I have pretty terrible grades. My dad doesn't realize, my mom checks it, then yells at me and then waits and then checks again repeat, and my brother (who is a math nerd and a Marine recruit) likes to bring up how my future is over and I'm stupid as ****. I am not my brother by a long shot, he's kind and smart and funny. I'm nicish smart in very specific very rarly brought up subjects and sarcastic. Also my best class is English which I have a B in. My mom read out my grades in shock "You've a F in math, and C in Spanish and a D in science!"(Not grades were in for history). I waited for her to say "And a B in english" but no. Just my terrible grades. When I missed the first assignment at the beginning of the term she said Math and English were the most important subjects. But now that I'm doing good in it, it can't have any real effect on the real world. She only sees the disappointments and never rewards good behavior only punishes. I'm sick and tired of this. My mom only talking about my worst aspects and my brother always bringing them up. Question= I don't know how to ask for help so that. And how can I not fail. Question= I don't know how to ask for help so that. And how can I not fail?

I am a high school girl having a sleep over at my house for my close friends at high school. The girls ask me to give them all boxes of condoms that I hope this will prevent any more teen age pregnancies. There has been a lot of that at my school and it just ruined the girls lives. I going to have each girl learn how to use them. To be sure they will know now to use them they will get to practice putting them on with either a banana or my brother. Gals, which would you prefer?

I am divorced but it was a friendly divorce. 2 times after our divorce, I ran into financial difficulty and my ex husband gave me money to bail me out even though he had no legal obligation to do so. He did it because he is a nice guy. I did not pay him back that money and he has not asked me to pay him back. I am getting married again and my friends tell me that will be the end of any money he will give me. Do you think it will? They also tell me that if he gets married again, his new wife will not let him send money to his old wife which I think is probably true. I would not want my new husband giving money to his ex. Should I try to pay him back the money he gave me or just forget it and let both of us get on with our lives?

I have 2 step sisters, my step mother's teenage daughters. They love to tease me. One of them told me she wanted something long, hard, big and round. I said no problem so I got her a cucumber. Another time her sister told me she did not want to sleep alone so I got her a teddy bear. One time they ask me if I wanted to make them happy? I said sure, what would make you happy. They told me 12 inches so I got them a ruler. I am sure a supportive brother aren't I?

It's been a year since my brother died And he has still not respawned. Can someone tell me why?

Whenever I need my own privacy it is not granted to me, my Mom snoops around my stuff, my computer, and the worse thing is she doesn't even let me close my damn door! When I close my door it s usually to try to block out sound as much as possible out of my room, recording a video, etc. Sometimes also just because I need to be alone, so does everyone else. Even when I'm changing she comes in and asks what I'm doing. I've never been a bad kid, I've always respected them, and done chores around the house (which she thinks I don't do enough of) the instant I close my door she comes storming in (without any warning) just to see what I'm doing and ask me why I closed my door and that I know she doesn't like me closing my door. I feel like I should have the right to close my door. The only justification she has is that I m sometimes on my computer late... So does every other kid. I wonder if I'm doing something wrong? I can't figure out what her problem is and how I can solve it.

She seeing us for dinner tomorrow and she's in town for a funeral on the other side of her family. She's 88 years old but when I saw her last about 20 years ago she beat me into submission because I was still a teenager.

Right off the bat, I want to say this is not for attention. I am looking for serious opinions, and answers. I'm wondering if there is any other way out besides suicide. I know this seems like another stupid teen question, but I am truly stuck. You see, about two years ago, my mom decided she didn't want me anymore, and called up my dad that had left us 10 years prior. I've been living with my dad ever since. He is controlling, manipulative, and flat out abusive. I'm not talking about the usual "fat", "ugly", or "worthless" remark, I'm saying genuine screaming, and pushing, and telling me I'm a failure, and I ruined his life on a WEEKLY BASIS. Whenever I try to tell the school counselor, or police officer, he just lies and says I'm this horrible person, and says he would never do that to his own daughter. It's not like I can run away, the cops would find me. I'm 16, so I can't just move out. I'm left without any options. The only liable option would be to die.

So last night a situation went down in which my family friend stole something from her, and I was there not saying anything to her about it. However I didn t know that they were stealing, the way they phrased it my mom was supposed to buy it from them and she decided not to so they were taking it back, so I said okay. Eventually my mom called, furious about it. The police got involved and said that they had the right to keep it. Later on she accused me of smiling during the confrontation and let me just say that it was freezing outside and I was shaking and my teeth were chattering and I was NOT smiling, then she asked me what I was doing while I was there and all this other stuff when I said something to the effect of well you didn t pay for it so I guess they re eight s which is when she literally screamed I was a disloyal ***** and that she had payed for it and she did explain the situation later on much calmer. She accused me of not loving or even liking her. She still hasn t apologized but she s started acting like everything s fine and dandy but I feel sick to my stomach and I can t stop thinking about it, I don t know what to do or how to feel.

I just got home form college for my week spring break. I had a 5 hour drive home so I drove home in my bare feet and kept my sandals in the back out of the way. It was very comfortable driving in my bare feet and from now on I will always drive in my bare feet.

I need a bit of help. I mind my 3 sisters and brother every weekend from Thursday to Sunday for my mother. ( they are between 10 and 18 years younger) I've done this for the past 3 years. I could really do with a break as I have 2 young kids and am engaged. I don't know how to tell her without her getting offended or starting an argument, I just want a bit of time for my own family.

Hi guys. i'm new on Yahoo. I have a question about my brother. Well, lately he has been acting weird (Not at home tho) Atleast 1-2 months ago he suddenly stopped going to school and our dads place. I dont think that he gets bullied. He just got slapped lol. Or thats what his friend said. And also why doesnt he go to our dads place? i dont think that my dad is treating him bad, because I was there always almost the same time as hr was (excuse my grammar). At home he is like normal. Also today when he had to go to my dads place, yes he said he will go but hes now just somewhere. i think that he is scared of our dad??? Also always he pretends he goes to school, but he just disappears and comes back after 6 hours. Does anyone of you know what is happening with him? Also im 13 and he is 14.

I'm a 27 year old man. My wife is 35, and she has a 15 year old son, and she is currently 8 months pregnant with our baby boy. Anyway, I have a lot on my plate, trying to earn a living, caring for my pregnant wife; who is a stay-at-home mom, and her son is certainly not being of any help. He wont help keep the house clean, he talks back to his mom when I'm at work, and generally just causes trouble. I know I'm only 12 years older then him, and not his real father, so he's not going to respect me like he should. Hell, he hated me while his mom and I were dating! I understand his reasons for not liking me, as I already stated, so his lack of respect for me doesnt bother so much. But his treating his mom, my wife, like dirt; especially while she's pregnant, is something I have zero tolerance for. But I honestly don't know what to do! My first instinct admittedly, even though he's 15, is to take him over my knee and whip his butt with my belt, and I'm more than able to do it, but his mom is against spanking, so I have to consider her feelings. And I don't like the idea of having to paddle a teenager, but he's acting more like a 5 year old, as opposed to a 15 year old. He treats her like crap, and I'm gonna put a stop to it somehow, that much I know. Anyway, what can I do to get him to cooperate and help out around the house, as well as show the respect for his mom and me?

I'm related to someone in history (let's call him Bob) and I'd like to find out the exact term/words for it. My grandpa on my mom's side said this to me, in reference of himself: "We are both descended from -insert random name I want to keep private-, my 6th great grandfather and Bob's 4th great grandfather. Bob is therefore my 3rd cousin 4x removed." If that's Bob's relationship to my grandpa, what's Bob's relationship to me? Thank you in advance :)

I m 15 years old will be 16 in a month and my parents found out that I smoke weed. They re very strict. How do I handle this? I know they ll be furious but what do I say?

I've reached my breaking point. My stepmom is a paranoid, power-hungry freak. She's illogical and vengeful and always needs to be the victim. If I walk a certain way to get up the stairs and to the table, she explodes and bitches about how I'm being a snob and avoiding her. SHe doesn't allow my father to have a password on his phone because she wants complete access to whatever is inside it. She searched it yesterday - like he's a ******* CHILD - and was pissed off when it came out clean because "he MUST be hiding something". If I don't make eye contact, she thinks I'm being a brat. She talks about us on the phone to her friends or whatever complaining about us where we can hear, and she DEMANDS kindness and respect from me and my siblings. I could go on and on about this. She makes me feel like my thoughts and feelings mean nothing. I constantly feel like I'm in trouble and they're always fighting. I fear coming home from school thinking I'll get yelled at. She makes me feel so small and worthless. I'm so sad and broken inside but I can't tell anyone because I'm not allowed to voice a goddamn opinion in my house. My dad said "I chose her, not you guys" talking about me and my siblings, as if that justified how she treats us. I'm sick. My head is jumbling and I can't think correctly right now. I'm 17 years old and can't move out anytime soon because of our poor financial situation. Please, somebody help me. What do I do?

So i used to live with my dad last year and he would let me go with friends or let them cone over but last year i decided to move with my mom for a better school but she doesn t ket me go anywhere or do anything with friends

my boyfriend and i were talking about our future the other day and he said after we get married in we live together his little brother is gonna live with us and its the 3 of us. i got really pissed off inside but i didnt say anything, i want us to live together just US, if we're married and husband and wife i want us to have our own privacy, i dont want his lil bro in our house tf. i dont see why his brother cant go out and get his own place and take care of himself, like ughh it really frustrates me but ofc i didnt say anything to him bc thats his family and i dont wanna look mean but ugghhh its just annoying that he woukd also make that kind of decision without consulting me too. anyways what do you think, am i wrong? his brother is two years younger than him, he's perfectly fine and normal, no special needs at all, there's nothing wrong with him physically or mentally. He's just a little lazy and has a temper. my boyfriend and his family all live together, theyre parents are still alive, i live with my family, we sont live together but plan to when we settle down together.

This is why they are overprotective: *They won't let me go most places by myself *I have special education like an aide and a sped teacher *They won't let me drive a car till I am 18 *They won't let me have a job till 18 *Not allowed to date till 16 *Can't move out of house till finished with college *Limted makeup *Have cameras in my house I am 15 years old! Help???

I went through a really dark time in life, particularly on and off from 22 to 28. I lost my beautiful fiancé who i was connected with mentally, because I treated her bad, didn't want to get out of bed and ruined our Costa Rican vacation Cus I got high and drunk. I was addicted to opiates and dabbled in cocaien. I was once a easy going, funny, but hot tempered guy if someone pushed my buttons to much. Well, my dark side came out completely. I cheated on her without protection and then slept with her risking her health. I snorted Oxys I got from a motorcycle accident, unlimited scripts. I drag raced 130mph in the car with her in it, she ended up nearly scratching my eyes out afterwards and left me for two week, we made up. She tried her best, researched everything and even booked our vaca as my "detox" where I could rest and get clean in tropical paradise. I messed up. She left me later after trying and when she found out what I did. I didn't even remember.lost friends by promising to go out and falling asleep in bed high. they lost respect for me. I was arrested for trespassing , possession and resisting arrest related to my ex gf after showing up at her place , she had me arrested. I got into treatment and clean with help of mom for now 6 months. I feel normal again, I feel social and clear headed. I'm so embarrassed of what I did. I love her still. She's with a new guy traveling. I want to see my old friends and tell them what made me be flaky. I feel like a total lowlife

I live with my aunt and uncle (they're siblings, not married). My uncle is 55 but he has always been spoiled rotten so he doesn't know how to care for himself. He also refuses to learn because he's figured out that if he lets it go long enough...someone else will deal with it. It's been a problem all my life, but his bedroom is next to mine and I'm losing my mind!! He's a large man (400+lbs) and going down the stairs is too difficult when he needs to pee....so he has a gallon bucket in his room. He lets it get too full and puts a lid on it, letting it steep until the next time he clunks his way downstairs to empty it. The damn thing stinks up the whole house something awful! We have told him to clean it more often, but it falls on deaf ears. I'm tempted to throw on a hazmat suit and raid his room when he isn't here. I can't stand my bedroom and ME smelling like this disgusting mess. I'm losing my mind, and so is my aunt. We feel like there's nothing we can do at this point, and she won't kick him out because he's so helpless. Plus she promised grandma that she'd take care of him... Is there anything I can do short of going on the warpath armed with febreze and a flamethrower?

my sons dad filed to get primary custody of our son because he found out I have post partum depression. My son had lived with me his whole life. And up until our last court hearing I was the primary parent for our two year old son. My sons father has lied to court and said I left him with our son for more then 3 -4 weeks and never came back for him. So based of that statement like mediator gave us true 50/50 schedule. The court adopted that as a temp order until we go back to court for our evidencary hearing. Our previous court stated I was the primary parent so I'm returned i claim my son on my taxes like i always do. His father later told me he claimed him on his taxes because he stayed with him for the majority of the year, which is so far from the truth. After I told him he can't not claim a child that hasn't lived with him more the 50 percent of the time he then told me he will prove that he had him for the majority of the year. Which is a lie. The more the custody battle goes on the more I think he's delusional and crazy. This 50/50 time right is the most time he ever had with our son. Anyways, he is in the military and just got order for him to move away. We currently live on the west coast and his new orders on are the east coast. My son whole family is here. His uncles, cousins, auntie, grandmothers, family friends, his doctors and speech therapists. Everything is here. We are unable to have a good co-parent relationship. What should I do. Anyone been through this

Because I was born with ADHD, I've been terrible in school up until the 12th grade. However, once I've started smoking, I was able to have a good control over my ADHD, and score top grades and get into a top university. My sister had always been the "gold sheep" of the family; getting straight A's throughout school. She's been treated like a precious gem all throughout her life by my worthless parents, while I was physically, emotionally and mentally abused pretty much all of my life with my parents; then kicked out of luxury home as soon as I was 18. Here's the fun part. Quite recently, my dad called me to "check up" on me for the first time since kicking me out. Despite the financial hell I've gone through, I was able to successfully complete my 3rd year with 4.0 cGPA. I've told him that and he starts mumbling about how "proud" he was of me. Granted by this point, I wished nothing but death upon my so-called family, but I pretended otherwise and continued to inquire about them. Basically, this is why they called me. My dumbass sister who's only achievement in life is to score A's in some kid leveling schooling up to high school, totally f-cked up university while partying and puking to be thin (bulimia). So they called me, hoping that I succeed, so they can tell all their other rich friends with all their successful kids that at least one of their kids (me) turned out alright. I asked him to wire me some money for school and etc. Then I called him back cussing him out calling him "trash", "piece of ****", and told him that I have no family while laughing at him and hanging up. I changed my phone number since then, and because I've long since stopped using the worthless name they gave me, they can't even contact me anymore. I win. LOL

Btw, most aren't blood relatives, as it's my grandfathers second wife's family

I'm 31 just purchased my own home. I keep inviting my mom over to see house but she keep declining to come. She really hurt my feelings and make me think she's pretending to be happy for me.

He is always angry always screaming and uses my mom's money.My mom earns money more than him.if his salary is 1 dollar my mom's salary is 40 dollars.My mom was university student when they got married ,my dad looked after my older brother in those days and helped her A LOT and then my mom graduated and earned great moneys.Then he started to say i don't wanna work i just wanna to please and fun -_-I remember when i was a little kid they always fought over this. He wanted to go to trip with his FRIENDS,he is also flirtatious. After years he just goes to trips with his family(because my mom fought with him a lot)and he doesn't work.The problem is he always blames my mom for everything,She earn alot of money it's her money she knows what to do with that but he want's to control her and her money.My mom works from morning until lunch time then she works in evening and she also works in home.He does NOTHING and tells her why are u tired u did nothing-_-I just can't stand him i'm so angry at him right now. What should i do??????????? He always destroys my mom's life with his terrible behavior.He slapped in my mom's face two times.My mom is an angel she does everything for us.Please help!!! What i wrote is not a conservative post it's truths.Every one who knows my mom tell this!!!! I'm a girl and we are good friends i always tell her to divorce but it's not the solution please help!! I'm 19 I asked this question four times before but couldn't get any solution please help me. I have a very important exam after 5 months and i can't study anymore i found a white hair between my hair i'm so depressed. Yesterday a woman came to our house to clean the floors and garden etc,and this man can't get his eyes off her.She is not young but she has xxxxxxxxxxxzlarge breasts lol, He just sits there like a lord Is he thinking my mom is his servant???

My husband is from Sweden. Or rather he is from Bosnia but he grew up in Sweden. I'm an Aussie and we both now live in Melbourne where we have lived for 2 years as a married couple. We met like 4 years ago on a backpacking trip in Southeast Asia. 6 months ago we went to visit his family. Since then he's been talking about going back home. It started with his dad having a back surgery. Then his mom from nowhere got depressed because she missed him, then his parents said that his little brother needs him and that he is getting involved with the wrong people. The last 6 months there has just been one problem after the other with them. And these are not poor people. His father is an engineer and has his own business. His mother is a manager and has like 40 people under her. So they're not starving. And I don't know what they mean when they that his brother is in trouble. His brother lives in central Stockholm in a studio apartment and goes to the best college in Sweden if not the whole of Scandinavia. They are upper middle class people. They have it better than my family. But being Bosnian family is very important and I guess they feel their family is not complete without their oldest son. But they are guilt tripping him. He's wanted to discuss a few times about moving to Sweden. Before we went to visit 6 months ago we had it good. He was happy with his job, we were planning to buy a house but now everything stopped, because of them. What do I do?

My mom made me come live with my grandma in the bay because i had gotten into a little trouble and failed all my classes last semester. She told me that my grandma needed help around her place and that i could study without getting distracted with my friends. but since i got here she has been out of hand. She makes me cook for her and drinks constantly. When she is not home she is out with her friends shopping. I cant do anything on the weekends because all her friends come over to drink and swim and play games. I couldn't get any studying done last weekend cause her and her friends were over and they had been getting drunk and playing cards, eating and smoking all afternoon untill they left and came back off the sand dunes on their fourwheelers about 8pm and kept me up all night listening to them screaming bombai and bon voyage all night. She also came up to my room pounding on the door at 3 am yelling for me to come down because they ordered pizza. My grandma is retired and always has people over it is crazy she has like 6 to 12 people there every weekend untill the morning hours and sometime she even makes them stay the night. Im 19 and a freshman in college. Im thinking about leaving to go live with my girlfriend and her brother in the city.. what should i do. Also my gradma is always on me about being stuck up because i wont join her and her crowd.lol some of her friends are young but i dont want anything to do with their activities, like volley ball tournaments.lmao

I respect my mom but she's occasionally emotionally abusive(I know I sound like every other teenager but seriously)and when I ask for a little respect she says I'm a minor and she's a parent meaning she has every right to disrespect me. Is this okay?

Provided that both parties are loving and dedicated - what would you choose?

My grandma (moms mom) passed away in 2002. I was only 2 years old. I'm not 17 and have recently started to miss her A LOT. I didn't know her well but my brother did. He was 6 I think when she passed. At first I miss her and it makes me sad that she can't be here with me. Then I get frustrated because I don't really remember her. All my memories of her are pictures. Then I get angry/jealous because everyone else can remember her and really knew who she was. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to stop thinking about her but when I do it makes me upset. I would love some advice on what to do.

So I got out of the shower today (11:30pm) and I was walking back to my room and I notice the phone line says "Line in Use" so I pick it up and mute myself like a snooper does and it s my dad talking to my "aunt". She isnt biologically my aunt but she has known my dad forever and she lives in London (Beside the point). So let me give you a backstory, my mom has 2 sisters. We don t talk to my mom anymore because she was a drug addict. But we still talk to my 2 aunts and cousins. We only really talk to 1 aunt (she is married and has 2 kids , 1 is 2 years younger than me and the other is 4) I m 15. And my cousin who is 29 who is the daughter of the other sister. So my 29 year old cousin is moving in with us since she doesn t like her job and she is gonna live with us until she gets her life on track. My dad didn t even consult with me and its just him and i who live together. (end of backstory) So I picked up the phone and i heard him saying "i know im going to have sex with her its inevitable" and im like ?? so I wait to listen who he is talking about. And the other person on the phone just goes hm like to let him know she s listening. And he says I m already banging the sister in law (aunt with 2kids and a husband) and soon the niece. What do I do? Why is my family such a mess

So recently my mom has a friend that has been living with us because she moved here from another state and has no where else to live. She is really nice and all but recently I found out she has been saying things to my family about me, for one I work a full time job and run a sales job on the side so I'm pretty busy . Mysister the other day questioned me about our relationship bc my moms friend mentioned something about how we don't seem as close as she would imagine sisters to be when my sister and I are actually very close despite me being busy. My sister also mentioned the friend commenting on how I'm not home very often and what really got me was the other day my mom and I were in the kitchen talking bc my mom is planning to move and long story short my mom wants me to go with her and I mentioned I have to think about it. My moms friend I guess over heard and brought it up to my sister and my mom how if it was her she would drop her things in an instant to go with her mom and my sister began to question me about how much I care about our mom, so I was wondering if anyone has any kind of advice on what to think about all this ?

I am 14 and work at McDonald's from 8:00 A.M. to 5 P.M. on weekdays. I am obviously not old enough to drive, so I have my brother take me on the way to his work. I live where gas is about 2.50 a gallon. It is 3.3 miles away from where we live, 7 minutes away. How much should I pay him each week for taking me to and from work?

Okay so my bf is in college now and his parents are divorced. He lives with his mom and she gets about 500 dollars from his dad for child support and that's the only income that she has per month. She doesn't work. My bf has a little brother (half brother) and his dad left. My bf's mom doesn't get child support from his dad and I can't understand why unless he can't afford it. I'm just bothered by how my bf constantly has to help his mom out with money just to help support them. I mean I can understand but at the same time it's like his mom depends on him for everything. He gets about 2 grand every semester because of the position his mom is in but I still can't understand why she won't get a job herself. I know that she isn't too good with people but she is qualified to get a job. She even has a bachelors degree. She says that she isn't working because my bf's brother has to be watched (he has a lot of energy for his age and has certain issues) but her mom actually watches him too. I can understand that she can't do full time but I can't understand why she can't at least do part time work especially why my bf's brother is in school. My bf can't watch him because of classes. Her mom also covers most of the house bills and other payments too along with my bf helping. So it's basically my bf and her own mother caring for her. When my bf had a summer job, he had to give most of his money to his mom and he barely had money saved. I'm just bothered by this :-(. I totally understand that sometimes people need to help their families live but not when the parents are choosing not to work. Like I said, she is qualified to work. She doesn't have a disability or anything to keep her from working. (I know this isn't really my business but I do have a right to feel upset for my bf having to support her. I mean what will she do when he lives on his own? He and I actually planned on getting our own place soon.) Is it wrong to feel this way? :-( I don't plan on getting involved with my bf's family issues. I'm smart enough to stay out of it and let them work it out themselves. I will NEVER get involved in someone else's personal business. Believe it or not, that's actually who I am, it's just that this whole thing is confusing. My bf even told me that she can work if she wanted to which is the main reason why I can't understand this whole thing. Also I've known them for a couple years now but you guys probably don't care. I forgot to say that she is looking for work but it didn't seem like she tries for long. Also I help my parents with money too so I understand what it's like being in a poor family.

I am a mother of twins and they are treated the same although they're the opposite sex. They show a similar level of responsibility and they're the same age with the same friend group. To me, my son is still a child and he is just as vulnerable than my daughter. We restrict them from viewing mature/explicit content of any sort and we give them the same curfew. However, I've noticed lots of parents treating their kids differently because of their gender. Girls sometimes tend to have less freedom than a male child of the same age. For me, parenting has to do with their age, personality, and environment but not so much with genders. I don't protect my daughter more than my son because that would be unfair and she can't help it if she's a female either. Would you treat a daughter and a son a bit differently from each other?

I'm trying to get out of an abusive relationship.I have a small child and no family or friends anywhere near where I live in the country.Ive called and asked if I could stay with one of them For a week or two until I find a place in their area so I won't be stuck here where I don't know anyone or have employment opportunities but they all told me no and pretty much said it's not their responsibility to help me and that I have to do this alone.My mother was abused by my father when I was under a year old and I was told when I got older her parents helped her flee with me paid for everything and let her live with them for several years until she got a degree and found a job and all I'm asking for is a week or to and they consider that unreasonable.I know I have to leave and I want too but it's a lot harder now without any support.Especially after what I've ben through with my child's father everyday.Any suggestions would be appreciated

I'm 19 years old and I currently work for amazon starting at 13 an hour and next year I'm starting truck driving school to get my CDL because I want to be a truck driver when I'm older. My grandma is constantly telling me that I'm behind in life and I'm going to get nowhere because I want to be a driver. She said that unless I go to college and get a office job Im going to live paycheck by paycheck and my life won't be good. I used to brush it off and not listen to her but this makes me not want to be around her anymore because all she talks about now is how I'm going down a bad path and doing nothing for my future and puts me down because I'm 19 working for only 13 an hour. Am I behind for my age and should I listen to her?

my niece was born 3 months premature. and today i got back from work and my dad calls me that my niece has died today. i feel so sad, im crying so much, my sister and I didnt really get along that well, but i would never wish for someone to lose a child like that. I dont know. i feel so bad, i feel so bad for my sister and how we dont get along. but this inncoent baby girl past away. i havent even got to see her because im busy with work and school. i dont know im crying so much.

I am currently hating the school I am at, however I am in year 11 and am doing ATAR. If I move school I could be seriousluy behind. Should I move or is there another way?

Well it's not weird but out of her area. My coach is extremely blunt and serious, hardly ever (NEVER) shows affection or her "sweet side" she's always mad. Well I wrote coach a small note thanking her for coaching and pushing me. She said "aw thank you sweetie." Why'd she say that? And even call me sweetie?? I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but she hardly shows anything lol

I have a lot to say but I will try to make it short...so basically my sister is better than me at everything and I mean everything. We are extremely close and she is pretty much the only person I truly love but now I want her dead. I am always overshadowed by her. She is an incredible artist (she s 18, I m 16) and her specialties are wolves and dragons, and I always drew humans, like characters. I love creating characters and have a good amount. Recently she s been drawing humans too...and making characters. What s pissing me off is that she is better than me. The only ******* thing I was better at than her were drawing humans and creating characters and now she just started doing it and they are already better. I secretly look through her sketchbook and always see these 6 characters she created that she loved and they are better than mine....and now I have nothing better than her. (I know all this might seem ridiculous but this is my most loved thing ever so it mean a lot to me) and this is not just drawing....I have weak knees so I can t run but she s taking karate (and I REALLY want to take it too but can t), she s prettier, friendlier, not lazy, and so much ******* more...I m just wondering why I was created if my sister is literally me but just better? I have no ******* purpose in this life...I wish she died so I can finally be noticed and so she can stop overshadowing me....but I don t want her dead.

My dream it was summertime my bestfriend came over, Then we went out & I had a pet snail, then I was in a store or in my grandmothers house I put the snail on a chair, every time I would go up to it, it would open its mouth & scream, at one point I was having such a good time when I look at my iPhone the icloud was shared with photos when I look in my photos there was my mom at a feast posing smile for the pic in front of a sand art table (in reality is where my crush was working at) she was holding her belly, I said to myself thats why she won't stop talking to my sisters about baby's & pregnancy in reality she does talk about it, I always say does she have baby fever?) once I got there, my crush was there with his hair longer smiling at me (in reality it was hard to get his attention) once I got home me, my sisters, mom were in the kitchen, after a little I said ur pregnant? she said well this will be the last child & I wanted one. She said its a girl & the doctors said her eyes will be green(in reality my mom always says ur the only one that came out with light eyes, I say in my head maybe I won't be the only one soon). This feast is not until the end of summer & my mom doesn't want anymore kids, she always says I can't wait until you all have boyfriends. Even a family member that's a sidekick told my mom my little sister is the last one ( I don't know if she said for now) but I'm pretty sure she didn't because my mom said to me "you don't have to worry anymore"

So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriage and kids and everything by now, but the only problem is she keeps going back and forth on if she wants ore kids or not. She has a 2 year old son from a previous relationship, and I told her that I'd also like to have kids one day. In the beginning I thought we were on the same page as far as having kids. But she told me that because her 2 year old gives her such a hard time now and her being a single mother is very hard. She said she isn't sure if she wants more kids and she doesn't want her son to have half siblings and have to deal with the complications of having half siblings. I told her that I don't believe in half siblings and that they would just be siblings and I also told her that she wouldn't be a single mother because I would be there as her husband to raise the kids with her. What should I do about this??? I'm really upset about it honestly

My sister is pregnant she can't stop crying. She's had 3 miscarriages she's afraid she'll loose this baby. How can I help her feel better ?

So my dad just turned 72 a few weeks ago and by chance the topic of arthritis was brought up and he said,"Oh yeah, I think I've had that in my knee for years, but its not really a big deal." I don't understand, why did he never tell me?! I'm so mad at him, denying that there is a problem, how do I make him complain about it?