My husband and I got married very young (18). We have been married for going on two years now. Early on in the marriage, I discovered my husband has a sex addiction. Long story short, after finding out, I decided to stick by him on his road to recovery. After all, I love this person very much and want this to work. But now, over a year later, I don't think I can do it any more. As anyone who's dealt with addiction knows, addictions don't disappear overnight. While I know this, there's been so much deceit, hurt and so many lies that I don't think I can ever heal from it. Dealing with the trauma from multiple betrayals has made me lose my happiness and who I am as a person. I still care about him deeply as a person and a friend, but I am not in love any more. I told him this & asked for a separation.He understood because he knows it's been really hard on me, so I flew home. It's been two weeks and I feel guilty for feeling extremely relieved and happier than I have been in a really long time. I feel horrible because he is trying to better himself, continues to go to therapy and a 12 step program. He misses me and wants this to work more than anything, but I don't miss him much. I feel like I can finally live my life and I'm not living in constant fear that he'll mess up. I'm scared because I don't know what the right answer is. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust and be happy with him again. I don't even know if I want to at this point.

So my ex husband has to pay alimony and child support of 2400 dollars a month now, today i knew he was lying about ky signature, he even showed a document to judge supposedly my signature that i never signed but somehow forged it. My question is, would the judge send him to prison? Or would the judge decide to let him stay and make him work for the fines and the spousal support and child support? I have 4 children, i dont work or have income. Because i wouldnt know how i would do it if he was sent to prison, it wouldnt make sense

He is always angry always screaming and uses my mom's money.My mom earns money more than him.if his salary is 1 dollar my mom's salary is 40 dollars.My mom was university student when they got married ,my dad looked after my older brother in those days and helped her A LOT and then my mom graduated and earned great moneys.Then he started to say i don't wanna work i just wanna to please and fun -_-I remember when i was a little kid they always fought over this. He wanted to go to trip with his FRIENDS,he is also flirtatious. After years he just goes to trips with his family(because my mom fought with him a lot)and he doesn't work.The problem is he always blames my mom for everything,She earn alot of money it's her money she knows what to do with that but he want's to control her and her money.My mom works from morning until lunch time then she works in evening and she also works in home.He does NOTHING and tells her why are u tired u did nothing-_-I just can't stand him i'm so angry at him right now. What should i do??????????? He always destroys my mom's life with his terrible behavior.He slapped in my mom's face two times.My mom is an angel she does everything for us.Please help!!! What i wrote is not a conservative post it's truths.Every one who knows my mom tell this!!!! I'm a girl and we are good friends i always tell her to divorce but it's not the solution please help!! I'm 19

My wife is in the hospital getting ready to have our son. Shes upset she was thinking aboUT when her daughter was born. Her daughter was born in December 2012 lots of stuff were going on then. Of course she was freaking out because her daughter was born on December 21 which was suppose to be the end of the world. Also the shooting at Sandy Hook happened the week before she was nervous and upset about that. There was a lot of stuff going on at that time. She still hasn't told her daughter about the shooting shes not sure if she ever should tell her. She doesn't have much to worry about now but it was scary for her then. Shes still upset right now thinking of it. December 2012 was a scary time for her. How can I help her feel better ?

Does anybody here have experience with this type of surgery? Risks involved and general results? Money isn't much of an issue in this situation (unless you're talking like 6 figures).

My ex husband is says he refuses to let my daughter be alone with my new husband. He has a daughter of his own so he knows how to take care of a kid. I just need him to take her to daycare. Can my ex really refuse to let her be alone with her stepdad

Lately, my fiancee and I have really hit a wall. She's been going through some sort of phase with her not knowing what she wants. I told her that her not treating me right, no communicating and basically shutting down when i want to talk to her is really pushing me away. We worked so hard to come together and have a home and just a few months after being engaged this is happening. We have no sex life no romace and frankly i am out of moves and ideas to come up with for to better our relationship. We are both off weekends and I am thinking on leaving tomorrow after work and checking into a hotel for a couple days until sunday. i dont know why but i feel like doing this may give us a bit of breathing room and maybe break her into talking to me about what exactly she wants. Any tips or opinions??

He seemed concerned if surgery would leave scars on your body too

Sometimes I feel like he's never going to change. He's a recovering alcoholic and he just always judges everyone for being richer etc. He brings up my best all the time in a bad way and calls me a butch when I snap back. He's always accusing me of wanting to be with my children's father when he's mad about something. It always comes out of nowhere and he makes me feel like **** for hours. We've been married for a year after a few months of dating. He was great for a couple months and then tonight idk.

Okay, my parents are divorced, they have been for years, neither are married, and I am an only child. This is my junior year, and I need some help preparing for next year. I do not know which parent I need to use on my applications. They have split custody, but I only live with one. The other doesn't provide for me at all. Parent 1: I live with, and makes more money, but doesn't claim me on taxes. Parent 2: I don't live with, doesn't help us, but claims be on taxes. A bunch of these applications say to use the custodial parent, but my counsoler tells me to use the one who claims me. I am greatly confused.

She keeps accusing me of cheating, And keeps harrassing a woman I work with because she thinks I'm having an affair with her. I'm a patient man, but this is going to far. How to make an end to her madness?

Together we have two children, and they fight each other a lot. Not so much as a fist fight, but more of an argument. My wife keeps bugging me to punish them when they fight each other. If you ask me, siblings fighting is as natural as nature itself. Besides, what would she have me do? Spank them, or yell at them? For crying out loud, children fight, it's what they do. What should I do?

1. He's very busy but goes out of his way to talk to me; he doesn't do this to anyone else. After work, he will sometimes stand in my office awarkly and make small talk or mention how he feels. 2. When he thought that I said something about him, he reacted so strongly and was outwardly upset with me for weeks and refused to speak to me. He would make it a point to look angrily into me eyes. Other coworkers publicly tell him negative remarks to his face all the time, and he is never angry with thrm.

Hello everyone. I am a dual citizen of the United States and Germany. I ve lived in the states for about 4 years. The man I married and also the father of my daughter was abusive while I was pregnant. I filed a domestic violence charge and no contact orders through the military (he is in the military) he always denies his daughter and then turns around and says he wants to take her away from me when she is born because I m just a "egg donor" and not her mother. The emotional abuse is endless. Can I legally leave the country while pregnant and go back home to Germany?

now i want to make sex with her , so can i tell her that i saw her and my dad?

Hi i an Laksh....My wife is 19 years old ... Shez really very kiddish girl ...she even sleeps with teddy ...and she scared of doctors a lot ...(nd unfortunately m a surgeon doctor lol)... Shez really nd nervous scared about physical intimacy and all ...at our first night we didn't make out cuz she was terrified... Later we tried after a week ...but she was really nervous .obviously cuz of her fear it hurts her more and she starts crying... So I immediately stopped n make her clam n sleep ...we tried about 4/5 times but every time she feared nd cried ... I can't see her crying.. I tried to explain her the fact that sex is a normal thing she shouldn't be so scared but no use of that.. Any idea what to do or how to make her understand??

As a guy, 17, I've been thinking ahead and I was wondering is marriage really worth it anymore? I mean marriage is a very big risk for men where we could lose our homes, cars, money, children and, for more emotional men, their lives to the stress of divorce. When people say "love conquers all", I think about all of the celebrities who probably will never find real love due to the risk of some gold digger. I would say that marriage is worth it if you love someone but with divorce rates so high and child support becoming normal it's kinda stressful. I mean I was raised by a single mother and rarely saw my father so I don't think being married is necessary. I'm OK with general relationships but I think marriage has come to the point where it's not worth it. What do you all think?

I have been divorced for 6 years. I was fresh out of high school at 17 when I got married. (Not smart I know) I thought I was in love until the relationship became physical. He was very abusive physically and emotionally. I was terrified of him and never filled reports against him out of of fear of what he would do. I have a child with him and I still have to see him and talk to him on occasions. I have since been remarried to a wonderful man (going on 3 years of marriage!) He is still as perfect as I met him 5 years ago. Although, my ex husband still gives me trouble about everything, including our son. I am now pregnant after trying for 2 years, I m so happy but at the same time I am stressed cause of my ex husband giving me trouble about it. He basically has threatened that if he is ever around "that kid" I will regret it. I don t plan to ever bring my baby around him but I am feeling like he is threatening to hurt my baby. He has even called me to let me know that if his sisters or his mom come near my baby they will also regret doing so. (His mom has always been there for me and my son and it s sad that he is even threatening his mom if she sees the new baby) if his mom ever showed up at my house wanting to see the baby I would let her but I m afraid of what the outcome will be for her. I just don t know what I can do but I want my baby safe and away from the crazy person. Im afraid that eventually one day My ex husband and my new baby will cross paths.

Hye guys. let me know your opinion. What r u guys will decide if your partner have bad planing with u such as want to divorce u or make a collaboration with other to bring u out from your marriage.. So what the best action u will take?

Last year I was on an exercise kick. I'd get out and walk a couple of miles each night until I started having pretty bad shin splints and my knees started to hurt really bad. I would ask my wife to walk with me but in a 7 day period she may go with me once then complain I was walking too fast. She took that was a romantic stroll instead of an exercise routine. I had a set pace. Well, today I sent her an email to say that I was going to start back walking next week and this was her reply. "I have been wanting to start back walking and you would always say NO, I don't want to. Now you are ready to walk again just so you can fit into your clothes better. I want to walk cause I know I need to lose some pounds. Why can't you do me the same courtesy when I want you to do something with me?" I told her no because my knees were still pretty sore not because I didn't want to walk with her. She still could have walked but if I don't do anything with her then she decides not to do it at all herself. I'm going to walk whether she goes with me or not but did I stop her from walking when I told her no? And why didn't she understand that my knees were still pretty sore and they needed time to heal. My wife feels that she's the only woman to ever go out walking alone and anytime she walks to the edge of the street to get the mail someone is liable to snatch her up. She just thinks that if I don't go with her then she can't go by herself. Oh, she can go to the mall by herself and walk around all day, walking to her car alone but she can't walk around our neighborhood that we've lived in for 10+ years without fear that someone is going to abduct her.

She was getting very close to a male friend of hers towards the end of our marriage. She texted him ALL THE TIME. I did something horrible... I went through her phone a few times over the course of a few days. I noticed that every time she texted him, portions of the conversation or whole conversations were deleted. When I confronted her about it, she denied that anything was happening. My gut still told me something was wrong. We divorced a year later. They are dating now. She was getting very close to a male friend of hers towards the end of our marriage. She texted him ALL THE TIME. I did something horrible... I went through her phone a few times over the course of a few days. I noticed that every time she texted him, portions of the conversation or whole conversations were deleted. When I confronted her about it, she denied that anything was happening. My gut still told me something was wrong. We divorced a year later. They are dating now.

I was discussing a lot with my friend and when it came to sex..I told him the few times I've woken up with my husband sticking his tool inside me early morning while I was asleep... She said its totally wrong and I'm getting raped by my husband as he dint get my consent.. I said its my husband who is having sex with me,not a stranger..Also,I feel proud by the fact that my husband couldn't control himself after seeing my body in the early morning and the first thought that came into his mind is sex.. She told me I was naive.Am I?? Should my husband ask me every time before he does to me?? FYI,My husband never forced me when I said no or not in mood.. Also,sometimes when I take shower,he would just join me and we would have a nice session in the hot shower.Should he ask me first before entering??

I know the traditions are paper and clocks. My husband is British so cotton is also a thing in the U.K. Our anniversary and his birthday are a few days apart. I thought about getting him a nice Movado watch and a scrapbook. But do people actually like receiving watches? I think the Sapphire chrome movado is beautiful and would match my husband's white gold wedding ring, but I don't know if people generally like watches that they haven't picked themselves.

she asked me if i would and i'd just love her so much

My husband told me he had banged these two girls and gave me two names. Now all of the sudden he decided to come clean after ten years while I interrogate him that there were three with diffirent names than what he told me. Totally different than the original two. I asked why he lied and he said you don t need to know since we re married. He knows every sexual partner I ve had. He said I didn t want to tell you because I didn t want to hurt you. I asked if it was anyone I know and he said no, and I wondered why that would hurt me. I feel hurt because he has been lying to me. He said he just wanted to act like he s been in long term relationships and that s why he lied when we first got together. I ve been dating this guy since I was 17, he s older than me and I don t want to look like an idiot and stay with someone who doesn t value me. If now is the time I ve got to get out while I can. I m a good looking girl and frequently get hit on while I m out. Just saying, my husband should love me more than anyone.

My husband is always making comments about how I should exercise more. I work out twice a week. He always gets mad at me for only doing 15 mins of cardio and 30 mins weights/ stretching. I get frustrated because I do not enjoy a vigorous work out and I enjoy it less when he is pressuring me about. I have a great metabolism, eat balanced meals, and weigh 125 pounds and I feel healthy. Because he very active compared to me, he thinks I am lazy. He wants me to be healthy but he tries to guilt me into doing it. It ends up just making me resent him a little and I don't know how to handle it.

He is friends with a few exes, which I'm fine with. The issue is that none of them know about me. I asked him to make me known to them if he is going to keep talking to them and his exact words were that he sees no point in randomly bringing up the fact that he got married last month. We have been together 2 years. The other day, an ex called that wanted a booty call. When he hung up, I asked if she knew about me and he said he accidentally picked up her call, would no longer talk to her, but she did not know about me either. He talks to 3 exes and I feel like I'm being disrespected. He said he doesn't want to hurt their feelings. This is getting overwhelming.