My mom is a kindergarten teacher, and she brought home pizza for me that the kids didnt Finnish at the Halloween party. I was really hungry so I was about to eat it but......I dont know what those kids did to it. I'm sure a lot of them dont wash their hands and pick their nose, and I'm sure they probably picked up a piece, changed their minds, and put it back. Also, I've seen kids talk real loud around food, and spit all over it

I don't wanna sound whiny but I just don't feel like I have anybody that I truly relate to. I have friends and I can get along with them but I have to kind of "mask away" certain aspects of myself to fit in. And no they're not popular or anything, it has nothing to do with it, I just feel as though I've changed so much as a person and they fit more into who I used to be. Maybe I've just become the ultimate outcast lol. I'm a high school senior by the way, and I'm just wondering if this feeling ever goes away in college or throughout adulthood?

I have no interest in leaving my room unless I'm going to work or school. I'm a 19 year old male freshman currently going to college attending a community college. I do have two friends who are brothers currently but I never initiate conversation or to go out unless they ask. I feel it more as a burden when I have to leave my house to hangout because all I do is sit there and stare at their wall when we hangout. I made friends with these two back in middle school which was years ago. I also feel the need to never have any sort of relationship with anyone and I feel very disconnected with society which I really like. Is it normal to not desire any sort of interaction with people at all?

And you and this person has open communication but they send people anyway. Also if they send their friends to walk pass you and tell them what you are doing. 

He hasn't met those people. idk why he is doing it but I don't like it. should I just don' care or what? it is kind of hard for me to ask him to stop it. How can I ask him to stop it politely?

So here's the thing: my friend and I last night were watching a movie at her place. I was sitting on a chair and she was in her bed,which is a single bed. Since I was starting to feel uncomfortable on the chair I told her joking to let me stay on the bed with her. To my surprise she did. and we watched the movie while being in her single bed. I honestly felt weird because we were so tight I acted casually and we watched the movie. And that was it. Thing is: we have planned to go to nyc next month for her birthday. Thing is: we went on vacation together before but slept in different bed. But that was BEFORE we watched the movie together in her bed. Do you think I might get us a double bed room? Or should I do the usual separate bed? We were never in the same bed before yesterday. What do you think?

i am a new sophmore at an all girls school. going in on an off year is obviously challenging but i have made a bunch of friends. i am in a friend group as they include me at lunch and talk to me a lot. i have been invited to a decent number of things but i dont feel apart of the group. They are welcoming and it feels like they want to include me but i just dont feel completely "in". Im not in any group chats and they dont invite me to everything which is fine but they make a small effort to almost hide it from me. I have figured it out obviously but say nothing regarding it. I want be included in more of their plans but at the same time dont want to invite myself along. what should i do? pls dont tell me to find other friends 

I'm 21 and I never go out to clubs or parties. I go to friends birthday parties or family parties but never any wild parties. My boyfriend who I've been with for 3 years now is the same way and doesn't enjoy going to those things either. I grew up Muslim (I don't really practice the religion anymore) but growing up in that environment made me not want to drink or party. I'm introverted and I don't see the appeal in going out to a loud club with drunk people everywhere. I also don't really like to dance so what would I do at a place like that? I rather so something I actually enjoy.  Is it lame for a 21 year old to never go out clubbing or partying? My boyfriend and I go to this place that is a huge hall with different bars and we get a bite to eat and listen to the live band and have a couple drinks. But that's about it. Sometimes I feel like my friends think I'm lame or a loser 

I just began a new school this year as a sophomore. I have made an effort to become friendly with most of the girls (small all girls school) in my grade and have somewhat settled in to a friend group. Although they talk to me at school, I am left out of their groupchats and other get togethers. I feel as if I am welcome to the group but not a part of it. Whenever they talk about their plans, they try to avoid me hearing but I obviously do. I dont want to invite myself but at the same time I want to be a part of it didnt mean to add the question mark

He's promised me he wouldn't do it again but he's broken so many promises in the past.

Let's say a class of ninth and tenth graders go on an overnight field trip, but one of the freshman, who is very unpopular, has nobody to room with.  So the teacher tells two of the sophomores to let the freshman room with them, much to their dismay.  Their room has two beds and a pull-out mattress underneath each bed.  But as the two sophomores hopped into bed, they both said "no" when the freshman kindly asked if either of them could loan him their mattress.  So he sat in the hotel's couch chair, but couldn't fall asleep, so he lied down on the floor and slept very uncomfortably.  The Monday after the field trip, the sophomores were given detention, due to the freshman who told his parents what happened.  Who's in the wrong here?

I am a high school senior. I am in a AP math class that has only one girl Carol in it. All of my class mates REALLY like her. The fact that she is a world class beauty might have something to do with that. She told my buddy John, "You are a great looking guy. You will never have a problem getting a date". John was on cloud 9 after she told him that. She ask another buddy "Is that a gun in you pocket or are you glad to see me"? He said "they don't make guns that big". We all had a huge laugh at that. She told Bill "I bet there are no virgins after they date you". She told Joe it was nice that he liked cats. He said where did you get that idea? She said all the girls at school said you liked puss.y. The whole class had a BIG laugh. Guys in other classes that we told about this said that is sexual harassment and we should not have to take it. We say if it is, bring it on. We want MORE of it. It just makes us enjoy the class more. Is that sexual harassment?

I divorced 18 years ago after an abuse, thief robbed me blind for a decade. I never had a lot to steal. I owned a very modest house. I never owned a car less than 3-4 years old. Both my parents killed themselves and burned down the house we lived in shortly after my 18th birthday. I was an only child. I was born in Macedonia (former part of Yugoslavia) and when I was 1 my parents escaped to Greece. I lived in Greece until I was 11. Then we moved to the USA. I don't have any relatives in the USA. I work as a subcontract painter and drywaller. I might work with you for a week, then not see you for 6-12 months. I really have no friends. I have a 16 year old cat. I found her as a blue eyed abandoned kitten, in September 2002. It was estimated she was 5-6 weeks old. We are very close friends, we only have each other. I got used to being alone. I prefer it. I live in a modest apartment. Half my apartment is my work tools and ladders. My neighbor, a black woman in her early 20's, will walk up to me, shake my hand, start a conversation every time she sees me. She lives 3 doors down. I am not used to talking to people. I am probably 10 years older than her father at 55. I just don't get it. People have engaged me in conversations about nothing for the first time in over 15 years. I probably had 1 hour of socialization in 15 years. Now I seem to get that much in a week and I am kinda freaking out. I appreciate the kindness, but I am not used to this sort of thing. I just redid the math, my cat is 17, not 16. If you asked me what I did the past 17+ years, I would have to save survive.

So I've been at uni for a month now, I've made friends and we all live at the same accommodation but lately I've noticed regularly everyone excluding me are at one of their flats every night and I'm not invited unless in already with them. Am i doing something wrong? Should I be constantly asking them?

My friend is a nurse. I work in as an accountant. She's always talking about how hard being a nurse is and how much she works. I understand nursing is hard. Today in front of a bunch of friends at dinner she said "I wish I could be more like Allison and sit on my a*s at a cozy desk job 8 hours a day and get paid for it."  She then went on to say anyone who's not a teacher or a nurse has "cushion" jobs because we all work "desk jobs" and sit on our butts all day and don't have to be on our feet all day. A few of my other friends became extremely insulted too.  I also work at night 3 nights during the week at a grocery store plus one night on the weekends to make extra money. She told everyone she would never take a job as a cashier as that's beneath someone who's a "working professional" and that if people don't make enough money with one job they should pick a different field.  I'm really insulted and I'm honestly considering ending my friendship with her. What are your thoughts? What would you do?

I had sex with this guy once. He said he didn't think we should have sex anymore. Because I told him that I thought my parents wanted us to date. So then recently I told him I wanted to have a threesome with him and another woman. (When we first started talking he asked me if I ever would). Below is the conversation (I'm the one talking in the blue)

I've decided I'm moving to another state after dealing with my toxic family for 22 years any advice?

I've been wanting to know for a long time how this guy I'm interested in feels about me. Every time I see him in public we become really shy to talk about our feelings toward each other.  I told him in a Facebook message where my friends and I were going (dinner) and what time.He knew if I had the chance to date him. He showed up to the place my friends and I were at.  My heart was going fast, I went to the bathroom to calm down my heart.  My friends came in to check on me.  I told them I was very nervous, they knew I like him, I told them I wanted to leave (because I was so nervous).  I didn't actually want to leave it was my nerves talking.  One of my friends told me I can do better because his hair color. When I got back to the table, I was a lot more comfortable around him, my friend's boyfriend started to threatened this guy, threatening to beat him up (he didn't do anything to deserve it).  I told her boyfriend to leave him alone, he kept threatening him, my friends joined in by threatening him. One of them said he is gay for wearing really tight pants.  My friend told me never talk to him again  I finally had the chance to know how he felt about me however with my friends threatening him all I wanted to do is go home and stay away from my friends.  I confronted them telling them I was happy to see him and I want to date him, they bring me down, they were trying to convince me there's no way he is interested in me by telling me lies.  They weren't happy for me at all.