My sister is currently at university, I'm 3 years younger and have decided I'm not going to go to university, I was working as a home carer for a few months and I've just accepted a job as a dental nurse.  My mum told me when I was out a few months ago and my sister was home for a weekend she went into my bedroom and picked up a wage slip I had left on my desk and she took it to my mum and started kicking off saying she was outraged how much money I'm earning and that she won't even be earning that when she leaves uni, she was SO jealous (but never said anything to me)  My mum just said she told my sister about my new job and showed me the text she replied and it said "I don't know how she's managed to get that but it's got to be minimum wage!"  She's so unsupportive and bitter towards me, she never wants to see me do well and succeed, seriously what did I ever do to her?  I'm not nearly as clever as her and I'm quiet and shy, why does she hate me?  My mum just smirks when she tells me all this and doesn't stand up for me. I think she likes us to play off one another :(

I am a high school girl that has chores that help out my mom. One of my chores is to wash the clothes and sheets from the beds. I noticed the sheets from my little brother's bed were sticky when I washed them. They kept getting more sticky each week. I asked him how come they were sticky and he denied they were. I finally got tired of washing his sticky sheets and demanded he show me how they were getting sticky. Gals, YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE WHAT HE DID. I asked him if that hurt. He said no. It feels pretty good. Is it normal for guys to do that? It sure messes up his sheets. Should I tell him if he does not stop doing that, he will have to wash his own sheets.

In 2008 my family suffered a huge loss after my brother, a Marine serving in Iraq was killed in action. He died when he was 19. Next week he would've turned 30 had he lived that long. I miss him everyday. I miss the pranks he used to pull,I miss his jokes. I miss being able to answer the question " how many siblings do you have?". My mom and I sometimes talk about him. My dad and I or my dad and my mom never talk about him. Dad never mention him. like NEVER. I am a girl and my brother was my only sibling therefore I get that my dad lost his only son and it hurts but he never talks about him. However since my bro would've turned 30 I was thinking about gathering some friends and family to remember him but mom thinks it's not a good idea as it wouldn't be a party..part of me understand where she's coming from but I believe it's a way to remember the fact that my brother was once on this planet too..What do you think?

Most girls are too emotional and always have boy problems. They are always dramatic. Boys are so much easier to deal with. Less drama.

I am going to keep my son from school probably for a week or more. I (accidentally) gave him a bruise. It wasn't my intention to spank him that hard but I did it anyway because he was misbehaving. I don't want anyone to find out about the bruise so I think I'm going to call in sick for him until the bruise heals.

If you ask anyone to describe my mother in law Jill, they most probably would say "beautiful". If someone ask me to describe Jill, I would say she is the best mother in law any guy can have. She is always there if my wife and I need help with anything and she is the nicest person you will ever meet. One day at work, she came by to ride home with me. I introduced her to some of my co workers. The next day these co workers asked me if she was married. I told then no. They ask me if I would fix them up with a date with Jill. I told them someone as beautiful as Jill did not need her son in laws help getting dates. She can get all the dates she wants without anyone's help. My co workers then ask me if I would bring her to the bonus day party they were having after work next week so they could get to know her better. I don't know if I should do that. They would enjoy the party more if she was there as she is really a fun person to be around. Do you think a woman would be interested in guys that are a least 10 years younger than she is? Should I stay out or her love life and ignore their request even if there are some real great guys that want to get to know her better? What should I do?

Been trick or treating, some fat looking guy gave me odd-smelling candy with white powder in it. He also gang-banged my brother bobby and deep throated my father. Should i trust this person. My brother already ate the candy but i havent seen him since. Tennesee Chattanooga 2019.

Short story – I am 40 years old with a 5 year old and 3 year old. My mother always criticizes, nagged and complained with everything. She also has said some hurtful things to me. Example I had a child to pass away 11 years ago and he was only 6 ½ when he died. She told me when he was alive that he was not going to get better because I was living in sin with my then boyfriend. She told other family members that I killed my son because because the week before he died the doctors told him to not to feed him. He was fed by a feeding tube and his body was consumed with phenomena. To the present she is always telling me how to raise my children and what I am doing wrong and what I can do differently.  The other day I was really tired and sick and I told her that and she said you should not have had children so late in life. Every time I talk to her I am a volcano about to erupt and I get hateful and irritated with her because I am sick of it. I recently had carpal tunnel syndrome so she agreed to stay the weekend with me to help with the kids.   The first thing out of her mouth when she came through the door "you have nowhere to put anything down"  Next thing, why do you have so many dishes? I told her we had to have supper and breakfast and I said mamma just had surgery. I had laundry that needed to be folded. She said why did you not fold these clothes. The next day was Sunday and she wanted to watch the football game. She told my 5 year old to shut up. I have told her in the past not to tell him that.   Then later that day while she was still watching to football game (with a five and three year old in the house). My son was nagging her for supper. I was trying to take the dog out. She comes in my kitchen and yells out me to get in there and tell her what to fix for supper. I prefer to not have yelling in my house and I don't appreciate her yelling at me in front of my children. I told her to go home.  She packed her bags and went out the door and I had to call her a ride that was 1 ½ hours away. Now my whole family is mad at me and not talking to me. I don't know what to do because I am hurt that my family does not have enough respect for me and my feelings and how I want to raise my children. Plus I do feel guilty for telling her to leave but I don't know if I should call and apologize to her or just let some time pass by. 

Can someone explain sibling rivalry to me? I am an only child so that concept is totally foreign to me. My husband has 2 brothers and they always try to out do the other. If one get something, the other 2 try to get a bigger and/or a better or more expensive one. No matter what it is they will waste a lot of money trying to out do the other. This makes no sense to me. Why do they do that?

I was setting by our pool and my wife's mother Jill came out of the house and ask me if it was OK if she went skinny dipping. I said OK but I would have to go in the house. She asked why. I told her I would probably get a b0ner seeing a beautiful woman in the nude and that would get me in trouble with my wife. I went in the house and told my wife that her mom was skinny dipping in our pool. She said Jill is a terrible swimmer. You can not leave her alone in the pool. Go outside and watch her to be sure she is safe. CRAP. What do I do now? I got a pillow to cover it up if I got a b0ner so Jill would not see it and went outside. Should I tell my wife to tell her mom she can not go skinny dipping in the pool again or should I tell her myself. Wives I would sure like your opinion on what I should do to keep myself out of trouble. Thanks.

i have a friend at school. she's a senior this year, and she wants to have some fun this halloween. she needed a costume, so i originally suggested a pirate or a cowgirl. she wanted something more creative and humorous, so i suggested a clown. but she still refused the idea, and later said that she wanted to be a baby. her's how it works. she will wear a diaper and a pacifier. she will crawl around while wearing pajamas with feet and scream "gah gah goo goo". she seems to like the idea, but i'm worried that everyone will judge her. and considering the fact that i'm her best friend and lab partner in biology, people will also think i'm weird.

i am a 15 year old girl, and my mom wants to start breastfeeding me. my dad lost his job around 2 months ago, and now since nobody has a job, we have no source of income. for the last couple months, we have been rationing food. for example, the entire family (6 of us) were limited to consuming one loaf of bread a week. however, this hasn't been going too well because everyone is still hungry and therefore cannot get much stuff done. we do not buy anything at this point and use water and electricity very sparingly, and use the internet at the library, but we're still always short on money. so my decided to start breastfeeding all of us. every day at 7 am and 8 pm, she will breastfeed all 4 of us kids and our dad. here is the procedure: when she says it's time to breastfeed, we go to the master bedroom and take off all our clothes and wait in line, starting with my 9 year old brother, then 11 year old sister, then me, and then my 18 year old brother, and the finally my dad. each of us has to suck on her breasts while we are naked. after we finish at night, all 6 of us shower together. my mom and dad wash each other, my younger sister and i wash each other, and my older brother and younger brother wash each other. we are limited to 5 minutes in the shower to save water and shampoo costs. it's so embarrassing because my dad farts a lot in the shower, my brothers sing, and my brothers all stare at me naked.

so since i was a kid (like 10 or 11) i was very hungry and underweight, i was 4'11 (i still am i havent gotten taller) and like 70 lbs.  so my dads employee, would babysit me and my brothers sometimes.  and while that happened, i always told my mom i wanted to bring my laptop since id have to carry it in a bag.  i always stole stuff from the girls cabinets and put it in the bag i said my computer was in.. i remember when i got home at night id eat cake mix, vanilla cookies, chicken, potato chips, really unhealthy food.  im 19 now and i still steal food, though... im 120 lbs though so if anything i need to lose weight.... now i steal food from my friends parents house, my cousins, people i just know..... how do i stop doing this without telling anyone about this!

My uncles and aunts are always talking down on me on the name of discipline.They even do if in front of my parents. My parents never stand up for me.They allow that behaviour to continue.They think i deserve it. My parents never have the guts to do that to their kids.They know that their parents woudnt tolerate someone relative scolding their kids....so they wouldn't try anything like that. So why do my parents tolerate that?

 I'm writing my 10th board exams.Its a very important time in the life of a student.Its a time where all the family members, relatives, neighbours, friends are all curious to know how much did the student score. Tomorrow I'm writing my board exams. One aunt called up my mom showing interest in it and wanting to know when is the exam and how well prepared i am and stuff and some discussion with my mom about the exam. Last week was my birthday.She never called me and wished me for that.But she calls during the exams and during the results.I don't really like this aunt and my relatives.They keep talking down to me on the name of discipline and on the name of "advicing" me.But they never want to know what's bothering me,the problems i'm going through,they are never interested in my good traits....only interested in my faults and pointing them out...and this aunt is no different. I think she hates me that's why she only calls during my exams and results but never during my birthdays.There was a time when she used to call during my birthdays but now she doesn't.Maybe she didn't hate me then but she does now.

I don't know how to feel about this, my dad passed away last year and I found out that my mother married his brother.  I'm an adult now, and I have a family of my own, but I find this wrong.  It probably doesn't help that his brother was his twin either.  I don't know how to react, my husband and myself are disturbed by it and don't want to take our children to her home for thanksgiving. Maybe I'm being selfish, how would you all feel?

I am trying to find the age gap between me and my oldest sister (I'm also a brother) because I have anxiety about it and I worry that we're gapped too far. To find it out, I need to figure it out. She was 7 and had finished 1st grade when I was born. But the problem is that she is 7 years and 6 months older than me. Do I round it up to 8 years or down to 7 years? Also for off topic, do you think we have a big age gap? 

I have a crush on this girl and I texted her and she keeps not replying but it says she's reading them. It's been several weeks and i text her every day and ask how she is and not one message has been replied to since like 3 weeks ago I really love her and care about her so much and I can't function without her

I reached out to my old best friend and we started to become friends again and I found out she's homeschooled bc of her IBS, depression, and anxiety, and it was going well and suddenly she disappeared and stopped responding and after 8 days I messaged and asked if she was to busy to text or something and did I do something wrong and she replied saying no she's just been busy and she seemed to want to talk because I didn't reply so she messaged like 5 times that night and the next day we talked again well and it was wonderful then she disappeared AGAIN and its been a week and I messaged her again asking how she's been doing and she never replied so now I'm hurt

My stupid mom had me when she was 39 and I m her only damn kid. I m 25 right now and she is 64. All my friends have parents who are younger than my mom and it makes me like sh*t. When I go out with her people think I m her grandchild. I know I ll miss my mom sooner than other people at my age cuz she is old. Why should she give me at that f*cking age??? Couldn't she give birth at when she was younger if she really wanted a baby??? I hate her and.

So last week I was blessed with a beautiful healthy baby girl, last summer, my wife's mom didnt go through either of us, just bought a plane ticket for 2 weeks and planned on staying in our house. Let me add that we dont know eachother very well and I find her very, very...very annoying and immature. Well it's been a week now and I'm exhausted, I love my daughter immensely and I'm enjoying the parenting. But her mom is still here for another week and I'm done with her. Shell say very rude comments a lot and I dont say anything cause i dont want to make anything awkward for the next week with her. I'm a very reserved person and I keep a lot of things in. Well I just got very annoying at something she said and I went upstairs just stressed and hopeless. She said "yeah shes cute (our daughter, but Andrew (her son) was cuter). Shes a competitive person, also very selfish, she doesnt ask for your opinion on things, she just gives hers and fights any counter argument. So my wife comes upstairs and I tell her that is what was annoying me and she couldn't believe me, she stormed off and then made me feel guilty about accidentally leaving the stove burner on. Might I add she is very in denial that her mom Is rude and she caters to her mom all the time and shes always ungrateful.  Tell me your thoughts because I'm going crazy,  am I being conceited? Am i wrong?