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- Question: Why am i feeling the bigger sad?
- Question: How to get over a lost friend?
- Question: Is this a lame short story idea?
- Question: Should i believe this friend of mine?
- Question: How do you tell your friend the people she's hanging out with aren't her true friends?
- Question: Does “no contact” work if you been block ,in a friend situation?
- Question: Why is my ex friend doing this on Facebook? Going through old photos and tagging himself in it after I unfriended him?
- Question: Why people no say fortnite bad?
- Question: One of my neighbors stole my large sized trash can, and left 2 little ones in it's place?
- Question: How to form stronger bonds with friends? ?
- Question: Should I cut all ties with her ?
- Question: Is this a toxic friendship or an abusive one? (Bad punctuation and grammar for space)?
- Question: Friendships? Why do you think some people have plenty of friends and why do some people have no friends? The more info the better. Thanks?
- Question: As a guest should I offer to help with dishes when i go with my friend to their mom's house?
- Question: Worried about my friend?
- Question: IDK what to do about a "Friend"?
- Question: How should I deal with my friend in these situations?
Question: Why am i feeling the bigger sad? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 03:28 PM PDT everyone is sad at times and that is no different with me, but lately i have been sadder than usual and my friends are saying im acting differently. am i getting sick or something? |
Question: How to get over a lost friend? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 11:59 AM PDT my friend moved far away and doesn't want to talk to me anymore, and it is heartbreaking |
Question: Is this a lame short story idea? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 10:39 AM PDT A guy hatches a plan to spook his kid brother and his friends. He gets his best buds to help him. The plan is his friend will guide in the basement while he has a Ouija session. His friend will make thing happen like things falling from a bookshelf and making thudding noises. His friend is reluctant to play along but it's finally kicked into going along with it. So the night goes off as planned. Thudding and tv coming on and noises on cue. But it turns out there his friend never showed because "you should not need around with that stuff." |
Question: Should i believe this friend of mine? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 10:21 AM PDT I joined a new school this year.I don't have any friends here and i get bullied and made fun of.Its because people think I'm weird and some even think I'm ugly.This has made me so insecure.I don't think I'm weird.I don't think I'm ugly.It was so much better in the previous school.I had a group of friends and was bullied a lot lesser. There is a childhood friend of mine.I called him and told him what's happening here. He then gave me his opinion.He told me that I'm not weird and there is nothing wrong with me and there is nothing that i need to change about myself.About the looks be told me that I'm not ugly at all I'm a little above average and these people are just jealous of me and they hate me because I'm much better than them in every way.They bully me so that i doubt myself and feel bad about myself but there is no need to feel bad because nothing's wrong. |
Question: How do you tell your friend the people she's hanging out with aren't her true friends? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 09:54 AM PDT So long story short, one of my friends started hanging out with these other group of girls but they seem extremely toxic, draining and needy. I've noticed my friend acts different around them (helps them with their homework, dumb's herself down, becomes more of a follower) but it's gotten to the point that they all text each other everyday, hang out everyday but it's unhealthy boundaries and she doesn't see that they use her but she does everything for them. Should I say something? For me the worst part is seeing a friend you care about go from someone confident and sure of herself to someone that wants to fit in. And they've only known each other for a year and some change. |
Question: Does “no contact” work if you been block ,in a friend situation? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 08:56 AM PDT If someone who call you their best friend and you always been there for them. But they block you for no reason, without any agreement or something. Does no contact will work ? |
Posted: 21 Oct 2019 07:21 AM PDT I unfriended 3 friends who all went behind my back and did awful things. I have no desire to speak to them or confront them about this, it would have just made it worse, so I unfriended them on Facebook, blocked their ability to message me on it and deleted some of our photos we have on it from the past (I dont want people looking at my profile to click on their names and see we arent friends). I saw today one of them tagged themselves in a couple photos from a year ago where they are in it in the background (with some mutual friends tagged who are in it whom I did not unfriend, which is how they are able to see the photos) I find this very weird- if I saw someone unfriended me I would not find old photos they posted with me in it and try to tag myself in it. |
Question: Why people no say fortnite bad? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 07:16 AM PDT i go on line I say fortnite bad bc INTERNET tell me it bad but why people say I "boomer"? internet tell me fortnite bad minecraft good I thot I could be one of the cool kids but why they be mean to me? :( |
Question: One of my neighbors stole my large sized trash can, and left 2 little ones in it's place? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 06:47 AM PDT I drove around the neighborhood, looking for it, and located it a couple of blocks over. I'm pretty sure it's mine, because it has no lid and a broken handle, plus they had three of them ! when each person is supposed to be issued only one from the city. Should I steal it back |
Question: How to form stronger bonds with friends? ? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 05:50 AM PDT hi! so i was wondering how to get more best friends. i have a few friends ive been pretty close with for years (since middle school) had awesome memories in the past, never argued/had a fallout, we laugh a lot etc etc. we still hang out every now & then but just not as often as we used to. we usually just text now which i don't mind, but I'd like to make more fun memories like back then but i don't know how to approach that without forcing it too much lol. anyways do i just ask to hang out more? do i make more plans? do I just bring up old memories? step out of my comfort zone & say it straight up? lol what would be a good way to go from close friends to best friends basically |
Question: Should I cut all ties with her ? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 01:52 AM PDT So my old "best friend" moved away to be with her new boyfriend who is in the army, she moved to over 4 hour drive away and made new friends and stopped talking to me, I totally get it as it's life and it's going to happen as you just don't see them so you're bound to grow apart, she never really treated me right always saying she wished she had a group of friends and it would be so much more fun than just having me as her friend, this always made me feel rubbish and knock my confidence like I wasn't good enough. So she messaged me a few months ago saying "you'll be glad to hear I'm moving back your way" as her partner is getting moved with work again. I've hardly spoken to her since and just feel I don't really like her anymore, she's really changed and I just don't think I want to be her friend again. She messaged me again just now saying "you'll be so glad to hear I'm coming back down your way!" It's really annoyed me making me think she thinks I NEED her and like she's my only friend so I'm desperate for her to come back, which isn't the case! I replied saying this "??Why would I be glad to know? We haven't spoken in months... where you are and what you're doing has no effect on my life whatsoever." Do you think I've been rude or in the wrong? |
Question: Is this a toxic friendship or an abusive one? (Bad punctuation and grammar for space)? Posted: 21 Oct 2019 12:12 AM PDT I met this girl in 7th grade, new school new friend. We became close quickly and she was pretty cool at first. she starts teasing me for how much i read in 7th grade so i slowed my reading. we exchanged numbers and she loved texting me, we both had apple so we didn't worry about message limits, she sure didnt. I found out that if i did not reply quickly she got impatient. I thought ok i just will have to tell her when im off so i do and thats not enough she soon demands to know what im doing if i do not respond within a minute, and even got angry at me for being around other friends,. one night i had volunteered to walk RESCUE dogs and she got mad. how DARE i leave her for so long This was the first time i tried to cut contact with her. Then came the threats and the begging so I got back in contact with her similar things happened in 10th grade too and like an idiot i came back she made sure i KNEW i was her only friend and at lunch she would complain in front of me how she had NO friends (ha what? is my 12+ hrs of texting you not enough attention?) She made sure to chew me out if i didn't reply to her during school. she would rip on my weight, my mannerisms and even my dating choices! by senior year i had enough! i felt beaten down and hurt by her. determined to hold my ground i cut her off to this day the only time i contacted her since then was because she made a meme account, followed mine and then pressed me for my opinion of her under a guise of a shared friend. |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2019 10:51 PM PDT So I go with my friend to their mom's and apparently she thinks the guest should ask to help with the dishes. The times I did do that she went and sat down and I washed ALL her dishes from dinner and apparently throughout the day. I stopped asking after I was fed up with feeling like a maid. Growing up if someone asked if they could help clean up EVERYONE would help not leave one person to do it all. Usually when we are there my friend's daughter is there, my friend's mom and stepdad (who doesn't live there) and 2 nieces, sometimes the nephew are all there. I'm the only one she wants to clean. She has gotten very rude with me twice. First time she made me wait to get my food last. Second time she asked me to bring soda which is no big deal but because my friend helped bring in the soda (3 12 packs) she assumed my friend bought it and raised her voice. She point right at me in front of everyone and said "I told HER to get the soda" my friend told her I bought it and they were helping carry it in. They were also already eating and just about done when we got there. Then the next time we went she told my friend to tell me to bring soda again but didn't bother texting me. Then again when we got there they already were done eating. She never ask anyone else to bring something which I found odd. I feel like I'm buying her and her grandkids soda (I don't even buy myself soda) and I feel very unwelcome and awkward. |
Question: Worried about my friend? Posted: 20 Oct 2019 10:44 PM PDT basically she was a sweet girl, nice to everyone and always helped others. Though this is nice it lead to her getting bullied, used and hurt by people. I tried my best to be there for her as she would do the same (even though she always refused for my help as she thought it was her problem to deal with). Now, shes changed, shes become completely cold and isnt nice to people as she used to be because she said that being nice only brought her pain. Shes only kind to a few people who were never mean to her(like me, and a few other friends) but shes not the same anymore. How do i help her because being cold and heartless to those who wrong you isnt the right way |
Question: IDK what to do about a "Friend"? Posted: 20 Oct 2019 09:21 PM PDT no one in my group of friends likes her (except my GF). She's really pushy, and assumes that everyone's her best friend, and refuse to ever admit that she's ever done anything wrong and gets really pissy whenever we get annoyed at her for anything But we don't want to just kick here out Help?? |
Question: How should I deal with my friend in these situations? Posted: 20 Oct 2019 09:12 PM PDT So one of my good friends who is also my roommate is a huge attention seeker, tends to monopolize a lot of my time and can sometimes be overbearing. We are good friends and he is a very nice person, but sometimes I need a break. I've got a few issues coming up and I don't know how to deal with them. 1.) One of my friend groups is having a party next weekend that he got himself invited to. He doesn't usually hang out with them. I don't mind going with him, but I'm going to be seeing a lot of good friends for the first time in years. I'm afraid that he may monopolize my time or interject himself into most of my conversations, especially with the people I've not seen in over a year. 2.) He's lately been around my family a lot, and has interjected himself into some of my family time and more specific situations. He keeps saying how much he feels like a part of our family now. Every year for thanksgiving my family goes out shopping on Black Friday. It's kind of a family tradition. I'm afraid he may try to invite himself or may try to tag along with my family if we meet up. My mom and other family members have already said they want it to just be our family, but I don't know how to make sure he doesn't come without being rude or making him think I don't like him or want to be around him. |
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