Family: Question: Is my mom right that when Dad's get grouchy it's because they haven't had sex in a while?

Question: Is my mom right that when Dad's get grouchy it's because they haven't had sex in a while?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:23 PM PDT

She says the reason my dad has been grouchy lately is because she hasn't given him sex in a while. She's on crazy pills and so she's not turned on as much as she used to be.

Question: Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be upset? My mom is 55, dating my 27 year old brother in law.?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:17 PM PDT

At first it didn't bother me, but now it is messing with my kids. My mom and brother in law did some illegal things. My mom is on probation and my brother in law is in prison for 3 years. My mom wants to come live with me and give me $100 for food and $100 for bills. I wouldn't mind helping, but she is telling me whom I can and can't have in my home. Specifically my mother in law whom she is fighting with because my mother in law doesnt agree with the relationship. Am I wrong for not wanting anything to do with the mess? Or am I in the right for wanting to distance myself from the drama.

Question: My mom keeps up with her old boyfriend and he posts pictures of her on Facebook. Is this dirty? How do I know if this is an affair or not?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:15 PM PDT

She's married to my dad but the ex-boyfriend is divorced.

Question: My mom likes to tell me about people sex lives really dirty secrets. How do I make sure no one finds out I know these things?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:14 PM PDT

Question: How do I get my parents to love me this year?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:13 PM PDT

They never have before

Question: No way out of this?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:55 PM PDT

my father is unemployed for like 2.5 years and in 3 months the unemployed-insurance doesnt pay money for him. This means we have to move away and sell the house. Since he has lost the job he got insane. He yells and beats me all the time. my mother doesnt even love him anymore and only stays because she loves my sister and me. ive picked up a work after school and still he tells me im an lazy prick. when he gets a no from a company for a interview, he blames he is an victim of racism towards olders and capitalism. Which is sarcastic to me since hes an banker and made money of the capitalism. he spends more time complaining then searching for jobs. at this point I really think, where is the father i have loved and seen as an idol? Now he is just a lazy pig laying on his couch yelling at his wife and me. I really dont want to move away to russia (my mom from there and livings cheap), because i love my country switzerland I build up so many friends and made so many good expierience here. I ve worked so hard to make my father proud, but at this point im not sure if it is even sure if life is even worth it. Im not searching any type of attention or gratitude. I just search a away out and the only way I see out now is suicide

Question: Cousins on both sides of the family... help?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:48 PM PDT

I am currently writing a story and my two main characters are both cousins on their mother side (mothers are sisters) and on their father side (fathers are brothers)... does this change the fact that they are cousins and mean they are siblings instead? Kind of a stupid question, I know...

Question: Is my dad a communist or a Nazi? My stepmom not allowed to leave alone without me?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:44 PM PDT

Is my dad a communist or a Nazi? I'm wondering because I absolutely hate communists and Nazis! My soon-to-be-stepmom, who is only 19 (my dad is 41), is not allowed to leave the house walking to the store without me present because he thinks there'll be other men cat-calling her or she might be taken away, and he's afraid she might break up with my dad. He's a very strict and overprotective father, and his bullshit is the reason why my friends hate or backstab me, because they assume I'm shy and not welcoming. Actually @nick: My dad is a Protestant Christian, but his parents are from Jordan.

Question: Can my sister sing?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:33 PM PDT

https://youtu.be/mdKpJQtmAA8 She asked me but idk cuz I hear her everyday

Question: How do I end a relationship of 15 years?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:29 PM PDT

My husband is passive aggressive and has put hands on me but then acts like he didn t do it,or I m exaggerating. He doesn t apologize or take any responsibility for his behavior. I know I have to get out of this hell. but I do care about him and he is my sons father, and on flip side he has such crazy temper and had left multiple times with my2.5 old, he is my best friend or was....I m so frustrated with my self, I m not gonna be a victim to his anger but this is so hard

Question: I don t know what to do or who to go to. This is serious can someone please give advice?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:23 PM PDT

Ok this is dumb to be on this website and ask about this but Idk who to turn to.I was helping my pap plant today and he said he needed soil down by the garage and I offered to help to be nice.We got down there in the car and he hugged me and then he touched my chest.I thought it was an accident and went to leave but he asked to hug me again.I pretended not to hear him and got in the car to go back up to the house. I got in and he said to me that I was starting to look good up top.I couldn t believe he said that. yet my dumba.ss said yea that s what happens.He touched me again there and he asked have u told ur mother about our hugs?I hesitantly said what hugs knowing full well what he meant.He said she d probably be mad so don t tell her.And he said i can hug you in front of her but not the same way we do down there.Our hugs are different.I froze&didn t say anything. Like what the ***** is wrong with him?!We get up to the house and he gets out of the car.i was shaking so bad because I seriously thought he was ganna do something to me.I was about to cry but held it in and went to go see my mom.I tried to stay away from him for the rest of the visit.I don t know what to do I m so afraid to be alone around him.What are the consequences if I tell tho? And who do I tell??Like what the h ell am I suppose to do?Never in a million years could I think he s a ******** pedofile. For god sakes I m 16 years old.This only one of the Incidents ive had with him but was by far the worst.

Question: I'm 23 and I want to move out from my parents strict household?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:02 PM PDT

I m a 23 year old college graduate. I was raised in a strict religious home. I could never go to sleepovers, stay out late, etc. My whole life I had to lie to my parents to do stuff. I still find myself lying about things I shouldn t have to lie about. I hate being here and I m miserable. My dad and I sometimes clash and yells for me and my brother to move out and leave. Maybe he is just angry at the moment, but I feel like when time is due, my parents will try to discourage me. One of my brothers already moved out and lives with friends. My parents don t visit him, maybe due to having roommates. He doesn t reach out to us often, it makes my parents sad.I am planning on moving out soon but to live alone in a studio or apt. I m am trying to figure out ways so my parents won t try to come over my home, like lying and saying I live with roommates and give fake names and numbers. I know this is crazy. They will easily critic things and maybe overstep their boundaries if I live alone. They might feel they can visit all the time and I don t want that at all. I was also thinking of just giving them a fake address if I live alone, like maybe a place not too far from my actual address.I hate that I have to lie about things, they treat me like a child. When I went to college, I was wild because i was so sheltered, now I m back home &miserable.Now I feel I must get away or else the rest of my 20s will be miserable and sad and I won t be able to just live. or should I just tell the truth

Question: How to make my mom sell stuff for MONEY instead of DONATION?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 12:40 PM PDT

I am not trying to be selfish here but my mom has been going to this donation place everytime she needs to get rid of stuff from the house. I keep telling her to sell stuff so she can earn more money or do a garage sell or something but she wont listen to me.she wont do any selling apps bc she thinks they all are unsafe, or she just says that people wont want stuff we sell. Or when i tell her i want to sell something on an app or sell sonething to soneone she will say that "no one will buy __; or no one wants that" sometimes i want to sell my MLP plushies or plushies bc i have so many, or just random little things in the house we dont need. How do i convince her to stop DONATING and just do sell AND donate. Half and half!?

Question: Help my mom found my drawings... :(?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 12:39 PM PDT

Ok so we were watching one of those awkward puberty videos in my health class and at one part it described the female orgasm and so the girl describing it had a Russian type accent so of course I imitated it constantly and made a character out of it who wss like a sex crazed/ prostitute/porn star whatever. So I drew a picture of her... messing around down there (keep in mind this entire thing is a JOKE!) and i completely forgot about this until today, my mom was cleaning my room, found it and said "That drawing is disgusting by the way" and of course I had no idea what she was talking about until she told my sister about it and was about to show her it and it was sooooo ******* embarrassing and I hate her so much for it and like. She thinks she's mad about it?? Im 10x angrier, that was not for her eyes, it was only for me and my friends to laugh about, she needs to get the **** off my back and leave me be!

Question: Would you leave your child alone with a family member who sexually harassed you more than once?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 11:57 AM PDT

This person shows no regret for what he's done, in fact, he denies it all. He is the child's grandfather so it's complicated. How would you handle this situation? I say it is complicated because nobody else knows about the sexual harassment. The grandmother is starting to question why the grandchild cannot visit alone/sleepover. The child's father is starting to ask questions as well.

Question: Mom and I sat naked watching tv?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 11:33 AM PDT

The other day I woke up thinking my mom was gone and I got naked. That's just what I do when I'm alone, it feels good, I hate wearing clothes. Turns out she was home and she came out while I was watching tv on the couch. I felt really embarrassed at first and she was like "Oh sorry" but after a while we talked and she said there was nothing to be embarrassed about. She said she would get naked too to make me feel less embarrassed. So she did. She stripped right there, got completely naked with me, and sat down on the couch next to me, and we watched tv for like two hours and talked. Of course I had a raging hard-on the whole time, I couldn't help it, my naked mother was inches away from my dick. I feel weird about the whole situation, but I kind of want to do it again. What should I do? I'm over 18 btw.

Question: Drug Question?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 10:46 AM PDT

I did mushrooms with my mom the other day and had a very strange experience. We live in a log cabin in the woods so it's very peaceful at night. I bought some from a friend and my mom found them and wanted to see if I would do them with her. After I took the mushroom I imaged my mom opening her mouth really wide and swallowing me whole and at the time I honestly believed that my mom had ate me and I was inside of her stomach. But rather than feel afraid I have never felt more safe and warm. I told my mom and she thought that it was adorable but what does everyone else think about that?

Question: My daughter is primary caretaker of my mother who is 88. does she have the right to keep me from seeing her?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 10:22 AM PDT

Daughter has disowned me for 10+years. Has never told me the reason why. Has been taking care of my mother in her home for years and receives money from my mom's account thru my brother who has POA. Mom has a few health and mental issues. Only way to see her is if she goes in the hospital. Do I have to get a court order for this to happen. Daughter has disowned me for 10+years. Has never told me the reason why. Has been taking care of my mother in her home for years and receives money from my mom's account thru my brother who has POA. Mom has a few health and mental issues. Only way to see her is if she goes in the hospital. Do I have to get a court order for this to happen.

Question: Ladies who drive would you have done this?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:56 AM PDT

I just got home from taking my daughter to her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: What do you suggest?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:51 AM PDT

Currently I stay in a dirty miserable stinking group home in which I hate being so much. I ve been in the program since 2014 now I just want to move out. I told my family and I m supposed to be moving with my mom and sisters but theyre taking too long to call houses and I can t be patient cause thing are just getting worse. The group home make me go to a day program and the people bother me there too. I get bullied where I live and program. The thing is I have a tough time sleeping. I cannot sleep by myself so if I were to move out I would need some type of people around me. So while I wait for my mom, what should I do?

Question: My 12 year old daughter wants a sibling - help?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:50 AM PDT

My 12 year old daughter is very extroverted and she said that she sometimes wishes she had a sibling. I had my daughter early and I think I can handle another child but it's just that I didn't plan to have another kid. She's been wanting a sibling for years now. If we do end up having another child, should we be concerned about the age difference between that newborn child and my daughter? Or should it be fine?

Question: I m 23 and I want to move out from strict household.?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:46 AM PDT

I m a 23 year old college graduate. I was raised in a strict religious home. I could never go to sleepovers, stay out late, etc. My whole life I had to lie to my parents to do stuff. I still find myself lying about things I shouldn t have to lie about. I hate being here and I m miserable. My dad and I sometimes clash and yells for me and my brother to move out and leave. Maybe he is just angry at the moment, but I feel like when time is due, my parents will try to discourage me. One of my brothers already moved out and lives with friends. My parents don t visit him, maybe due to having roommates. He doesn t reach out to us often, it makes my parents sad.I am planning on moving out soon but to live alone in a studio or apt. I m am trying to figure out ways so my parents won t try to come over my home, like lying and saying I live with roommates and give fake names and numbers. I know this is crazy. They will easily critic things and maybe overstep their boundaries if I live alone. They might feel they can visit all the time and I don t want that at all. I was also thinking of just giving them a fake address if I live alone, like maybe a place not too far from my actual address.I hate that I have to lie about things, they treat me like a child. When I went to college, I was wild because i was so sheltered, now I m back home &miserable.Now I feel I must get away or else the rest of my 20s will be miserable and sad and I won t be able to just live. or should I just tell the truth

Question: I don't want to see my dad ever again?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:27 AM PDT

My dad is drunk a lot. He is not abusive when hes drunk at all, but he makes absolutely no sense. 2 nights ago, i called him upstairs because i was ready to go to bed, and he walked into the hall and yelled "Hey [my name], show me whatcha got.show me whatcha got. I could tell he was drunk, and it really scares me. So i yelled "never mind" and put myself to bed. he then walked into my sisters room and layed down in her bed. She yelled at him to get out and walked back to his room saying "my kids hate me" over and over. And last night, It was just me and him in the house because both my sisters were on sleepovers and my mom and him are divorced. He came in my room at 1 in the morning. I said what are you doing he said "hey. Listen to me." I kept saying "no get out what are u talking about". he said "just listen. I wanted to know if you wanted to watch the **** on the....the TV with me? [gibberish talk]". I said dad get out its one in the morning Ur not making sense just leave let me sleep. Anyway, he is just super confusing when he;s drunk. And i dont know hy, but it scares me so bad. After he left my room, i cried and researched how to deal with an alcoholic parent for 3 hours. Its the next day and i haven't come out of my bed. I feel afraid of him. i dont ever want to see him. Its not even that i want to, i feel parylized with fear of seeing him. I am terrified. What do i do

Question: What should I do in this situation?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 09:03 AM PDT

For the past 3 years my brother (21) has came to visit. The first time he visited he fingered me and then left back to california. I started shutting down and self harming, I have been through abuse verbally, emotionally and physically since I was 4 through foster care. I couldn t tell anyone, about what he did, then a year later (last year) my grandma said he was coming back. I started crying and told her what happened and she said" Oh yeah your uncle did that to your mom" and she said that time when on. So she did nothing and she said she wasn t going to do anything in my situation. So I cried and wanted to leave, well when he came back he was in the room the whole time, not working or anything and I tried to use my computer for school work while he played video games. Keep in mind I pay for the internet, my own food, and my clothes. Well I turned off the WiFi and took the cord into my room, he got up, saw I took the cord and kicked down my door. He threatned to kill me and ruin my life, claiming he did nothing to me and was always . I begged grandma to do something and she said there was no point I took away the cord so I should have expected that. Long story short I called the cops and they did nothing and when my brother left I had to pay for his way. Well now he s coming back in a few weeks and I don t have a job, I m still and high school and my boyfriend lives a few states away. I have no place to go.

Question: Why dose my mom love my brother more��?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 08:54 AM PDT

I'm (13) and a girl and I have a (12) year old brother my mom always calls him her baby and her beautyful boy and she dose everything with him and dose it without me she never Compliments me and she always keeps secrets and always lets my brother get the easy way out my brother is always rude to me he hits me and yet my mom gets mad at me for the fact😪...

Question: My mother wants me to be a pastor.?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 08:48 AM PDT

So I'm a junior in high school and I'm planning on eventually becoming a family physician. However, my mother is constantly bringing up church and how I talked about being a pastor when I was 12. She keeps pushing it on me, trying to guilt me into become a pastor. I'm an intelligent person and I hate for it to go to waste (not trying to sound ignorant). What do I do? Is there anyway to get her to come to terms about my dreams? I hate to sound disrespectful when I talk to her as our family is very religious.

Question: I am a negronoid?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 08:20 AM PDT

Question: 10 year old sister stealing? help!?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 08:19 AM PDT

She's been stealing food since last year, she took a few of our siblings snacks from the fridge and she knows who it belongs. Now she recently stole some of my vitamins which she knew what it was and it tastes like candy. It's very expensive. What should i do? I'm 20 btw and telling our parents is out of the questions since she is our adopted sister and their favorite.

Question: 19 year old cousin drunk?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 06:31 AM PDT

Im at my cousins and I found him passed out on his recliner. I was able to move him to the couch laying down and he s talking (just not makjng sense). Should I call anyone or will he be fjne sleeping?

Question: I'm sad. Please answer.?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 05:17 AM PDT

I overall feel depressed. I've been looking forward to my friend coming over, and she was supposed to go today, but her dad has to work. My sister was supposed to come for March 1st, because I haven't seen her in a year, bc she has college, and I can't. I'm not allowed to see my dad, and he doesn't even talk to me when I text back. Any tips on getting back to living a positive life?

Question: Theres a certain mother and daughter I want to sleep with- how do I get the father out of the way?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 04:59 AM PDT

Question: What should i do if my parents don't love me?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 03:43 AM PDT

When i was younger i have faint memories of my parents loving me but now it is obvious that they don't. They are split up, so i only see my dad every other weekend, and almost every second he spends with my older brother, he never speaks to me or makes any attempt to make sure i am alright. My mum also clearly loves my brother more, she says that everything is my fault, that when i do the smallest thing i have apparently ruined her day. She recently says that i ruin everyday for her, but in actual fact most days i haven't anything wrong. I'm guessing just my general presence that annoys her so much. Neither of my parents are depressed or anything that would make them feel this way towards me. My mom is now suggesting that i go live with my dad, but without even asking my dad i know that he would never want me to live with him. I feel as if i'm not wanted. I know all of this isn't me being over dramatic because my friends notice it as well. I just don't understand why MY OWN PARENTS don't want me??? Honestly it's making me super depressed and i reckoned if i killed myself my parents wouldn't actually care that much and in some way, they would be relieved that they only had to worry about the "normal", "funny" and "clever" child.The worst thing is my parents are completely normal people, there not alcoholics, they are very nice people, which is why i think it must be me. I don't want to confront anyone about this, but i need to know if i should stay or just leave?

Question: Loan lender?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:53 AM PDT

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Question: How to stop going to my dads house?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:52 AM PDT

Im 13 and So my mom and dad dont live together but i spend a week with my mom every second weekend with my dad and recently 1 weekday a week with him. He used to come over to my house now and again but he cant anymore because he kept going through my stuff and looking at my moms credit card bills and creeping us out. So now i have to go to him and I hate it! So much!! I never liked going but i put up with it and i just cant go anymore, the room i stay in is freezing and i hate having to bring bags everywhere. Im not myself around him, im never happy. My mom knows i dont like going but when she has plans i have to. And sometimes when shes mad at me or i did something wrong she will say "do you want me to make you stay at your dads for a week" and sometimes she does. I dont know what to do, I used to go just every second weekend and i could manage that but the more ive been going the more confusing it gets and the more i want someone to help me. Please can no one tell me to suck it up... i have been for 13 years and i cant do it anymore what are my choices at this age

Question: Feel lame for not having had sex?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:41 AM PDT

I'm 19 and I haven't had sex? I really want to but of course I want to make sure it's with a good guy. I have deep desires for it at times but worry I'll never get the chance to have see or the time won't come. I've talked with my aunts about it (we are very close) they tell me their silly fun stories of being young and having fun with guys and how amazing sex is or was. Then I see myself and think I'm still a virgin, and I haven't even had see.. I want to have sex and feel how awesome it is. I just feel a bit lame especially next to them for not having had sex yet. Although like I said I really want fo.. any advice?

Question: Do you think she still means it ?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:34 AM PDT

In December I lost my parents and was going through helll. My bestfriend was there for me so much and I thanked her one night for being so loving to me while I was crying to her. I'll never forget her letter she wrote me, it said something that moved me dearly, "sweet girl you are special, with a kindred soul..." we are still extremely close and talk all the time but Do you think she still means that?

Question: Can my social worker deny me of living with family members?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 02:01 AM PDT

My case worker moved me into a group home out of my familys home, I had asked to move with another family member but instead she put me in a group home and never ran a background check on the family member i wanted to move with is she allowed to just decide i cant move there even if their record is clean? Also if i were to ask to move back into my family members house after complaining would they consider allowing that or once you leave thats it. Especially since moving to a group home has affected my well being causing me to become depressed and not eat

Question: Theres a certain mother and daughter I want to sleep with- how do I get the father out of the way?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:39 AM PDT

Question: I saw my cousin (18, male) came out of my dad's room one morning?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:07 AM PDT

My dad took him in when he was 14. He's a good guy. He helps with the chores. My dad takes care of him even though he's not blood-related with him. He's my cousin from my mother's side who passed away from a kidney disease. My dad buys him stuff. He bought him an iPhone6s. What me and my brother have, my dad makes it a point that my cousin also has them. On his birthday, my dad threw a party for him. Im not really that affected but it seems suspicious. And then I saw him get out of my dad's room looking like he just had sex. Should I confront my cousin? I feel really bad about this. Any advice?

Question: Is it weird I like watching my aunt smoke her cigarettes?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 01:02 AM PDT

Question: I think my dad raped me??

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 12:56 AM PDT

My dad gets drunk a lot... He came home last night and my mom wasn't home so he slammed my door open and forced his penis into my mouth... I cried and told him to stop but he wouldn't. He made me suck him until he finished then hit me and told me to go to bed... I'm scared if I call the police he will hurt me or my mom... What do I do?... Is this okay for him to do?...

Question: Need help with my brother?

Posted: 26 Mar 2017 12:20 AM PDT

Hi All, Firstly we are a sort of religious household (Faith doesn't matter), we were a family of 6, me, my brother, two sisters, my mom, and my dad. Now i have this particular brother he is 23, and most of the time he just a selfish inconsiderate asshole, unemployed, jokes in insensitive ways not knowing when to stop, It got worse after my father died, my brother has shown little respect and has now started drinking, Can someone help me in way to deal with him, I can't live like this.

Question: How to deal with a jealous brother-in-law?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:59 PM PDT

hello..i have a very jealous brother-in-law. i have a successuful job and financially well off. my brother-in-law is a felon and he is been in and out of prison several time for years... he recently asked me to lend him several thousands dollars..!! i said i cant ...he asked me again after few weeks and i said i really cant do that...he is the type that he WONT return your money if you lend it to him...anyway, after i said no to him the last time, he got upset and i felt like he is just itching to fight me me...and not just verbal..but physical....i try to avoid any confrontation with him.,..but EVERY time i wanna see my in laws, he is there too (he lives with them)...and it makes me very unconformable..any suggestions on how to deal with this situation? thank you

Question: How do I punish my son for getting erections at the daily extended family bath?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:52 PM PDT

So we as a family take family baths together. Unfortunately, my 14 year old son has been getting erections at the family bath and that is inappropriate since his sisters and grandmother are there in the tub as well. How should I punish him for having erections during the daily family bath?

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:43 PM PDT

So I'm 16 and I'm pregnant. I'm keeping the baby and everything so don't tell me I'm making a mistake I know what I'm doing. I have a really good job and I make plenty of money. My dad is supporting me and my mom isn't in my life but the father of the baby lives with me and the rest of his family lives across the country. We have been together for a long time but I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore. He is really mean and abusive. He also doesn't give a **** about my well being or the babies well being. We had a **** job and he is lazy and doesn't do anything. He just doesn't care about anything. I think I want him to just leave and go back to his family and I just raise the baby on my own. I'm just not sure how to go about it. Can anyone give advice? Thank you!

Question: What is it called when parents abuse their children but the children are over 18?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:32 PM PDT

My friend is 23 and her parents won t let her take her car and go to work, won t let her do her own taxes, and have a gps put in her car so they know where she goes. They beat her and allow her older brother beat her as well as her younger brother. She has tried to leave but the parents threaten to call the cops and her and tell them she is trying to do something that will harm others so she would be put into a mental hospital or something. What can be done? She has been taken away by CPS when she was younger but given back within a year and her parents beat her even more for it.

Question: Theres a certain mother and daughter I want to sleep with- how do I get the father out of the way?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:22 PM PDT

Question: Am I poor?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:20 PM PDT

Right now I live in an upper-middle class neighborhood and I have tens of thousands of dollars worth of electronics, collectibles, and other assorted junk. However, we can barely afford the rent here, even though we are friends with our landlords and managed to get low rent because of it. All of our possessions have been accumulated over the years because of my parents' severe problems with impulse spending, and with the exception of the computers (which my dad needs for work) all of the electronics are 5-10 years old. Speaking of which, my dad doesn't even have a traditional job. He programs for my grandpa and I guess they share a small business, but my grandpa constantly cheats my dad out of his hard-earned money, and my dad can't stand up to him because of all this psychological sh!t that happened after my dad's mother died of cancer when he was growing up. Meanwhile, my mum sat on her fat a*s for 13 years and did nothing until recently, when she got a minimum-wage job at Starbucks, and that's what we're relying on for groceries right now. Now that I've told you all this, I can get to the point of this question. Am I poor? I'm not homeless or starving or anything, but I have reason to believe that my parents are filing for bankruptcy again, and it really is just a sh!tty situation right now. But everytime I complain about it, people tell me that I'm actually "well-off" because of the stuff I have, and I should be happy. I think they're full of sh!t.

Question: Is my dad worth kicking out of my life?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:18 PM PDT

He has always blamed me for his faults. He has always tried to make up for it by buying me things but I never wanted anything and now I feel spoiled and I have really no sense of Earn. He takes me places sure. But then he gets mad at me for something I have not done. He's accused me of theft of his cards. Theft as in buying things with his card. All of this goes on when I'm not at his house. (Parents divorced) . My mom defends me, too and I show proof that I have nothing that he claims that I have or have taken. He's told me constantly I shoudn't of been adopted or born. He constantly tells me he hates me and then when I confront him he says he will change but doesn't. He used to hit me when I was younger with things until my mom found out. Whenever I'd confront him about ANY of the things he's said or done; he acts innocent. He thinks of himself a lot of the times . He doesn't take care of himself and as I grew I realized he was unfit to be a caretaker. Sometimes when he's really mad he won't feed me until I call my mom or walk someone and buy food myself with my own money from work. I asked him a favor to help me pay a overdraft fee and he did. But then a few days later told my mom I stole his card. Should I kick him out of my life when I turn 18 next year?

Question: How to track down a man you don't know anything about?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 10:15 PM PDT

A year ago I lost my father and in my grief went clubbing (which I never do) and had a one night stand with a man I didn't really know. I got pregnant and have a baby son who I love to death but ever since I found out I was pregnant I've been looking for his dad, so my son won't grow up without one and so his dad won't have to miss out on him. I remember the guy lost his baby daughter years ago and was very family oriented and always wanted children (but was no longer married) and I'm sure he would hate missing out on his kids life. He already missed the most important bit, the very start. I don't necessarily want to be with him but I do want my son to have the opportunity to meet his father. All I know is his first name (and it was an extremely common name) and that he wasn't from my country, just visiting (I don't even know which country, my son looks slightly some part asian but I don't know if his dad is even from a part of asia or what part). I've tried everything but I really can't think of how else to look for him. I had his number in my phone which broke before I even found out I was pregnant, I have tried to get it fixed a few times as it's my only hope but it is stuffed. What do I do? Where do I start? Even if he has no interest in being involved I need to be able to contact his bio father in case of a medical thing that could be genetic or something, and anyway he has a right to know.

Question: I just turned 22. Should I start finding a place of my own?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 09:34 PM PDT

I live with my uncle and his two sons. He treats me really well. On my birthday, he bought a cake for me and threw a BBQ party for me. I used to work at a restaurant as a waiter then I got laid off. My uncle said I don't need to work. I can just help doing household chores. I have no college degree but would want one. My uncle said he will help me but I don't want to impose. Should I start finding a job and move out or let my uncle help me?

Question: How do i get aborted even though im seventeen?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 09:31 PM PDT

i want to unbirth myself

Question: I hate my life my mom and dad keep fighting every month about dum **** I mean me I go through harsh thing as kid but this is make me sad?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 09:01 PM PDT

Question: Would you be a 24 Hour care a taker for you Grand parent ?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 08:46 PM PDT

would you at 15 years old run home on lunch break from high school to feed and take care of your grand mother everyday and when you put in for a job your mother tells the employer when they call that you are not there and never tells you, then after high school your parents tell you that they need help and you need to watch your grand mother as they work all day. You duties would be clean the house ,take care of the animals,deal with a ***** aunt and your parents yell at you and you get free wifi,food,cell phone in return and you cant work or go to school because you need to watch your grand mother 24/7 no breaks ,would you?

Question: Thinking about giving my 1-year old up for adoption. Will I regret it?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 08:31 PM PDT

I am a 21 year old Mother to my one year old son. We live in a fairly small town. I've been out of a job for a year now. His Dad has been in jail for a month now. He will be released June 15th. He wasnt much help anyways. He couldnt keep a Job.We have a Car that will soon get repo because I can't afford it anymore. My family cannot support us or care for my son properly. His Dad family was helping me at one point but they have been avoiding helping me lately. I've been so stress out. My mom kicked us out a month ago I've been living with my family in a crowded house my son and I do not sleep well. I feel like a complete failure. I.think.its.only right for me to give him to a couple who can care for him. Or is that a bad Idea. ? I feel like things won't get better anytime soon. I think I'm on the verge of a break down. Sometime I feel like I can do it and other days I sit and Cry a lot. Ive Even picked up a smoking habit

Question: Would you go to a funeral of a neighbor who died you had no relationship with never spoken too? Is that expected to go?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 08:28 PM PDT

My mother s neighbor committed suicide by shooting himself about 6 months ago. The lady next door to her who did know this person who died got really upset with my mother for not going. My mother was never invited but the lady next door who s home is between my mother s and this man who died called her told her to get ready for the funeral it was in 4 hours my mother told her she wasn t going because she never even spoke to the man. His wife never invited my mother. Now the lady next door will not speak to my mother any longer she is so upset about it. I would not go to a funeral for someone I had no contact with. The man was very cold to my mother he never even said hi or even wave to her.

Question: Any advice?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 08:21 PM PDT

I was jealous of my sister liking our older brother more than she like me for a long time. But recently Ive been her favorite brother and I'm trying all I can to make my older brother Jealous. Yesterday she put on her dress and took a picture with me. My brother seen the photo but why arent he getting Jealous?

Question: How do I convince a girl I had a crush on that while I really loved her once initially, I now see her as more of a little sister I never had?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 07:51 PM PDT

I think on a large level she knew I cared about her a lot more than I'm supposed to, and she seems a little depressed that I am going to go away in a few months, because she values me (way) above some other male friends in our group.. (The reason we couldn't be together is because my best friend is going out with her and plans to marry her, so instead of chasing after her, I simply decided to have become a brother-like figure to her instead, so I guess you could say it is now a slightly above platonic love between us)

Question: Why am i always so angry at my mom?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 07:17 PM PDT

i m a 15 year old girl and no matter what my mom does/says i m always increbily irritated/angry with her. i would blame hormones but if only happens with her. no one else. and for the most part she hasn t given me any reason to be mad at her. it s unreasonable, unsettling anger.

Question: I m caught in the middle of my parents divorce?

Posted: 25 Mar 2017 06:39 PM PDT

My dad makes me feel as if I should hate my mom and my mom makes me feel as if I should hate my dad. They always try to get back at each other and I m always the victim. It s gotten to the point I cry almost every night trying to convince my self I shouldn t have to chose between which parent I hate and love. My dad tells me my mom spends my child support he gives her. And he says it all the time. And my mom says my dad doesn t care about me but just cares about money. I m so sick of it and it is heart wrenching to me! They are making this divorce so much harder on me and it has been three years already and nothing has changed. I try to tell my dad to stop putting me in the middle and he won t listen and instead walks away. He is filled with so much hatred he feels as if he needs to get me to hate my mom as much as he does. I love both of my parents and I m pretty sure me being this confused and stressed to the point I sit and cry every time I think about it, is unhealthy. I just don t know how to get there attention enough to actually listen to me