ok hello. so this was the ONE time i forgot to lock the door & he ends up walking in on me. anyways i don't remember what happened but i said something & he left. i'm embarrassed as hell & i don't know what to do pls help thanks <3

I'm 14 and I have a 19 year old older sister who is constantly giving me all kinds of different wedgies like hanging, atomics, and jock locks and it's really embarrassing, even my mom laughs if she sees my sister giving me one, sometimes she even helps her give me the wedgie!!!! I'm embarrassed to ask anyone in real life about the situation, do big sisters normally give wedgies to their younger brother and why?

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It involves a child someone had and gave up for adoption.

Whenever I use my laptop, my mom insists that I sit in the same place at the table where the screen can be seen. I've had to sit in this place for years, and at this point, I'm tired of sitting in the same place. When I'm doing my homework this is very counterproductive because if I try to sit somewhere else, she yells at me to sit in my usual place until I move and it wastes time that I could be using to get my work done faster. I feel that this is very unfair for me, and when I try to tell her this, she doesn't want to listen. Is there anything I can do to change this?

so my grandfather died 2 days ago, and now we've traveled 6 hours to my grandmas house for his funeral, and it still doesn't feel real. Meanwhile I just want some alone time to cope, and everyone is yelling at me for wanting that and saying I have issues. I'm in big trouble because they're saying I'm being terrible. Everything is happening so quick and nothing has been comprehended yet. What do I do, I tried telling them I just want to be alone and they told me I have issues.

Your daughter getting pregnant by her boyfriend who has multiple baby mommas and women in his life. Basically getting pregnant by a player

This is a bit of a grey area. For years my wife has suited herself and gone on overseas travels without me. Even abandoning our 8 month old son last year to run off to Tibet. This was at a time when she was becoming increasingly violent. Around this time, she got violent by swearing and punching me (even whilst carrying our newborn son). Then the police were involved when she smashed up the kitchen and was physically shoving/biting her own mother! I was scared for the safety of them both and for the effects on my son. I thought the whole house would be trashed and they would seriously injure each other so I called the police...then she had to go through the courts and have a domestic violence order to protect everyone. She then took off overseas forcing my parents to drop everything and care for him since I couldn't take a month off work on such short notice. This year she wanted to travel with me to China and Europe. I made it clear that my money wouldn't stretch that far because of the sheer number of bills I have to keep on top of. She earns a lot more money than I do and handles payments for our investment properties etc. I handle all the other expenses like car loan, regular bills, health insurance, passport/visa for my son and I etc. She keeps threatening to cancel the flights and force me to pay out for my own portion of the trip or else I can be left behind. I'm calling it emotional abuse but others are quick to point out that she is under no obligation to pay. So does that mean if the roles are reversed, that I can book everything for her to come but repeatedly tell her to pay for her own when I know that she cannot afford it because of her financial obligations?

So long story short my dad hasn't really every did anything for me my whole life and early this year he got re married and didn't invite me or my other sibling to his wedding. He now wants to make peace  Should I forgive and move on or is that too big of a mistake of what he has done?

I'm 14 and live in the UK. I don't want to run away from home, but I don't want to continue getting verbally abused. I can't tell anybody at my school though because I've tried that in the past, nothing happened.

My father bought a guitar, we are forming a band. My brother bobby sticked a drumstick into his rear end. i am drumming fast dad played guitar like slayer dave mustane. He then sticked the guitar up bobbys rear end and bobby combusted. our band name is fedeal reserve. is this guitar bass or acutistic

I've been with the greatest guy for about 6 months now. I've met his family and absolutely adore them. I grew up with a very dysfunctional family so being around his makes me feel like I'm part of something I grew up lacking. He has asked me why he hasn't met my mother (my dad passed away when I was 12) and I've been absolutely terrified for them to meet. My mother has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) she was extremely abusive to me growing up and still is to this day. Most people wonder why I haven't severed relations with her but I'm adopted and since she's older in age and her health isn't great I feel as if I should help her. Especially since both my older sisters and the rest of the family can't stand her and she really has no one else. (Sorry this is becoming a long story but I thought I should provide context) My mother isn't a bad person but she is prone to throwing tantrums/fits when things don't go her way and making any situation about herself. She's very persuasive in making strangers feel sorry for her and has mastered crying on cue. Those who live with her know how unstable she is but strangers have no clue. I've been very honest about my boyfriend about her and how I anxious I feel about them meeting. Am I terrible person for admitting that I never really want him or his family to meet her? What would you do in my shoes?

Ok, this is going to be pretty long. I'm 15, I haven't talked to my dad for 5 years now. My parents got divorced when I was 2 so I didn't have a choice in who got custody of me and so my dad did. I saw my mom every other week but I always wanted her to have full custody. I thought I could have a better life with her. Now looking back, I was so stupid for thinking that. They got into a custody battle and my mom won and we moved far away from him. Five years later now, I miss him so much and I feel so guilty. I am so scared to call him because I'm afraid that he doesn't want anything to do with me. My guilt makes me cry a lot. He hasn't reached out to me all these years even though he knows my mom's number and I just found his number after I had forgotten it. I really don't know what to say to him. Will he even want to talk to me?

I work with my sister in a hospital. She has worked there for almost a year whereas I just started a few months ago. Recently I've noticed she has been going back to some old habits of hers. Such as drinking. I strongly feel she has been drinking on the job. The supervisors have discussed iy with me and I was informed if I ever noticed it to inform them and they would send her to be tested. They want to help her so she can keep her job which is what I would love as well. However the other day I exited the are we were both working in. Her behavior was so erratic and she was jumping on not only my nerves, but other employees as well. As I exited the area my supervisor noticed I was upset and asked me what was wrong. I told him she was drunk. He acted as if I was ridiculous for mentioning it and told me he didn't smell anything and blew it off. Then told me to let supervisors deal with supervisor stuff and for me to deal with me.(which let me say again...He asked me what was wrong..I didn't go complain).  This upset me so I informed the head supervisor because I was told to let them know and I didn't appreciate being blown off for something I feel is very serious.  She told me she'd handle it.  Cont in conments

I have a stepfather and we often are at each other necks. I am a adult 22 years-old currently in college so I go back in forth at home and my dorm. Now I do chores take out the trash, cook, and clean. However, recently I cooked dinner for my family and my stepfather had a issue about me not cleaning the dish right away after using it and how I should wash as I go and I shouldn't wash dishes until after i'm done cooking.He feels that   "if its not his way its the wrong way". However, I expained to him I only wanted to soak the pot first as it had food stuck on it. He chose not to believe me and said it was nonstick even though we have cooked stuff where it has sticked to that particular pan before. So then he goes on to say you never wash dishes. This is what pissed me off as I always clean after I cook or when anyone else cooks. Just the other day he fried something and left the pot filled with grease out and I cleaned it. When I brought it up he said "and I always wash my dishes". From there it became a huge argument on me calling him out for hypocrisy and this is not the first time. He often accuses me of not doing things only because I don't do it the way he wants me to and automatically thinks i'm guilty. He is very controlling and I have no probblem admitting when i'm wrong, but somehow he does. I understand its his house and I should just let it go, but I feel like he isn't respecting my feelings or anything I have to say. So am I wrong for calling him out or is he?

My family had a bbq planned for tomorrow. It was not a huge deal but we've been planning it for about a month, and all our family and friends were invited. I asked my bf if he could go, and he said he didn't think so bc his sister's bday was that day and they were going to have a special lunch for her. No worries. That's an understandable reason not to show up to our bbq. They had a super fancy dinner for her tonight and are also having a lunch tomorrow for some reason. But today, my bf said he thinks he's going to miss his sister's bday lunch bc he and his dad are going to go on a motorcycle ride together. First off, if I was his sister, I would be annoyed he's skipping my bday lunch. But I suppose they did have a dinner tonight to celebrate already. But if he was so quick to ditch her bday lunch to ride with his dad, I'm a little annoyed he wasn't willing to come to my family's bbq. Feels to me like he's ditching both his sister and me to ride with his dad (who he rode with last weekend too). I'm really not that upset about it, but I strangely feel like I should be upset about it. Thoughts?

It all makes me feel weird. Everybody in school talks about her and how big chested she is. Wherever she goes guys check her out. In the last couple of years she's changed so much physically and in turn my whole world feels uncomfortable. I look at at her now and can't even believe this is my little sister anymore. How do I deal with all this?

my name is David and im 24,  back in August i lost my dad.   He had a heart attack in his sleep,  but this has affected me alot.   I keep thinking about the day i found him dead, i keep thinking about the day of the Funeral.  It makes me sooo depressed when i think about all this. There was a family who helped me and my mom.   But i stopped talking to that Family because i wanna forget everything because this hurts me.   That Family obviously thinks im ungrateful,  but im just hurt.   Can i i please have advice....am i a bad person???? :(

My mom is 63 and has diabetes and other health issues that sometimes makes it hard for her to see while driving. Today I find out that she totaled her car (I don't know who is at fault yet) and that she's in the hospital. Is it bad that I don't feel sad? I'm angry because she didn't listen to me. She had to set the stage today for the church play tomorrow, and WE both agreed that I would pick her up and help her (because she wasn't feeling well) after I got off work, which was at 2pm. When I got to her house around 2:45, I didn't see her car in the driveway. So I called her to see where she was, and she told me that she decided to set up the stage by herself and that she's almost done and will be back home soon. She never made it home, because on the way back, she totaled her car (that she had just gotten in May). I'm 21 if that's of any relevance. Is there something wrong with me because my mother is in the hospital and could possibly be hurt, and I'm not sad?