Married couple with no kids. Age 43 and 38. Savings: $280,000 (not including retirement savings) Do not own any home or other real estate. No debts. Income: $60,000 neto, after taxes Savings: about $25,000 per year.

I literally have been a good child. I played violin, balanced a job during the school year and I made all A's, I dont drink,  smoke, or party. I'm virgin and dont even plan on having s.x anytime soon. I'm not saying all this to brag but my father never tells anyone EVER that I was atleast decent but as soon as something bothers him he will talk about me to all these random people. He is VERY manipulative so anytime he speaks to anyone he is able to make me seem like i am just this awful person who never does anything for anyone. Whenever he says something that doesnt make sense and I question it...he will scream and curse at me, call me names and everything else. Its his way or the highway.  He has done so much to me and treated me bad and he has NEVER apologized but I  have to apologize for nothing. 

She was skipping classes, I asked her not to do it. She did it again. Asked her again to please be where you are supposed to be. If you skip again,  I will not let you go to Homecoming. Pretty clearly and simple.  So she skips again on Thursday and Friday. And then acts surprised and is crying and freaking out I won't let her go tonight. I feel like I'm going crazy. She is constantly in trouble. She threatens me to be worse when she doesn't get her way. Is taking away a high school dance too much? Her bf is who she is ditching with also. 

She's 15 and constantly in trouble. She was skipping classes almost every other day. I sat her down, and told her if she has one more truancy that she's not going to Homecoming Dance. Her new bf is who she is skipping with and he's not a good influence. That's was about a week ago. She skipped twice in that week. Now she's freaking out that she can't go. Screaming and slamming doors. I laid it out pretty clearly, you skip again there will be no dance. I can't back out now, but I'm feeling defeated. Maybe it was to severe? 

Is that why baseball was very popular and couples had lots of children in the 60s and 70s?

im scared im pregnant. im only 3 days late for my period, but im still freaking out. the last time i had sex was 15 days ago and im not sure it was protected. i texted him and he said he used a condom but i don't believe him. he didnt bust anyway, but i heard sometimes pre-jac can like, do things? im only 13, im turbing 14 next week and im SO scared. if i tell my mom shell hone school me and wont let me see my dad anymore because it happened at his house. i cabt tell my dad because im scared of how much trouble ill get in. im not okd enough to get an abortion without parent or guardian permission. can someone help me please? i havent taken a test yet. 

So we have been together for about a year and a half. And we are both 20. We started dating and everything was amazing and great. But she has been so judgmental lately. So her father passed away a couple years ago and he was a multi millionaire and spoiled her to death. But her father left her and her mom a year before he died because he got some other lady pregnant. But I am currently in college and working a warehouse job when I'm not in class. She always judges me and likes to say " when my dad was your age he was already starting his business" or stuff like " my dad wasn't a warehouse worker he could change the world". It's so hurtful because I try my best to spoil her and take her out and she always has to tell a story about how it was better with her dad. I took her to Cedar point ( an amusement park in Ohio) and the entire time she was complaining that I didn't get the fast lane passes because her dad did. I don't ever want to disrespect her dad but it just makes me mad that she expects me to provide for her at 20 years old Luke her father did. To me sometimes it seems like it's not love and she just wants someone to take care of her. 

She has no problem with me seeing my uncle but you banned me from my dad. She's divorced from my dad and says bad things about them every day. She says if you loved me he would get help for his drinking.

someone has ivisted our house and cumed on camera lens. next night we found this guy his name kelvin. we pucnhed him in the dikc. then he came with his brother drum player and smashed our cameras and pisssed on our car but hen this borther had ana-l injection with a lizard. He must be a nutcase.

my brother bobby said he is alt right. i said ok,. Today he grabbed a stomach pan and bashed my fathers guts out with a 12 gauge autoloader but then my father used a drumstick on his rear end exploration preserve. My brother boby watcehd youtube on tv and i told him to spit it off, he sucked, sucked , bashed his brain out with a honka-donk.

I fell out with my boyfriend of 11 years cousin. her and i use to do alot together. i was always there for her in her bad times and good. i would go over her house every weekend . we would cook and chill we were like best friends. then one day i told her something that i thought she would keep to her self but she told her husband and i dont know him and he told the whole family and that when our relationship went down the drain. We started arguing and almost go in to a fight over it. i told her that she would never talk to me or her fav cousin again and she will never see my son. i know that broke her cause me and him were the only family that kicked it with here an we were there for each other like sisters. I do miss her but i dont know how to approach the situation. because we fell out so bad a year ago. i had to do an externship and found out they placed me at her job. i was shocked but we got along in a professional way after the externship we never talked again.  but just a few weeks ago she used me as a job reference and i was so shocked. she has been on my mind and i just dont know if i should reach out or just leave things the way they are. my best-friend which is her cousin says leave it alone and my boyfriend which is her cousin says leave it alone. im confused on how to even approach her or if i should. i wanted to offer to have lunch or to even facebook her but i dont know please help what should i do?

The reason why my sister disowned her dad. I heard my dad what he doesn't want two of other children because they'd be against him. It would be bad if the toxic family might lost custody to one another!

Hi everyone I have a sister that evertime we get in arguments she says ima get a ***** to run you down and kill you and it's crazy cuz when you hear that **** coming out ur own sister mouth how y'all think I feel I'm the person that save her drone getting her *** whip every time she called me. ? Anybody had a sister like this befor or how to deal with this bs cuz she talk to hood ****** that don't give af about her 

I will never talk to him again. He is mentally ill and crazy and needs help but our parents cover up for him. My mother wanted me to call him for his birthday the other day but I would not as I hate him.

If you're reading this, please I'm in dire need. My Dads been drinking ever since I could remember. My Dad drinks from the moment he wakes up, to the moment he falls asleep. He will hit my Mom when he's drunk, or curse at us for no reason. Whenever I would tell the cops, they would ask my mom and she would say that he never touched her. Yes it's manipulation.  I have to help him up the stairs EVERYDAY, sometimes I even carry him on my shoulder. He always on the ground inside or outside, always falling down, always screaming and crying. So now you know theirs a huge problem. We've tried rehab, pills, cold turkey, he just can't stop. In fact now he does not want to stop. He lies to me that he doesn't drink but OBVIOUSLY we know he's drinking. Guys I'm already 23 but I have a 12 year old brother that I care about, & I won't leave the house & let him beat him like he did to me.  How can I by Law force my dad into a rehab center?  Believe me I heard it all, "you can't force someone who doesn't want help", but Guys this can't be legal what my Dads doing... he says he wants to kill himself many times. He's developing liver disease, & already has something called ascites, where his liver doesn't work and liquid builds up in his belly causing a ballon shaped belly, he looks pregnant.  I care about my Dad & I want to help him, I will pay anyone for advice that can work. Please someone read this and give ANY advice..

I'm 13 and my mom told me she does not want me to talk to her about it. She's divorced from him and will never say anything positive about him. She says by killing himself he proved how selfish she is. I don't like it when she insults him. It's a holiday weekend and I can't have any fun. I won't be back to school till Wednesday and they're not even having a funeral for my dad. How do I get closure or whatever that's called I live in America so Monday is Columbus Day and Tuesday is a teacher workday. No one knows yet that my dad killed himself, my mom told me when she pick me up from school.   I meant to say that my mom says he proved how selfish he is not her. She always thinks she and my sister are right.  

I constantly feel judgement and hostility from my family when im around. Even though they don't say it i just feel inadequacy. they judge me for smoking weed. And i low key hate them for it because im not judgemental and i wouldn't do that. Every time I see my dad i cant stand him because he ratted me to my grandma maliciously, i feel. And my grandma is just a sweet old lady who doesn't need to hear that. They always ask me questions about where im going when i leave the house its annoying like get your own life. Im ******* 21. What would you do.

I am 17 I am a guy...My Mom and Dad got divorced in 2004 when I was two years old everyone I know said my Dad was being really mean to my Mom.My entire family lives in Ohio in a very rural town (lots of farmers in my family).In my household its just me my Dad and the dog while my Mom moved two hours away she is remarried and lives 2 hours away her house is in the middle of nowhere sandwiched between corn-fields and forests.I have been bullied by others at my school.I have adhd,ptsd,autism, along with ocd,depression,and anxiety.I have a lot of trouble finding friends but the ones I have (2 close friends) I think of them as my own family we really care about each-other. Now my Dad has always been very negative everyone knows his family,friends,and its know throughout town since we live in a small town.My Dad ever since I can remember has called me names,said curse-words that others do not know the definition of,he talks behind everyones backs.He will yell at me for hours straight just degrading and belittling me and others,he will make threats such as if you do not do something I will break something of yours.He bad mouths me by saying your bird brained in the head,screw your mental psych illness,you are going to be homeless in a ditch when you are an adult,you are not capable of having a wife and kids when your an adult.He bad mouths my Mom and my grandparents who passed away on my moms side.He will not stop yelling from other rooms he follows me and yells for hours on. When I cry he calls the police when I have not said or done anything wrong and the police say "We cannot be getting called out to counsel your son" they also say they are sick of him (We have a very small police dept its always the same officers on call).Dad gets in to arguments and fist fights with his neighbors and our own family.My cousin will not let him go inside their house.He will call his parents (my grandma age 84 and grandpa age 85) and make 30 minute rants about me they always hang up I have heard about my Dad fighting many people that went to his high school and no one liked him as a kid (Graduated 1982...I go to the same school that he went to).My Dad is 6 foot 4 inches he works on a farm he looks very intimidating to others.When he yells I cry and feel my muscles cramps while feeling hot and shaky all at the same time.My Mom had a emotional breakdown when she was married to dad she was in and out of mental hospitals and when she got the divorce she almost instantly got  better and happier.How do I handle this situation and get my dad some help??Any advice is helpful at the moment and I thank you for helping me out. I work a part time job after school at a small restaurant and I am on honor roll at school

My seven year-old son thinks he's part Chinese because his aunt (by marriage) is Chinese. I tried to explain to him that she doesn't count because she's not related by blood, but he says she does because she's still family and all family counts toward race.  How do I explain why she doesn't count without telling him about the birds and the bees?

For a few hours every day about mid day I get really pissed off at my family and think that I am being controlled and abused by them when I am not. I feel really terrible about it and I know other people tell me the stories I say in these moments do not seem right.  I feel like I am making them up for pity and that deep down I know they are fake but I can't see it until hours later.  For example I might talk about how my sister gave me a black eye for disagreeing with her.  This did happen, but like 15 years ago when we were little (she was like 4 at the time).  I might say my parents are taking money from my bank account to tie me down but really they just borrow it and pay me back.  I am mid 20s female but started having these twisted thoughts about 5 years ago.  I feel like it was made worse when I dated an abusive older man two years ago who was more crazy than me and really encouraged me because he wanted me to distance myself from my family so as to better manipulate me. 

April seems to think she's my mom, but a local doctor found out that my real parents were Sim and Anthony Welsh.

I can no longer stand my mother. Though at this point I will be addressing her as her name. She completely drains me of any positive energy, is mentally abusive, sexist all to hell, and full of herself and her business. She chooses favorites of her kids, treats me like an employee that lives with her instead of a daughter. I literally work for her. I know first I need to get a new job (which she has disciplined me for trying to in the past)  but after that, I have no clue how to live on my own.  Anytime I've ever asked how to she disciplines and grounds me. My bank accounts are in her name and even the title to my car (that I  pay everything for)  is in her name. How can I change all of this without her knowing/quickly if possible? 

My parents initially asked me if I wanted to live near the univ and I said Yes. I already found a roommate my best friend, and starting making plans. However, my young brother decided to switch his univ plans and instead go to my school. I thought Instead of my friend, my younger brother would be my roommate but my younger brother decided not to live near school. He gets Homesick. Here's the problem, my parents revoked their decision to let me live within campus because they dont like one sibling dorming while the other going home. It's not fair. They can't let one sibling's decision affect the others. I hate when someone asks you what you want, they will give it to you but instead back out. I'm not being spoiled or demanding, I'm just telling my parents to stick to my answer on a privilege they offered me. They can't use the "We don't have money" excuse because one, they offered me in the first place and another, they let my older sister live out of the house when she was still studying. Whatever privilege you offer to the older sibling, you have to give it to the younger.

It is a HUGE secret so I am afraid to post it on here. Nothing criminal or dangerous, just a dark secret in her past that is HUGE.

My mom was clearly masturbating the the shower today LOUDLY. I'm disgusted because I'm sure she know I can hear her when she was moaning at the top of her lungs like like that and the hard smacking noises that I heard next door when she was in the shower. I heard things like, "oh master, master! Oh yeah AHHHAAAAA!" DISGUSTING! I would never masturbate that loudly for her to hear it, so why would she do this? I feel like she probably even gets off because she knows I can hear it! I am so DISGUSTED! I will never look at her the same. This is equivalent to someone drinking wine in moderation, and then just being a plain drunkard. What I'm saying is that she doesn't have to make all that noise. I feel like my solution is going to be to cut her off, and find my own place. I am THAT disgusted. I know masturbation is natural but this is EXTEREME with her overdoing it with the loud moans, and slapping noises!! I am a female 18 years old. Is my reaction a normal reaction? Or do I have a point? Thank you in advance for the answers!  Please answers this seriously. Please post if you can truly help. I really need help with this situation!  I am not comfortable asking anyone about the situation because I have no one close to talk to.  This is something I'm really trying to get some help with! Please don't try to be funny. I really am disturbed. 😞 How am I going to find my own place? Come on that is unrealistic! I just started college a week ago!