Little back story, husband and I are high school sweethearts, together 15yrs, have 2 children. We have had our ups and downs and he's had a record of lying in the past. I thought we've moved past it. I've always been the "moral" one. I mean,  I am on staff at a local church (do you see where this is going?  I'm so upset by his dismissive behavior that I'm ready to leave the guy. Clearly, I'm freaking out. I know I can't control him but I CAN control what I'll allow myself to take and I really don't want to take the lying and deceit. When I asked if he'd be posting stories, he said he wouldn't. (Weird) When I asked why his friend said "I hope gas is cheaper in Las vegas." He blew it off. He is straight up treating me like I'm crazy. I'm being gaslighted.  Look, I know what's up here. I've been with the guy long enough to know when something fishy is going on, but if he IS lying, he's lying while also making me feel like there's something wrong with me and I'm not cool with that. I expect honesty, at the very least.  What would you do in this situation? Let's say he isn't lying (doubt it at this point) then I will be the first to apologize and own my silly behavior. But if he IS LYING, I just don't know how to handle it. My emotions say to throw him out and not tolerate this crap. If he could lie to me and gaslight me in that way, why subject myself to this crap longer? But my rational brain is trying to find a way to reconcile it and find forgiveness. Wwyd?! edited to add: I don't think he's cheating. He and friends are going to Lake Tahoe except because of some red flags and Vegas being mentioned in conversation, I have a strong feeling he is lying and refusing to fess up.

When i get married im see if i could exchange wives with the neighbor  What do you call it? Swingers? Ya thats ut

Wives imported from the Filipines, Latin America, eastern Europe, etc..?

I am considering being in a relationship with someone I love deeply who has been my best friend through thick and thin for two years- but I am concerned about our future due to his lack of focus on work. He has a track record of achievement in the military, playing a sport in college, etc. but hasn't consistently worked in two years. He was injured on duty and went through a divorce and really hard time 2.5 years ago (we met not long after his separation). He earns an income due to being injured in war, so his bills are covered and he has been in school. He now wants me to relocate to him, but I'm having concerns. Yes he's in school, but he's been majorly slacking and is lacking in direction. He could easily work in law enforcement & I keep suggesting he take a break from school - especially because he wants us to have a child and buy a home etc. so this would be a way to save. He goes back and forth though. He'll say he may work and quit school, then say he doesn't want more trauma related work- yet won't commit to anything work wise. My concern is yes, he's shown he has discipline through his past choices - but what if he's become lazy and complacent due to a set monthly income? It seems like he got burnt out but thinks that he "could" be disciplined again just because he used to be. Should I give him time, or should this be a huge sign that he may not actually step it up? I don't want to pressure him because he's accepted & supported me through all- thoughts?

i want to be with her :(

Hi so my wife and I are back living together and so are the kids. We have a daughter together and she has a son from a previous relationship which makes him my step son, but long story short I have been abusive to my wife. I never physically struck her, but I have grabbed her, yelled at her and did other abusive things. But I never hit her. Well because of some bad behavior from her 4 year old son, she decided to get him counseling and she told the counselor about our history of abuse and they recommended CPS get involved.  I don't think CPS should get involved because I'm just putting the pieces of my life back together and I'm already stressed. What should I do. I never hurt her son. I only was abusive towards my wife. 

I was taken 6 months ago to Germany for a forced marriage I had no idea about. My parents told me it was gonna be a vacation. I've been suffering for six months and I would like to know how I could leave. I don't have any money and I don't have phone service so I can't call anyone. I have a small iPad and I don't know what to do. I really want to go back to my hometown. I can't live here. Any help is appreciated. Thank you... I'm 24 I'm stuck because my husband won't let me leave the house.

When I cheat on my wife and come home I feel ashamed and guilty .And because of that guilt I treat her really nice and caring . I know I may seem like a bad person but most of the men do the same . To all ladies if your husband comes home and trying to be too sweet there is something fishy . And is cheating actually good for better married life ..?

My Wife Left Almost 2 Months Ago We've Been Married for 6 years....shes seeing some other guy who is a rebound ....my Question is how do I get her back from this rebound ?

There this client who a bag for at super market I work for that always comes through my line to give me a hard time or to gossip she gives me glares not happy with any thing I say and she so rude to me because I don't feel comfortable with her husband and 4 buddies because they make me nervous by grabbing rubbing my shoulders out the blue when I told them I don't like it to strong and I'm not big fan of random strangers doing that they all 5 of them no female tried to help me get dress when I been sexual assaulted didn't get why when they volunteers at coumminty medical center I told the owners it got back them and their wives how unhappy and unsafe I felt with all men assistanting me too I had go for X-ray that why they hurt too and so agressive I thank them but they wouldn't leave they said you need our help it dosent matter to bad what you want I know there where male nurses because most of them are so respectful one of the wife are a piece a work she made a nasty comment about a you guy hat which was plain brown hat with string on it underneath the chain I can't stand them what I do I do they do this every time they come through my line    

I mean ladies who would you want to fly the plane...a beginner? Or and expert pilot