My cousin invited me to her wedding. We're Asian-American, so in general, family is important to us. However, that particular cousin and I are not close and we don't always get along when we do see each other. On top of that, when I was asked to commit to the invite, I was under a lot of physical and mental stress in my life between being extremely busy at work and having issues with my own relationship. I wanted time alone in peace rather than at a loud event with lots of people. It also didn't help that I personally don't enjoy wedding receptions anyway, even though I do wish the couples well. For these reasons, I declined the invite. My relatives who did attend were asking about me, so I feel guilty for not seeing them, but at the same time, I honestly just didn't feel up to it. Does anyone else understand where I'm coming from?