interested in forcing herself to sleep on her back. We sleep in separate beds in the same room, but I feel it's placing strain on the relationship. What should I do, sleep in the same bed as her, even if I become a side sleeper again, or continue sleeping in my chaise lounge that forces me to be the back sleeper that I prefer to be, and possibly lose my girlfriend?

My husband and I separated (not legally) in August of 2018. We have a 6-year-old son together. By mid-September, he confessed that he had a one-night stand through dating app and realized this was not for him and was sorry and wanted to make things work. I forgave with time and we started to "work" on our relationship. We are in the process of buying/building a new house and we also got pregnant. I am currently 3 months along and last weekend, he again confessed of another relationship, one that goes back much longer. He confessed he met her back in June-is of 2018 (therefore the cause of his sudden desire to separate). He says that they just talked on and off for a while until end of year 2018 when they became physical--the same time I believed we were working on our relationship and he kept saying we were going to work this out and he wanted to be home with his family. He says he realized his wrong doing around June of this year and stopped talking to her. He says he decided to fully commit to me but still had her contact info and was still in contact with her. Last weekend, he decided to text her and try to talk to her once again, but she blew him off and he went down a spiral, as if finally mourning the breakup. There are a million different feelings pumping through me every second of the day. 99% of me wants to divorce and support my children on my own. How can I ever trust him again if he says he does want to stay and be with us? He refused to go to counceling until now

I'm a clerk in a doctors office. Not been treated very well. The women spray air freshener and say that I smell bad. One of the male doctors groped my breast. The same doctor mind you is in his 60s is married with kids and grandkids. All of the females throw themselves at him except me and a few others. I fear if I go I'll be treated like the movie Carrie. Oh an no one can bring their spouse. I feel it's just an excuse for these women to hook up with the doctors. I really don't want to go but friends and family say it'll look bad if I don't. Oh an the doctors are paying for everything. It's a well known expensive restaurant with good food.

I have also been with my wife for over 10 years, we have 2 kids, we have no family where we are, we don't have any close friends - we've had genuine people make genuine offers but my wife treats them with suspicion. My wife is also a control freak - apparently i can't do anything right around the house and she prefers to do everything herself and she over commits herself at work. She's impatient and short tempered with our daughter so i find my self doing the majority of the child minding type tasks especially the more arduous ones that are more likely to result in tantrums. She has plenty of time to away from us and works and goes to school- but apparently this isn't enough. There is also no intimacy between us. My wife has become this highly strung, tense person who regularly has meltdowns. She has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety issues. I love her and worry about her and all this is having quite an impact on her mental and physical health - it also contributes to my own depression and my PTSD. Whenever i say anything she never takes responsibility and lashes out. I don't think it will ever change. What do I do?

I am his mistress. She doesn't know about me yet, but she's beginning to suspect that he's cheating on her. Can I pretend to be his ex-girlfriend and claim to her that he's a slobbish, selfish pig?

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My BF wants us to take turns paying for meals and mentions that we are like wife and husband. I don't get that? Because, if we are a "married" couple, wouldn't the husband just pay for everything?

So my husband and I have been married for 2 years now. About a year ago I found out my husband had a porn addiction and on top of that I found escorts phone numbers in his phone. He claims it was "just for pictures." So I believed him. When we first met a couple times after we had already had sex a few times he couldn't get it up. He admitted it was because he jacked off beforehand. After finding the phone numbers and porn sites I had him promise me he would stop requesting pictures from real women and just watch porn. Is that to much to ask?  Anyways 1 year later these past two nights we have tried to have sex but he can't get his dick up . I'll suck him off and he seems hard he'll jerk himself off a little and get hard but when it came to putting it in he went flat. I can't help but wonder if he's doing the same **** I asked him not to do. He swears he's not doing that and he's blaming it on erectile disfunction because I'm so hot. I'd understand if this happened a lot at the beginning of our relationship but I don't understand why its happening now after we've been married for two years. What do y'all think. 

Even though I am divorced I am still friends with my ex husband. I am getting married soon and plan a honeymoon in Hawaii. My future husband asked about the free Hawaii honeymoon condo and I told him it was a gift from a family friend. What I did not tell him was the gift was a wedding gift from my ex husband. All of my friends tell me that guys are very insecure when it comes to ex husbands and I risk ruining my honeymoon by telling my future husband that the family friend that gave us the week in a Hawaii condo was my ex husband. My future husband did not ask and probably will never ask who the friend was that gave us the condo in Hawaii so I did not lie to him. I just did not give him all of the details as I don't want to ruin my honeymoon. Should I just keep this little detail to myself unless asked directly. Does anyone know how guys feel about ex husbands of their wives? My gal friends tell me I should never mention my ex husband to my new husband. Is this true?

My wife was watching a new show it was like that old show Rescue 911 only it was a little different I don't know the name of it. There was an episode where one woman fell off a boat got stuck under one of the boats perpellers took off her leg. She knows a lot about boats since her dad is a fisherman she didn't know that was possible. She's kind of scared to get back on a boat. She said it's not fair she wishes the world were like Peppa pig go out somewhere without worrying about anything bad happening. She has autism and mental disabilities she's scared of littlest things happening to her if something bad happens on tv she turns on Peppa it's her favorite show. She wishes the world could be like that. Her dad doesn't go very fast on the boat since we're in Ohio we go down along the river which isn't too rough. She didn't know the littlest things can hurt you or almost kill you. Also when she goes with her youth group they go to plays , concerts , museums stuff like that it's a group for adults with mental disabilities when she goes with them she thinks about Peppa and prays nothing bad will happen. Shes been going with them for about 5 years nothing bad has happened yet she likes going also the staff takes good care of them. She's still kind of nervous to get back on a boat though. How can I help her feel better ?