Does it mean she cared and valued her exes more and regret not getting them forever and so they kept them?

Women claim they enjoy sex, but so many marriages where men claim their wives never want to have sex. I know many men who continue to romance their wives, take them out on nice dates, dress up and clean shaven, and treat them well, take care of things around the house and take care of their children, and their wives still never want to have sex. What's the deal with women and not wanting to have sex in marriage? It's always a joke that once a woman has a man committed to her in marriage, she stops putting out, and it's pretty true in A LOT of marriages, not just a silly joke. Why? I don't get it, if you love your husband and you enjoy sex, why is it so hard for women to romance their husbands and show some effort back when their husbands try to romance them and show them they love her? I just feel like many women lie in saying that they enjoy sex with their husbands. Why would you avoid doing something you enjoy with someone you LOVE. Sex is a biological urge for many men. It would be similar to a husband withholding food from his wife. "Oh honey, sorry I love you, but you can't have any food today"

I am nowhere near success..and already 28 years old...no effort, no degree, no job... discontinued everything...still live with parents...try me...

A mother-in-law just moved in with us after surprising her husband by moving out and serving him papers. She planned this for months and happily announced it less than a week after our precious baby unexpectedly passed away, asking us for a place to stay for a short time. My husband and I weren't happy with the idea but agreed to let her stay for a couple months at most. I asked him repeatedly to have a conversation with her to establish a time frame with her and he kept saying he would but it never happened.  Now she's here.. she followed through with her plan despite a lawyer advising her against doing it that way. She just told me her husband is contesting the divorce and she's wondering if she'll have to sell the house after the divorce is finalized.. she's had months to figure this out. She also mentioned to me in casual conversation that she'll be here for a long time. I feel resentful that she is placing us in the midst of her divorce at such a difficult time. I'm also not sure if I can trust her intent, I think she led us on to think it would be for a very short period of time, but plans for it to be longer, a couple of years ago she asked my husband about staying with us for at least two years. I've been asking him to talk with her, he says he will but gets very short with me and keeps putting it off.. we're both not very assertive and I think she knows that and is taking advantage.  Am I wrong for feeling resentful about this and wanting my husband to speak up? Also, she mentioned that she did it this way because she has heard crazy stories of people who go into a rage and kill their entire family.. so why is she endangering us if that's the case, especially our 3 year old? Of course, before she moved in, she assured me that he's never been violent and that's not a concern. I think she's being inconsiderate and selfish.

My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. About two years into our relationship, I told him that since I was done with college and working, I felt that the next step in my life was to get married and have kids. I also told him if he didn't want those things, then we should move on and find different partners. However, he did say he wanted those things with me, and said we would get married by the time we were twenty-six. Well, we're both about to turn twenty-eight, and anytime I talk about anything engagement or wedding related he always has some sort of excuse about why people shouldn't get married. I'm so frustrated because I told him what I wanted so long ago and told him if he didn't want those things then he should let me go. I want to bring up our situation to him again, but I'm not sure how to and don't want to hear all the excuses again.  

Or do women know that they would have no clue? That's just it, BOT. You have no clue, which is probably why you removed your comment link. Most wives would not even know, because the guy's paycheck is still coming in, and she ignores her husband anyhow, unless his $$$ flow is disrupted. She would likely never know.

Hey, I'm a father of a nine year old. So just recently me and my wife were having sex when we assumed our child was already asleep in bed, but was startled when our nine year old daughter caught me facefucking my wife. It was the most embarassing thing I could ever do especially in front of my own kid. I don't know what to do and how to explain what me and my wife were doing!!! To make matters worse I think my daughters thinks I am some kind of pyscopath now because of how agressive we do it during sex. Please help!!!

 Give her the beatdown? She divorcing me taking the house,the kids and half of my earnings and my owned business.im sick of this she sleeps in bedroom I'm sent to sleep guest room.i should return back and punch her in the eye and bite her face up.stupid b"*_@tch taking everything from me.. should I go upstairs and Mike Tyson her?

I'm 30 years old I'm about to be 31 in December. I'm engaged and I've realize that my fiancé is not the man I want to marry. We have too many differences and his recent comment of "I plan to support the kids but not you." and how he wished his ex gf did not have a miscarriage (they were 19) because at least then he wouldn't be 32 without a kid has me very concerned.  I want to end my engagement but a lot of my friends are telling me to just marry him because it's going to be very very hard for me to find (preferably) a non divorced man without a child at the age of 31/32. I've been with my fiancé for 6 years and I'm very scared to start over at 31. Any advice? Am I too old to start over? 

My fiancé lied to me for our entire relationship about his past relationship with his BM. He told me they were together for a year and he found out she was on drugs so he broke up with her. He said he had a drunken one night stand with her and she ended up pregnant. He told me he never wanted to be with her but he was there for his child. Said they never got together or anything after that. He said she wanted to make things work but he wanted nothing to do with her romantically. I get on FB and type his BM's name and see a picture of them on the 4th of July at my fiancé's parent's lake house (she would've been 4 months pregnant at that time.) He told me he "doesn't remember that" and that he was "never with her after she got pregnant." It honestly would NOT be a big deal AT ALL if it wouldn't be for the fact that he's lied to me this whole time about how everything between him and her went down. She doesn't even have custody of the child anymore, I know he wants nothing to do with her now. But why lie about your past?? He's known since day 1 I don't tolerate liars!

So to sum this up, I'm 20 and this has been going on for 3 years. My mom has been divorced from my dad since I was 12 and she can't handle being alone and she met this guy at a bar, he's literally at our house everyday and comes and spends the night whenever he wants, takes food and get wasted at our house , takes my parking spot, and my mom pays for everything. I'm tired of seeing her get used but she allows it. I have tried to talk to her about how wrong the whole thing is and she says that she pays the bills it's her house, but like I'm tired of seeing this . I'm moving out in 2 months but either way I really want this to end whether I'm here or not . I know his wife, I know where he lives , I know where his wife works. Do I tell her?  I don't like being a rat, but like this has to end... I feel guilt at this point for hiding him with my mom in a way. I shouldn't feel this way, but I feel really strongly against cheating . Someone help. They straight tell me they are just friends, but sleep in the bed together kiss each other and lie to my face I feel like I'm being played a fool by this point and he has no respect and I'm pretty sure my mom would choose him over me if I gave her the choice. 

Why are women attracted to men who are married? I've a handsome husband and he gets flirted on even when I'm around. Although, I've noticed that when he wears his ring, women are more attracted to him. We've been happily married for 3 years and he loves me very much. I've no trust issues whatsoever but how disrespectful is it to flirt with a married man? It doesn't bother me much but last night we went to a get together and he caught up with someone he hasn't seen college. The moment he introduced me to her, she started being obnoxiously flirty?

How old were you when you got a divorce?

I absolutely hate where my husband and I live. We've been through more over the past almost 3 years of living here then I ever have in my entire 34 years of existence. It's been one thing after another after another. I've never dealt with so much loss and stress as I have since moving here. The market here is VERY seasonal and there are very few professional jobs here. 2017: moved here for husbands job. I found a job as well. Then, my company went under 3 month in. I found a job for the rest of the year covering someone on maternity leave. That same year we lost our home in a fire.  2018: his parents actually purchased us a home. (We are forever grateful) I found a job from May- August during the summer. Then, found another job in October and was fired for the first time in my life a week before Christmas. My grandmother also passed away in November.  2019: Couldn't find a job. Finished grad school went back to my old summer job. Found out we were pregnant in August and now just miscarried.  Now, I've been offered a long term substitute teaching job. I'm not even excited. I just want to get out of this town. My husbands job is transferring him in June but waiting till June is completely agonizing to me. I'm just not sure I can hang in there until June. 

Yesterday, I broke up with my Brazilian girlfriend of 18 months. There have been times I have genuinely enjoyed her company; I believe she is a sweet, sincere, loyal, and good-hearted person. Early in the relationship, I expressed many concerns regarding our differences in religion and long-term goals in life. I'm an agnostic and I've wanted to travel and become an entrepreneur. She is a devout Christian who wants a family. I also lost attraction to her (she's 37 and I'm 32), and we bickered about adopting healthier eating habits. She has a very difficult routine (like working/studying 10-12 hours a day and not having a car), so she can't go to the gym. But she could at least eat better, but doesn't seem to want to. What made me lose attraction was the incessant complaining about her weight and lack of initiative. I am guilty of sending mixed signals. When we first dated, I told her that I wasn't interested in marriage or children, so she needed to move on if that's what she wanted. But in later months, I developed affection for her, so I started saying that we could marry and live together, even saying we could open a joint business. But I would double back and say I still had fears and mixed feelings. When I started looking for rings, I later felt very anxious (severe insomnia, eating far less, drinking excessively, and not exercising). Marriage isn't the right thing for me. But I feel guilty because I've told her that we'd marry, even though I never formally proposed.

I work a night job & have been for the last 2 1/2 yrs. I'm tired of it, I'm tired of having a weird sleep schedule & not being able to do much at night with friends & family. I kept it because I get paid $22 a hour & I have no degree so I've put in my time. The people on days in my position are not going anywhere. I recently bought a house & had a baby. my bf works days & I work nights so we're always with the baby & don't need a babysitter but recently I found that he had been talking to others online. This is the 3rd time I've caught him. I've tried to leave but it's so hard being we have a 2 month old & I love when we're all together. He swears he's never met up with anyone & did it to boost his self esteem. He begged me to stay & to change so I'm trying to let him but I def do not trust him. We have cameras for security so I always see him home at nights. anyways he's getting a raise & has said it's ok for me to get a part time job. I really want to because it would give me back a normal life. To have more time with my family & maybe fix things between us. And more time to have a social life. But I'm afraid to quit because I've been there so long & worked my way up, I hit my 5yrs next May & if I take this promotion it will look good on my resume. No pay raise though. But idk I'm unhappy on nights but afraid to quit also in case things don't work out between us. He's not the type to let me struggle so he wouldnt leave me up & dry. Any advice please. 

my father.Will that impact what I get or lose it even if he is not working and havr no income?We do want to get married and he is trying to get on his own disability regular so will it still affect me lose it if he wins and gets his own?I dont want to lose mine and have myself depend on him.

My wife says I have to listen to him, but are they just lying?

I'm a 45 year old woman starting a relationship with a 27 year old man. (If anyone wants to give the advice for us to stop dating because of the age gap please do not comment. We are going to date. That is not what this question is about). A huge part of me isn't worried about the age gap at all. He's highly mature for his age. I feel we're at a very similar maturity age level. For that reason I don't feel an age gap when I'm around him. I'm crazy about him and I want to date him. However,I do sometimes worry the age gap may be a concern latter on. I've never dated anyone with this much of an age difference and I am concerned some unique issues may potentially arise latter. There are a few things I've specifically wondered A)I am concerned we may be in different stages of life. There are a few things that do make me feel better about this concern though. I do feel we're at a similar maturity level/"age". Furthermore, he does have a college degree and a good paying career (it's not like he's in the student stage of life) However, the age difference still may translate into different life experiences. Furthermore, I do have 2 sons (21&22) I do worry how the relationship will affect them and vice versa. B)One of my main concerns is (if the relationship goes far enough) if he wants to have kids in the future. Right now he's confident he doesn't want kids, but if he changes his mind (which he may not) that will be a major issues. C) Sex. This may be silly, but(more to read) I am concerned if sex with a younger guy will be very different from having it with a guy my age. We haven't had sex yet, but we will soon (and I want to have sex). What can I do to make sure we have a great sexual relationship even with the age gap? D) I know I couldn't care about this, but I am a little concerned about the social stigma. I know there's going to be a lot of judging/people being weirded out over this I'm not so worried that it makes me want to not have a relationship, but I would like advice on how to handle it best. Please help me with advice with these questions (and any other bits of advice you may want to give about how to best handle age gap relationships). Thank you so much! Just to make it clear I for sure want to try to date him, but that doesn't mean I don't have some concerns I'd like advice on. 

Yesterday, I broke up with my Brazilian girlfriend of 18 months. There have been times I have genuinely enjoyed her company; I believe she is a sweet, sincere, loyal, and good-hearted person. Early in the relationship, I expressed many concerns regarding our differences in religion and long-term goals in life. I'm an agnostic and I've wanted to travel and become an entrepreneur. She is a devout Christian who wants a family. I also lost attraction to her (she's 37 and I'm 32), and we bickered about adopting healthier eating habits. She has a very difficult routine (like working/studying 10-12 hours a day and not having a car), so she can't go to the gym. But she could at least eat better, but doesn't seem to want to. What made me lose attraction was the incessant complaining about her weight and lack of initiative. I am guilty of sending mixed signals. When we first dated, I told her that I wasn't interested in marriage or children, so she needed to move on if that's what she wanted. But in later months, I developed affection for her, so I started saying that we could marry and live together, even saying we could open a joint business. But I would double back and say I still had fears and mixed feelings. When I started looking for rings, I later felt very anxious (severe insomnia, eating far less, drinking excessively, and not exercising). Marriage isn't the right thing for me. But I feel guilty because I've told her that we'd marry, even though I never formally proposed.

Other people my age are getting married. The longest relationship I had was with my fwb that lasted 5 years. I had one relationship that lasted for 5 months and he wanted to get married but I couldn't, because I did not love him but I feel like no one else would want to be married to me