Me and Tara are 27 and Tara is a girl and I'm a guy and 2 years ago she stopped talking to be completely even though she loved me very much. She moved from New York to Missouri and from Missouri to Arizona. She stopped following me on Instagram and she won't accept my friend request on Facebook

hey guysssss <3 i'm an asian gorl in my junior year of highschool. i've had the same bestfriend since middle school, and she's soooooo pretty. i use to be comfortable around her, but ever since sophomore year, a lot of boys in my class would compare me to her, saying stuff like "she's hot and you're not" or "****** is so much prettier than you" "what's your bestfriend's @" "throw the lob for me" etc etc. eventually, i started comparing myself to her as well. i often find myself scrolling through her comments on instagram, comparing it with mine. i'm confident with makeup on, but because i have zero period, i don't wear makeup to school anymore, and ever since then, standing next to her has been making me feel uglier and uglier. she would tell me all these guys hitting her up and i would subconsciously feel envious and jealous. i like hanging out with her in person, but the way she behaves online is sorta "cocky" i'm not sure what to do, i feel like i can't talk to her about this either :( 

My female friend who is the same age as me had a stroke but she's better and doing pretty well. Yesterday on Facebook I said this to her You're my best friend and I love you She then said to me Me too

and talks about me to telling people where I use to work who my old manager was. Why?? Why posts picks and talk about me when you have not seen or talked to me in years. It is rude.

A day ago my friends and I went to a music festival. One of them brought a fanny pack, so I asked them if they could hold my car keys in there for me. During the festival we got separated and my friend got drunk and lost my keys. When we got back to the car he tried to blame me by saying I never gave him the key,  that he can't race his steps because he doesn't remember where he was, and that he never went in the bag. It cost over 200 bucks to get roadside assistance to come out and make me a new one. The whole time we waited, he just made jokes, offered to uber home and leave the car.  He made no effort to take responsibility for his actions, not to mention we were an hour away from home. He didn't even apologize, and at this point he had sobered up. It was so annoying, I'm still upset. Am I overreacting?

him and i been best friends since sixth grade and he tells me this in 10thA

He said I always come to events dressed like the models and mannequins, is that a compliment

I sent a very very embarrassing text message to my friend when it was supposed to go to someone else. Realistically, will they forget and if so, how long will that take

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

My friend and I (both females) are really close. We hold hands and do ships when we cosplay, we've played things like the pokey game, and cuddled. I dont do this with my other friends (her and I hang out more) is this normal or am I overthinking it? 

I am the only girl in my High School AP Physics class. My classmates are my friends and we like to gather at my home and jointly do on our homework. It is a very hard class with lots of homework. Some of the problems we have a hard time solving. One of my classmates said let's ask you mom Jill for help. He did and mom instantly came up with the answer. They did this several times and mom always came up with the answer. This was amazing to my classmates. One of them said to me "How is it possible that your mom is so beautiful and so smart? That does not compute". Is that a compliment for my mom or an insult to all women? YOUR OPINION PLEASE.

There are photos such as her in a skirt, under the table with her legs spread. There are also photos of body parts of a few strangers. What should I do? He denies everything, and when I confronted him, and he deleted the photos. Should I tell my friend??

My best friend and I have been been friends for years, and we both live in different states. She graduated in June and just got her first full time job as a nurse. I want to surprise her somehow, but it's a bit more challenging, given the fact that we live in different states. She starts work tomorrow and I really want to surprise her somehow and still make it meaningful since I sadly won't be able to fly over to congratulate her and celebrate with her on her first day at work. What should I do?

Over the past 1.5 years, my oldest friend has pulled away but will not say why. She has started unfollowing me on social media accounts, does not reach out hardly at all, ignored some of my suggestions about getting together, started talking more to other people that do not like me and have a history of being mean and unreasonable to me, and I suspect tried to not invite me to a get together she had where she invited all of our mutual friends. She tried to push it off as her family who was helping with the get together as making a mistake. Then she got married last week and had a huge bridal party, when right before she started acting like this she was my Maid of Honor in my wedding. I have no idea what I have done but it is clear she is trying to phase me out so I unfriended her on social media accounts because I do not want to be reminded of her and she has admitted to me in the past she looks up people she does not like on social media to get info on them. Now, she is telling our mutual friends and others that I "dropped" her as a friend and I am a bad person. I am baffled and so hurt.

i'm a male aged 41, and ill be attending regular social gatherings soon with my social worker because ive been isolated for years, dealing with my mental disorders...it'll be good for me to attend the social events because i am a guy who has never established any relationships in my life due to having a lot of problems, and ive never had a female partner, ever. but i have a minor disfigurement, which can be noticed if you really look, on my right hand, my thumbnail is ravaged and torn away, due to me biting it off and abusing it due to terrible nerves...and its taking its time to grow back properly and has grown back deformed looking............today when i was at the community centre having coffee and sandwiches, i felt women there around me could notice it and i felt embarrassed and self conscious.....on top of this i'm shy any way and have little confidence. so until such a date that my thumbnail grows back to look not that deformed or ravaged and torn, how can i deal with it going into social gatherings?  should i stick a band aid over it or what should i do? how can i not feel self conscious and embarrassed about it?

I can't speak for all, but for the people I've encountered in high school were some of the most awful specimens I ever met. Bunch of b#tches under sheep's skin for sure.

Need a little advice— so one of my friends basically stopped being friends with me after my divorce. She wasn't mutual friends with my ex or anything and when I asked what happened, she stated I shared too much regarding the divorce and I was too emotional about the situation. I don't know why it bugs me because a good friend is there through thick and thin but it's extremely hurtful. Should I let it go? Or attempt o salvage a friendship  Should probably rephrase this:  I have to see her frequently because she is friends with mutual Friends of mine. She isn't rude to me necessarily and she basically told me that she needs time to process things. This was close to 1.5 years ago. So further questions is whether I should give her time or just forget about it completely. 

Out of my 300 Facebook friends, only 5 people said happy birthday to me. 2 of those people were my ex boyfriends. Only 3 of my coworkers wished me happy birthday. My other coworkers get tons of birthday wishes and get thrown birthday parties. I got nothing and had to come up with my own birthday plans. I had to have dinner and go to the movies by myself. My boyfriend had to work and didn't think to request my birthday off. My so called "friends" didn't even wish me happy birthday. I'm depressed and feels like no one likes/loves me. It's extremely lonely always going out by myself. It's lonely always being "party of 1". Any advice is welcome. Btw, I just turned 29

I have a weird friend/co worker. He claims I've changed his life etc. but when we're at work he's always aggressive and rude to me and other co workers. He's constantly complaining how people are dumb and has even gotten into several arguments with other strangers on the road due to him insulting them for no reason. He's also calling me non stop just and when I don't answer he gets mad. I don't know if I want to keep being friends with him or if I'm just over reacting?

i became friends with a specific person that i see often. I ended up telling them some personal stuff and they were really supportive and nice. Though, half the days i am with her we are laughing the whole time and talking a lot, and half the time she acts like talking to me is a chore. Like i start all the conversations and they almost seem annoyed to talk to me. It really hurts that i opened up to this person and they see my friendship as a disposable one they can go to if they are bored. I can't deal with the on and off-ness of this person because it gives me anxiety about what if i did something wrong or what if they decide to tell my secrets? 

 This past Friday I went over to my friend Susan and her boyfriend's apartment with another friend and we were all super drunk. At some points during the night my friend's boyfriend put his hand on my back and then my shoulders very briefly. I was super uncomfortable about it especially since Susan was right there and watching it happen. I thought it was strange but didn't want to say or do anything in front of everyone. Susan messaged me a bit later and asked if I thought he was being handsy. I said I noticed a bit and I felt uncomfortable but didn't want to cause issues. She then said that it's not me who caused any issues. Then all of a sudden later at night she messaged me pissed telling me how I should have reacted in this situation. I said that when I'm uncomfortable I shut down and I didn't  want to bring up my discomfort in front of everyone. Yes in a perfect world I should have just gotten up and walked away I was just shocked and just very confused. She told me that reason is bullshit and it is easy for everyone to speak up in situations like that and to never talk to her again. Then my friend Katie told me that I'm untrustworthy because I receive and accept affection from men in relationships. I have tried to reach out to her with no success. I truly just don't think it's right to tell people how to react when they are uncomfortable. I feel so incredibly alone now and don't know what to do. I feel like they have turned everyone against me and I have nobody left. 

It can be extremely painful. Anyone else with this who have found ways to make them less severe or is it just a ride it out sort of thing

Apparently I am doing something incorrect because everyone seems to take more then half a month to respond to me if even then.

There's this girl I've known from work for the past 8 months,  we've been really good friends from the start.   we always hang out during lunch,  and we text alot.  I always had a crush on her but she was in a relationship for the past 2 years.  Her relationship was stressing her out,  she  had a lot of problems in the relationship.  2 weeks ago she broke up with her boyfriend.  obviously she was really upset about it, but days later I told her that I have feelings for her and that I really like her.  we've been texting more and more, she always  sends me kissy faces now.   We even flirt back and fourth,  she agreed to go on a date with me this week  But the problem is that yesterday she was talking to my best friend Jonathan, she told Jonathan that right now she doesn't really want to be in a relationship because she wants to figure things.    Am i wasting my time???? Should i forget about her??? I dont know what to doooo Update: My friend told me to tryyyy !!!!!

Any suggestions? I've just been so bored and lonely lately. It's really hard to make friends and I don't know what to do with my time other than college and work. I spend the weekend with my boyfriend but I want to have a good time rather than just with him.

this dude i know has been making my friend feel bad about herself so i wanna return the favour for him. if anyone knows how please tell me

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

I have a female best friend that I went to high school with and she's the same age as me. She had a stroke but she's feeling better. I feel like I love her but not romantically. Today I said to her you're my best friend and I love you and she said to me me too