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- Question: My wife said I was being rude to my daughter's boyfriend. HOW?
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Question: I don't know what to do with myself? Posted: 30 Oct 2019 04:03 PM PDT Right now I feel like I m in a really bad place. I m in my senior year of high School and I feel totally lost on how I m going to manage going away to college and the rest of my life. I m scared to death of what lies ahead and how I m going to cope with my new surroundings. School right now is emotionally draining and I feel too tired to do anything when I get home and I have no energy at the end of the day. I spend a lot of my time trying to do the right thing and work hard at what I have at hand, but I usually end up making too many silly mistakes and making people mad and driving them away from me, so I feel like I've got nobody to help me go through with this, and the few people who I do make conversation with just fawn it off. I can't go to my parents about it because my dad isn't a very heart-to-heart person and my mom will just end up blaming some other ridiculous thing that has nothing to do with it. I try acting kinda goofy to help stop the depression but then I just weird people out and drive them further away. I feel like I have next to nothing to live for and I'm going to end up as a failure. |
Question: What should I do about a Professor harassing me? Posted: 30 Oct 2019 01:09 PM PDT I took a summer class that lasted 2 months and the teacher I had was a old male and everyday sometimes more than once he would tell me to smile in front of the whole class he even said it when the whole class was taking a test and it was silent. I would tell him politely I am not here to smile I am here to learn or I am busy taking a test why would I be smiling. He kept on telling me to smile every single day though, I had other classmates around me telling him to stop for me, my lab partner said she would cringe every time he would come up to us and talk to me. Also after a retaking a test in his office he sat down and asked me what was my major then asked what turns me on in a way that he was trying to see what my interest's were but asking what turns me on made me feel very uncomfortable. I went to the Title XI director to report him and that was in July. I gave her emails and number's of witness's and I hand wrote letters explaining what happened on what days and times. It is now Nov almost and I have not heard one word back from anybody and I still see this guy around campus and he still tells me to smile as he walks by.. What should I do. I am always peeping around corners now and can't even go to the bathroom because I am afraid I will see him. |
Posted: 30 Oct 2019 07:56 AM PDT To hear cursing and screaming, I was in shock to see my older brother who is 40 and refuses to work or do anything cursing out my mom because his truck had broken down two blocks from our house. He wanted her to wake up and go get it for him. In other words, (jump start it for him). She was tired and refused, so he punched a hole in the wall. If you were me, what would you have done after that? How would you handle the situation, considering your mother is on the elderly side. Would you drive your car to help him or would you call the police? What would you do? I believe he steals gas if I am being honest. |
Question: My wife said I was being rude to my daughter's boyfriend. HOW? Posted: 29 Oct 2019 09:50 PM PDT our daughter's boyfriend always has to use the bathroom. I don't know what his problem is, he is only 29 he pees way more than me. i told him last time he was over "you might have to go to the cvs across the street to use the bathroom boss man our pipes are messed up so the water leaks endlessly. I had to cut the water off, we haven't been able to bathe or wash our hands in days because It's costing me a lot of money to have the water running with the pipes messed up. I'm trying to help him out because he's not going to be able to flush the toilet or wash his hands and the bathroom is going to stink if you let poo or pee sit in it. My daughter was like "Well how do you go to the bathroom, I know you don't hold it that's bad for you." I was like " I use the bathroom at work and just hold it at home. I don't have to go as many times as he does anyways." My wife stepped in and said " Quit being rude. He probably has a bladder infection. People can't help it if they have to go a lot." How am i being rude??? our pipes are messed up. He can't go here. |
Posted: 29 Oct 2019 06:12 PM PDT I'm honestly wondering which to do. Thanks. |
Question: Am I depressed what would help ? Posted: 29 Oct 2019 05:45 PM PDT I hope u read it's a Mess spelling punctuation Just making sense of itI'm 36 year old gay man was married for 7 year with him since 21 he was a Compulsive liar I left him 3 years ago and about 9 months later met a younger man he's 21 we get along great when together only fight when we are apart for long periods of time I kind when I met him I was in real estate sales he was a lifeguard now I'm a ups driver he's works in the emergency room and going to become a nurse it's very hard work as a ups driver long hours not much time off " just started" I get chronic kidney stones had blood in my urine for months seen doc had the surgery I'm livening in my youngest brother basement i was very close with my mom but she got remarried 2 years ago so we don't have our time anymore so I work come home to the basement and sleep and back to work again some times I have been very down I have called out from work may credit is a mess after leaving husband 3 years ago I know I'm all over the place here sorry kidney stones and six nodes in my lungs were found on last cat scan for stones 5 weeks ago they say just follow up on with the pulmonologist most likely nothing but must follow up on it I had dental The nearest put on five years ago they screwed up my teeth how to perfect smile messed up I'm broke right now trying to get back on my feet to move out some days don't want to get out of bed I feel what's the point with the lung issues I'm worried about there is more but I'll start there |
Question: Do you think I was wrong for not lending my boyfriend $4k? Posted: 28 Oct 2019 07:19 PM PDT My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year. He is 36 and lives with his mom, sister and nieces who he spoils whenever he has money. I live with my 3 sons and I am 3 years older than him. In the year he has only paid once to take me out. Every other time I pay because I make way more money than him but I have 3 kids he doesn't have kids. Anyway, I sold a house and made some profit from it but I'm trying to use that money for downpayment for another home. So since he knows about the money he asked me to help him out with his credits card bill which is $4k and that he will pay me back $300 a month. At first I thought of lending it but then I thought that even if he paid me back, he'll end up taking it another way by having me pay every time we go out since he even expects me to pay for his uber ride when he comes visit me. So when he asked for the money I told him some story about me needing to pay off my cards before purchasing the home because the loan officer wants me to. So he got upset at me and told me that why did I tell him I was going to help if I wasn't? He said he only asked for a favor and he was planning to pay me back. He told me that he wasn't greedy with money the way that I was and hung up on me. What do you think? Thanks for all you answers. Ex boyfriend now btw. |
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