I m PCA for two different type of special needs resdients one very shy and sensitive the other social butterfly and love all the attention expectly from med the one who really shy got push down the stairs by the center of attention resdient I don't mean to say that about her but she loves all the guy volunteers anttion   but the one got push down the stairs is kinda scared of the guy volunteers because she has ptsd from a sexual assault was Rough handle by a few mAle volunteers that where a health center it annoying there admission volunteer staff that talks and there the same sorry  my key board off but it crazy she Dosent there totally different but the shy one dosent really mind the med and nursing students in smaller group so she dosent feel block in what should I do I feel bad for the shy one had enough of the one need to be the center of annetion

I haven't heard from my sister in 3 weeks or so and I tried to reach her. We are not real sister but we are close friends. I  have tried her number for weeks now and it will give me a  busy signal I email her and wrote her on Facebook and no response .That's not like her not to answer her phone. I know her boyfriend should I reach out to him. I'm concern about her me and I'm out of town for work I just can't knock on her door.

My married male friend gave me a an thoughtful and expensive piece of jewelry as a birthday gift... he and I have been friends for a while now... is it ok to accept it? Or does jewelry automatically mean he has a hidden agenda? 

I have a coworker, whom I was a friend a few months ago I told him a secret that I had sex with my gf whom I met like a month. Now my gf no longer there. But, he had promised me he will not tell anyone. I'm not a bad person, and being open minded. My age is 24 and it's quite common to have sex in this age. I have made another best friend (girl) now whom I only see her as my best friend forever. But, she also has a bf. Now, the coworker who I shared my personal secret is using against me and telling to my best friends bf and also my team mates that had sex with a girl I met only 1 month and people in my team are having a bad reputation on me because of him. They act as if I am a rapist and probably because of this I might lose my best friend forever and it will hurt me brutally. My best friend is the one who keeps me informed of what my coworker is doing so I came to know this. I can't speak to him directly, Because he will know that my best friend told me everything and it will spoil his and her friendship too. (He knows that we are close). I'm stuck in this frustrating situation because if him. He talks nicely to everyone and catches their attention and I'm introverted. How to make him talk good about me and turn things around? I feel he is jealous of my friendship with my bestie so he is doing this. Please help. 

From my BF: As I stated. Next is my treat for food. We need to both stop this and fix this tbh. I enjoy my time with you and don't want to spoil it for you or me for Oct 31. Necklace I cant do now, but maybe in the future it depends. And secondly I want to cherish my moments with you and not have bad ones. And thirdly, just instead of saying go find a girl like that, sometimes you gotta be that girl for that guy so you can keep him. What does "it depends" mean? And why doesn't he just find another girl?

My roommate is super rude about some things but I don't know if she realizes it or not. We told her when she moved in that she wouldn't have a spot in the garage or driveway because there's really only room for 2 cars yet she decided she was going to park there and constantly blocks my other roommate and I in when we have places to be because she doesn't drive much. Also, she thinks she can eat our food and use our things without asking. My other roommate and I switch off buying things since we eat and use the same stuff and equally pay for it but the other roommate doesn't contribute to that. Also, she went to Costco last week and bought so much stuff that my other roommate and I couldn't fit any of our food in the fridge or freezer. Today she decided to make dinner for her and her boyfriend and used all of my pans so I have no way of making dinner for myself and she used my other roommates and I's food for it too because she was too lazy to go to the store.

So kinda personal, but I have this friend (who thinks they are my best friend) that I've known for about 4 years. So-- I'm in 8th grade and I've known her since 5th, but early 7th grade she started to change. She's rude to my other best friend, (who is very sensitive and honestly has a hard life) she's VERY jealous when I talk to literally anybody else but her- not to mention she does the same thing to me and I've never been mad at her for it- she screams at my other best friend if she says something she doesn't like, she also disrespects my privacy and says rude things about my to my own friends, and she also gets REALLY upset when my other best friend tells her about how she needs to shape up. But when she changed and I noticed I tried to stop being friends with her-- if you could even call it that- all I said was I wanted sometime alone. When this happened I sat at another table with my friend. I told her I wanted to be alone,(which I said beforehand) but then she came over to the table I was sitting at and asked when I was coming back. All I said was.. "I don't know, please leave us alone." She ran back to her original table, hid her face and cried. My other friend looked at me strangely and I said "what did I say something wrong??" She told me I needed to apologize to her and that I should go back to the table. We settled things and I told her why I needed this. We're still friends and after all this, she reverted back to how she was before. What am I supposed to do??

im scared

My boyfriend (22) has a best friend who is aged 29, is that weird?

 coz they're bullying a gay dude at school and i can't defend him for obvious reasons i am no target and don't want to become one, but i feel sorry for him... were u sensitive or i'm weak. 

My new roommate doesn't EVER shower, rarely changes her clothes, doesn't wear deodorant, doesn't brush her teeth or hair(but she has a pixie cut so not brushing her hair isn't that bad...) She stinks REALLY BAD and are dorm room reeks. I talked to her about it and she apologized, but then proceeded to say she doesn't really care about hygiene anymore. Now she sprays are dorm down with gross axe body spray. She has no friend probably a mix between her awful hygiene and her being so antisocial. She's not ugly and if she wasn't so disgusting, grew out her hair, and stoped dressing like a emo dyke she'd look okay. What do I do about her?

Many is dome fring and he score so mny womans, we have Krovietszy all night but i feels like hes geting so much charming, he say I am uggly and the womans not like me. I suggest to get short hairs cut n been snuggleing with midget womsn, so happy but feel little embarassed, please pleas help me.

I don't understand why my friend treated me the way he did. I would always support him taking care of his pet, cheering him on when he was upset, or worried or needed my opinion. However, I was always the one asking him to hang out. He couldn't ever once come up with an idea to hang out. When he did accept to hang out with me and my friends he would come out and it was like I basically forced him. He always complains he has work and school or is too tired (I do the same and so do my friends). I would be the one to always call. I just don't understand what I did wrong. We once shared a kiss but agreed to move on past it (he wanted that), and I said ok. Did I give too much, did he just take and take, and realized he had cut himself a good deal?

My ex mother in law Carol who I really like when I was married to her daughter asked me to help her younger daughter Nancy fill out college admissions applications and scholarships applications. Nancy came to my house every Saturday and we worked on these applications. We spent many house doing this. Nancy got accepted at the college of her choice and got scholarships for tuition, room and board for 4 years. Everyone was VERY happy with the outcome of our work. Carol wanted to pay me for my work but I told her I don't charge friends for my help. Carol said at least let me give you a "Thank You Party" and I agreed to come to the party. There were several of Carol's relatives and friends at the party. They all thanked me for my help. Carol told the group that Joe (me) was really a great guy and she was VERY thankful I had helped Nancy get into college. Then she said "If Joe was my age, I would be proposing marriage to him now". WOW. I think she was joking but I am not sure. Can you think of anything more kinky than marrying your ex mother in law? Is that even legal? However with Carol's great beauty I would rapidly say yes. She would make any guy a trophy wife. Does that make me a real sick guy?

My name is Robert and im 23,  im friends with This girl Sabrina from work.   We been friends for 8 months,   i always liked her but she had a boyfriend.   About 3 weeks ago she broke up with him because she lost feelings for him.   Eventually i told her how i felt and she thought ot was cute.    Sabrina told my close friend that she wants to focus on herself right now, and she doesn't want to rush things.  Yesterday me and Megan went out on a date to a nice restaurant.   She held my hand the entire car ride and we made out.    I can tell she was interested,  she sends me hearts and kissy faces through text.  Could things workout between us???? I wanna talk to her about relationship but i dont wanna seem like im rushing?? Any advice???

so i told this girl i was friends with that i didnt want to friends with anymore because i really didnt she was making me very uncomfortable being around her and she was creeping me out and i couldnt take it and we havent talked since i told her which is good but im afraid she is gonna see me later in life and talk to me and try to get me to start our friendship from scratch which i dont want because i dont want to be friends with her ever again. i really hated being her friend and i never wanted to be her friend she just walked up to me and introduced herself to me

A girl in my class says/writes things like "she is, it is, he is, I am, they are, we have", etc instead of saying "she's, he's, it's, I'm, there, we've", etc. And also "want to, sort of, kind of, going, yes, no" instead of "wanna, sorta, kinda, gonna, yeah, nah". For example, yesterday there were worksheets with her name on them. She wrote 'The cat and the dog are hungery. They do not have food so I have to go to the store." and more. My friends asked her what she's doing for thanksgiving, and she said 'I am going to go to my Grandma's house maybe." Why would someone speak/write like this?

He is 9 years old and tells me he is good friends with a girl from school, I dont want him to have any female friends as it could make hgim bery heterosexual as we are very Christian and dont tolerate that sort of behavior! What can i do to get rid of her?

Hey everyone! So I wanted to come on here to see what others think of this situation. I'm in my early 20s and a year ago I moved with my boyfriend to a different state because of a job offer he got. I love where we're living because it's a beautiful place and it feels like a fresh start for me because I grew up with a crazy, unhealthy childhood so I don't regret this move. But I do get sad because I don't have any friends or family at all here. I used to be such a social person before but I feel like I'm the complete opposite now and the only people I talk to are my coworkers.  So there's this one co-worker who's my age and yesterday while I was in the break room, she came in and sat at my table. She asked me about my move and how it's affected me. I told her it's been tough because I feel like I have nobody except for my boyfriend and I started venting to her about my depression. She then said "why don't you go out and find a hobby and make friends that way?" And she was trying to give me ideas on what/where I can go to meet people. I appreciated the advice but isn't that kind of rude to not say "maybe we can go out for drinks one day" or try to be nice to someone having a hard time?  Then a few minutes later she said "guess what I'm doing tomorrow, me and _____ (another co-worker) are going to the annual fair that's in town! We're so excited, it's supposed to be good"  Am I overreacting or is it kind of rude to not befriend your coworker who vented to you? 

I had a friend that I had to distance myself from. After growing to trust her, I realized she was quite toxic to be around. As an empath, I started feeling seriously dragged-down in her presence. She'd find subtle ways to guilt and manipulate me into getting her way. I realize she's not a happy person, dealing with quite a few mental / health issues, and still trying to figure things out. I tried to be a good friend, but I refuse to let her drag me down with her. I can't distance myself completely as she also socializes with my group of friends. But every time I am forced to spend time with her, even for just a few hours, feelings of anger and resentment just come flooding back in and i'm in a bad mood and can't focus on other things for days after. Any advice for getting over these feelings so I can just move on?

How are men supposed to connect to each other? I think absent parents never really showed me I want to Be a man My brother says I'm a ***** help me please I have trouble making friends me connecting with other men but I can connect with women 

I started school in August, and I had this culinary class I was taking(I dropped it)and I had this really mean and impatient teacher.He is very rude.Well he bullied me because whenever I ask questions he gets upset and tells me I am not paying attention even when he says a million things at once.I need xtra help ever since elementary school.Also he pulled me outside the door during class to tell me to withdraw from the class and everyone heard.Also said some other stuff.Well now a group of guys now pick on me.We were cool first but now they avoid me in person, but now they spread gossip about me and people keep asking me questions like what's my grade and stuff because they won't talk to me so they talk about me to other students.I wanted to report it to his boss but don't know if that will do anything.The teacher actions caused a lot of social problems for me.I dropped it almost a month ago and it is still being talked about.I just now hate going to college because I don't know what they are going to say.Also they kicked me out the group chat,so I deleted the whole app.I bet you they talk made **** about me on the text phones.Also when I'm talking to someone they try to easdrop and try to get into it or try to stick around. try to ignore it but this is college.I really wish people can mind there own business.I drop the class because I was being bullied.Should I stand up to the boys?Also I'm not stupid I just need extra help because I have adhd since I was 12.

Like not having any friends,being unpopular and bullied in school.

I have started college and met this girl. On the first day she sat to my right. At break time I got up to go to the canteen and noticed she was standing in the gangway to my left taping the buttons on her phone and standing there as if waiting for something. At the last minute I decided not to go to the canteen and sat back down. I noticed this girl come straight back and sit back to the right of me (not right next to me but adjacent). The second lesson I sat behind her and I remember looking round at the girl sitting next to me briefly (a second) and then looked at me for about 3 seconds. The third lesson we sat next to each other and just had a general chat. But on the fourth lesson, I came in a bit late and she was sitting talking to this girl and I sat next to this girl. However, her face seemed to light up and immediately started talking to me, as if the girl between us didn't exist. Since then she has come with me to the canteen and to speak the security guard. I suggested last week to meet up to revise together and she suggested places to revise, such as Costas and Starbucks and which ones are quiet. Today we still spoke and had a laugh together, but when I brought up us meeting up to revise she seemed to agree but seemed awkward. Afterwards she would engaged in chatting again and asked about ,y favourites foods, what I eat etc and said she liked some of the food I liked. On leaving she gave me her number and I gave her mine about meeting up

i am sure they stare at guys too

my mom is 41 and she uses the washroom with the door open.  its so annoying because ill have friends over and we will walk by the washroom and she will be in there on the toilet with her computer.......its really frustrating, does anyone elses mom do this?

I didn't want to send nudes to my BF and told him to ask his exes. Him: Well we broke up. Or I could ask this other girl that's wanting to go out with me. Me: Sure ask her for nudes then. Him: See ya :D Then a few minutes later: Him: Im looking forward to spend time with you. Make changes babe. Me: Why don't you ask her? Him: I did she said let me know when im free. Me: Ok go be with her then. Him: Yesssss if you want me make changes ;) Me: Nah go to that other girl. Him: Im a go with her still ;) Then few hours later, he says he wants us to fix our issues? He says he won't ask nudes too.

So, I asked my BF if he can see a certain movie on Nov 2 with me. He says "I'm still sick". I then asked if we can Netflix. He said, "Yea depends. Condition isn't too well tbh. Plus my skin condition." Does he not like to cuddle? Because Nov 2 is far away and I'm sure he will get well by then.

I'm not good at comforting, what can I say to a friend that just lost someone

Me: Maybe you should find someone "non materialistic" Him: And you still need to make improvements. Yea that's a good idea. Or you can make improvements before you loose me. Why doesn't he just go find another girl?

I have a revoked license I have to get rides daily from my friends/ roommates. Sometimes I just feel plain stupid waiting for them. Anyway my roommate seems to hate me now because I have to depend on him. He left me waiting for 30 min and then basically ignored me and talked to his other friend instead while we walked out. I can't just tell him to be there on time for me can I?

My friend group is mainly me and four other girls. I'm very close with one of them and she is not friends with the girl who is supposedly manipulating me.  That friend had recently told me and another friend who is also being manipulated that we should end the friendship. We have not seen her  perspective on how the manipulator is and  I finally realized that she really was forcing her opinion onto me and making me think things that I knew were not true. The girl had made me feel insecure and has embarrassed me multiple times, but she made me think that it wasn't her fault and it was mine. She was really not popular then all the sudden she became friends with me  got popular. Sometime when we have little arguments she will say that she will become depressed and do things to herself because I made her do it. I'm scared that if I end my friendship with her she will do something and her words will make me feel as though it is my fault. All my other friends say that I should just end it because it would make me feel better about myself, and I want to but I'm still afraid.  I just need to know if I really am being manipulated/used. 

i have this toxic friend. she would basically give me and my friend backhand compliments because she's obviously insecure about herself. she did this for literally a year. she would ask why i would wear certain things, get EXTREMELY angry when things didn't go her way, or when i didn't agree with her. she was draining to be around. so my other best friend told me she felt the same way i felt it would be easier to tell her with someone by my side. so me and my friend told her over text. she basically said "i know i'm a bad person but y'all never said anything and laughed along so i didn't know i was hurting your feelings" which is bs. it's been a week and 2 days since it happened. ever since it happens she posts on her instagram spam (for close friends) that she's upset and cries all the time and that she regrets everything (obviously i directing the posts to us) and i feel like she does it to try and make us feel guilty cause she knows we're gonna see the posts. i feel sometimes guilty, i know i shouldn't though because she was so rude to us. a few days ago she texted the group chat with me and my friend and asked if we were friends anymore and what's happening, we didn't reply. she texted us 3 days days later, which is today. and asked and said "i don't care if you guys don't wanna be friends i just need an answer" we told her for now we don't wanna be friends for our own good and we're doing this for our mental health. i just don't know how to get my mind off it. 

so i had this toxic friend. we've been friends for a year. she basically was a social climber and would ditch me on and off and randomly ignore me. but we started a new school year, and she did it again. we were best friends, then the next day she gets on the bus to go to school and doesn't sit by me and ignores me. then of course talks with her other more popular friends. so i got so angry and sent her a voice memo and i basically told her to never talk to me again and that i'm done with her ****. she unadded me on snapchat and didn't respond. i'm so ******* angry. i don't get why she randomly stops being friends with me cause she hangs with me until her fake *** popular friends come back to her. i told her not to talk to me when she's all alone again. but i just don't know how to get over it. i'm so angry at her. and she rides my bus to and from school and she purposefully doesn't sit by me anymore to make me mad, and talks to this other girl she claims she hates just to get on my nerves.

So I was in a play with a friend and I was talking to that friend who was also talking to another person who was in it... (who is now a new friend!) so they were talking and then the "New friend" asked me if I knew this person and I said I did and my friend asked me how I knew them and I was like "UHHHHHH Homeschooling thing... I have a friend who knows them.. heh heh heh yeah" But see I've only seen them in a play of newsies and didn't know their name until now..... (and I've like never actually met them, like they've never seen me before) so what do I do if they ask me about them again or if I actually meet that person they were talking about and their like "Nice to meet you!" or "I've never met you before" or something like that??? I got so nervous for some reason and lied that I knew them.... (I think it's because I'm really bad when it comes to making friends so I just wanted that person to like me which is sad...) Also that person (Who I don't know) came to my play but I just totally avoided them.... I NEED HELP PLEASE WHAT DO I DO???? Thank you soooooo much! -Sap