He will not admit that it is a problem.  We have 2 teenagers.  They don't know what he is doing but they know that something is wrong.  I heard them discussing dads possible mental illness.  His behavior has become erratic.  He accuses us of moving things or doing things.  He has woken us up in the middle of the night to tell us that a chore didn't get done.  He is letting his dealer borrow one of our vehicles (that is in my name!) He has been hostile towards me because I have made it clear that I do not want to live with meth.  He became physically violent with me (the kids were not home) when I told his dealer friend that he cannot drive my car.  16 years together and my husband has become a stranger. He doesn't participate in family activities or attend school functions anymore.  He doesn't do anything but take things apart and stack it somewhere.  There is no affection between us anymore and he blames every problem we have on me. I try to be nice and he accuses me of ulterior motives.   After the physical altercation over the car I am afraid to tell him to leave and that I am considering divorce.  The house is mine and I have nowhere to go.  How do I handle this?  How do I help someone who doesn't want help?

He said have a good weekend baby Christina...WTF? What does that even mean when I am so old at 24 😂 Why "baby"? What does that mean? He thinks I am a child? He hates me & says that?

I've been working in a male dominated field of work for several months, out of the 50 employees I'm the only female. I have been treated as an equal, I grew up with a lot of brothers & sisters, I feel comfortable working along side guys. I put a lot of effort into my work, working my tail off, doing some heavy lifting to gain the respect, gain credibility & prove myself to the guys. I enjoy the work I'm doing, my supervisor even tells me that's he's impressed by my job performance, happy that I'm learning & even some of my colleagues say they're impressed by me. I have to be honest though I noticed quiet a few of my colleagues, supervisor & the owner of the company checking me out, my dad & brothers taught me about guys as I was growing up, of course not all guys are like that. It doesn't bother me, none of the guys have gotten physical, my supervisor placed his hand on my shoulder a few times, but nothing inappropriate. Some of the people I do work with aren't bad looking, I try not to glance, I don't want them to feel uncomfortable or give them the wrong impression. I caught the owner staring at my behind several times for a long amount of time, I might have made eye contact with him for too long, he's almost 20 years older than me, but he looks good for his age & has some cool tattoos. He's not a very talkative person, lately he's been talking to me a lot, coming in close proximity to me as I'm working sometimes I don't realize he's behind me & I get startled.