Why is he into so many woman? Loyal to my face but messing with other women behind my back. I know he's so much more in love with me than I am with him...I don't feel anything except criticism and negative feelings for him because he's a whore. I feel like any woman could get with him. He likes everything, no taste in particular. I will be selling him on Craig list if anyone is interested in him. 

okay so basically i was reading a dave x karkat fanficiton and and and and my mom came intot eh room and she was like: "god darn it trenton when will you go to school its been 2 days" and i was like: "shut up mom u suck stinky . " so thenn i stillw atch but then,......she takes away my *** TRIBUTES OF KAQRKAT LIKE then i got so angry. she left and i dont know what to do. what do i do please help guys

Should my gf want to hang out with my friend's without me having to browbeat her into it? We've only been together for 6 months but I've known her through her cousin for almost a year. Anyway, recently when we've hung out with her friends I've gone with her whenever she's asked and I've never complained or hesitated to do it for her even though I really don't have anything in common with her friends. But when it's come time for her to spend time with my friends she's becoming less and less willing to do so, to the point I have to practically beg and push her to do it. It really hasn't been to any important function s, they've just brought their bf/gfs and I've wanted her to be there with me. The last time I did ask her we got into a fight about it and I just went by myself and I haven't brought it up since, so should I? Am I expecting too much from her? Should I stop saying yes to hanging out with her friends as much?

Not military but works overseas 9 months a year. He has had affairs, physical and emotional in past.  Had a normal argument based on he doesn't call or text hardly at all anymore. He didn't want to discuss it so I got upset.  I feel pushed me into getting upset bc he is well aware being ignored is a trigger of mine. Then he sits back and let's me vent on him, and then this: Doesn't talk about future anymore  Doesn't call or text  Doesn't say I love you etc no affection  Wants us to work on ourselves  Wants our relationship to change  Doesn't want to change the lifestyle the kids are accustomed too Doesn't want to make any large changes  So that sounds like separation:  He replies no that's a big change.  I asked him to clarify what this all means.  He said let him think of one or two options and he'll get back to me.  Is my husband of 14 years stringing me along.  He isn't in the states atm, so is he waiting till he gets back to hit the bombshell so he's in control? He has never in history done this unless he was with or talking to another women. Now, I could care less about another women, I'm tired of being rung through the ringers while he is having his side piece. We have three kids, whom I have raised alone since they were born, 10 years ago was my first. 

It's the crazy Bitchez what kills a guy's soul. Kids keep the guy young enough to buss' with sideass,

My wife & I want to get divorced. But I am in Morocco right now because my mother is ill. My wife filled out the forms, got the index number and paid a guy to serve me papers. Since I am not in New York, after trying 3 times, he gave affidavit that I couldn't be served. So far so good. What is the next step for my wife to do? Where does she submit the affidavit? What are the steps involved?

We dated for 3 months. He said he loved me on Monday but dropped me at night. @ David B: Yes he did that too :(

we are at the point where we are comfortable with each other. he never dresses up either. I wear makeup sometimes but I just cannot stand being uncomfortable in tight clothes so when we go out to dinner i'll have my makeup on but ill have on sweatpants a hoodie and a tshirt with uggs. he says he doesnt mind my clothes. my friends said " he doesnt want to hurt your feelings but deep down he wants you to look nice every now and then. His eyes will wonder if you dont step up your game" I like wearing cozy and comfortable clothes no matter where im at. Even at work I wear cozy and comfortable clothes. I also hate wearing jeans because they are restricting and uncomfortable. I like loose clothes like oversized hoodies and cozy sweat pants. any advice on how to handle the situation??

My mom lost her job and got behind on her mortgage payments and was in danger of losing her home of 30 years. Of all the people she could of asked for help, she asked my ex husband Bill. She really liked Bill when we were married and he really liked her. I guess that friendship did not stop with our friendly divorce like I thought it would. Bill immediately paid the back mortgage payments and also he paid 1 years mortgage payments in advance. He also used his business contacts to get her a new job. That is totally in character with Bill. As long as I have known him, if he finds out someone needs help, he helps them. Mom went from VERY DEPRESSED to VERY HAPPY in one day. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I and my siblings agree that mom should of asked us first for help but we all admit we could not have helped her like Bill did. We just do not have that kind of money. I told Bill we would somehow repay him. He told me he would not accept any repayment. He said mom was great to us when we were married and this was his repayment to her. Am I off base to think mom should of asked us first before going outside the family for help. Is it possible that it would be too embarrassing for mom to ask her family for help?

I am an indian woman.My marriage has been fixed recently by my parents.we went on a few dates before our engagement  but still my fiance is stranger to me,how could i grow my love for someone in a short time... in the meantime my wedding date coming very closer that's why i am very nervous & scared and shared my feelings to my mom,but she said very awkward things that in arranged marriage husband-wife need to Physically intimate first then love happens naturally.     

Let's say if he's at the store getting donuts. He'll text me and ask me what I want. I tell him and then he come back home with something different or like he ask me one time if I like gold or silver. I tell him silver and then he got me a gold necklace for my bday. I still appreciate the things he get me but why does he always get the things I don't like. Another time I told him how much I hate apple pies and then he bought me apple pie the next day.. he got upset I didn't want to eat it. Why would he ask me what I like or want to eat if it doesn't even matter?  That's what I'm saying. Why does he do everything the opposite of what I tell him?! It's so annoying. What? Who the f can make **** like this up. You're probably fake but I'm not. 

He was married and said that his wife was nasty to him so I felt an emotional attachment to him. What shall I do to deal with this heart break? 

My wife hates me because im always showing up home really late like 5:00 PM! I love to play fortnite or minecraft sometimes papa's pizzeria but she hates when I play it now she hits me ;(

Sometimes, I flirt, not because I want to cheat. To see if I can still attract women. It's all in fun. Sex isn't even on the menu.

I had to go the emergency room of our hospital. They took care of the problem but the bill was several thousand dollars. I did not think I would have a problem as I had health insurance. I forgot that my insurance had a $2000 deductible. I started getting bills from the hospital for $2000. They turned their bill over to a collection agency and they started calling me several times a day. They were really harassing me. I tried to borrow $2000 from my bank and they said no. I called everyone I could think of to try to borrow $2000. I was desperate. I did not know what to do. In a bold move, I called my ex husband and ask him for advice. He said to meet him at a restaurant and bring the hospital bill with me so he could review it. When I showed him the hospital bill, he wrote a check for $2000, put the check and the bill in an envelope. He said that is not a loan, that is just a friend helping a friend. That was the nicest thing any one had ever done for me in MY WHOLE LIFE. When I asked him why he did it, he said "I want the very best future possible for you". That was a life changing moment. I could just feel my love for him all over my body. I want to be his wife again and be the best wife he could ever have. Should I tell him I am in love with him and ask him to marry me again? Do you think from what he said, I have a chance to be his wife again?

My husband has sleeping issues and is on medication to help him stay sleep during the night. A few days ago he ran out of his medication because the doctor forgot to call in his refill. Last night we went to bed but he was back up tossing and turning about 1 AM. He gets up and decides to go take a shower. Then he goes and lays on the sofa. This morning when I went into the bathroom I noticed an empty bottle of lotion in the trash and when I questioned him about why he shut the bedroom door to take a shower he said that he didn't want to disturb me at 1 AM. When I asked him why the lotion was in the trash he said that because it was empty and he didn't understand why no one had thrown it away yet. I looked at him and suggested that maybe he was doing something else in the bathroom, hence the reason he shut the door. He got furious and accused me of always trying to find something where there is nothing. He said he couldn't sleep without his medication so he got up. Yes, he threw the EMPTY lotion bottle away but that's all he said he did. Should I believe him?

My husband is 40 has major health issues due to his alcoholism and no longer gets an erection at all. It's been over 3 years. I'm so disappointed. The man still continues to drink. What's your thoughts on this? 

As if only after giving everything to their exes ,now they have decided to changed suddenly. Is it a readymade excuse usedby the wives to fool their innocent husband's?

The man doesn't exist, she just dreamed up a perfect man in her head that would be a better suitor for her and has fell in love with this "ideal" man and lost love for her actual husband, wouldn't this count as an affair?

I got a call from my ex mother in law Sally, a woman I REALLY like and admire telling me she was getting married again and she wanted me to walk her down the aisle. I told her it would be an honor to do so. A few days later I got a call from my ex wife that her current husband was not happy that I would be part of Sally's wedding and he was not. She said he would not go if he was not part of the wedding. My first thought was this is not my problem. He should take it up with his wife and Sally. However I did not want to cause my ex and her husband any problems with Sally. I said to my ex wife half jokingly "If I gave your husband $100 would that solve his problem?" MUCH to my surprise she got back to me and said "$100 would overcome all his objections to me walking his mother in law down the aisle". I think $100 would be a small price to pay to prevent any family problems. Please tell me what you think about me doing this. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Should I tell Sally about this or would that also cause a problem?

Hi everyone, I am trying to see how to help my situation. My husband gets angry and keeps malice for days and weeks over very simple things. E.g. I was driving the other day and I switched lane crossing the solid white line because I was about to enter the wrong exit. My husband gets angry and argue. I apologized and went on. Normally he always try to find small issues and corrects me because he is the know it all type to be honest. Sometimes I'll be driving and he shouted oh my God and I'm like what now and he says just kidding while laughing. Last Sunday we were going to church and he switched over a no crossing point at the very last minute and cut someone off so I was just joking back with him and I said oh my God in his voice. He flipped out completely saying that was childish of me. Since then, he has been keeping malice. I am so tired of this and I feel like this is lack of maturity in him. When we got home from church I tried to apologize and talk to him but he doesn't want to talk to me. I notice that he likes to be upset, angry and keeps malice (not just with me). He always finds something to keep a long malice for every month. How do I handle this situation?

12 years ago my husband and I relocated for his job. We are 15 hours away from any of our family. We have 3 children together. 4 years ago my husband got a really big promotion and that's when things started really changing.  He never ever drank in his life and was suddenly drinking constantly. He's had 3 DUI's in the past 4 years. There were rumors going around he was having an affair with his secretary.  He has filed for divorce and he moved himself to Chicago a week ago out of nowhere. ( We live in Florida both of  our family is in Dallas)  He told me I could have the house and everything and he just wants to be done with his "previous life." I  am struggling tremendously financially. I have no idea WHERE my (ex) husband is living or how to file for child support. I've decided to put the house on the market but both our names are on the home. I'm so lost I don't know where to start, what to do. I'm really scared how this is going to impact my kids as they get older. Please any advice I'm so upset. I had to take the day off of work today I was having such a mental breakdown. 

For a time in my parents marriage my Dad became a chronic liar and my mother due to menopause because a nasty woman, really nasty, and lied about family when mad. It was a very dysfunctional family and on top of that my sister was an addict. Fast forward 16 years later and my sister is 15 years clean and my parents get along great with a retirement house on the water. My parents get along like they did when I was little and maybe even better cause there is not the stress of 4 kids and my Dad is retired (my mother resented that he worked hard). So despite the 15 years of my Mom's mood problems (some menopause years and other stuff at other points) and my Dad's chronic lying, they now get along great and are at 51 years of marriage. My Dad still lies to others but never to my Mom. My Mom is not moody to anyone anymore though she is still a complainer. So is this common in a marriage? I just saw a cousin of my Mom's whose marriage involved cheating about 30 years ago and now they are a sweet elderly couple who nag each other all day.

My wife must think she's an amateur detective. Anytime I tell her anything she questions you like she's got to get to the root of whatever you tell her. A week or so on my job we had to do some compliance training that lasted about 4 or 5 hours. I didn't have access because when I first did it earlier this year and that was when I was a contract employee with a different email address. Now that I'm a full employee my email has changed and I couldn't remember my log-in information. It had to be reset. I was granted access yesterday about 3:30 so my manager asked me if I could stay late to finish it because it was due yesterday. I text my wife to say I'd be late due to training and these are some of the texts she sent me. "Is that so?" "Can you do it on company time, like now?" "I know about those but not for 4 hours. The most is an hour of time." "Why are you just getting access today? Are you the only one that didn't get access?" "Compliance training, they normally tell you about it weeks in advance." Later on I tell her I should be home in about an hour. On the way home I decided to stop off and get something to eat so I text her to ask what she wanted. Within 20 minutes I was walking in the house. My wife then questioned how I was about to get home so fast after her telling me what she wanted to eat. No, I didn't text her the minute I left work but when I was a few minutes from the restaurant to ask what she wanted. The fast food place is about 2 miles at the most from our house. Then the whole time I was sitting there with her she kept looking at me like, "you got that food fast." Then she said something to the effect of, "did you really have training or were you somewhere else because you got that food very fast after I told you what I wanted." Then, I have always had sleeping issues and have to take medication to help me stay sleep at night. About a month ago I went to the doctor to have then refill my prescription. The doctor forgot to call in the prescription so I used my last pill 2 nights ago. I mentioned to my wife that I didn't have any sleep medication so I hoped I could sleep all night. Well, I didn't. I was up at 1 AM looking at the walls so I decided to just get up and take a shower. I get out of bed and close the bedroom door as to not disturb by wife. While in the bathroom I noticed an empty bottle of lotion on the counter so I threw it away. I finish my shower then come back to the bedroom, got a few things then went and got on the sofa. When my wife finally woke up this morning she went into the bathroom to shower. She comes into the bedroom and questioned me as to why I shut the bedroom door just to go in the shower. I told her I didn't want to wake her. Then she asked why was there an empty bottle of lotion in the trash. Her speculation was that I got up to "handle my business." At that point I had had enough. I fussed at her that she never believed anything I said. How do I get her to stop being an amateur detective and that not everything is suspect?

I have been divorced 2 years, never dated since. One time my then girlfriend at the time wanted sex and I didn't, we just came home from vacation. I wanted to relax and sleep, was tired. She started and I told her no, I don't want to do this now, maybe tomorrow, she didn't take the no seriously, until i pleaded with her several more times, then she let up. I felt scared and a sense of violation. Still married this woman and after a 3 year marriage, divorced. I didn't see the pressure to have sex as a red flag, maybe it was? Maybe she thought men are always ready to go and always want it anytime. It's just scary to have sex almost forced upon me, I already have enough issues because of childhood sexual abuse, so in a sense I have been violated both in childhood and adulthood. Just the thought of a new future relationship scares me and causes me a lot of anxiety, how can I trust again?

I have an older brother who has recently separated from his wife and is now only getting weekend visitation with his kids. I am trying to think of what to get him for Christmas. We are not very close, or emotionally open/vulnerable. I don't want to get him something stupid or insensitive, but I also don't want to go too cheesy, or get something that might hurt his feelings (like an encouragement pillow, ?) Any ideas? Thanks

We just got married after dating for years. He knows i'm anemic and that I get ridiculously cold to the point where I have to wear sweatshirts to bed. Most of the time I'm covered up or wearing long basketball shorts. He was like " You can't walk around the house in some sexy lingerie every once in a while. Not saying everyday but you wear hoodies and basketball shorts all the time. It gets me more sexually aroused to see you in lingerie." I don't understand why he can't get turned on with me being covered up. It's no need to treat me like a piece of meat.