So my friend is a skank and pisses me off. But I'm still friend's with them because they are a genuinely good person. But they told their ex when they broke up to not bang any of her friends or she will flip out. Though this shouldn't bother them? I guess they can't throw away left overs. Anyway any songs that are similar to my situation? 

My boyfriend is a white American guy who's in his late 20s. 2 of his 4 girlfriends have been Japanese American. He loves japanese food and japanese gaming as well. He dated his last girlfriend for 4 yrs from 24- 28, they're both the same age. He paid her rent, celebrated her birthday for an entire month, he took her for a weekend stay at the Ritz Carlton for their 1 month dating anniversary. Birthday month gifts included him giving her a gift every day for the entire month, (a tiffany's necklace,, wine, a new Louis Vuitton purse that cost 3k, a swarvoski crystal collar for her dog, kobe beef dinner in the city etc) He told me all about how much she had him do.I looked at her instagram after all that he told me about her because she sounded like a gold digger and it was a major red flag. She had no photos of him on her feed for the entirety of their 4 year relationship. She had photos of herself at the Ritz in a bubble bath drinking champagne (a pic he took, for a date he paid for) with no sign of him in any of the photos and men commenting "who took this sexy pic" and her replying, "it's a secret" She had photos of her at dinner opening her Louis Vuitton purse from the box, photos of the meal, photos of the jewelry, photos of the beach on the trips he took her on but not a single photo of them together or of him. Now he's dating me (I'm white) and he demands we split the bill on everything, He's never treated me to a gift, he nickel and dimes me to the penny with no slack He made me pay for a $3 salad dressing that I added to his shopping basket at the grocery store. A salad dressing for his apartment, for a meal we were going to share. When I had no other items in the basket and everything else was his, he put the divider down on the conveyor belt and told me I had to pay for it...he's that cheap. He told me his ex's friends are all dating older men with money and marrying for money. Yet he repeatedly denies that she used him and said she loved him

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

I'm a straight female and my friend is a gay male, so i don't think his this all is because he has romantic feelings for me. we have been friends only a couple weeks. he doesn't have any close friends i know of, and every roomate he's ever had has moved out because he makes them uncomfortable. he now has no roomate ( seems like a red flag) . he's constantly making me uncomfortable by invading my personal space ( touching me or my hair ), even though i make it clear I'm not okay with it. other girls have had this issue. i've also asked him not to tell me the details when he hooks up with people, because i simply don't want to hear about graphic things he does with his partners. It just makes me uncomfortable hearing graphic sex details. he texts me constantly throughout the day, and if i say i am tired and want to be alone he seemingly can't accept it. he also constantly is going through my photos on instagram which he even admits to me. every 10 minutes he's asking if he can get me anything like food and such. it's nice of him, but it's really too much and it feels weird. He acts like I'm his idol, and always puts me on some sort of pedestal. He says he would die for me and other extreme things despite only knowing me for a couple weeks. He still obsesses and cries over his ex that broke up with him 2+ years ago, so I'm scared to leave him because i feel he might just lose it, due to him being so attached to me. I can't deal with this anymore, how do I end our friendship??

He broke up with me on Mon asking to break on good terms. He said we can still be friends (or FWBs if I want to)....but of course I said no....and he tried to give me a hug too (gave him my back). Since then, he wouldn't reply to texts/calls. Then yesterday, I bumped into him at the university cafeteria, and I asked if we could talk but he told me to leave him alone. He was like "you're f ucked", "do you want to make a scene", "I dumped you" in front of his friends and he even laughed at something his friend said. Also, when I sat with them at the dining table, they were having private conversations through group chat. And my ex checked too and was smiling. He couldn't even give me eye contact. Why is he acting like this?

I've asked some of my ex BF's friends on campus how he is doing, if he is still angry, etc. They were just like "he said nothing", "give him space and time", etc. Why can't they share anything? Do they not see I'm trying to make things right after he dumped me (for being clingy and materialistic)? They also told my ex as well to the campus security that Ive asked about him. I explained to security that we were in a relationship and they understood. Why can't people just see that I'm just heartbroken ?

I was holding onto my BF's arms trying to reason with him because he said maybe we should break up. I then grabbed one of his hands and he was holding it tightly back too. What does this mean? Was he showing that he still cares? Because when we met later to talk again, he really broke up with me.

I was out with two of my friends a few days ago. One of them ('Friend A') was speaking about a spider that was in her room, and how they had to throw it out of the window to get rid of it. I didn't totally hear what my second friend ('Friend B') said in response, but 'Friend A' said in reply 'I don't like killing things'. Therefore 'Friend B' must have said something about having should have killed it instead of throwing it out of the window. Why would have 'Friend B' said this? Why would they suggest killing a spider rather than just throwing it out of a window?

What do you guys get up to with your homies or best friends? We want to try something different

So I'm in the process of wanting to move out of my parents house because I share a room with my brother. My friend offered me to live with him and although I am considering the offer there is something that is bothering me. Last year and also somewhat this year my friend went through a period of hard times where he got laid off work, missing rent and got kicked out of one apartment. Last year he would always call me to hang out almost everyday, ask for money and rides to places. Every time I would decline he would end the friendship only to call me a week later to fix things. This happened more than a couple of times. He owes me money still but I let it all go because he was almost kicked out of his place recently and I'm glad he hasn't asked me for anything at all. He seems to be doing better lately but my feelings has changed about him to the point every time he calls I cringe and have to lie to avoid hanging out all the time. This led to another incident where he told me he didn't want to talk anymore. He called me the next day to fix things. I told him that these situations can't happen anymore. I told his roommate I would give my answer by the end of the weekend to move in. Is this a good idea? I'm tired of sharing a room. 

my 2 friends in a group of my 5 friends (including me) include me in everything (going to the mall, etc.) yet during lunch the same 2 friends in the group would much rather talk to the others in the group rather then me and aren't inclined to speak to me at all. those 2 literally talk to me everywhere else EXCEPT during lunch and in the hallways... i dont understand why ? if someone could help me cope with this that'd be great :p  (they do talk to me in the hallways)

So im currently talking to This girl Emily,   we have  known each other for almost a year.    Ive always liked her but  She used to have a boyfriend,   but they broke up last month after being together 2 years.   We've been hanging out almost everyday for the past 2 weeks,   and we even hungout before in the past.  She told me a few weeks ago that she doesn't want to rush things,   and she even told my besfriend that she wants to take her time because she doesn't want to make any mistakes.        Well always We hold hands,   we kiss and she even wants me to spend the night at her house next week.     I really want her to be my official girlfriend.   What should i dooo????   Can i please have advice

he's or is thought to be gay by most of the class, i have nothing against him, he's indeed kind and his mom even invited me to play videogames with him, but what will my other friends think of me if i befriend him. 

My friend has been creating drama that is not even true. She has been texting me about drama non stop. I asked her today how is school going and she said okay and then talked more about drama. Over the weekend she manipulated me. She said we can go to this area but it is about a 2 hour drive and she said we can go to a bar later at night with my friends. She knows I do not like driving long distances anymore and she if we do that we can go see my friends and then the night time came and started yelling at me and said no we are not seeing your friends. She doesn't want to hang out with my friends or socialize anymore and doesn't even want to go to trampoline parks. She made plans with me on Monday and promised to go somewhere fun but ended up not caring about going. She used to be fun the first year. Should I take a long break from her or why do you guys think she is acting like this all of a sudden? Her moods change so quickly it is very shocking to me 

Please don't judge me guys. I am a 19-year old university student and I have a week off, so I went on holiday to El Salvador with my best friend. My boyfriend is to join us from today, and he is bound to ask why I have slap marks on my face.  Anyway, my friend and I were at a club last night when a guy came and bought us drinks. He was so hot, had a sexy accent and showered attention on me. He invited me to dance and midway through just kissed my lips. He clearly wanted to go back to his place - and in the moment I wanted to as well. I told my friend where I'd be, got in a cab with him and went off. The s*x was great, and at some point he put one hand under my chin and started slapping me across the face. I didn't object, and even encouraged it, and the slapping got harder and harder. I spent the night and it was clear it would just be a one night thing. In the morning, he called me a cab, gave me a kiss and I went back to my friend. She saw me and said oh my God what happened to your face. I looked in the mirror and saw I have clear finger marks on my left cheek where he had slapped it so hard. I'm freaking out, my boyfriend is due to arrive today, and I need to get those marks off my face. Any ideas PLEASE?

I am a sophomore so I have had roommate before with no problems. this year though I got new one she is a freshman. Everything was great at first she is really nice we got along and were friends. Then I find that she's been setting my food and not only that she is leaving the empty boxes( Oreos, popcorn, chips, pop tarts) in there so I don't notice at first. This has happened twice already and just yesterday some of my chips and gold fish were eaten and not by me. And I know she has been taking the food because there are stains of the red dust from the chips on my container where I keep them. Because we have opposite schedules she has plenty of time to eat my food when I'm not in the room. Each time this has happed I have confronted her and she swears on her grave that she hasn't eaten them, she doesn't like the chips I have and she would have asked if she wanted any. All the food that she has eaten is around 30ish dollars all together and I'm broke as it is. I don't know what to do. If I lock my food will she move on to my other stuff? Will that be the end of it? Or will she try to break in to the box as well ? Should I just move ? I still have the rest of fall and spring semester to get through. I'm lost, help! :(

I usually feel like I don't belong here or I feel like I annoy several people such as some of my friends. Is it best to just tell them how I feel and then they will reassure me that I'm not being annoying so I stop feeling like that? I hope this makes sense lol. I always have denial thoughts such as you're annoying, your weird, or I'm a loser etc

I have a friend who draws art. Recently I found this person who copies the majority of it and posts it. They trace it and change it a tiny bit and color it different, but it pretty much looks exactly the same. They claim it as their own and when I tried to confront them, they denied it and even posted our private chat. My friend was freaking out and getting very stressed and was even considering quitting drawing, but just decided not to post their art for a while. They told me they dealt with the problem and to not get involved. When I asked how they handled the issue, they refused to tell me. And later, they're just completely calm about it and said they were fine with it. I found this odd, considering how upset they were before. I feel like there's probably something sketchy going on, but I'm not sure. What makes me even more mad is that this person sells merchandise of this art. So not only are they plagiarizing, they're getting money out of it. I want to post a page and post the original art and call out this thief. But my friend told me to leave it alone because it's their problem, even though I found the art in the first place, and I thought friends help each other and face problems together. So what should I do? This is making me really angry and stressing me out. And if I do end up doing something, I want to keep it under wraps so my friend doesn't find out.

I've been starting to think my best friend has a drug problem, she started out with smoking weed (not a problem, I do also). Last year she started to take party drugs like molly and acid but I still didn't think it was a problem because she only did it once in a while. A couple months ago I started thinking something was wrong when she started taking party drugs multiple times a week but I still didn't say anything because she had her priorities straight with work and college. A couple weeks ago she told me she was thinking of trying coke and I practically begged her not to and she said she wouldn't but a couple days ago she did do it. Yesterday, I was hanging out with mutual friends of ours and we ended up talking about her and I found out from one of our friends that she owed him $300 and also never paid the phone bill for the month (they're on the same plan and he sent her money for his portion of the bill) and we don't think she works at her job anymore. My friend tried to contact her multiple times about it but she hasn't answered (she's been active on social media so she's alive). I don't want her to think I'm acting like her mom if I try to talk to her about it but we've been best friends for 8 years and I don't want her to go down this path. It's also hard because we live over 3 hours from each other now so I can't just show up to her house to talk. And I know things are often miscommunicated when they're texted so how should I approach this? 

I have a family friend who I am not too particularly close to. Haven't talked to this person in like two years either text or a phone call. Well out of the blue this person calls me to let me know they are having a small wedding and while they wish I could come they won't have enough room.  Why even call me for that? The first call in two years is to tell me I'm not invited...? To be honest I don't really care about his irrelevant wedding as I have my own to plan. I want to call everyone in his family now and tell them the same sort of message as a tit for tat as I know his family desperately wants to come to my wedding.  Am I taking this wrong, I've never heard of someone calling people to tell them they are NOT invited. Seems like a dick move, and if he had not called I wouldn't have even noticed it happened. Anyone else deal with an inconsiderate person like this...?

So me and my friends are very big on fighting games, we play Tekken, fighterZ, smash bros, you name it. I don't always win but I do win majority of the time. I try my best not to gloat and stay humble. If I'm playing a game online against another opponent, or another one of my friends, it's always like this particular friend never is on my side. I'll take damage, " damn they're going hard!" Hell, I'll be up 2 to 0, they'll take only one round and my friend will cheer for my opponent it seems like. This is just something I notice. Because if the roles were switched I would root for my friend of course. Secondly it's like they're always trying to come over to my apartment. Sometimes they'll sit on my couch for hours and not even try to engage in conversation, just occasionally say negative things about things in general. And sit on my couch quietly, on their phone or Nintendo switch. Also, when I state my opinions about anything it's always like their opinion has to oppose mine, like they have to validate why they're right and why my opinion isn't accurate. On the off hand they do do kind things for me, like give me things they don't use anymore like headphones or speakers, but I feel like it's just so they can cross boundaries, then be like, "oh but I gave you this! "If you know what I mean. I'm really starting to believe this isn't my friend. But I just want the perspective of someone else.

You hear people all the time say things like "these are my friends" But what makes them YOUR friends? It seems like everyone always has another group they hang out with, or is always with other people besides you. It seems like they are already someone else's friend, so why are they YOUR friend?

I am not sure how I should feel about what my 16 year old sister Ann is doing. I am her 20 year old brother. I really like her and I am VERY protective of her. She has developed into a very beautiful woman. She is mature far beyond her age. She knows how guys think probably from being around me and my brothers. When my buddies come over to my house to hang out, they just love it when she talks and jokes around with them. I also know how guys think and I have told them repeatedly she is not flirting with them. She is just an outgoing and fun loving person that is totally at ease with guys. She wants to be their buddy, not their girlfriend. Can guys my age accept her as a friend and buddy and not as a potential girlfriend. Please tell me what you think.

Hello. I am 37 year old male who has a hard time making friends my age. Any suggestions?

Idk what to do. I'm a 16 y/o (f) junior in high school and all my teenage years have been wasted. I've spent all of my teenage years locked up in my room, and always at home. The last time I went to a party, I was in the 6th grade.  I've been bullied all my life, and have never been able to keep friends. My friends are always either mean to me, act fake to me, and/or straight up leave me. In the 7th grade, I was going through a depression and became severely depressed. I switched to online classes. I then had the same thing happen to me in 8th grade and switched to online classes 2nd semester of 8th grade. My best friend since the 4th grade became best friends with my childhood bully and stopped being friends with me.  Just recently, my friend that I thought was my friend has stopped talking to me. When I asked her what did I do/what was wrong, she ignored me and has been ignoring me in person. It makes me really sad when I see people go out to parties, hang out and have (REAL) friends to sit with at lunch. I literally bounce friend group to friends group and I'm scared I'll never have anyone to sit with at lunch.  Sometimes it feels like everyone thinks I'm awkward and that's why they never want to be friends and I do act awkward sometimes because I never know how to act around people given that people have always been so negative towards me. What do I do? I'm so tired of staying in my room. I want a life and I don't wanna be alone for the rest of my life :/ Thanks :)

Ive known this guy since I was 16. He was almost like my brother, we used to talk all the time but we hadnt seen each other in like 3 years. He started to "flirt" with me via chat suddenly since I wished him a happy birthday on September. I told him we should play just dance (we used to play that a lot) and try to nail katy perry's birthday choreography. I dont know why he decided to look up the entire lyrics of that song and took it the wrong way, he thought I was flirting. I said no, that I didnt even know the full song and that it didnt even crossed my mind. He started to send me weird and provocative memes and stuff. I thought he was joking but I still let him know I felt uncomfortable. He then stopped talling to me and started acting really cold. Later, I was feeling down because I had problems with my boyfriend and decided to say hi to my friend in person, hoping things would get better. Long story short, he started flirting with me after a while, touching my face and getting too close. I rejected him, but then he suddenly put his hand inside my jeans quickly (I was sitting down and he touched my butt basically, underneath my clothes). I got mad and haven't talked to him since. I deleted his number. It hurts because I really thought he was my friend. I miss the old him but I know he's not the same and after what he did, our friendship is over. I wish I'd never said anything about that dance.

So, I just heard that this guy got rejected by 3 girls altogether last year and this year, he seems to have a crush on me and I liked him back until I heard these about him. Should I still give him a chance? He seems desperate to have a girlfriend If we do end up dating, maybe he would just date me to have a girlfriend and not caz he likes me

I'm part of a group of 4: Me, and Three other Friends. (I will label them as Alpha, Beta and Charlie). Charlie got his first Girlfriend. Me and the other three were VEry happy he got one. However, we both knew that Charlie will spend less time with us but we decided to just make plans with CHarlie at least 4 days Earlier. However, he has been acting rude to us. He's been saying Yes even like A WEEK Earlier then suddenly the day itself of a plan, he texts us he can't make it but we found out through the best friend of the gf's insta that he and his gf are hanging out together. One time, for Beta's B-day, he decided to treat the gang, plus the gf to his Birthday ar TGI Fridays. however, the day itself, he texted us that his mom is sick and needs someone to watch her and his gf will accompany him. However, this was a lie because when I was accompanying Alpha on his gift hunting for his Gf's Bday after TGI fridays, we saw Charlie and his GF in Starbucks. Another time, there was this cool trampoline park. Again, Charlie said yes Four days Earlier and decided to bail out the day itself for his Gf's time. We know Charlie has a gf but in general, It's rude if you say Yes earlier and lie in order to bail out the day itself.

I'm 19 and asexual, we're just friends who met in an online gc but we're really close and the most important person in each other's eyes. Tbf I had just finished hs when we met, so I never considered it a big deal until recently. As friends, we plan to meet up someday, possibly soon, but I only just realized that such a situation might be creepy. I'm an adult, she's sort of a kid, but we're both female, close friends, and I'm an asexual aromantic, so I have no ulterior motives of any sort. I've never had such a close friend so I'm excited to meet her and value her a lot, but I'm worried my actions might be seen as creepy?

It happened in Edge of Seventeen. And I recently seen a Tik Tok post where a girl's friend had sex with her own brother, so she snitched about it to her brother's girlfriend. She basically dissed her brother because her friend had sex with him. These situations just scream incest to me. Why would you be mad someone else had sex with your family member, unless you're screwing your own family or something?

I graduated 8th grade last year and had a small little friend group in middle school; no one ever bullied me, nor did they bully my friends. However, everything changed when I entered high school (2 months ago). Typically, kids from my former school went to the high school in the area, but since my mom decided to move to a "better" area, I have experienced nothing but tragedy. To be fair, I had high hopes changing districts because my best friend Rick, who was in my middle school group, attends the same school as me. Rick and I are "nerdy", we're your typical programming, anime, supersmash bros kinda dudes. I'm very tall and lanky, while Rick is short and chubby; naturally, you could imagine how we stand out. A bigger kid named Elijah has been physically and verbally abusing Rick and I. For instance, he constantly licks his finger and smears his saliva on my nape in Bio, he essentially forced Rick to tie his girlfriend's shoes, and broke Rick's glasses afterwards. The following event last Friday has incredibly concerned me: Elijah sucker punched Rick during PE and Rick threw up and got **** for it (excuse my French). I'm sorry, but I'm more concerned for Rick than my own self. It's getting to the point where I might just head butt this brute of a human. I proceeded to call him a jerk and Elijah said, and I quote, "Well your next Skellington". I was rather fond of his remark and took it as a compliment. Yeah I'm lanky, but Jack Skellington is badass. No logic there....

Why do some people see me as a threat for no reason? Some women will pretend to be nice and care but then I can tell they are competing with me/compensating. I dress stylish and I am goal oriented but I am down to earth. I can see through people's antics and they underestimate me. 

My roommate pooped in our shower and wont admit to it but we live alone and i didnt poop in the shower how do i bring this up to her?

I've had trouble socializing and making friends since I was 13. When I turned 18 years old and lived on my own, I thought it would be something I'd grow out of, but it never happened. When I went to college I never made friends, or got a girlfriend (still never had one)-I avoided socializing at all costs and lived like a hermit. I left college and got a job, but nothing changed. I've been at the same job for 8 years, and worked with countless people, but never made a single friend or girlfriend. Many have told me it is my awkward and strange personality that drives people away, but that can't be helped-I am who I am. At this point, I'm almost 30 and I feel like it's too late to do anything. Should I just give on making friends or trying to find a significant other at this point?

fact or myth?