I'm 25, and my mom is 64. I worry about my mom dying because she is old and she never goes to see a doctor for a check-up or anything else because she says she feels well and have no health problems. Well even if she feels well she should get check-ups by a doctor, right? I think about losing my mom constantly and then I cry about it. Me and my mom have a really great relationship. and I'm just really scared she's gonna have a heart attack or something like cancer and I always live in fear of that..I'm not sure what to do. And I know everyone dies eventually but I want my mom care about her health and live a long life.

My baby's mom that I was never in a relationship with put me on child support when I clearly told her not to. Now I'm having a baby with someone else of only 5 months and she's mad about it. Every day she asking me for money. and if I do not give it to her, she wishes death on my unborn child. Then, I asked her did wanted to stay with me and my new baby's mom for the well being of my kids, she refused. because she said that I abused her (Which I did choke her when she was pregnant with my child. I also slapped her and got her put out of her home because she spent my $500 that I told her to hold. (She doesn't listen.)My new baby's mom on the other hand, does listen and she said that she'll never put me on child support that's why I'm with her and we're planning on buying a house together! I'm just waiting for my previous baby's mom to take me off child support, so we can live comfortably with our child. Isn't she wrong for putting me on child support?

My mother in law Ann, someone I really like told me she was ready to start dating again and hopefully get married. I ask her what qualification she would want in a husband. She said "How about that he is rich"? I told her the odds of finding a rich single guy that wanted to marry a woman her ages were VERY LOW". She said that instead of being rich, how about a guy that only wanted to have sex once a month? I said don't plan on a wedding soon. You are going to have a long wait to find a guy like that. You will probably be on Social Security by the time you find him. She said OK then how about a guy that wants sex ever night. I told her she would need a lottery to choose from the dozens of guys that will propose marriage to her. Do you think I gave her good information or am I grossly misinformed?

I barely have any money and idk I'm just a nice person I like doing nice things for people but my mom never appreciates anything. She never buys me anything and calls me cheap all the time. For her birthday I got her stuff and spend 40 bucks on her but she kept telling me how she didn't like it..idk it's just annoying taking the time out to do something for someone just for them to not appreciate it.. yes she's my mom but she doesn't deserve anything since she never does anything for me..all she does is call me names and makes me seem like a bad person!! Overal should I just stop?? Should I avoid doing things for people in general?? 

I was in counseling 7th-8th grade. Then my freshman year I stopped going. I was doing really great. But then I hit my sophomore year and everything's been crashing down. I've just been feeling so low all the time and my grades are getting worse. I'm so behind in school. I used to be a perfect student. I had a 4.0 and I always got my work done on time so this isn't normal for me. I'm just getting so tired of feeling so down all the time. I want to go back into therapy. But I'm too scared to tell my parents. And either way, my mom lost her job yesterday and she's trying to pay for college along with going through a divorce. My dad is barely managing to keep the family up with two jobs. Money isn't something we have a lot of so I doubt we could even afford to send me to counseling again. I know I can't keep going like this. I'm so tired of everything. I just want things to get better.

I normally buy gifts for my boyfriend's two brothers, both of his parents and mine, my two brothers and their girlfriends, my grandma, my auntie, and of course my boyfriend. I however have been hit with an unexpected financial obligation and have also begun saving for my future. Is it awful of me to only give a small present to my boyfriend this year?

If a person knowingly takes a bunch of drugs and alcohol before engaging in a 3some and tells the people that he is having sex with, "If I pass out, no worries, dont stop just have fun". Then during sex, the guy passes out. 1 person stops and tries to get the other to stop, while the other insists that the guy consented and continues. Not sure why this question disappeared before but it hasnt been settled. My husband insists that I'm making a big deal out of nothing. The guy hasnt said anything but I'm pretty sure that what my husband did was no okay.  

I am a 25 year old single guy with a 15 year old niece Jill, my sister's daughter. Jill often comes to my house for help with her homework. If we finish her homework late she spends the night a my house and I take her to school the next morning. She told me she was a nervous wreck from her mom and dad fighting all the time and they were getting a divorce. She wanted to stay with me until the divorce was final. I told her that was OK with me but she needed her parents OK which I thought would NEVER happen. However her parents must have thought it was best for her not to see them fighting all the time and agreed she could stay with me until there divorce was final. I was very surprised by their decision but I think they were thinking of what their fighting was doing to Jill. Jill moved in with me and has been living with me for 3 months. She is a very nice person and is no longer depressed. We have had a lot of fun time together going to school events and sporting events. Jill ask me if I would adopt her so she could stay with me permanently. I told her that I doubt if her parents would let that happen. I don't know if you can adopt someone that has living parents. Does anyone know if that can be done? Is there a better solution than adopting her? Could she just live with me if her parents are OK with it?

My stepmother is just a few years older than I am. Dad must like beautiful young women and she is both. She is a great mother and I am lucky to have her as a mom. She is VERY afraid of storms especially when the have thunder and lighting. We have these storms often where we live. Dad was away on a business trip and a bad thunder and lighting storm happened. Mom was VERY scared and she came and got in bed with me. She said it would made her feel safe if she was in bed with me. Her getting in bed with me caused me a BIG problem. I got a b0ner the size of Texas. I had to hide it from her. I went to the bathroom and called dad on his cell phone and told him my problem. He said "do something to take her mind off the storm". Any ideas what I should have done to take her mind off the storm?

Today I skipped school. I have the stupidest reason to do it, too. I didn't want my picture taken for  the year book. Dumb, but it's the truth. I walked halfway to school, then stood at the park until my mother left for work. She's not a big issue because she comes home at 5:30 PM. The issue is my father and my grandfather. My dad works day and night shifts and half of the time I'm not sure of his schedule. He could come home any minute now and catch me. My grandfather on the other hand, lives with us. He could come upstairs at any given time and catch me. I'm in my closet in my room right now trying to hide just in case anybody does come home. When the time comes that somebody arrives, what should I do?

This was the report if wondering for my source. So should I make this something positive and congratulate my sister or will that cause a conflict most likely? Be honest. https://www.cnn.com/2019/10/29/health/narcissism-study-wellness/index.html

My dad is 58 and very oddly behaved and childish...he acts like there is a contest... Also he doesn't know which buttons turn on the TV/s.t.box... If you try to explain, he turns your enemy...he doesn't want to learn anything making an effort (like driving) , yet turns angry on that whole thing itself...like if he can't learn to drive, he wants to sell the car ...if can't change channels, sell the TV ... And keeps everything concerning anybody a secret, including smallest things like what he is doing/cooking etc...He never knows his behaviour is very odd / strange ! Like hiding in the kitchen and eating secretly... Escaping away from even the simplest talk...he is very neurotic...if you try to point out the things he does , he becomes depressed and doesn't talk to you...till now, he doesn't live any free/happy life...and thinks that is because of the circumstances rather than his mindset...I / we tried to tell him gently this his whole life, but he turns even stranger/ unusual..why is my father the opposite of normal? He doesn't do / say one thing that is acceptable or usual or normal and my mother has lived her life bearing this huge burden too...what are your thoughts on him? How do we try? I don't even know trying is enough...

My sister has a huge dark red busister on her foot. A busister is a sore spot that you get on your body

Why do most people have more than one?  I feel my mum would of been happier if she just had my older sister not me too. She said they would of had a lot more money and less squabbling and an easier life.  Is it better to have just one child? Does having more than one really bring a lot more joy and make you feel like a real family and complete?  They said they had me so my sister wouldn't be alone when she's older but we aren't close at all and she's already told me she's having nothing to do with me once she's out the door and we are adults. It's rubbish. 

My brother made a big mistake at the age of 11 years old with my 6 year old sister at the time. He had sexually molested her at the time.. It's hard to even speak on it but I truly would like some advice to help my family. I dont want to get into too much detail but someone had reported the situation because my sister had told one of her friends about it and they ended up filing a police report thinking that the situation was going on recently. The police are currently trying to charge him with Sodomy when there was no sexual intercourse involved. With that being said, what are some things we should expect? Like what will happen when they find out that no sexual intercourse was made but there was sexual harrasment involved unfortunately. I cant and dont wanna judge my brother for his actions because of who he is today. My sister herself didn't want any of this to happen. They have a great relationship, we are a great family but obviously some mistakes were made in the past.. He would never do something like that now. He has been in a long-term relationship and I know he'd never have the intention to harm my sister. My sister wants nothing to happen and neither does any of my family.. It's not what it seems like I promise you. My family and I are trying to look on the bright side of things. Please, if you guys can give us the best advice I'd truly appreciate that. This is a serious matter that I would love answers too. If you don't have anything nice to say please ignore this.

I am 16, I was molested by my dad for 2 years I told my mom this year.My dad said he was confused and didn't know how to connect with me.My mom and dad are still together. My mom gave me option to call police or let him leave but I said no because I felt it was selfish for my little brothers.it bothers me to see my mom and dad together kissing and when my mom around me she uses my dad real name and doesn't call him "honey" and I feel like she says that because she feels bad for me. She cried today because I have not talked to her about anything and when I talk to her I only talk about my friends and I haven't open up with her I don't know why I struggle so much she was mad because I have bad grades and a messy room I just feel so uncomfortable in my family I feel like I don't belong, I try my best to behave and get good grades but it's honestly hard.and I guess my question how should I fix things with my mom I don't really understand what to do and I don't think she understand how much being molested effected me because she's acting like it isn't a big deal and like nothing happened and when I talked about it before she said to stay strong and move on but it's hard to move on and it bothers me seeing them move on so fast after a week of telling them everything was back to normal and I don't know what I want tbh. I just want to understand what I should do?

So, this is awkward and i wish i didn't see it. I walked into my little sister's room to get my iPad i suspected she had. I entered her room without knocking and i saw her dry-humping her pillow. She was turned away from me so i only saw her back and bum, but she's only eleven years old! What do i do about this? Should i confront her? Should i tell our parents?

I had my baby and my mother in law showed up in the middle of the night to the hospital to see her. Fair enough, I was happy and understand that she was excited to be a grandma again. But she waited behind the curtain in the delivery room while my vagina was being stitched AND she brought a relative with her. Both women stood around the hospital room where I actually delivered the baby and held the baby. Again, this is literally right after delivery at 2 am.Was this overly intrusive? Should my husband have said something about it? Should I? Frankly I was surprised the hospital let her do this, possibly she told them I was ok with it.

My aunts staying with us now and she has five kids. I wish she wasnt. It was my moms idea. She doesnt take care of them AT ALL. Shes a broke drug using mother f ucker and expects my mom, stepdad, me and my sisters to feed them, help with homework and buy them everything. They have almost no toys or belongings and destroyed all of the s hit in my youngest sisters closet and drew on her dolls faces with sharpie. They all have mental and physical health issues.

When I was a kid and my grandparents were alive my Mom had an incredible family. I am sure there were issues but everyone got along in public at least. I think they loved each other in their hearts. After my grandparents died the inheritance was fought over and everyone took sides and disowned one another. It was like a divorce. 11 years later my Mom still hates her family and they still hate her. They also hate each other as the family broke into 4 sides out of 5 children. Two are close and I wish I was in that group. None seem interested in getting close when I try to reach out so I gave up about 5 years ago. I miss the family I had so much. I miss my Mom before bitterness and animosity stole her soul. Recently for example I brought up the World Series and my mother's response was "yep, Uncle Bob is there I am sure with his wife getting what they got through their greed and the selfishness of who were supposed to my parents, your grandparents". I kept trying to switch the topic but she went into a rant of 47 minutes, I timed it. I was in the car with her so was stuck listening. It is sad as I miss the family I once had and I miss my mother (I am an only child) before bitterness stole her soul. Now I avoid her when I can while still showing respect. I have a Dad and step-Mom and their family and I enjoy them. My step-mother has family but it is not the same when it is not my own. My Dad had wonderful parents but never had siblings (only child). Any ideas on this?

Occasionally after getting home from school after staying out for hours to study or just to stay away from home, my parents would ask why i dont spend more time with or around them. Yet whenever i am around them, they seem to get angry over small things. Might any parents or anyone in general know?

My mom often embarrasses me bcuz of my height, features and  fashion.( I'm 18,   4'10 and petite) Mom would go out and talk to friends and when they compliment my body she would say "when I was that age, I've got more curves and I was taller. She looks like 6th grader" and laughs then make faces at me.   I really don't know what to feel when she says those things. Do I laugh or??Also she would comment on how my nose, eyebrows and lips are not very attractive and she would make jokes about it at home and to other family members. She also would embarrass me bcuz I dress like how  any teenager dresses in 2019. My style is more over plain and simple; nude coloured shirts, oversized shirts and etc. my mom would comment on it to anyone (even my boss) she says I dress like a 30year old bcuz I dont like Disney printed clothes / dress and etc. and how mom at 18 was still into Disney sht.. I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD BE MAD OR IF SHOULD JUST LAUGH IT OFF. HELP ME!!

Im 18 years old. I'm currently earning $18/hour for college savings.  an I've always been the punching bag. Mom always rage at me when she got problems. She would find any mistake I do and make it a big deal. But when she needs me to borrow money she's as sweet as an angle. Don't get me wrong, she would pay it back. Maybe not fully but a part of it. Whenever she does she would sook about how she's broke bcuz she paid me and the bills and all. I feel guilty and horrible for even making her pay the money she owes me. What do I do????? She borrows $100-1000 and sometimes it's for the groceries , lunch or luxury stuff on market place (LV, Chanel, Gucci). My mom works and earns $26/hour.

Like I been like this since a kid, and for some reason she just hates me because of that.. why be jealous of or own bigger bro?

I was hanging out with my cousin at my aunt and uncle's house and we were looking through their photo albums. They had several pictures of my mom when she was in high school. One was of mom in her cheer leaders uniform. She sure looked cute in that picture. Another was her when she was homecoming queen. She was gorgeous. I think she was the prettiest female I have ever seen. Was she ever beautiful? My aunt said "Did you know your mom was homecoming queen all 4 years she was in high school"? I had never seen these pictures and mom had never mentioned she was a cheerleader and homecoming queen. I asked my aunt to make copies of these pictures for me and she did. Can anyone think of a reason mom would not tell her daughter about her being a home coming queen and a cheer leader? Mom has a birthday coming up next week and is having a party and many of her friends will be here. I want to make a large birthday card that say "Happy Birthday to my beautiful mother". "I am proud of you". "Your daughter". I would like her friends to see how beautiful she was as homecoming queen. I plan to attach these pictures to the birthday card. Mom has NOT gained a lot of weight and still looks the same as her high school pictures. She is still beautiful. Please give me some feedback what you think of my plan.