is not an invitation to attend the wedding nor the reception. The couple are either eloping then, having a tiny wedding, or a court house wedding. It is just a notification that two people are getting married on a certain date. It is just to let others know that they will officially be a Mr and Mrs. No responses needed after October 12, 2019. Thanks.

of great fast paced dancing music, And everyone could enjoy dancing.

My childhood friend asked me to be her MOH almost two yrs ago (she's been with her fiancé for 7, engaged for 2). We have a toxic friendship but I didn't know how to turn it down. She has always been selfish, manipulative, & we have drifted apart. I barely know her anymore & have only met her fiancé 3 times. She is not a friend I want to have. Her wedding activities have been a nightmare & her demands have been over the top. She wanted everyone to take a week off for her bachelorette and fly across the country for it. When I suggested some more practical options she turned them down. And laughed at me when I said that's fine if everyone else wants to go, but I can't. As if it was a stupid suggestion. She asked me to fly to the city where she lived to zip up a dress she ordered in the mail "cause her fiancé can't see it" & I turned that down too. Things like that. We got in 2 huge fights on the phone (I was at a breaking point). We ended up driving 5 hours away for her bach to a very expensive place & I spent over 2 grand on the weekend. On the last night we got in our 3rd fight (really her doing). She told me to "find my own way home." We "made up" so I figured I'd grin and bare it til the wedding. Last weekend she took a different bridesmaid to her wedding dress fitting & didn't tell me. I texted her a very nice text asking if she would rather that girl be her MOH & I would have no grudges. She won't discuss it. Is it too late to back out? Idk what to do. :(