I notice that people are very insensitive to me and often retaliate against me for simply talking about things I've gone through. I have been institutionalized for simply complaining about being stalked, snapped at for mentioning that I was raped when I was 22, and once threatened by a bus driver and the passengers on the bus after mentioning that I've been a victim of child abuse. What is worse is that I'm really lonely because I don't have a boyfriend (and also sort of because I never really had any friends), decent single men never approach me, and married men always flirt with me and bewitch me so that I fall for them even though I don't want to, then start being affectionate and romantic with their wives in front of me, while being extremely rude to me (as in screaming at me and insulting me and laughing at me with their wives/families/friends). Once one of them even told his wife a ton of crap about me, then started laughing and hugging and kissing her right in front of me after she beat me up. Then when I talk about the way these men treat me and let it be known that it upsets me, people call me crazy and tell me that my feelings don't matter and these men have the right to behave this way towards me. I mean what the f*ck is going on? Does the world want me to lose my mind?

My husband says the sex is very boring and I need to spice it up. I don't know how to spice it up, he just wants to lay on his back and not move. He says his back hurts a lot. So that leaves me with blow jobs and girl on top, but I do agree that gets horribly boring... Just awfully boring.

There are members of my wife's family who I can tolerate/enjoy being around and there are members of her family who I cannot tolerate and hate being around. I enjoy her parents' company for the most part as well as her older brother. I don't like her older brother's wife, my wife's sister-who is older- and my wife's youngest brother and his wife. The older brother's wife is shady. My wife's older sister is imperious, demanding, and depressed when she doesn't get her way. She tries to run everyone's life. My wife alternates her beliefs that her sister is being helpful and later says her sister is being pushy, My wife's younger brother thinks that the world revolves around him and we should be at his beck and call. His wife just wants to be a "cool mom" and is afraid of upsetting the apple cart and not being seen as cool. My wife has a sense that I am not crazy about her family. I am wondering if, just to clear the air and.plomatically but honestly communicate my opinions so she knows where I stand and we can work together on resolving these issues. Please let me know and thank you for reading.

I have to nag my husband for him to do anything around the house or generally to help out. He literally makes no effort to throw anything away when he is done with it. He neglects taking the dog out. Vacation planning? Getting the house ready for visitors? All my job. He has no ambition but always finds time to play video games. He is so lazy and I am at my wits end - help!

My friend is married. He's never hugged me in the 2 years we've known each other, not even when the situation called for it. His wife hugs me all the time. She even hugs my boyfriend, I've noticed. Do married men not hug their female friends or is it just how my friend is? I've seen him half-hug a female, but it looked like she initiated it. Do you think he'd find it weird if I tried to hug him one day? Situations such as the loss of a loved one.

Blacks can dance to anything...in general Being black and white, i love dancing. If i marry a nonblack, he might not be able to understand that

Ok, listen up creatures! I don't want my ex! I actually hate him, but the loser contacted me through my YouTube channel and had one of his female friends to request me on fb! But he's married? Why?

In your opinion, if your sister, who claims to be your best friend, go and tells people that my husband touched her when she was sleeping on your couch and that s why she moved out..... but we kicked her out because she was a terrible roomie. Multiple people have told me she said it. Only her ex husband believes her lies. Anyone who knows Logan know he would never do something like that! I haven t decided whether or not to tell her that I know. ALSO! She was sleeping with her daughter on my couch. Her daughter usually slept on top of her. I really hate she s trying to make my husband sound like a cheating creep. Plus, I look much better than her. My parents even said so. Lmfao.

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Ok so she's always been very overbearing, and has to control everything. My husband had a tooth infection and got antibiotics for it..she texts me this special recipe for a mouth wash to help it , which is nice but I didn't ask her and she always says I need to make it for him , and I just said oh ok. I didn't because we don't have the ingredients for it and he won't use it anyways. A few days later she comes over to drop the " mouth wash" .. isn't this kind of ridiculous? lol he isn't a child anymore.

If a woman is abused verbally and slapped often by herr husband; what issues might she have after divorce ?

I've only been married for a week and a half, but my husband and I have known each other since childhood and we dated for several years. Last night when we got into a fight he told me he almost left me for another girl a couple of years ago. I knew her, we were okay friends, but not close. She and I actually have the same name. But I didn't know he had feelings for her and he won't tell me what went on during this period of time that he considered leaving me for her. He just loses his temper. This has never happened to us before. So, I feel sort of lousy. I don't know what I should do. I can't communicate with him, so there's quite literally nothing I can do Should I do something, and if so what? Also, we're both 26, so, it's not as if we're teenagers trying to figure out the mysteries of love. This is just something I don't know how to handle because the communication pipe line isn't flowing.

A girl was married and had a kid. She started dating a new guy two months before she even filed for divorce. She filed for divorce last August and the divorce finalized this August (a year later) all the while dating the new guy since last June. She is now married to new guy. New guy has a dating past of narcissist sosiopathic tendencies. He secures a new girl before he dumps the old one and charms the heck out of each new girl. What is the liklihood that new guys' marriage will last and how long do you guess? What are your thoughts on that divorce timeline and jumping into a random marriage like this also. What does it say about the girl?

My wife is 28 and I am 26. We have never had a very active sex life. It's literally almost none existent and has been the reason of many disagreements. When we do, she insist on a condom being used. I mentioned a year ago about her taking bc so we could avoid condoms and she was hardcore against it saying she wasn't going to take anything that messed with her horomones like that. But now, I jokingly told her to ask her dr about birth control in the morning when she goes. She told me she probably would and has nothing against them and can't recall ever saying she wouldn't use them. She also states that if we had sex, I would still have to use a condom. It's been months and months since last time and I honestly don't even want sex from her anymore cause I am pretty bitter about it. But my question is this, why do you think she changed her mind all of a sudden? Especially when we rarely ever mess around except like 2 or 3 times a year(if I'm lucky). And if you was in my situation, would you spend the money on them for her seeing as it would basically be a waste anyways?

I live with my parents and don't work due being disabled. I'm very dependent on my parents and my boyfriend. If I decide to get married soon, will I lose my disability benefits?