She is currently pregnant. We came up with the idea that she will leave him and live with me. The problem is she wants to confess about cheating on him. He does not need to know but she refuses to listen. She was the one who threatened me if I ever told her husband about us now she wants to say something. It's an easy out and she wants to make it hard. 

he's married. not that he's 30 years older than me (for the wifey, that's all...i don't want to step on anyone's toes). he left my workplace and i can't stop thinking about him. nothing is going to happen. i have his number but i won't even confess my strong attraction to him. i know it takes time....but it might take months and that's too much to handle...he flirted with me..i started liking him. what to do?

Wife cheated with another man when our relationship was almost at that breaking point but I continued to stay with her. It it normal to stay or leave 

Going through a divorce here in CA. I can't stop paying for anything while in this limbo. She kicked me out earlier this year with a restraining order because I wanted a divorce and said I abused her. I proved that she was lying. 6 months later we have our dissolution hearing this week. I want to go back home. I've stayed away cause every time I come she starts drama or hits me and have had my friends witness her do it.I have been paying for the apartment this whole time. Can she kick me off the lease or rental agreement or can a judge just cause we get a divorce? What is my best chance of trying to keep it?

The woman my husband is seeing has been aware that I look at her social media. she also looks at mine. She says what she feels about me and my husband's relationship on her social media very often. I noticed when they argue she is back on Twitter. they are good she is silent. Even her friends talk about us on their social media. Sometimes they say very hurtful stuff aimed at me because they know I'm watching. recently( starting last month) I noticed that her friends gradually started blocking me on all outlets. or if I look them up on Twitter it tells me they do not exist, I'm thinking they changed their handle. until today when I looked up the mistress, she made her twitter private. And I looked up her friends and she was still there . An hour later when I looked up the friend she blocked me. He never admitted to ever dating her still to this day. I am getting prepared financially to divorce so I have to play it off until things get situated. But I wonder what made them to this. All block me all of a sudden. Which is even weirder is that he invited me on a date this Thursday. I gave up on the idea of even going out together because he no longer was interested into doing things together. What do you think happened? 

Men marry basically to have a second mother. Someone they can use for sex whenever they want without paying, cooking and serving food, cleaning the house, washing dishes, washing their laundry, ironing their clothes, bring money at home from work. Yes there are hard working women out there who are both breadwinners and housewives working their @ss off 24/7 unlike you lazy pigs men. After work you have to do nothing, your second mother (wife) does everything for you while you can sit with your legs in the air on your lazy @ss. 

I want to please my wife, she gave me permission to eat her but I don't know how

I can admit, we did marry young( 25 me, 23 her), but, we both felt ready. We just hit the 4 month mark and already its just constant bickering. Sometimes its big things, but then other times its dumb stuff like " which side of the coffee table should the chair go on?" or how much food does the dog need? Bickering turns to yelling which spirals into her giving me the silent treatment as she sits on the couch scrolling through her phone, rolling her eyes, etc. Most of the time it gets resolved. I would love to get counseling, but she thinks we can figure it out. Should I continue to push for counseling?

Am I overreacting? ok so my boyfriend was telling me about how his cousin said I was pretty and I look better then his ex girlfriend and he said he told her there will be no comparisons between us and he was telling me I look ok I'm not all that or whatever even though he said he was joking, but I got mad and annoyed because I felt like he tried to make me feel uncomfortable over The situation by saying no comparing even though I'm not trying to be compared to her but I felt like he was trying to down play me in the situation so he can't say I looked better then her..?

I recently got married and my mom helped a lot with the wedding. She didnt take a lot of money from my husband and I (kept declining) but she did accept some. Recently my mother in law gave my mom some money for the wedding (she and her husband dont make a lot of money but recently her husband was given extra hours each day so they gave my mom some money back for our wedding) I want to do something nice for her. I called my dad today he was saying dont he a stranger say i love you and thank you when you call mom. My mom sounded sad on the phone when I called her. What is a nice thing i can do to say thank you for everything?

We have a 16-year-old boy & a 12-year-old daughter. Our daughter lately has been changing the way she dresses and showing support for same-sex, which I think there is great because no matter who you like we all are human and have different feelings. Whats having me concern is that my husband her dad whenever he has a chance  suggest her to wear his clothes or our son and to me that's going too far when at her age(12) its totally normal to have these kinds of behavior and experimenting to really find her identity and who she wants to be when she grows up. I will totally accept my kids no matter what they choose to be and support them.  I think my husband it's taking it too serious and by him initiating for her to wear his clothes it seems kind of odd and I know his best intentions are to support her but if she doesn't ask for it why offering it. Example, yesterday before going out she came  to me and tells me, mom, I don't know what to wear, so I suggested her to wear something in her closet or go by mine and wear any of my clothes that she likes and then my husband started suggesting her that is she wanted she could wear one of his shorts or shirt and that was so awkward to hear that, I didn't say anything and she ended up wearing one his shirts. I don't get it! I need help on how to approach him regarding this issue that is concerning me and explained to him the best way possible that he is getting ahead of himself and reassuring something that its too soon to affirm. 

It was a Sunday morning and I had a bad water leak in my kitchen. It was so bad that I had to turn the water off at the meter to prevent a flood in my house. I was going to have a house full of company for lunch. I called every plumber in town trying to get someone to fix the leak. None of them would come on a Sunday. I was about to panic when I thought I would try a bold move. I called my ex husband who I was on friendly terms with as I knew he could fix the problem. He came right over and stopped the leak. He would not take any money for fixing the leak. He said friends don't charge friends to help them. Now every time I have a problem with the house, my current husband says to call my ex husband over to fix it as he knows my ex husband will do it for free. I think that is WAY over the top of things to do to ask my ex husband for help again and I AM NOT GOING TO DO IT. Why couldn't my current husband be like most husbands and not want me to have anything to do with my ex. Gals, do you think it is asking too much to ask my ex husband to help solve a problem at you and your husbands house ONE TIME ONLY? Was I way out of line doing what I did?

We got married 21 months ago and I came to Japan 17 months ago when I got a spouse visa. She apparently hid that she has severe anger issues and has been violent towards me so I want to get a divorce and go back to America. I only had a low wage teaching job so I don't have much money. My wife has a good job. Her and her parents are claiming they went to a lawyer and that I will get nothing. Is this true? I should add that she and her parents agreed to a certain amount to me and I was fine with it but it sounds like they changed their mind.  That's why I'm asking. 

This marriage is becoming unbearable. I want to leave as soon as possible but I know a fast divorce in Japan isn't recognized in USA as it is done out of court. So my only option is toughing it out for 4 months at the minimum. Can I just leave and file for divorce in USA? I am about to contact a Japanese lawyer but maybe someone here knows how things work?

The wife is the one who wanted the divorce but since then the uncle has sped it up to get it over with. I think of divorce as being like suicide with the pain it causes. Am I wrong? Be honest

My husband and I are married for 8 years. Recently just a few months ago after intercourse I have been very itchy. It wasn't like this before. I get rashes down there every other day. What is going on? I did some research and std is the only thing that sound close to what I'm experiencing and I'm freaking out because I didn't cheat. He's been talking about this other girl so much at his work place. I asked him if he cheated on me with her or anyone. He said he didn't cheat but why am I like this all of the sudden? I don't have my period anymore too. I thought I was pregnant, tested and nothing. I'm getting a lot of discharge lately and rashes that comes and go. Does this sound like a std to you? Do you think he cheated? 

I am having issues with my husband on all aspects. But the financial is mot difficult right now. His lack of responsibility is main problem, he will not help financially or promises but won't do it. His mother does not like me so she will not help with our issues. However the grandfather's wife has always been nice to me. I want to reach out to her to ask her if we can have a sit down with my husband and talk this through. maybe get him to help. but I don't know if it's a good idea? Should I do it? 

I got married last month and my wife was 29 yrs old virgin and i was really excited to had sex with her.but untill now i am totally unsatisfied,yes first time was little painful and discomfort for her then i was Very gently .it's been 1.5 month since she lost her virginity still i have to go very slowly and when i tried to speed up and more harder she started screaming & stopped me in half way, even she don't like any other position except missionary .it's really exhausted.....before marriage i was sexually active with a single mother she was 43 & but her performance and sex duration was amazing compare to my wife.she loved hardcore sex.

why do you call guys shallow for running away when they learn you have young kids at home? before you had kids you would have never wanted anything to do with a man who was raising kids. you would have never considered raising another woman's kids and have to put up with his x hanging around. why should any guy feel different about you?