So I am 21 and my husband 24. We have been married for only 7 months. I live with his parents.... He is not into sex like most guys are. He would rather help his mommy or work on the house then do me. I even suck him and talk dirty to him I have try so many ways to get his attention and nothing works. He only has sex when he feels like it. FYI he is not getting sex bt another girl because he can't drive and after work he is with me 24/7. He is also a big mommy's boy.... He never ask to have sex I am the one who always has to make the move... My father in law tells my husband all the time he needs to please me but he don't even take his dad's advice. Idk what to do.. I hate living with my mother in law and it's bad enough I get no sexual attention...

So my husband and I just got married a month ago and before our marriage he you to flirt with other women and he even went out on a date with one of them of course we had an argument about it but he said it's not that he's missing something with me it's just he has a problem and he just wants his ego stroked or something idk what do you guys think ?

I know it may sound crazy but it just means alot to me. We been together for 5 years and we just got married in September of this year. He has previously flirted and went on dates with other women but that was before we were married and now I just want it to been known that we're married now and people just need to back off he recently made another Facebook but never sent me a friend request but he's adding all of his family and people he use to go to school with I just don't understand it what do you guys think ? My husband is 38 and I'm 26

I used to say I wanted a husband who would control me and tell me what to do even in the most mundane things. The thing is, I was trained to be a doormat by my 2 narcissistic demonic parents.  Now I finally woke up and realized: i do NOT want anyone controlling me, and definitely not a husband like that. I used to call myself dumb in my mind and also told others I was dumb. Because I was manipulated by satanic parents who would put me down in mamy ways. Now I know not to put myself down and not to believe the lies of anyone else who puts me down/talks down to me.  I am a reasonable, capable woman blessed with health and a bright mind and the Holy Spirit. I do NOT want to bow down to an abusive controlling husband. If I am blessed with the opportunity to chose a husband, I want to pick one that is NOT at all manipulative.

On the second date, my BF reminded me that a successful relationship is one that has trust, honesty, integrity, etc. As we date, there are times where I have this gut feeling that I can't completely trust him? Am I just being too sensitive?

Long story short, i just came out of a 12yr marriage, got married young and have just had 2 sexual partners. My first and my wife. My current "friend" who im getting serious with is also getting a divorce, but she admitted that while she was on and off with her husband this past yr, shes had several sexual encounters... i dont know how to feel about it. She swears they were mistakes and spur of the moment encounters cause she was not in love anymore.  I feel jealous and feel im competing against the guys shes been with sexually, and at the same time like maybe i need to go out and sleep around to not feel this way. Am i just being insecure? Am i being too judge-mental? I hate the fact that she was so promiscuous. Since im not that kind of person. Not sure how to go about it..

My first husband Joe was the ultimate "fix it" guy. If there was something wrong with the house, car, computer, etc he would fix it. My parents grew to rely on him to fix anything that went wrong. He would never take any money for his work for them even when it cost him to buy parts to fix something. Joe assured my parents that our divorce would not effect their relationship with him. He would be happy to help them in any way possible. This give them great peace of mind and he did indeed do a lot of work for them after our friendly divorce (yes a friendly divorce is possible). My parents decided it was time for them to show their appreciation to Joe for all the years of help he had given them so they bought him a new car. That is when I had an unexpected problem. My current husband thinks my parents should buy him a new car also because he is "Family" and Joe is not. My current husband has NO skills to fix anything. He has never done anything to help my parents. My parents never mention Joe to my husband and I don't either but he keeps asking about him. I tried to explain that was just my parents saying thank you for all of Joe's help. He is not buying it. He thinks he deserves a new car. Does he have a valid argument?

Nearly three weeks ago I went to a work bonus party and stupidly got drunk and so did one of the managers on another team who I occasionally work with. I wound him up a little thinking it was funny and he took the bait, he did it back to me and ultimately shouted at the end of the night at me, about work and his life and how he wants a wife after his divorce. Things he was saying hurt me knowing he felt so angry and upset about life, I snapped after being silent for half an hour and basically said I can't deal with this and left. I took his laptop bag with his keys and wallet in by accident and now he said I took it on purpose because we had a fight? I like him he's fun but now he won't speak to me and everyone on my team said I need to 'make friends' with him for the sake of the team. I would have thought he would bring it up but he didn't, I feel hurt he shouted at me and also that he's accusing me of theft I don't know what to do? Shall I talk to him? 

I want to file the petition now since both of us will be abroad before the end of the year. But I want the "date of separation" to be in the future - next year, January 2020 - for ease of tax filing. Is this doable?

Now, after finding out the truth after marriage he feels like a fool for trusting his wife's words and  so he can face his wife anymore. So what can the wife do to make him forget?

My wife says that I complain about money issues too much, but she doesn't understand how much stress it is for me to have to handle everything. We have 3 kids who are 12,13,and 14 they have growing appetites and eat a lot so i end up spending about $300 a week on groceries AND then have to go to chikfila to get my wife chicken salads. The kids eat like 5 times a day. My wife barely makes any money she makes about $6 an hour She can't even afford to pay food. Then, she's talking about she's ready to retire. I give her credit for cleaning on her off days but she doesn't cook at all. Our children have to cook. I know one thing, I'm not cooking anything. I'm the breadwinner and so I'm completely exhausted when I get off. Not only do I have to buy the groceries but I have to be the one to go to the grocery store. Every time I'm at walmart the associates ask why my wife never goes to the store AND they also ask why she doesn't cook. She said she doesn't like going to the store. I just hate always having to be the one to go to the grocery store. Plus, our water bill is always high because my wife has to take TWO baths everyday.We live in a very nice neighborhood two story house with lots of space which is good because we are a big family but it is incredibly stressful trying to pay for everything and these bills just keep adding up. We've been in this house for 15 years and everything is starting to break at one time. The mirror in the upstairs bathroom is shattered, Update: Our master bedroom is always leaking from the ceiling Update 2: all of toilets are incredibly messed up Update 3: Our oven is broken, we have to use a toaster oven for now. Update 4: plus, much more. We defintely cannot afford all of these repair

Have you ever lost attraction to your partner because you started improving and meeting new go getter people while they stayed the same, but then your partner worked on themselves, maybe still not reaching your level, but you still regained attraction to them for their efforts? My wife of several years got into a job where she now makes more money than me, which I thought was great, a successful woman is awesome and I'd like to think gender roles don't matter. But I started feeling like she wasn't as attracted to me, and eventually she admitted that yeah, she's not attracted to me anymore because I'm not growing.. so I guess gender roles do matter and women always need a man who's more successful or at least equally successful.... Also in her job are guys who are more assertive than I am, more go getters than I am, etc.. And I kinda feel like I'm being compared to them... Anyway, she's right, I need to grow, if not for us, at least for myself in case she leaves me... One of her problems with me not growing is that she doesn't feel that I am working for our future like she is, nor that I'm supportive enough.. She doesn't feel like we're a team. I guess she's right about those things too, so this is motivating me to be better for my partner. Have you ever lost interest in your partner, but then after seeing them work on themselves, regained attraction, or is it once attraction is gone, it's gone...? Forgot to mention, she does say she still loves me and sees a future with me (even though my faith in our future is shattered), and that her not finding me attractive is just temporary (I, personally, am not able to believe that), saying she recognizes fer feelings aren't permanent (yeah I guess that's true) "she may be frustrated by the lack of ambition that has resulted in the $15,000/year difference" That's just a fancy way of dodging the fact that success, which money represents, matters.... I like to believe it doesn't matter, but I just keep seeing time and time again that women do need an equally successful or more successful man.. and then complain that guys are threatened by their success.. well, they're not attracted to our lack of it when they are..

I just assume i have a deep vagina. The only man i slept with (when i was having premarital intercourse) had a normal sized one and he couldnt go deep as i wanted  But of course this is not the basis upon which i chose a husband. But when i think about it... I hope he has one