Recently my friend (we'll say friend A) and I had a fallout. He was like a brother to me and I loved him like a brother. He knows me more than my own brother. A month ago I tried to get him to be friends again with my friend (we'll say friend B). Both of them used to be friends but had a fallout which friend B wanted to restore but friend A didn't. I side with friend B on this one because friend A is being childish over something from 2 years ago that he claimed he forgot what caused it. Friend A was mad at me for trying to get them to be friends again. When he told me I never mentioned friend B's name again. I did tell him I respect his decision and I did apologize When friend B reached out to friend A while I was at school not having to do with any of this, friend A started blaming me. I told him I swear to God and on my mama' life it wasn't me because I hadn't talked to friend B about it since friend A told be he didn't want to talk about it. I tried to contact him because he thinks I'm lying after I swore to God and on my mama's life. The most important woman in a man's life is his mother. Why would I put my mama's life on the line for a lie? Friend A is being immature of this. I know everyone in your life isn't suppose to be in it forever. I believe everything happens for a reason. But it still hurts knowing I lost someone important to me over nothing

Hey.. so I have other friends, but I only actually like to hang out with 2 (who I consider my best friends) because everybody else also has their "friend group". anyway, every time we have partners, they choose each other, sometimes they leave me behind when we walk, etc. STORY TIME: I usually wait for my friend at lunch because she usually gets let out late, even if its for a long time. So last week (and a few weeks ago) I got let out of class late. only a few mins. My friend did not at all wait for me, and when I got to the lunch table, they continued a conversation and probably didn't even notice me. When they were finished, they did notice me, but didn't even ask where I had been. Maybe i'm being over dramatic. My mom told me I shouldn't hold it against them. I like one of them, but the other I just have seemed to have 'grown' out of if that makes sense. Seriously, I just feel left out. And, I'm not really popular, so if I choose to leave my friend group, I have a fear I wont find anyone else to hang out with. and we have been friends for literally 13 years. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be treated badly, buti don't want to leave. Should I find new friends?

He's 28 and broke up with me twice, even when I warned him there would be no 3rd chance. Literally didn't even have a reason for breaking up with me, but blamed it on listening to his friends (whom I don't know) He hasn't left me alone since the breakup which was 8 months ago, but continues to be with other girls in the meantime. So far I know of 4, but he will just tell me he's sleeping with them. Why would he think that changes my mind about getting back together? Before I blocked him on everything I told him he obviously wasn't serious when he talks to me, but he blames me for not trying. Is that really my fault?

Ok so after I graduated high school I kinda lost all of my friends. I'm sure that happens to mainly everyone, but most people find new ones. I still live with my parents and I work. I don't have any friends I stay home all the time except from when I'm at work. I've never had a gf before. My social life is dead. Idk how I can go about making friends and finding a gf. Any advice?

My friend is 14 and I sometimes find myself treating her a bit differently than I do with my friends who are my age. I'm 19 (about to turn 20) and my parents think it's the age difference that effects how we treat each other. I don't baby her or treat her like she's younger 24/7 but I just find myself being a little bit more protective of her than I would with someone near my age. I also find myself being a bit more mature. Most of the time we act normal and we're a great pair of friends, but I do find myself looking out for her more than I would with someone my age.

Okay, so yesterday night after the hockey game with my Youth Group. We were eating at Applebee's, I was talking with my friend and I accidentally knocked over one of my friend's water onto him and I felt so embarrassed. So, I went to go get a waiter to come and clean it up, everyone was saying it's fine. And I was still apologizing and still felt embarrassed by the situation. This one girl in our group has an obnoxious tone (and she says I have an obnoxious laugh...) and it just gets my nerves up. (Before I continue, I have Asperger's Syndrome, and if you don't know what it is, search it, don't ask me please...) That girl I was talking about I had a few problems with her, one time she wouldn't let me see my old friend because he didn't like being around a big group of people, and I hadn't seen him for a long time, and she just wouldn't let me and it wasn't fair. She always has an attitude, which is very frustrating to me, she even bumped me saying, "Move!" and said that I shouldn't test her because she's in a bad mood, and my other friend says she has that attitude all the time after she has a panic attack, I know that is serious but that seriously isn't an excuse to give me an attitude, just saying. I feel like most of my problems happen there a lot as much as they do in school. Should I leave or go? I love that church, I have memories there. I can't decide I am breaking down... :'(

I am originally from Scotland and for university I had decided to go over there and a summer internship presented itself so I took it and I am now officially in Scotland with a job and a girl friend. My friends are calling me selfish for this and now they're ignoring me. Why? Maybe they feel left behind I don't know. What do you think

a week ago I was on a blog on Tumblr (The blog was totally normal/not nasty/weird in any way) Well all the sudden while I was on it,I suddenly without me doing anything had my computer open a totally new tab totally & go to a totally different site..Usually I pay this stuff no mind,but this time it was a porn site called live jasmin..I clicked out of there right away and have been freaked out ever since (READ CAREFULLY FROM HERE ON)..Why did my computer randomly open a new tab and get sent to some weird porn site? & after that I looked in my history and it said live jasmin,then pornmu,and all this weird stuff I had never even looked at.And after this I saw (THIS IS WHY IM SO SCARED ) in my downloads there were two odd files with a CD icon called hpbrcu launcher and I deleted them..I'm scared these weird files were something nasty that porn site download when I got sent to that site and that is why I wanna kill myself..Im scared its something bad and im gonna get in trouble for it when i didnt even do anything..The files never showed up until this happened..I'm scared it was bad porn or something and im scared ill get in trouble for that when i didnt even do it..I'm scared and I feel like my life is ruined..I want to kill myself because I'm scared I'm gonna get in trouble for this when I didn't even DO ANYTHING..I'm not worried bc I got sent to this site,I'm scared it downloaded something..Did it? Or was the file something different? My life feels ruined. I had dreams of going to college and being a scientist but now i feel my dreams are over...what if this site downloaded weird/bad crap onto my computer and i get blamed for it when i didnt do it? once itson your computer it can never be gone But what about those downloaded things? THAT Is what IM WORRIED about..Do you think the porn site downloaed that? THATS why I wanna die,im so scared I'm sorry..I'm asking a lot because I can't get any good helpful answers..I'm very scared..I'm sorry I upset you,i just need some help

is it because all girls are secretly lesbians that cannot suppress their attraction to one another? is that why girls are all touchy-feely with each other and make out together at parties? i'm not saying anything is wrong with it. i'm just wondering why? because it can never happen when guys become friends.

I'm a high school senior girl and the middle schoolers are temporarily going to school at our school for about a week or two. Their school got damaged and it's not safe enough for kids to be attending school in the building until they fix it, but they said that the middle schoolers need to stay in school. I was crying in the bathroom because of someone being hurtful. A 7th grade girl came in and she comforted me. I told her about everything that happened but everyone keeps making fun of me for crying in front of a middle schooler and I'm an 18 year old high school senior. The seniors act really tough towards middle schoolers and freshmen. I'm really ashamed and embarrassed. Everyone keeps reminding me about it and taunting me.

she always punches me so I call her a bully so I need something catchy to put on a poster any ideas?

I'm a female in my early 20s female and I've had issues making friends. I hate myself for not having a lot of friends. I try to make conversations on social media with people around my age (usually college alumni), only to get ignored and snubbed. It's starting to make me feel like I am unwanted and useless and I will never find the right people. The only people who want to be friends with me are the men in their late 20s/older men fron my old job and that bothers me. I want girl friends because women have more in common with me then men. I feel insulted that only men want to befriend me. I also do not need too many men friends. That's kind of missing the point. With older men who will I go shopping with? Who will I have Girls Night Out with? Who's gonna be my bridesmaids? Who can I travel with? Who will I graduate from college with? I can't do all that with older men.

If my friend was to fight someonelse stronger than him and that person punched my friend in the face breaking the jawline and nose would his appearance change from the time he did not get punched in the face?

I'm a 12 year old girl and my friend and my brother are highschool seniors at different schools. Ever since I invited my friend over for the first time, its like they fell in love immediately. It's kind of awkward because I don't see my brother in a boyfriend/girlfriend way. Whenever she tells me about if they had an argument or something,its like I'm hearing about a whole different person instead of my brother. I became friends with her first but then my older brother started dating her. What else is awkward is that one day, my friend will drop by to go on a date with my brother.. then the NEXT day she'd be at my house to hang out with me. My brother dated girls before,but at least none of them were friends with me and I barely knew them. When i comfort her because shes having boy problems, that romantic guy she's crying/insecure over happens to be my brother. She's a great friend and she's like an older sister to me since i never had one. I see them both getting insecure over each other sometimes and I love both of them very much, but I don't see either one of them in a romantic way

I'll be honest I've been pretty distant from people lately. I had a bad experience with my last group of friends (and my last "best friend" to add on) for frankly being the only nice one. I got left in the middle of the split of my friend group so it's been kinda tough for me socially this year. (I'm in high school btw) I usually try to balance out my grades, health, and social life together but what really happens is I balance two and the other one gets stranded. Right now it's my social life. I still hang out with my last group but one side makes me left out whenever I hang with them because they talk about things I wasn't there for. Aside from them, I talk to the people in my classes in school, and I try to stay after for some clubs (one of those is a whole other story). But I feel like outside of school people only want to deal with me when they need something. I'm very smart and kind. Tbh I probably come off as whiney/rude this year but I still want to be nice to everyone. I just don't like that people only seem to care about me when they want something. I'm a little pissed about the group thing because they actually liked me. I was like the life of the party with them (which says a lot because I'm pretty shy). Idk I'm getting a little sick of pressuring myself about friends when I try to make more. Honestly I don't even enjoy hanging out with people unless it's at a mall. It's just that I feel whenever I make friends it's inevitable that it won't last for some reason.

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A friend Linda who works in the same large office building as I do ask if I could drive her home as her car would not start. At her home, we were met by her daughter Cindy who I had met previously. Linda ask me to stay for a dinner she would cook for me. As Linda was cooking dinner Cindy ask me if I would help her with her homework which I did. After we finished her homework, Cindy ask me if I thought her mom was cute. I told the truth, her mom was cute. Then Cindy ask me if there were guys that would want to date her mom. I told her with her mom's great beauty, yes there were lots of guys that would want to date her. That is as far as I wanted to take this conversation. However Cindy wanted to go farther. She said she wanted a dad and asked me to encourage her mom to start dating. I told her this was a conversation she should be having with her mom not me. Even though I was her mom's friend, the subject of her mom dating is none of my business. Cindy told me she would be the happiest girl in the world to call me dad. Would I ask her mom for a date? I told her that her mom was 10 years older than I was and probably would want to date someone her age. I again urged Cindy to talk to her mom about this. Mothers (and others) did I handle this situation correctly and should I tell Linda about this conversation.

so i have this instgarm account and over this year and last year i started to talk about me being sad , i don't know why , it just happened the account use to be better , until i got extremely sad idk i didn't mean to post sad things , i guess its just who i am, and yeah, I'm sad, i feel alone, so i talk and vent on there. and my friend told me it was annoying and that i just want attention and peoples pity. and that made me mad. i told my other friend that and he got mad and told me she's mean and that he knows I'm going through pain. and i feel like my mom pitys me and i hate it , I'm on meds and i got to these therapist and crap, and my mom has been pitying me or whatever , i hate it . i don't know I'm lost. ah, also i should add that the account is just an account that a few of my friends follow not my school. its just a spam account ?? and a fan account , idk whatever only a few friends follow

I was besties with two other girls who I will call Jane and Mia for privacy reasons. Me and Jane got into a fight. She started it and everyone realizes that. Anyways, she was horrible and tried to get me in trouble once with her ******* crocodile tears. Talked about me behind my back. Made me cry. Hurt me emotionally. I was disgusted. She's psycho. She also once told Mia that she was happy bc/ of my own emotional pain because I emotionally hurt her; but I had to hurt her because she hurt me first so it is justified. Plus, she's just a ***** to everyone in general so deserves to get "emotionally hurt". Anyways she has started to try singling me out in our larger group of friends. I hate it. Mia who still remains as my "bestie" says that she was always on my side in this whole argument. But she had defended Jane when she was fighting with me. She never once stood up for me. On top of that, whenever Jane tries to exclude me from a group thing she never stands up to her and say that it's not right. She goes with it. Wanna know what I hate the most? She's trying to get me to be friends with Jane again even though it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. In fact, a lot of my friends are acting like this. Also, Jane is having a birthday party and didn't invite me and yet Mia and the rest of my friends are going. Mia says she's just going for the free food and she actually despises Jane. Bullshit. Can I get someone's opinion on whether Mia is being a good friend or not? Thanks. PS I'm planning on going to a private high school next year after what happened but Mia is begging me to stay. My gut tells me not to. I want to make new, better friends who actually would side with me when I am right in an argument and stand up for me when I'm being harassed, not side with the person harassing me. Am I making a good choice by leaving my "friends" for a new school to start fresh? Or should I stick with what I am most familiar with?

Hey everyone. I haven't posted in here in quite awhile. I've been very depressed lately and just need opinions on something. I'm not a person that has many friends but I do have a few I consider myself close to. Long story short, I've been feeling like I should cut them off because I feel they're one sided. I've not been working since October due to personal reasons and my mental health but when I was working, a few of my friends always wanted to hang out with me. I found myself giving them money as well as paid for food for two of my friends on two separate occasions. When I fell on tough times, one of the friends gave me an excuse as to why he couldn't help when I've done a for him as well as helped him with his problems. The other friend is the same. We used to go to church together but now, she doesn't pick me up anymore (I have no car and no way there) and I've given her money and bought her food as well. Now that I'm not working, these same people and others barely hang out with me and there's always an excuse as to why they can't. I'm not trying to sound whiney. I love my friends but I don't like feeling like I'm being used or feeling like I have fair weather friends. It's been making me so depressed and I wonder if it's even worth keeping them around anymore. I am going through a lot as it is and I don't want the extra baggage. What are your opinions?

so much as to suggest seeing each other at a gym at least once a week at a specific time (her idea, not yours), sign your yearbook saying something really nice like "hopefully I will see you at the gym this summer", but when a few weeks later and you hear nothing, you add her on myspace and message her and she ignores both the friend request and the message. ---------- This was an idea that simply came to mind. There's always a lot of what if ideas hitting my mind. I'm just curious what you all think. When you're a junior and she's a senior, or something like that I'm in my 20s by the way, so if it does apply to me, something that happened a while ago.

My best friend (I consider him like a brother) has everything going for him in his life; he has the looks, has an incredible sense of humor and charisma that draws people to him, makes friends easily, gets girls easily, good at sports, socially popular and well liked, etc.. All traits that I do not have and it makes me feel incredibly inadequate and jealous, he seems to outdo me in everything, to the point that it is hurting my self esteem and causing me emotional depression.. Advice? Thoughts?

I'm a 24 year old female and I've always had issues making friends growing up. I hate myself for not having a lot of friends and just staying at home going to graduate school and working rather than having fun with friends. I want a new personality and a new look because I'm sick of being rejected by people around my age and only attracting older men for friends. I feel like a loser for having this issue while everybody is already set with their friends. This "being yourself" advice is not working because I am still having issues making friends with other girls and people my age in general. I try to make conversations on social media with people my age, only to get ignored and snubbed. Only older men at my old job wanted to be friends with me. I didn't want them as friends because I don't want too many guy friends, especially too many guys older than me. Also, I had little to no interests shared with them.

Background: My friend, let's call her Jane, and I have been friends since high school. She's always had a small temper, but I've never been angry with her I'm the patient one. She's an aspiring business owner and has a strong personality, very straightforward, stubborn, and isn't afraid to yell. We used to hang out a lot before we had responsibilities. She barely moved out her mom's house, I recently had a child. Situation:One day Jane's boyfriend backs into my car leaving some damage on the passenger door. The first thing she tells me is: "I'll just claim it on my insurance and we'll take care of it." Weeks pass and no talk about fixing the door. She tells me there's a situation at work. More time passes when an incident happens and my husband and Jane's boyfriend are angry with one another. Still no talk about fixing the door until weeks later, but this time she's angry that we want to go through the insurance talking about how she cant pay for a new door. She yelled at me over the phone how our car wasn't new to begin with, how she's hurt that as a friend can't she get a break, how she can't afford it, and repeats over and over how many favors she's done for me in the past and here comes the guilt trip. She's a really good friend to me as long as she's not angry. I'm afraid that her temper and pride will separate us. (Side note: Jane's boyfriend does not work)

i want to carry around my best friend in one

Am I consider too old? I always want to be the youngest since I am youngest in my family but now I am talking to this cute guy but he's younger than me

can you please tell me which one of these 4 pics is mine is the best? and is at the most flattering angle? I am trying to decide which one to use in the front of my online profile. Thanks in advance for any help and advice. I will choose a best answer as my way of saying thankyou. https://www.flickr.com/photos/142447686@N06/ can you say first, second, third or fourth..thanks

ok so I want to see other people's point of view on this because i dont know if im sensitive or is it normal to get angry? Its just so many stuff like she always turns me into the bad guy, she always insults the things i love and support and she always has to be the one who loves and supports the right things. Plus she can never take in the fact that people have different opinions like for example in my opinion team A is better than team B, she will never accept that cause she supports team B and shows me statistics or facts of how that team is better. And when we argue she always insults me and never apologizes she literally says i dont apologize and its so embaressing cause my other friends see it and think we're kids who fight all the time. I dunno its stuff like those that make me so angry and just tired of fighting 24/7 is it normal that im angry or am i just sensitive?

So now my friend and all them might think I'm a hoe has anything like this similar have happened too you? Would you feel guilty or how would you feel?

My boyfriend, 36, of 4 years met a person 5 months ago in a new city and state that he considers to be a really close friend of his now. Closer than some people he grew up with. They've gotten to know each other's families. Not me included. The friend/co-worker invited him over his house after work to smoke a few blunts and play chess. My boyfriend says he stop would smoke but most likely after work not be in the mood to play chess. I feel like the friend is either very needy or gay. The friend is single and 28. He's calls him often. When they first met my bf would give him rides to work, bring him home on lunch, chill with him late nights but now that the friend got his car working and my bf lives further away, they catch up at work and throughout the week for a few hours. He even cuts my bf's hair and offered to do my eyebrows at one point. He is not licensed. I know male bonding is a regular thing but is this normal?

I am a guy college student that is always short of cash. The only job I could find to fit my hours with great pay was at a legal brothel. I maintain their computer system. A religious group on campus somehow found out about my job and sends a group of people to see me every week to tell me I am going to hell for working at a brothel. I have told them many times if they can find me a job that pays better I will quit working at the brothel. I don't want to see them again but they keep visiting me. My plan is the next time they visit me, I am going hand their leader a fake bill and tell the group that the brothel will turn his bill over to a collection agency if he does not pay his bill. Do you think that will stop their visits?

My friend's quinceañera is coming up in a few months, and it will be the first quinceañera I have ever been to. Today, she asked me if I could do the Regalo Sorpresa for her party, and I have no clue what that really is or what to get her. If any of you who have either had one before or have been to one before, what gifts are typically given and how many? Whats the general price range for the gifts?

I mean since I'm Latino would that be acceptable but if he or she were a white person would that be a different story?

I am going to graduate university this may. As grad gift i am going to europe with my sister and cousin. I was wondering how can i get the full best experience? I never had a girlfriend either, since i am going to be out of school and moving on in life, should i try to find the right someone over there? I am 23 and havent ever experienced europe or relationship before, so i thought why not, Also i would just to love to interact with people overall in europe, they seem really nice. Ill appreciate your answers

I use my iPad and phone wayyyy too much. Most of the time it is Best Fiends or episode. I don't have any social media except facebook, Whatsapp and email. I had to create a fake yahoo account just to ask this.. I am smart, but I think my device time might start to affect how smart Ai am anytime soon. Also, if this helps I am thirteen. Please help! I just want to say thanks to ALL of you who gave an answer!

We don't speak to eachother for a half year now. To be specific since September. There was an argue and since that day we don't speak to eacht other. It wasn't my fault tho. When we see each other at school we look away sometimes she is staring but then she looks away. She talked about me a few months ago with a friend who is also my friend. She said I left her for other people but that isn't true. I would never do that but she was jealous. My friend told her that I won't take a step with talking because they all know I'm stubborn. And she is stubborn too. So I removed her from snapchat 2 months ago because I had a feeling that it would never be the same but now I miss her tbh. I don't know if she thinks the same way but what should I do. I can't make contact with her because I only use snapchat and whatsApp and not other social media and I dont have her number. Tbh I don't want to take the first stap what can I do instead?

My best friend I met through work had moved down from another part of the country and didn't know anyone here except her boyfriends family. Her boyfriend has a half sister who is 10 years older than her so she was just hanging out with her. Her half sister kept on about wanting to meet me and she's only met me twice and now my friend has told me she doesn't like me. She can't say why but she thinks I'm bad for her friend and keeps making fun of anything she can about me saying I have a stupid name, stupid laugh and that my boyfriend is ugly etc. just really petty pointless things. I think when I met her I was too nice to her and made her think I could be walked all over. I wanted her to like me as she's practically family to my best friend but now she's met me she keeps bringing me up all the time to my friend and b*tching about me. I wish I hadn't met her now. She's 30 and I'm 25. My friend is 20. She's always been lovely to my face though.. Was I too nice to her do you think?

So for my entire life my dream college has been NYU. I want to further my education in teaching and this friend wants to be an orthodontist. Whenever we talk about colleges I always have the same response saying I want to go to Steinhardt NYU after going to community college for 2 years. This friend has always talked about going other places but now all of the sudden she wants to go to NYU. And she wants to go after doing 2 years at community college. I was hoping after high school that me and this friend would separate, maybe not entirely but she is just not a good friend. Also I m doing this program for the next 2 years and I was talking about it to someone and she overheard and now she wants to do it too but I wanted to do it by myself. And she will not stop integrating me about it and asking me for all these things. She also thinks she knows everything about me and my life but she doesn t even know half of it. I guess what I m saying is I don t want to like hold her hand throughout my life but am I a bad friend for thinking this way? I want to bring something up but I don t want to make it awkward. What should I do?

I am originally from Scotland and for university I had decided to go over there and a summer internship presented itself so I took it and I am now officially in Scotland with a job and a girl friend. My friends are calling me selfish for this and now they're ignoring me. Why?

It's ruining our friendship! My best friends boyfriends half sister hates me and it's really upsetting me. I've only met her twice for a few hours each time. The first time she was so lovely to me and put her arm around me and said I'm such a good friend to her boyfriends girlfriend and that she's glad she's made a friend as she moved all the way down the country to live with him and doesn't know anyone here. The next time I met her she was completely different with me and would hardly look at me or speak to me. Whenever my friend would leave the room if I tried to talk to her she just ignored me. I spoke to my friend about her behavior a few weeks later when I felt brave enough to as I didn't want to upset her and she openly told me that she has a problem with me and doesn't like me and thinks I'm bad for her. She can't give a reason why but just says I'm "bad" for her and doesn't think she should be friends with me! Why was she so kind to my face the first time and then so mean behind my back after? My friend said that her "sister" said she didn't like me as soon as she met me and yet she was DESPERATE to meet me for so long! It's getting me down and my friend said she's also been making fun of anything she can about me like my name, my laugh, my boyfriends appearance etc. it's so hurtful. She's 10 years older than my friend she's 30 and I'm 5 years younger than her so in the middle of both of them at 25. I also work with my friend so see her nearly every day.

I'm in my third year of uni and to be honest I didn't have the easiest time in the beginning. During the first one and a half years I was quite depressed, I didn't study nor socialize properly, thus didn't have many friends and also failed my exams. I only had two decent friends and spent most of time fantasizing about a guy I had a crush on and on the internet. In the beginning of my second year I got much closer with oe my friends and began developing feelings for him, we started dating, at this point my crush had already died down as we were close only during the first semester and hardly ever talked during the second. During my second year I had finally opened up to my boyfriend and family about the state of my studies and myself. This year I have managed to turn my studies around, which I'm quite pleased with. But I don't feel fully content because I have no social circle, I literally have no one apart from my boyfriend and I know I had let the situation come to this. I'm capable of making friends for heaven's sake, I have just let the shame I feel because of my failures get in the way. I have decided to put my efforts into interacting with people and making friends as soon as the next semester starts, now we are in semester break. My question is would it be weird to begin my socializing debut with my old crush? I just really enjoy talking to him, we can gush about Harry Potter, Doctor Who, 60s&70s music and have discussions about politics and other serious stuff etc. The thing is he's quite friendly and possibly a bit of a ladies man. Would he get the wrong idea by me contacting him all of a sudden? He was doing all kinds of relatively extravagant gestures during the first semester when I had a crush on him; like hugging me whenever he saw me and holding my hand afterwards, putting his head on my shoulder during class or turning around to give me a smile, running after me after class and walking in the opposite direction from his home to talk to me more His last "gesture" was serenading me to a whitney houston song in his house in front of his other friends where we had gathered to study. Funnily enough we stopped talking quite abruptly after the first semester break, he had somehow gotten colder. Even then his friends would send messages from his phone saying "hey sweetie". As you can tell they were a childish lot so I'm not sure if this seriously liked me or just fooled around. Should I just other friends or give this a go? And how should I go about it after all this time?

I'm in my third year of uni and to be honest I didn't have the easiest time in the beginning. During the first one and a half years I was quite depressed, I didn't study nor socialize properly, thus didn't have many friends and also failed my exams. I only had two decent friends and spent most of time fantasizing about a guy I had a crush on and on the internet. In the beginning of my second year I got much closer with oe my friends and began developing feelings for him, we started dating, at this point my crush had already died down as we were close only during the first semester and hardly ever talked during the second. During my second year I had finally opened up to my boyfriend and family about the state of my studies and myself. This year I have managed to turn my studies around, which I'm quite pleased with. But I don't feel fully content because I have no social circle, I literally have no one apart from my boyfriend and I know I had let the situation come to this. I'm capable of making friends for heaven's sake, I have just let the shame I feel because of my failures get in the way. I have decided to put my efforts into interacting with people and making friends as soon as the next semester starts, now we are in semester break. My question is would it be weird to begin my socializing debut with my old crush? I just really enjoy talking to him, we can gush about Harry Potter, Doctor Who, 60s&70s music and have discussions about politics and other serious stuff etc. The thing is he's quite friendly and possibly a bit of a ladies man. Would he get the wrong idea by me contacting him all of a sudden? He was doing all kinds of relatively extravagant gestures during the first semester when I had a crush on him; like hugging me whenever he saw me and holding my hand afterwards, putting his head on my shoulder during class or turning around to give me a smile, running after me after class and walking in the opposite direction from his home to talk to me more His last "gesture" was serenading me to a whitney houston song in his house in front of his other friends where we had gathered to study. Funnily enough we stopped talking quite abruptly after the first semester break, he had somehow gotten colder. Even then his friends would send messages from his phone saying "hey sweetie". As you can tell they were a childish lot so I'm not sure if this seriously liked me or just fooled around. Should I just other friends or give this a go? And how should I go about it after all this time?

Im in my mid 20s i just got out of a really long and toxic relationship. Where I was guilt tripped anytime I wanted to do something on my own or with friends. I was pretty much controlled. But now that im free im feeling completely lonely. Ive been positive,trying to keep my mind busy on my own, doing things on my own and it's okay for a while But im in real need of some company and none of my "friends" or even family are ever available... the loneliness is killing me and idk what to do.

I love her a lot and we've been best friends for almost five years, since we were kids, but the last year or so has been a whole lot of misunderstandings/fights. Mentioning here, at least 70 percent of the time I'm sacrificing [days] to talk to her well into the morning because of timezone differences. We can talk from 10 pm-6 am and after sleeping all morning and afternoon, I wake up about 4 pm, exhausted but just trying to exist outside of my bed. Then it starts again that night. Years of doing this gets old real fast. So yesterday I wake up with enough time to eat, clean, and just barely start up a new game. We talked awkwardly for a little bit (wasn't in the mood to keep up appearances for her) and I continue my game after I hit her with a brb. Three hours later, I realize I hadn't said anything, which, yeah, that's my bad. So I send her something, apologize, and she blows up on me. I tell her sorry again and again but it doesn't sway her, and eventually, in disbelief at the dramatic garbage that's going on, I tell her I'll catch her later until things cool down. She tells me fine, not to expect her to patch things up this time, and leaves. On one hand, I somewhat understand the frustration, but on the other, as someone who can go weeks without talking to someone and be fine with them, 3 hours so aggravating. Am I a bad friend? Is it wrong to tell her how crazy this stuff/the pressure feels at this point? I just don't know what to do anymore B(

When we forst started I admit we bith would help out with answers byt after a classmates got kicked out for cheating. I told her we need to do our own work. Now its strained our friendship. She still cheats off of my paper, when I'm taking tests I see her on the side of my eye copying all my answers and its really getting on my nerves because I put blood sweat amd tears and she barely studies so now I think she was usong me from the start. Ive told her 3 times to stop but she continues. I can barely concenttate bc she's kicking my leg during tests. Its been 3 months since I've told her Im not doing it anymore and she's been passing off of me. Any advice?

can you be my friend please?

Not in the "oh you're so pretty" way... In the "I liked that guy, he was nice to me" "Thats because you're a pretty girl ;)" or "Im not built for yoga :/" "what are you talking about, you're perfect for yoga… you're tall and skinny."

He asked me for have a meal and after,he asks if he can take his friend with us.I can´t take a friend with me too because I´m moving away so I just know him in that city.

i have had some molestation problems with my dad in the past. i was talking to my boyfriend, bestfriend, and her boyfriend last night. my bestfriend told me at the age of 15 they will let me chose where i go, and she said her family will take me in, as they have done with her other friends. she's 15 and the courts let her do that and she stayed with her friend. i'm 14 now, but when can i chose to go to her house. i live in michigan also.

So I have being very disrespectful and said some mean things to my friends I once said I hope you die smh because I m going through a ruff time on top of a break up and I feel like they took his side so I lashed out it s my depression & bipolar disorder that makes me act like that but what s the best way to apologize ? Like not even trying to be their friend again because the damage is done and there s no coming back but I do want to say I m sorry really not sure how tho I just feel bad because when I get better I m not going to have anyone because of the way I treated them but it s ok because I made my bed ...what s the best way to apologize tho

My friend has severe special needs and she has her trousers waaaay to high how can I tell her in a way she'll understand?

We dated on and off for 3 years were best friends for 9 years. It breaks my heart he won't be friends with me.

How can I tell her it's embarrassing, she has severe special needs and autism so don't wanna be mean

I'm not being nasty just wondering