Were having a thunderstorm tonight my wife is terrified of night storms. She's been scared of them since the tornado outbreak that happened back on Memorial Day we have no safe place to go during a tornado because we live in a trailer with no basement. She gets real nervous when its storming at night we never had a tornado but it still scares her. How can I make her feel better ?

I recently got married to a man that was homeschooled growing up. Knowing this when I agreed to marry him I understood that he was very close to his family, particularly his mother. But sometimes that "closeness" makes me uncomfortable. She seems to be very curious about our personal lives. When we first started dating she asked my husband (boyfriend at the time) if we had sex on the first date. I didn't really think anything of it at the time. She always seems to want to know every detail about our personal lives. She soon began stalking my husband's work schedule asking questions about why he'd ask off for certain days. Then she started trying to fix her hair like mine. Recently she went through his amazon  account purchases and asked us about why we bought certain personal items (lingerie) and what we planned to do with them. I get that they are close, but should I feel uncomfortable with how intrusive she is about personal information regarding our relationship?

Hi. I been in a relationship for 15 years its been rocky for years we been on and off for years there was abuse in the past. I met this guy I'll call him J he is 45, I'm 33 we fell head over heels In love with each other we been secretly been having a affair the sex is fantastic! When were together we both feel like were on a cloud I make him tremble with every kiss. We talked about our future I painted a beautiful picture of being his wife with kids and a house and dogs but as I pointed out tonight I cannot bare children. I told him that dreams only come true in fairy tales and fantasies are fun to dream of that he deserves someone who can give him what he wants a son. I told him you wouldn't understand your not a woman you have a daughter from a previous relationship who is grown now to carry on your name after you die when I die of old age I leave behind nothing when I die of old age nobody will visit my grave the grass will grow and cover my headstone. I could never adopt it would make me feel worse I told him he should be with a real women who can give him the things he wants in life like children. I told him I'm obviously not that person I might as well been born a boy I'm worthless to him and I would never want him to be with me and later regret it. I told him we can be lovers but never together as a couple or husband and wife my dogs are my only children I have without them I have nobody. Do you think this will change anything between us? 

I travel for work for about a week 3-4 times per year. My kids are 3 and 10. My ex husband and his parents are wonderful and always watch the kids during those weeks. I know they take good care of the kids I trust them 100 percent but every time I'm away I get the worst separation anxiety. I have a very hard time focusing on my business meetings/meeting with clients, I'm almost always severely depressed, I can't enjoy myself. (Not that work is always enjoyable ha)  Is this normal though? I always assumed I'd be that parent that would be so happy to have all this time away from my kids. (I'm not) I also don't get this way when my kids are visiting their father overnight.  Is this normal? Should I like consider therapy or do most mothers feel this way? It has gotten a lot worse since our divorce. (2 years ago) Again I do trust him and his family I just don't understand if this is normal?

so i believe my fiance has a bit of a drinking problem, he neglected our baby once leaving her home alone to have a beer while my brother was sleeping and couldn't hear her if she cried, i told him i didn't mind him drinking, i just didn't like him sneaking off. he gets supper annoying when he is under the influence and he came home smelling more than just beer and then i find out he went out drinking with an alcoholic named Aaron who is abusive and has even assaulted me in the past drunk and he knows i hate aaron because of his toxic masculinity, he literally treats kevin like his *****, beating him up and making fun of him behind his back hardcore... what do i do if my fiances friend is such a douche and bad influence

I have a couple friends who works in finance.. They are all associated with each other, about 4 of them.. They are usually Caucasian business men who all has wife and kids.... When we go out to a bar,drink and eat... Many of them told me that they travel alot, book hotels to meet their clients for lunch/dinner.. Alot of them told me they pay prostitutes to come to their hotel and a have a good time when it gets lonely..... And it's not just woman they are having sex with.. They experience with men etc... It's kinda crazy to me.. Poor woman/wife from back home... I also read the statistics, and it stated that men in finance are likely to cheat because they travel alot.. Any thoughts?

They're all married too except 1 young intern. 

My (ex) husband and I are going through the process of a divorce. Right now things are civil.  My concern is getting through the holidays. We have 2 children ages 11 and 3. On thanksgiving we always traveled out to California for thanksgiving with my family and for Christmas we spent it in town with his family. This year I'll be traveling home with the kids to see my family on thanksgiving just the 3 of us. I unfortunately won't be spending Christmas with my kids. They will be going to his families house and his aunt (who's hosting) is insistent on me not being welcome. (She's always been a wack job)  So I will be flying home by myself to California for a few days at Christmas by myself.  I'm devastated but to save anymore heartache for my kids I've decided to go this route this year. Any tips on getting through the holidays while going through a divorce? 

And say hurtful things like "I'd rather sleep in a farm with pigs than sleep with you". 😔

They're all supposedly thought to be extinct around 65 million years ago but is it possible that one species of ammonite could still be out in the ocean i wouldn't be surprised if it were to be discovered alive and well there have been discoveries of thought extinct animals found Alive in the past

My aunt is wacky but I don't think she'd make that up and yet he denies it and I think would have just not discussed it had it happened. Plus the aunt waited two years before bringing it up and then brought it up at Christmas last year. Their son is a wreck over it though the two daughters don't care. Aunt an uncle are staying married though.

i was trying to hedge my bets. i figured at least one of them would say "yes."

When I was married to Joan I was good friends my mother in law Lisa. I remained friends after our divorce. A few weeks ago Lisa called me that her company was being taken over by another and the new company told her that she had to greatly improve her computer skills to keep her job. Lisa knew I worked with computers and she wanted to know if I would give her that training. I GLADLY volunteered to do the training for her at no cost. I went to her house once a week, usually on Saturday morning and trained her. She would then cook me a GREAT home cooked meal or she would take me out to a restaurant as her way of saying thank you. My ex wife Joan called and told me she was married now and her new husband did not want her to have any contact with me. We previously would email each other from time to time just to say hello. I told Joan I understood and their would be no more emails. I did not want to do ANYTHING to cause her a problem in her new marriage. Joan's new husband called me and wanted me to cut all contact with Lisa. I told him to talk to Lisa about that and if she wanted me to stop all contact with her I would do it. Lisa told him he did not get to choose her friends and she would continue to be my friend and if he did not like it, he could pound sand. Did I handle this situation correctly. What should I do now? It looks like I am in the middle of a family fight. I don't want to cause ANYONE any problems. ADVICE PLEASE.

I'm thinking of buying a horse. A pure bread Arabian. It's very expensive, but all good things are expensive. 

Seriously guys...Really read some of the questions and comments from these corrupted and moronic females....this is a clear demonstration what is left of the western woman. There are VERY few worthy of marriage and if you are stupid enough to wife one up, you deserve the wreck you get. I feel sorry for the man who only sees the used females around him and thinks that is all that is available...

My wife of 6 years has been a sweet lovely lady to me, I love her. But after 5 years of our marriage, I was told by doctor to change my lifestyle (diet, exercise, etc) a year later I am healthy fit, and needing a lot more sex than once a month. My wife is hardly ever up for it, upon every approach she refused saying that she isn't in the mood, tired or any other excuse. I do not masturbate, never masturbated in my life, I even tried and didn't like it. Due to unfulfilled sexual desires over a few months, I have started to develop symptoms of depression, I spend all day without being able to focus on my activities, just cannot stop feeling helpless, confined, and terrible. I read books and articles about how effective communication is the key. We tried that several months. Communication is working somewhat, wife is willing to improve, but she does take no action. Recently she told me that she does not want to talk about this anymore and she has permitted me to have extramarital affairs to fulfill my desires. I have never cheated, I do not find this right, at the same time I am terrible. What should I do? What would you have done if you were in my situation?

Basicaly i bumped into my ex wife online, chatting etc.  So i started flirting with her and she likes it.  Although she has no idea im her ex husband ( she was the one to initiate the divorce ).  I tried everything to keep our marriage together but she just couldnt cope with the responsibilities and stress of marriage. Meanwhile, im sticking to texting and chatting with her etc.   But what will happen when i'll tell thats its me she's texting and wants to date ? 

Me and this guy were together for like two months (both I'm the military) I hit stations overseas so we tried to do the whole long distance. He asked to marry me so we just filled out paperwork and got our certificates. He kept accusing me of cheating, I kept proving to him that I wasn't. He didn't believe it and started exploding on me and calling me out of my name (his parents used to physically hit each other) so I said we can't do this. Months later we got a divorce (divorce took about 5 months) during the divorce after I stopped all communication with him he ended up dating another girl and she started physically abusing him. Now he's back and claiming that he wants to see me after he's been to victims therapy and we're both in the states. He says he loves me, and he's also my first love. Should I believe it and try again or let it go.