question: Moving out under aged.?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:49 PM PDT

I am 14 and need to get out of my house. My parents are very nosy and give me no privacy. I don't ever go to places cause I'm not allowed to even though I'm a good student and never got in police custody. I need to move out to some kind of studio apartment. But since I'm not of legal age to work, I'll need to do something else. I know I can run away, but that's risky and I'll have even less privacy then I have now. So any suggestions

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:49 PM PDT

I just got home from picking up my daughter at school. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and left my shoes at home.

Question: What does she is bigger than him mean? Size or growth and is it a compliment to say a woman is big or does it imply the women is too big?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:44 PM PDT

When I hear big I think of oversized cars, houses, egos and excess. What is the meaning of big?

Question: How can I go to the doctor and get a prescription without my parents finding out?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:43 PM PDT

I am 19 years old and moved out of my parents house but my insurance, mail, and everything else is still linked to my parents. Growing up my parents were always super strict about medicine that I take because I have an older brother that abused drugs and it essentially ruined his life. I have been tested and I do qualify for ADHD medicine (Vyvanse), but they still do not allow me to take it because of my brother's situation, even though it is something I need being in college. My question: Is there a way for me to get the prescription I need without my parents finding out? If so, how?

Question: I accidentally went to a gay bathhouse with my father-in-law. How can I overcome this?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:19 AM PDT

Question: I was sexually abuses by my "friend" and now it is causing current problems?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:14 AM PDT

Some details about me, I'm a boy and I'm 15 So I don't want this to be too long but please read it all before you answer because I really need help It all started when my Dad was deported (7 years ago) now this doesn't really have nothing to do with it, but my Dad was always there for me and he knew what was best for me. He didn't let me hang around certain people for reason, so since he left things became problems. I was 8 when this happened, I am currently 15 right now. Well as I said my dad couldn't be with me anymore and my mom was working a lot. So my sister was the only one home with me. My sister was 21 at the time this happened. Well I started hanging out with people who were 13 and I was only 8 at the time but they were the only kids around the apartment complex so I just tried to deal with what I had. So this one friend that I had kinda scares me, like he forces me to do some things but like I said I just hang out with them because my little kid mind thought they were my friends. He even made me roll in the green and I ended up with two leaches on my leg and then they ran home and I had to pull them off and I started bleeding (he said if I didn't do it he and his brother would beat me up so I did) One day he forced me to do sexual acts (threaten to tell and beat me up if I didn't) so I did every other day with him and now I feel like (the abused becoming the abuser) Now I want to kill myself. I was looking for the monster under my bed but I seem to be the monster

Question: My mom says her sister is a narcissist but how do I get her to say that my sister is also a narcissist?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:03 AM PDT

Question: When my sister bullies me how can I lash out in A way that she will be terrified andnever do it again?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 11:03 AM PDT

Question: My sister is a mean person how do I filter that she might have a good side also stead of just filtering the bad things about her?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:36 AM PDT

Question: How do I get my uncle not to drown me or eat me if I see him this weekend?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:28 AM PDT

I've asked questions on here before as this is the uncle that I'm scared of. The one who used to tease me as a kid

Question: Is it better to be a right fighter or to be happy?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:26 AM PDT

For example let's say I have a kid one day and the kid is an adult and won't speak to me. Let's say the kid blames me for their divorce. I can apologize even though I didn't do anything wrong or I could be a right fighter and say hey I wasn't the one in the marriage. Which is better right fighter or happy?

Question: Does it bother you that people (especially kids) are obsessed with technology?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 10:21 AM PDT

i hate how people are obsessed with technology now a days! I even got obsessed with technology for a while, but i am trying to hard to change, i don't want to live this kind of life. In the 1950's and decades like that everybody was so life like, it was adorable. Even when I was growing up in the 1970's people were still life like, In my house I life with my husband, my 2 daughters and my niece lives with us and our house is very very quiet, no one really talks to each other. The only sound in our house is keyboard typing, mouse clicking, and that noise when you plug in an iPhone to charge it, everybody is in their bed under the blankets on their phones, I constantly go in their rooms and see them under the blanket and I see a light coming from the blanket, their screen. I am not the ones who bought them these phones, my husband did and I was mad about it. It's becoming too much, I really wish my children were growing up in like the 1970's when I grew up or something, they are social media obsessed kids, they depend on technology for everything. I constantly cry because of what is happening,, it seems that everyone is with technology now, even when I go to a super market or something I see kids on phones. My niece is only 4 years old and her mother bought her the new iPhone 7 for her birthday back in January.I wish I was born in like 1895 so I would have been dead already.Does anyone else feel this?Does anyone else hate modern technology? Modern world is so boring and stupid.

Question: At what age should you tell child about their dad not being biological father?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:22 AM PDT

Question: Fun and easy family recipes?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:19 AM PDT

Techinally family of 6 yet one member is a baby so won't be eating with us. Allergies are peanuts, cherries, and blueberries. Two elementary school girls and a high school teen girl. The family as a whole is open to all types of food. Veggies not much of an issue yet broccoli isn't a favorite. We are a latino family that loves seafood. Would be for dinner of course since school and work.Leftovers not an issue either. Thanks in advanced.

Question: My parents owned a home and...?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:18 AM PDT

my mom passed away 4 years ago. My father and I haven't been talking at all only when he drops off my daughters birthday and Christmas gift. He remarried 2 years ago. My question is can I fight my father in court for the house.

Question: Do you think family has to know about your friends or about who you are dating?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 09:05 AM PDT

My parents are always saying how people should always let others know who they are dating. Just in case something happens to them. For example I have a friend who lives in another state. He and I met online but I've seen him in personal several times. They don't know about him at all and I actually have to sneak to see him. Being as though I still live at home I have to put up with them yet I'm almost 30 years old. They are always going on and on about how I should let them know about my friends etc. Now my dad found out that his sister has been dating someone for 2 years but she hasn't introduced the guy to the family (she's almost 40). And now my dad is going on about how he wants to meet the guy.

Question: Did I overreact? Or do I have a right to be upset?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:51 AM PDT

My aunt is like a second mother to me. She is one of my best friends and we are very very close. I recently graduated from college (about a week ago) and she told me that she'd take me out to celebrate/go out to dinner on Friday to celebrate the big occasion. Today, I texted her told her that I'll be over on that side of town a bit earlier than I thought and asked her if it would be okay if I came over to her house in the afternoon and then we went out to celebrate afterwards? Right now, my aunt is on spring break vacation and she is having a terrible time. Therefore, she responded back, "We are coming home on Wednesday night. I am having a really miserable time on this vacation. And when I get back, all I want to do is relax, be in my own home, and work in the garden. You and I will have to celebrate another time." I asked her if I could come over to her house just to be with her (I want to see her) and she did not reply. Instead of being compassionate, I got very upset. My aunt is one of those people who "never relaxes" -- she's a busy body and always needs to do something. She'll probably go out with other friends. I basically told her that she must have something against me and doesn't want to see me to make such a bold statement. I know if I were having a miserable time somewhere, I'd die to come home and do something fun. I'm working during my spring break. Then, she got all mad at me and told me that she isn't going to take my rudeness. She blocked my number.

Question: So my sister and I were watching TV in the dark and one thing led to another and we had anal sex. Is this wrong? Should we tell our parents?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 08:25 AM PDT

Question: How to be a parent?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:48 AM PDT

Due to the loss of our mother, I have now become my little brother's guardian. What are some parenting tips? I'm not only his sister anymore... I'm 27 and he's 11.

Question: Please help Custody issues with bad grandparents?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 07:26 AM PDT

When me and her met she was on hud for single mothers we decided we wanted to try and make a life for ourselves and had an agreement with her mom to have her son staying with them temp. Well they had us meet up with them at a chilis near town. They had her sign temporary custody papers to get him enrolled in school and another paper saying when she lived in a place for a year she could get him back. She was served papers saying she had a history of abandoning her child and he lived with grandpnts 9 out of 10 years of his life. My wife and her son where living in the same complex for 3 years and he was attending school there with no disruptions... My wife and him lived with her mother and step dad a few times. My wife works at a day care with 2 year olds going on 7 months now.. she is currently 6 months pregnant I work at a boiler production plant My question is where do I start with all this. good resources or helpful information is definitely appreciated I'm also worried about them paying people like a private investigator to follow or harm us.they invested that kind of money when she was on the bottom to hurt her and how her mom pays for everything her sister has They admitted to hitting my wife and her mom said somethings can't be fixed... So what you hit her and take her rights? I'm disgusted and afraid of these people and we have considered moving out of state in fear of our lives and the safety of our soon to be baby. Couldn't fit every detail in sorry it gets worse

Question: Hi I sent a Card to a WWE Supper star last Week how can I find out if they got it or will they write me I live in Marlboro ny?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 06:30 AM PDT

Question: How do I tell unsupportive parents about my engagement?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 05:54 AM PDT

I m 23 years old, just got into the graduate program of my dreams and I m sure my partner of 2 years will soon ask me to marry him. He s supporting, loving, kind and everything I ve ever prayed for in a future husband. I m excited beyond belief for this, but I m also dreading it. My parents are very "traditional" and have never bothered to get to know him. They have said horrible things like "we will disown you if you choose a life with him" or "if you join his family you will no longer be apart of ours". They ve complained about everything about him, from his family s lower middle class status, to his race, to how he s holding me back in life, and just completely ignore all the amazing things he is accomplishing and how happy he makes me. I love my family and I don t want to leave them out of the loop or find out on Facebook when I get engaged. Does anyone have advice on what to say to them? Thank you

Question: Preteen wants to go live with her dad, no rules? Help?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 05:39 AM PDT

My 12 year old threatened to run away this weekend to her fathers house. She was mad because I grounded her for hiding homework, did not let her play with the kids who were outside, and she started a fight. She told me dad bought her a brand new puppy even though she has D's and F's and he has not taken away any electronics. She said she is running away to his house. I asked her how since she has no cell phone and she told me she will sneak out when I am not looking and use the neighbors phone. I had to sleep in front of the door. I contacted her father since I figured he would help take my side. He told me he will pick her up immediately which is EXACTLY the problem. I expected support but he wanted to "rescue" her instead. There are no rules and no chores at his house. We have a custody agreement. He tries to win her over with electronics and a new puppy so she will want to live there and it is working. She hates me. What can I do?

Question: Why does my Muslim family like to insult each other?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 05:21 AM PDT

My mom calls me and my sister whores, assholes, and to my aunts too. My aunt used to hit me, my sister, and my mom and mom hit her back. All the women in our family wears hijab and we are Lebanese.... My uncle hits and insults me, mom, and his wife and kids. But why do Arabs like to communicate by insulting? What does Allah say about treating each other? They think insulting is normal...

Question: Caught masturbating, help!!?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 04:08 AM PDT

I am a girl, and when I was doing that, my parents entered my room. I had forgotten to lock the door. Now it's getting awkward...

Question: Theres a certain mother and daughter I want to sleep with- how do I get the father out of the way?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 02:45 AM PDT

Question: My Sister's Room is Disgusting!?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 02:28 AM PDT

My sister is 17, and in a few months she is going to uni. Today I was home alone, sick, and I decided to do some snooping in her room because I had lost some clothes and I was sure she had them. I went in, and opened her closet. I was so disgusted. She has a large closet divided in three parts. The first one was full of dirty and used towels (and my family was wondering why they were disappearing!). Throughout her room was so much used Tupperware and old rotten food. She also had many clothes of mine, and I found my underwear that had **** stains all over it that was thrown at the back of the closet! One part of her closet smelled so bad when I opened it I felt like vomiting (also because I'm sick). She has a jar of expired Piccadilly on top of a pile of dirty clothes and towels! Basically, a gross mess of used towels, dirty clothes, used Tupperware and rotten food. (Also I found a plastic bag that looked like it was full of ****?! Hopefully just chocolate...) My problem is that this is not normal behaviour, but I can't confront her! My sister and I are not close, and she barely lets her friends go in her room, let alone me! She would be so angry to find out that I went through her stuff, and would probably ruin the last months we have living together. I can't tell my parents, because they would be annoyed at me for going into her room. Her behaviour needs to stop, but I don't know how to help her stop it. Advice please? Also she also has a small drawer which she recently told me that she hadn't opened it in 3 year, and I found a disgusting lunch box she had years and years ago, with such smelly and rotten food!!!! Also she also has a small drawer which she recently told me that she hadn't opened it in 3 year, and I found a disgusting lunch box she had years and years ago, with such smelly and rotten food!!!!

Question: Is My Dad Over Reacting or does he have a right to be upset?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:44 AM PDT

So I just said the beer he likes is nasty and he got all offended because of that and started being rude to me then I tried apologizing and he said to not bother to say sorry like it's my fault I don't like that type of beer or is it my fault?

Question: How do I convince my mother to take him to her home?

Posted: 28 Mar 2017 12:20 AM PDT

I'm a 20 year old male and I'm suffering from spinal cord injury my whole body is paralyzed expecting my neck I can only move my neck, head and jaw I type and text using a special voice recording app on my phone which converts voice to text and I use a long pen to scroll on the screen my parents are going to get divorced and it's true that I'm an adult but I can't live independently so I need to live with one of my parents my dad wants to keep me but I want to live with my mom my mom doesn't want me although she has taken care of me more than my dad why doesn't she want to take me to her home I want her to be next to me I hole the pen with my mouth Hold

Question: How to stop laughing?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 11:13 PM PDT

So my grandfather died last week from HIV, and everyones reaction was hilarious, my entire family was crying like little b.tches and I couldn't stop laughing at their crying faces, and then when people walked over to his casket to greive him, i called them pussy *** crybabies. any way, im nearly out of breath because I laughed so hard at my family members crying over my dead grandpa. The way he died was so funny as well

Question: I cant handle my rude stepdaughter who hates my kids plz read?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 10:47 PM PDT

My step daughter lizzie she is 14 i have a 6yr old adopted daughter her name is abby and a 13 yr old girl who is mine her name is nicki lizzie she will throw things curse out,bully,my kids, and yell disobey and lie steal to me she is bullying my 13yr old calling her a hoe and b!$# and more stuff she breaks abbys favorite toys she litreally throws them down when i try to ground her she starts screaming and cursing me out she gets eveeything she wants her dad whois my husbrnd gives her 1500$ a week she watches things she shouldrnt be watchin in front of abby once i saw her and her bf making out she was taking off her blouse i told him to get out i was so mad at her she started crying and saying i ruin everything,she got nicki and started bullying her with her friends so badly nicki ran out of tears and today i caught her in my purse looking for my car keys she rolled her eyes and went to her room and pushed abby down i cant handle her anymore her dad tries to get her to be better she wont let us help shes such a spoilt brat and yea i just dont know what to do any suggjestions avalible

Question: My brothers heartless, and is cutting family away. Why?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 10:37 PM PDT

We both came from a tough childhood, mom wasn't there and gambled a lot, dad was drunk all the time and would sometimes become violent. I've done everything i could to keep the family connected, i love my dad and my mother despite their flaws. I understand he had it harder since he lived with my dad and sometimes got injured but hes being selfish. Its not like our father didnt have it hard in life too, but he only thinks of himself. He doesn't even try to talk to me, he just cut everyone out, i suffered to but i didn't abandon the family like a coward. Its like he thinks hes better than us, even though hes stonehearted. Even when he was a kid he was cold, i didn't even do anything bad to him yet hes cutting me out? I feel like he loves his girlfriend more than his family too which is even sadder.

Question: 18th Birthday candy card, with only a few candies?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 10:11 PM PDT

It's for a family member who CAN be sweet, but she's given her immediate family so much grief, and eventually she chose to move into someone else's family. She's turning 18, and I already have my gift picked out. Still, I thought a small candy card would be much more fun than another greeting card throw-away. What can I say on it, so I can keep it down to about 3-5 candies? (The Sweetarts will still work for her.)

Question: I am 24 years old and my mother is upset wih me for marrying the love of my life. She secretly hates me?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 09:37 PM PDT

My mother and brother made a once in a blue moon visit to my house yesterday and usually I have to drive out to see her but she got a new car so she came to see me and my son. When she got here she seen my marriage license hanging on the wall asked me what it was and said she would tell my brother who is actually younger than me so of course she was out to humiliate me because she hates me. She told me a few month back that if I marry my now husband that she would be through with me. So now that I have married him she has told everyone and is now talking bad about me behind my back and this breaks my heart sooo much. I wanted to keep our marriage private for this very reason people Wont allow you to be happy like my mom who is always trying to paint me as a pure f##k up. ): nothing that I do is right to her and all of my other siblings are better than me.. Now that she has told my brother I'm married he sent me two messages saying LOL LOL like laughing at me and I know why. Now he's going to tell my whole family and now I will be talked about so badly.. I love my mother there's not a holiday that I miss without getting her something I even get her stuff on Valentine's Day.. And every time my brother is short on money I bring him food or lunch out of the kindness of my heart but it's not the same for them they always leave me out or paint me to be a bad mother,sister,daughter . But I try I really do

Question: Should I tell my mom that my sister has a secret boyfriend?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 09:18 PM PDT

My sis is almost 15 and she told my parents she was going for a walk. About a while later they made me go outside too because they said I needed to get fresh air. I saw my sister with some guy who looked like a high school kid and he called her babygirl and they kissed each other then laughed. So I assumed she has a boyfriend? She has high functioning autism but she barely shows much symptoms anymore. I know I shouldn't ruin her relationships with other people after shes worked so hard to develop those skills back a few years ago. She's not even allowed to date until she's atleast 18 years old (tradition rules, we come from a foreign Asian family). Im a 12 year old guy and I haven't even seen that guy she was with. Hes not one of the friends she invites over mostly cuz she's not even allowed to invite guys over and be alone with them. Should i tell my mom that shes seeing someone? I dont know for how long and much.

Question: Should I continue going to my university or should I stop going and look for a full time job instead?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 09:06 PM PDT

I am a junior at my university. I took this semester off and I was planning to go back in the summer, but the only reason I wanted to go back was to become a teacher, but now I don't want to be a teacher because I worked with kids and the bad kids stood out to me more than the good kids. The thing is though I have no car and no job and I am tired of taking the bus to school. I am also tired of being poor and living with my mom. My little sister moved in and she has caused me a lot of problems. She yells and screams. I am miserable. I only know one thing, that I love to write stories. I recently wrote a novel that I am trying to get published.

Question: Why is my brother so annoying!?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 09:02 PM PDT

My 8 year old brother is about to be 9 soon. He's ADHD-like hyperactive and always asks so many questions even in the middle of a movie or conversation. He's also a snitch who tells on me a lot. Since my parents aren't familiar with English, they don't monitor our social networks and they grew up in a foreign country so they know very little about technology. My brother will tell on them if he sees anything that adults would consider "inappropriate". I'm almost 15 and I'm not allowed to wear crop tops, clothes that show my cleavage, or anything that my mom thinks an adult would wear. It's hard enough having Aspergers already. I secretly bought some revealing garments that show my cleavage and bra once. My brother found out and snitched on me! I got a big lecture and my parents were mad but they forgot to take the clothes away. Meaning they're still in my closet I just don't wear them in front of them. He will tell on me if he hears me or my friends swearing or watching movies with nudity in it. He specifically said that if he finds out anything bad or inappropriate he will be telling my parents and that he's just "looking out for me" aka being plain annoying

Question: Will they send someone or do something to a parent due to past?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 08:56 PM PDT

I m 18, married to a US sailor, and suffer from depression and anxiety. I opened up to my doctor about it and confessed it stemmed from my abusive past with my mother but that my siblings weren t abused. They won t go check up on her or my siblings or make a report or anything like that against her right? And they would let me know if they were going to?

Question: Im very depressed and im at home?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 08:15 PM PDT

so im 22, i dropped out of college, i never had a job. and im at home most the time, and im very depressed. i got no life. no friends, no girlfriend. im at home so lonely. my sister moved out and my parents work full time. so im at home alone most the time. i dont know what to do with my life? my parents are pissed and always fighting over me because i got no job, no drivers license, no education. im basically not doing anything with my life. how do i change my life around?

Question: How do I tell my half-sister I exist?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 08:04 PM PDT

So about five years ago in my grandmothers house. (where you can literally hear someone sigh from the other side of the house while the TV is on). I was sitting in my room and my mom was whispering in the kitchen to my aunt and I overheard them gossiping about how my dad has another biological daughter somewhere in New Jersey. My mom said my dad had been dating this crazy chick that tricked him into getting her pregnant just so she could have a baby for herself. She knew my dad had plans to move to Hawaii and so she told him to go, that she never wanted him to help out anyways. When I confronted my dad about it he told me the woman had married some sort of doctor and they lived happily ever after. He said he didn't want to ever contact her or have me contact her and won't give me the womans name, because he doesn't know what the daughter knows about the situation. For all we know she thinks her dad who raised her is her biological dad. So I guess my super confusing question to you all is what should I do? I'm nineteen now and I can't get this sister off my mind. Is it outrageously selfish of me to want to find this woman (who's probably close to 40 by now) and do you think she would want to get to know me as well? Or should I leave her be? Does it count as family if you've never met?

Question: How do I get my family off my back?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 07:56 PM PDT

I'm a 20 y.o. guy, I've been living alone since I finished high school. My parents and grandparents always complain that I rarely to never visit them, but that's because every time we meet they treat me as if I were sad, depressed, in need of help etc. The reason for that is because I don't go out, I don't wanna get married, have kids etc. so they assume that there's something wrong. And every time I visit any of them it's just a 2 hour long preaching why I should do those things. I have a very valid reason for why I want to live the way I live, but I could give them the most thought through, detailed and honest explanation and they'd still ask "but why not?". I love my parents, and I'd love to visit them more, but I had enough of them because of this. What should I do?

Question: My sister brother and I have the same dad but not the same mom and their mom also had a child with someone else (not my father)?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 07:10 PM PDT

What will that make me and the other child since it's my siblings sibling please help me

Question: I am nursing My 4 year old daughter and she asked me if she could wean completely. What should I do right now? I really think it's time.?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:58 PM PDT

Question: Why do daughter in law clean out?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:54 PM PDT

the mother and father in laws bank accounts?

Question: My mom and step dad are always fighting?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:51 PM PDT

So to put this quickly, my parents got a divorce when I was really young and for about 10-11 years now my mom has been with my step dad. At first he seemed nice and I liked him, then they had me half-brother who's now 8. Now I really hate this guy, going back 4-5 years there's been a few incidents where the police have been called because they have been fighting and/or drunk. My step dad has also been in a few verbal fights with my older brother who isn't afraid to confront him. When my brother was away at basic training, my brother heard about a fight that had and texted my step dad and Mom a bunch of **** like how they're bad parents and they're going to **** up my little brother. Now I always hear them fighting downstairs and I hear my stepdad say things like how as soon as he can he's gonna leave. My real dad is happily married and I see him pretty often. I'm 15 by the way. Any advice?

Question: My grandfather (my Mom's father)was an alcoholic and my Mom judges her whole family for it. How do I get her to be merciful and stop blaming?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:50 PM PDT

It hurts my relationship with her and understandably makes her look bad.

Question: How can two kids that were raised the same way turn out so different?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:47 PM PDT

I was always a straight A student in high school, and I always valued time with family. I never did anything I wasn't supposed to (most of the time). My older brother, on the other hand, drank and smoked weed all throughout high school. He was always failing at least one class. My parents knew this, and he would always get in major trouble at first, but then they would forget by the next day. My parents were fantastic though. They were always there for us. My dad had a great job that brought in a lot of money, and my mom was always staying at home with us. How did my brother and I end up so different?

Question: I am hurting deeply because my Dad has left us. I have no hope in life, how do I find hope instead of giving up?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:43 PM PDT

I am 16 and my Dad met some woman two years ago and left us. We haven't heard from him since accept a B-Day card to me both years with some money and one sentence written "keep being good and hope your Mom is well, Love Dad". Nothing else. He has not replied to efforts to reach out except one "I am busy with my new family but will give a call if in town". What do I do? He has rejected me and none of his family gets in touch with us anymore either. One cousin is on my Facebook and says hi every now and then and that is it. I have lost everything. My Mom has a small family and her Mom just died. So like holidays it is just the two of us when we used to go see my Dad's family (they live 3 hours away). They have made no contact other then the one cousin. They also don't reply when I reach out at the holidays. I have lost family, I have no purpose. What do I do? I dont have friends at school since I am different (I have learning disabilities and ADHD so socially I am awkward).

Question: Why is gloria vanderbilt such a cruel mom?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:41 PM PDT

one son commited suicide, she wont leave money to anderson cooper and tbe other son doesnt speak to her and is in hiding?

Question: Do I have a right to be angry at my aunt? Or am I wrong?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:24 PM PDT

My aunt is like a second mother to me. She is one of my best friends and we are very very close. I recently graduated from college (about a week ago) and she told me that she'd take me out to celebrate/go out to dinner on Friday to celebrate the big occasion. I love to spend time with her. I was so excited. Today, I texted her told her that I'll be over on that side of town a bit earlier than I thought and asked her if it would be okay if I came over to her house in the afternoon and then we went out to celebrate afterwards? Right now, my aunt is on spring break vacation and she is having a miserable time. She is have a really really bad vacation. Therefore, she responded back, "We are coming home on Wednesday night. I am having a really miserable time on this vacation. And when I get back, all I want to do is relax, be in my own home, and work in the garden. You and I will have to celebrate another time." Instead of being compassionate, I got very upset. My aunt is one of those people who "never relaxes" -- she's a busy body and always loves to do something. I basically told her that she must have something against me and doesn't want to see me to make such a bold statement. Hell, I know if I were having a miserable time somewhere, I'd die to come home and do something fun with someone I love! I'm working during my spring break. Then, she got all mad at me and told me that she isn't going to take my rudeness. Then, she blocked my number. I know I should be compassionate and understanding (her spring break sucks). I would understand if it was just a simple meet up. But I graduated from college? She is ALWAYs doing things for people whether she wants to or not. Always putting her kids first, her husband, her own family, her friends she doesn't like. It just made me really hurt and mad that she chose to cancel on me for some stupid reason. Do I have a right to be upset/angry or do you think I overreacted? Thank you! My aunt did not apologize, either, for canceling. That also added to my anger and why I was so upset.

Question: Did I do the right thing?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:21 PM PDT

My grandparents have been having medical issues lately which causes my dad not to get home until way later. Im 14 and my sister is 11 I am not in charge of her when my parents are gone we are both in charge of ourselves. My sister however is a spoiled brat and we had a problem tongiht she came into my room and asked me what I wanted to eat from Mcdonalds and I said nothing I'll eat at home why? and she told me because she was going to demand my father who keep in mind is at the hostipital stressed out with my grandparents that he bring her Mcdonalds I told her she cant be bugging him over mcdonalds and me my sister got in this huge fight about why its not a good idea to demand my father to leave the hostipital to meet her mcdonalds needs when she can eat whats in the cubboords. I do however feel I will get in trouble when my dad gets home for pretending to be in charge. did I do the right thing tho?

Question: I hate my sister? How to avoid her?

Posted: 27 Mar 2017 06:15 PM PDT

I am 13 and my sister is 11. She is a fat jerk who stinks up the whole ******* house because she never cleans herself and is disgusting. She doesn't care about anyone but herself and treats my parents like ****. She watches a ton of porn after countless times my parents telling her not to. She is a huge snitch, anything I do she always snitches to my parents. I can't even stand near her she is so gross. I just want to avoid her as much as possible and idk what to do. I know I can't just live hating my sister for the rest of my childhood. What should I do