Nowadays it has become a trend specially for young beautiful girls to marry a black guy and show off how they choose good heart instead of a good look. It is crystal clear that this does not make them happy after few years in most of the cases but when the people will realise that dating or marriage has no relation with racism?

It's bothering me that I found out yesterday that my parent had an affair with my neighbor about 10 years ago and idk what to do in having a hard time concentrating. It's really bothering me. 

you deserve no one but the best quality partner life has to offer. he must be loyal, successful and attractive and he must respect you and treat you like a queen. never settle for anyone but the best. you deserve it.

If a husband has an affair with his wife's best friend, and they betray the wife's confidences, what does that mean?

If she just doesn't care much about dressing expensively and doesn't like to show off her looks.

This all started in the beginning of August when my husband out of nowhere said his friend was coming from Indiana to NY to help us move to Indiana. I didn't know I was moving, I didn't know the friend, we had responsibilities to take care of before even thinking about moving. My husband and I both had good paying jobs, he even was able to save money, we just used my check to pay everything. We had an apartment not to great but good enough, I fixed it up to make it feel more homey. We had a great living situation going on and I wanted to even get a second job to make more money,he didn't want me too even though it could have really helped our income. Even though we had all of this he wanted to pick up and leave to Indiana without good cause. So my stupid *** packed everything up, throw a lot of things away and moved with him, he was willing to spend all the money he saved to move even though he had many traffic tickets to pay for, he didn't care. So we packed up everything in the Uhaul and moved. Mind you we don't have a car, I didn't know where we would live once we got down there, I didn't even know if I would get a job. There is more to the story...

Did you ever have a feeling when your significant other was going to propose to you? Were they nervous on the day or night they proposed to you? And how did you know you met 'the one?'

Since they are technically family, isn't that incest?

It would have been far easier, as they are everywhere, and freely love to talk about that.

I am divorced but my ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. I work for a news organization and I saw a news report that the current boyfriend of my ex wife was on probation for domestic violence. I am not sure what I should do about this information if anything. I talk to my ex wife rarely and she tells me what a good boyfriend she has. I doubt if she knows about his conviction for domestic violence. Should I tell her? Who she has as a boyfriend is really none of my business but as a friend I think she should know about his conviction for domestic violence. I am torn between telling her and my desire not to get involved in her relationships. Gals, if you were my ex wife would you want me to tell you?

My mom has a friend that she wanted to exchange email with so she convinced Betty to buy a computer. Mom wanted me to teach Betty how to us the computer so I agreed to do it. I went to Betty's home for an hour on Saturday for several weeks. Betty's husband was with us the whole time I was training Betty. Betty told me her husband John was very jealous of her and other men. When Betty briefly went to answer the phone, John asked me if I was "fooling around" with his wife. I told him he was with me the whole time I was there. I knew at that moment this was my last training session. I was not coming back to that house as I had no idea what John might do. I did not hear from either one of them again for several months. Then my mom told me they were getting a divorce. Then I got an invitation to a "He's gone, good riddance" party at Betty's home. I decided to go. At the party, one of the guest told me I was the cause of the divorce. I asked her how that was possible. She explained that Betty used the computer to track what web sites John had been accessing and found he was on several web sites for finding women to date. He had also been posting stuff on porn sites. If she had not know how to use a computer they would still be married. I told her I did not teach Betty to trace web sites from the computer. She must have learned by her self. Am I responsible for their marriage break up?

I'm working on a article and my topic will primerly focus on expectations, reality and how it trully should be. If you've ever actually somehow measured the lenght of time in which you and your partner spends on foreplay of course. Excuse my grammar, my native language is actually French. I personally spends about 20 to 30 min on foreplay if i were to guess.

Total no contact. Then a message wanting to talk. Said he was missing me and he loved me. That she wasn't anything on me. But she worked with him - it just happened because I was a town away.  He wanted to see me and I said no. He got angry. I cut him off - changed my number and emails. I heard he got married 4 months later to her.  Very odd behaviour and I feel sorry for her knowing what he said to me.  Do you think this man is a narcissist? It appears they had an affair at work. This is her third marriage.  I'm grateful I'm out of this but still puzzled. I've never heard of anything like this and I was incredibly hurt at losing him at the start. Now I'm lucky - I see that. I don't talk about this with family. I don't talk at all. Now I'm reaching out as I'm  finally over him and the hurt.  Thank you