Long story short, I was a member of a private group about depression on Facebook. A woman confessed to cheating on her husband and it made her feel terrible and she basically was looking for consolation to help her move on from her mistake. Anyway, I made a fake Facebook and told her to send me $500 through a cash app or I would end her marriage and I sent her screen shots of her confession and threatened to send them to her husband. She sent me the $500 and I spent it on new tires for my vehicle. I feel bad, but at the same time, cheaters are absolute scum to me so in a way, it was like I literally made her pay for her mistake. 

My son is being bullied at school. he is 7 years old. he finally came around telling me during a simple discussion at home. I am a foreigner so it's not something I came across while growing up. Because when things like this happened adults dealt with it accordingly. they never let it linger long enough. And I don't recall it starting this early( he is in 2nd grade). First it was the many scratch marks My husband witnessed on his shoulder. They were already healed but it looked like it was done repeatedly. I asked he 1st said his baby sister did that. Then he said he scratched himself. then at some points I noticed a change in behavior, two weeks ago he wet the bed. Or he will come in with complaints of stomach aches or the school would call about stomach aches.last year his jeans were often torn, he  would never have a good explanation why. I always had to buy new ones. and one of his friends's mom tried to offer me clothes for him at some point. I felt insulted because he's always had good clothes on. When he is going through something I can tell because it reflects on his homework, and he Becomes very stubborn. I tried to get my husband to talk to him since he was bullied too. But he thinks I am doing too much. What should I do? I don't want to tell his teacher and make things worse in the process. I want to know for sure what is going on. 

My wife and I have been married for three years, within the last two months I've noticed she doesn't try to have sex with me anymore. When I asked her why she simply says she thinks it must have something to do with her medicine because she's just not in the mood. When I try and sleep with her she will last about five minutes and say it's hurting and we need to stop. She recently made a new bank account because she said I was blowing money like crazy, after I told her I would stop she added me back on. She doesn't text or call me as much as she used too, when I ask her why she says she simply doesn't think about it because she's busy with the kids. Do you think she's cheating on me?

Marriage is for better and worse and I get that but it's not fair to me and our kids he keeps screwing up.  He slept with escorts continuously through our marriage, no matter how much sex I have him.  I have caught him many of times shopping and using money for weed and sex. He has called me a b**** in front of our kids and a h** many times And he pushed me while pregnant and The last straw is when he choked me and spit on me in front of our kids.  I have endured a lot in this 7 year marriage , how much is enough and should I leave him once and for all??

Ian

My wife says that I complain about money issues too much, but she doesn't understand how much stress it is for me to have to handle everything. We have 3 kids who are 12,13,and 14 they have growing appetites and eat a lot so i end up spending about $300 a week on groceries AND then have to go to chikfila to get my wife chicken salads. The kids eat like 5 times a day. My wife barely makes any money she makes about $6 an hour She can't even afford to pay food. Then, she's talking about she's ready to retire. I give her credit for cleaning on her off days but she doesn't cook at all. Our children have to cook. I know one thing, I'm not cooking anything. I'm the breadwinner and so I'm completely exhausted when I get off. Not only do I have to buy the groceries but I have to be the one to go to the grocery store. Every time I'm at walmart the associates ask why my wife never goes to the store AND they also ask why she doesn't cook. She said she doesn't like going to the store. I just hate always having to be the one to go to the grocery store. Plus, our water bill is always high because my wife has to take TWO baths everyday.We live in a very nice neighborhood two story house with lots of space which is good because we are a big family but it is incredibly stressful trying to pay for everything and these bills just keep adding up. We've been in this house for 15 years and everything is starting to break at one time. The mirror in the upstairs bathroom is shattered, Our master bedroom is always leaking from the ceiling Update 2: all of toilets are incredibly messed up Update 3: Our oven is broken, we have to use a toaster oven for now. Update 4: plus, much more. We defintely cannot afford all of these repairs Also, It's no point in selling the house because we have lived in the house for 15 years and we are almost finished paying it off. This house has been a stress financially but we do need the space with three kids and the two of us.

our daughter's boyfriend always has to use the bathroom. I don't know what his problem is, he is only 29 he pees way more than me. i told him last time he was over "you might have to go to the cvs across the street to use the bathroom boss man our pipes are messed up so the water leaks endlessly. I had to cut the water off, we haven't been able to bathe or wash our hands in days because It's costing me a lot of money to have the water running with the pipes messed up. I'm trying to help him out because he's not going to be able to flush the toilet or wash his hands and the bathroom is going to stink if you let poo or pee sit in it. My daughter was like "Well how do you go to the bathroom, I know you don't hold it that's bad for you." I was like " I use the bathroom at work and just hold it at home. I don't have to go as many times as he does anyways." My wife stepped in and said " Quit being rude. He probably has a bladder infection. People can't help it if they have to go a lot." How am i being rude??? our pipes are messed up. He can't go here.

They might avoid women who act like man haters (prostitutes and feminists) but avoiding someone cause they're pretty ? Thanks .

I ran into my ex mother in law Lisa at the mall. We talked briefly and as it was lunch time I invited her to go to join me for lunch. We went to a nice restaurant in the mall. We had great food, great conversation, and a lot of fun. I did not think any more about it until I get a text message from my former wife Pam, that she did not want me dating her mom anymore. She said it would be to weird to call her ex husband dad? I thought she must be joking as how could anyone think that having lunch one time with anyone would mean they were going to get married so going along with the joke, I said "Does that mean you will not be a brides maid at the wedding"? It turns out she was not joking and now she is mad at me. Do you think I did something wrong here?

Found husband of 15yrs watching porn while I'm at work, he works PM I'm AM when asked about it at first he lied and said he didn't watch. The next day I mentioned it again he said he watch but didn't jack off. I kinda find it hard to believe that he watches for a good about of time. But I'm not finding ANY other clues saying he did Jack off. I mean most day we see each other for an HR or more.. he always starts watching right after he wakes up and calls me to see what I'm doing or where I'm at ( I travel from store to store with work). And soon as he knows Im not headed home he begins. His ( non masturbating).. Im finding it hard to believe that he watches for that long and don't jack off!

So many people all around the world Tell me where do I find someone like i can married

They hate her but I'm attending for my cousins, not the ex-wife though I don't hate her.

And they're going to go be with their girlfriend.

It was Friday evening from a week of work and kid activities and I wanted a quick release. By the time I got to bed my wife was getting to sleep and said she wasn't interested. Deciding to not press the issue I thought I'd squeeze one off really quickly. So I went into the guest bedroom with my phone and started watching some porn, nothing kinky. About ten minutes into it I hadn't noticed my wife walk into the room. Before I know it she punches in the balls and say, "WTF!" I'm in complete pain, unable to move or chase after her as she leaves. She come back a few minutes later, and throws a bag of ice at me and tells me to knock it off.   I ended up falling asleep waiting for the pain to subside. The next morning we get up and start our normal Saturday routine of racing to get the kids ready for their practices. I tried to bring it up throughout the day by starting with, "I'm sorry about last night," but she quickly tells me, "not in front of the kids."   I waiting until that evening when we both in bed and tried to say something, she tells me to be quiet and then proceeded to give me a BJ, which afterwards puts me to sleep.    It has been a week and neither of us has brought this incident up. I'm feeling sorry for watching porn but I'm even more mad for getting punched in the balls. At this point is it worth discussing, that was the first time she caught me, and the first time she ever hit me. We've been married 16 years. I'm looking for advice.

If you do, does she have a wife?

My mother in law is obessessed with her 40 year old son. She is jealous that my husband puts my baby and myself before her. In fact she reminds me of a narcissist who is only about "her" needs.  She is on her 3rd marriage (she cheated on all her husbands) and was not a good mother to my husband as a kid...whats her obsession with her grown son now when she left her kids with strangers who abused them while she was partying and sleeping around.....She treats my husband as a emotional husband and expects him to put her before me? Any pychologists in the house that can see whats going on with this dynamic? Need advice

Yes you love her but she gotta stay in shape.... that like me quiting my job... ya she is going to love me be she still going to divoice me... Do you agree with me ?