I am married and I liked a person, we felt connection but since I am married I couldn't do anything about it, things were getting very strange so I thought it would be better if we become just friends but this person made me feel like I am bad character and I just stopped showing any signs of me liking him.  This has happened few years back and I have no contact with this person but I am still feeling guilty for having feelings for someone else (who showed me feelings but then started making me feel bad) I felt like I had given away something very important to someone who didn't even bothered to even talk to me.  I am deeply hurt and feels like I should give up on my marriage not to be with any one because I don't know what love is and since I had feelings for someone out of my marriage I am doubting my feeling towards my partner too.  I am heartbroken and don't know how should I understand things.  My marriage has always been emotional wreck for me because my partner doesn't pay too much attention towards my emotional needs. I have communicated my needs to my partner but I don't see too much change in his behavior.  How should I process this whole situation? Hoe should I take this? Kids are involved in our life so it makes even harder to make any decisions for me. 

I communicate things very well but still feels like I'm ignored by my husband. Our personalities are completely different. I am very confused..Should I live for my happiness or kids? If I make my self priority I feel bad for my kids and feels like my happiness or my wants doesn't matter to me. I don't want divorce because of kids but at the same time I don't feel happy in my marriage.  Any advice how should I have thinking process to feel good or make decision? 

my uncle is going through third divorce and he is still open to marriage and finding that someone special

things are totally good and fine between us, so why change it we have been dating for 5 years , and living together for over 4 years but for the last few months , she has only one thing to say marriage marriage

I hate my husband for telling our real estate agent that I was not comfortable working with her. Even if it was true,I just don't like how he threw me in a bus and hurt someone else's feeling. He doesn't see that he was wrong because it was the truth. I feel so betrayed and to see how my husband's rudeness for not considering someone else's feeling. 

I know he hasn't eaten in at least 3 days. He has a minifridge in his room for water. I think he mostly sleeps. Maybe uses the bathroom like every 24 hours When he moved in, he prepaid 3 months rent. He has money, but no job. He sleeps on a camping cot made out of nylon  He lives very modestly. Perhaps I should ask him? Should I mind my business?

If you can't do well in that school... why not go to another school? If your can't find a husband... then move to India and get them to arrange marriage for you. If you're depressed and keep focusing on the past... why not do something that is funny, such as fart in public?

My brothers and I were talking at a family gathering lately, and some young college student friend of one of the nephews showed up in some hot AF leggings, I commented about needing to go twist one off, and eventually it came out that he got a HJ the other night on the way home from somewhere, while he was driving. He said that was one of several times in the last week. Is there something she wants?

My husband has been getting message requests by young women, whom I'm sure are fake accounts. They look like models, and they'll send nude pictures or will text him "hi". He always tells me when he gets these requests, and he has me block them as we both believe it's someone just trying to see if he'll respond or not. I'm trying to figure out who could this possibly be, and why?

I'm going through a divorce. My family lives 14 hours away. I recently moved out of our home and I purchased my own little townhouse with the two dogs. I lost my job back in August so on top of my impending divorce I'm also unemployed. Although, I do have a potential job on the horizon but I would be taking a pretty large pay cut.  I've been seeing a counselor but it's not helping. Between job searching and just being alone in this house I'm averaging between 8-10 hours per day on my phone which I know is VERY unhealthy. I don't have any friends here and I've basically become a hermit. I'm so miserable and I've tried to volunteer and join a gym but I have absolutely no motivation at all to do anything. I honestly don't even know who I am anymore. Does anyone have any advice? Please don't say go back to college I've completed my degree and can't afford another one.  (Also Note: we do not have any children) 

What are the similarities? What are the differences? *after divorce

My ex husband died of a sudden heart attack (age 62) about 10 days ago. We were legally married over 15 years and have 2 adult sons. He also had 2 younger sons with another woman (no marriage), they are ages 17 and 12. The other day my sons went to his job to collect his tools and any $ he may have coming. They found out that my ex left everything in my name, annuity and life ins. So I have to go up there and sign papers tomorrow. The lady hinted to my sons that I will be getting a large pension. Some people say I should take all the money and run and buy a condo I am saving up for, but we were not still married. I plan to give whatever $ to my sons & they will share with their little brothers. I will take the pension which people tell me I am entitled to. I don't want to seem too greedy. What is your opinion. I am 61 and hopefully will retire at 65.

I'm 42 years old. Got married to a man with 11 years old son. We are married for 5yrs now  everytime I bring the topic of having a kid he seemed uncomfortable. I gave him ample of time, I thought may be one day he will realise that even I need a kid. Today I openly brought up the topic stating even if we have to go for a IVF I want to have a kid. He said that he is not ready and then went on to say that he cant afford. We are too old to bring up a kid. He is my age I tried to reason him out but to no avail. We ended up fighting and I did tell him that if he doesn't want to have a kid with me let's divorce. I dont know what to do??

why won't wives allow their husbands to watch porn and appreciate the beauty of a lovely woman's body the same way they do? women claiming to be straight are always staring at other women, especially hot women.

We dated for 2 years before getting married 8 months ago. He's always had a lower libido than me but we were always able to find a middle ground. We're currently going through a dry spell and it's affecting me really deeply because I'm taking it so personally. He's always said he has a low libido yet he masturbates every morning or every other morning. He says he's usually too tired or stressed to get in the mood and feel horny and it's easier to take care of himself quickly than to have sex. I'm always willing, I'm thin and attractive and healthy, and I always make him feel great about himself by complimenting him, acts of service, etc. He has acknowledged this too. As a potential solution I suggested he skips masturbating in the morning so that he'll be horny in the evening when we can enjoy sex together before bed (or morning would be fine with me too!) He said he's willing to do that which is great but I can't help but feel really hurt and rejected every time he just rolls over and goes to bed without touching me, knowing how much I crave and enjoy that intimacy with him. Is it really possible for someone to have a low libido yet still masturbate so often? I know he has a very stressful job and he feels insecure about never being horny for me so how can we work together to fix this? I'll try anything. Has anyone else gone through this? Thanks for your suggestions.

Long story short. I made a 700 mile trip to purchase a vehicle and ended up having sex with the woman I bought it from. She spent the night with me. I am married and wife cheated on me several times early in our marriage of 16 yrs. Always wondered if she would again. We went to a lot of counseling. Wife doesn't make me feel attractive or wanted. She is an awesome mom to our 3 kids. Which I had paternity tests done btw. This new girl and I are now basaically phone sexing. She really makes me feel wanted. My wife is more attractive. But she has a cute side too. She is crazy about me. What do I do?

My wife has refused sex with me for over 2 years and says if I leave she'll make my life hell. Which means she'll use the kids to punish me. Divorce is expensive so is it wrong to find love on the side considering she threw our marriage away first? Just until the kids are grown.

Me and my husband send snapchats to each other a lot but he ONLY saves the naked ones without my face. Never the selfies or clothes ones??

I seem to get them mad no matter what. I got this lesbian couple that picked me up hitchhiking mad because I went in the dollar store bathroom for a half hour and cleaned the bathroom and fix the toilet when they were in a hurry and they ended on leaving me there. I got this lady at Walmart mad because I told her she was too fat to be eating icecream and took her icecream out of her buggy and her very short small husband punched me in the face .I got my friends wife mad on a trip and they aren't speaking to me anymore because I woke them up three times I also freaked out my other friend because I stood there watching her change I couldn't figure if I should leave or not so I stodd there and now she thinks I am a pervert I have beena multiple relationships and they always end because they say I am too controlling and I like to stir up trouble. My ex got way too much in the divorcese the judge thought I was extremely cruel and controlling.

Long story short. I made a 700 mile trip to purchase a vehicle and ended up having sex with the woman I bought it from. She spent the night with me. I am married and wife cheated on me several times early in our marriage of 16 yrs. Always wondered if she would again. We went to a lot of counseling. Wife doesn't make me feel attractive or wanted. She is an awesome mom to our 3 kids. Which I had paternity tests done btw. This new girl and I are now basaically phone sexing. She really makes me feel wanted. My wife is more attractive. But she has a cute side too. She is crazy about me. What do I do?

She won't go to counselling. We have an 18 month old son. For 8 years it has been both good and bad. Whenever she got angry at me, she would start being violent, breaking things or verbally abusing me with words like useless, stupid, idiot, loser, kill yourself, dumb, f you etc. Last year it escalated when out son was born. Fighting with her mum in the hospital. Also calling me stupid for not being able to master wrapping our newborn son etc and needing to ask the nurse for help. At home she would scream at me. Punching my arm whilst holding our son. High conflict. She smashed up the kitchen and hit her mum when they had an argument. My parents were overseas and I was frightened for our son. They were smashing everything. So I called the police. They arrested her, gave her a DVO and she breached it by smashing things and punching me. It cost 5k to fight it in the court and get s mental health section. She only went to 1 session and vowed never to forgive me. Shortly after that she went for a month "break"/holiday on her own. She has done that every year overseas for our marriage because she needs to get away from me... I started talking to lawyers and thinking about divorce. Things git better for a while this year and she talked about a family trip to Europe. At first she would pay my share of the tickets because I'm paying all the bills at home. But that changed. Then she started going back over the past. The times I criticised her bad behaviour and spoke with my mother, the police, the 8 years of criticisms over her swearing etc. I have tried to tell her many times that our marriage will fail if she keeps swearing and being stubborn. She says she does it because I have criticised her behaviour. Yet all I asked for was respect and a clean home. She then said I never appreciate her hard working. But sorry I come home from night shift every day to clean the home, take care of our son, send him to kindergarten, sleep a couple of hours and take him again in the evenings before work because she is so busy with her work and sleeping until midday. I feel overworked and abused. I have stood up to her lashing out and made it clear that the abuse cannot keep going but she has progressively gotten worse. Every couple of months she will go through a phase where she gets particularly nasty and checks my phone messages and private conversations with my parents. This time she did as expected and right before our family overseas trip decided the $1000 I spent on visas and passport for our son wasnt enough. Wants me to pay her back monthly for the Europe tour and she has expressed her hate of me and unwillingness to travel with me. 8 years of marriage and every year she goes alone overseas and makes excuses such as needing a break from me etc. At the start of the planning, she said our money is marital money anyway. Then she slowly started getting more nasty, finding faults, escalating bad words, talking divorce etc. Basically looking for as many barriers as possible to stop me coming. She was hot and cold about it from the beginning. One week we are going, next we are not. So I haven't been excited at all. I kept numb about it to protect myself. I have a plan b for my son and I if we get left behind. Last night she got extremely abusive. Remembered the recording I did last year to protect myself when she was screaming at me. Even this year I have kept recordings. She accessed my phone and saved videos of it. She then publicly posted to her social media that I called the cops, criticise her etc and that she no longer wants to be married...I think she deleted it but sent it to me to make me upset. Of course blocked communication. After my night shift I was exhausted so I slept for an hr in the car. I woke up to a barrage of calls because our son had woken up.and she doesnt get up to get his breakfast or change his nappy. She then started saying: f idiot, loser, useless, complain everything, big pig, sissy, useless man, idiot, go to your little poor hometown etc. I'm keeping the evidence. I have once again expressed that it will help us to go away and forget everything and just enjoy a holiday.... I know she needs help but I cannot see her getting help. I don't see much of a future with her for much longer. I had tried to warn her many times not to keep being abusive or it would destroy our marriage. I recognise my part in it but think she is a narcissist in some ways. So I've been trying to set boundaries and not accept the abuse.

First, it should be said the reason we divorced was because of emotional and sexual abuse (towards me). The court order (in another state) says he can visit one day a week while i am present. When we moved states that was no longer viable, so they (2 girls) have been visiting him with other people present. Now, my 13 year doesn't want to anymore. When asked why, she doesn't have specifics. I know he is an alcoholic and abused drugs. Also, he is very manipulative, and demeaning. I want to support her decision, but it will entail a huge battle. Not just between him and I, but also between him and my daughter...which will likely involve my other daughter. I don't know what course of action I have. Does this need to be taken back to court in our current state? Or do I just tell her she has to go? He is not physically abusive. But, I don't know how much emotion damage he is causing. Or, if I am causing any because I am allowing any of this to happen. Please, without slamming me, can you please offer some advice?

I want to hold my husband accountable for when it comes to his promises. we are in counseling because our marriage was failing, and I was warned it will not be easy to work through our issues. Well this one of them: financial responsibility. He has had a history to making promises to pay for things, or partaking in the expenses of certain things and then backing out simply by stating that because English is my second language I misunderstood what he said. Or saying he would pay at this particular time and not do it. Forcing me to take on the expenses.  He is a mama's boy, and she has spoiled him so much. He's never had to worry about anything as long as the woman of the house was there to care for it all. So he took that and was doing the same with me. He is willing to change, I'm seeing change but since it has become a habit, it is natural that he will try to fight his way out. Recently he lied again when confronted about an expense that we shared. So I have decided to draft a note with all the financial, moral engagements that he took and have him sign and date. So to say he is engaging himself to fulfill them. that way if he backtracks at least he knows he actually said it. Which will prompt him to do it. is that a bad idea? 

Just want to know if it's wrong to want a certain person to divorce.

So, im married and a Christian (gay)  my spouse isn't the same faith as me but I've been giving lessons. Coming from a Catholic faith and they refuse to talk about what he's supposed to have learned from me. Anyway, we get in these fights and I'm finding it hard/tiring to keep being the first one. I mean, I'm being yelled at for no reason about things that they knew about me (medical needs), and I don't have the encouragement from another believer around here. I don't go to church for a few personal reasons, but I do want to. But I just could use encouragement as I've almost had to do it myself every other time. I feel I regret marrying this person, but I realized the other day, this might be my time carrying the cross. I won't leave unless he wrongs me for a biblical reason to leave, (adultery), and I do try to make this work. So that's my way of thinking this is my test. But I would love to be married to a follower of Christ so I would get that support from my partner, and I wouldn't have to put 100% of that work in. 

On the other hand , once in a while I'll interact with some men who seem to cant get their eyes off my eyes (I'm actually not that uncofmortable with it USUSALLY and sometimes find it hard to get my eyes away from their eyes so we just stare into each others eyes and i wonder why its happening LOL). The question is basically mostly about why guys seem to avoid me. Even my cousin does it. It cant be that im THAT disgusting since other guys randomly stare me down, right??? Could i be a creepy woman or something?