3 of my only friends keep verbally abusing me and even when I ask them politely to stop they never do. About a month ago, it was the last straw for me. One of them out of the three is the one who makes jokes and has the worst attitude and the other two just laugh. He kept telling me to kill myself. Everyone knows it's a sensitive topic for me seeing as how I have already tried before. At first I wouldn't say anything but it just got worse. He started calling me names which is something he has always done but it's worse. People disagree with me and some don't. I have gone through things that no one my age should have to deal with and my friends have something to say every single day and they turn it into a joke regardless of how good I try to be to them. The office found out & told them if they didn't stop then they would take further action & they still continue and my counselor and therapist got together & started talking to me one day at school & asked if I was cool with everything & I ranted literally crying and screaming and basically threatened to kill myself (it was a breakdown) & they didn't call me up there again and still haven't and all of this is still going on & I feel like so much pressure is put on me. So am I really being sensitive or are they right? I need honesty. I tried to end the friendships but it's not that simple. They keep talking to me and have every class with me and I have assigned seats next to all of them and none of my teachers will move me.

Taking **** Beijing my back saying I use her for food, and money etc.. I confronted her, she blocked me! She literally said "try to come back to me when you learn ****** English? why are people so ******* childish these days. We're both in junior! I'm really glad there's people out there who really cares about me, and are defending me. A lot of people like to bring down my self esteem like why? This is like the fourth time. For example, there's this girl who ******* hates me. I didn't do anything to her I barely even talk to her like what the ****, ugh what should I do?? any advice???

I just found out I'm pregnant with a man's baby. He already has a 7 and 3 year old. By two different women and that would make me baby mama #3. What's wrong with that? Well, I am a legal teen. He wants nothing to do with me or the baby now. I am alone and I have no friends or family. I had just applied to go back to school January and of course it never works out how you want it to and I got pregnant. Please give me advice!

This girl I use to work with, she has been gone for a couple of years but we kept in touch online. She and I have had a lot of anxiety and depression issues and lately have been messaging each other. I gave her my number and she gave me hers without asking. She has texted me a couple times first, but a majority is me AND...I'm not the skinniest guy. I am 5 foot 6 in, and weigh around 220 lbs. I did weigh over 280 lbs. over a year ago but stopped eating fast food and lifted weights. However, I still have a double chin, man boobs, belly is smaller but still hangs. She is so beautiful, she said yes to asking her to the movies, but maybe she just sees it as friends. :( I mean, if thats all, I can live with that. I like her. I want her in my life, I hope I'm not ugly to her. She said she's mostly a homebody and said if i want to to hang out anytime. I just got a job as one of the managers in the place I work. I feel confident like I'm not some box boy over his head. I'm someone who handles a lot! She is the most loving girl in the world she works with kids. We've both been through hell but what if I'm too ugly to even get a chance? I don't even know if this is a date!

My best friend and I are both in our early 20s. We've always been straight up until just a few months ago, we realized we fell in love with eachother. My best friend hasn't had many boyfriends as I've had a few in the past. They were never the right ones so I took some time to myself for a while to focus on myself and I realized that I was starting to fall for my best friend. We first tried to kiss and then it lead into making out. We both enjoyed it so it went to more and we have had sexual experiences together and do enjoy it. We are confused because one day we want to have kids but want to do it with a father in the picture rather than a sperm donor. We have talked and I think it's more of the fear of what we are because we've never been gay and have never fallen for another girl and as well as the fear of are we really gay or did we just fall for eachother? Because we still want to be with a guy and a have kids but we also aren't sure are we gonna be happy if we stay best friends but I have a boyfriend and so does she. We have cried over it before but is it we love eachother so much or should we really be together? What do we do if the one thing stopping us is not knowing what it means and what we are.

I switched schools this year. So did my classmate(we finished primary school, which ends at 15 years of age here) I don't want to judge him or sound arrogant, but he's pretty stupid. He's failing almost every subject. Because of this he relies on me to drag him along. He always asks for homework, copies my answers. If he can't do that, he fails. Then he goes to rewrite the test and takes a picture of it, sends it to me and asks me to do it. It even happens during holidays or when I'm resting. This has been happening for a while, but before I made him pay me to do his work,which he did. I don't really want to do that since he probably considers me a friend.. kind of. I don't really consider him a friend. I don't think he's using me tho, but it might be true just a little. Should I keep dragging him along ? Because if I don't, he'll be kicked out of school and blame me. He WONT be able to adapt. I simply know this. He doesn't want to put effort in studying and he's not bright at all. He also has a rotten personality, which is reaally annoying. But he has always treated me good.. I don't really understand why he would want to stay here anyways... Going to a secondary school here is not compulsory- it's a choice. And secondary diploma doesn't hold much meaning by itself... It's basically meaningless, if you don't go to university. There are maaany alternatives to secondary school to those who don't want to go there... He says he'll go to university, but he wont achieve anything by doing this. the point of this is that i'm really annoyed that he wont do anything himself and manipulates me into doing his work.

Like college peers but around some others you think they dont act as shy.

i know that some girls try it once or twice but is this really a common thing for girls to do ?

What happened was that her arms were sore on one day and she wanted me to get her lunch from the cafeteria but on her lunch account. At our school, your picture shows up when you enter your lunch number so I said no because I didn't want to get in trouble as they will know its not me on the picture. Then she said just go its going to be fine but I still said no. I also said I would buy her lunch on my account but i didn't have any money in it or on me. After that she got really mad at me and started ignoring me. I felt really bad and apologized for not getting her lunch but she still wouldn't talk to me or text me back. Today she refused to sit with me during lunch and also kicked me out of a group chat. Honestly, am I at fault? Or is it a stupid reason for her to get mad at me? I just didn't want to get in trouble with the lunch people. Also how do I get her to talk to me again or should I just stop trying? I'm really debating if I should just not be her friend anymore as I have had so much issues with her. Okay so how I would've gotten in trouble is that the lunch lady will know thats not me on the screen as a picture of the owner of the lunch account pops up and she's gonna wonder why I have my friend's lunch account number and I could''t point to my friend as we don't sit in the cafeteria for lunch.

I'm 18, a friend group wants to move into an apartment or a house. At first I thought it was just a pipe dream so I went with it like "haha yeah" but now they're actually serious and I'm getting high key worried. Like, my mom? I'm worried about how she'll take it.. I don't want her to be upset. How do I move without her losing her ****? Shes very attached to me

I am 20 years old and want to live on my own. I live in modesto calufornia. I wnat to luve 9n my own but dont know ehat skills i need. Who can i speak to.

I'm in my senior year of high school and the only friends I have are from elementary school or because my friends introduced them to me. I'm not really good at making friends, and wold like to know what I can do to make more or become better at making friends.

Months ago this guy told me in front of his other friend that he had a crush on me for the longest but I thought he was joking and shrugged it to the side. Fast forward- I had sex with him 4 times so far but during those 4 times it was spread out through the months but I noticed he would still hang out with me without sex. I noticed odd behavior like him showing up where I am unexpectedly, this happened a couple times. He also intiated a hug and I would give him hugs to. He is a little mean to me sometimes (not all the time) and I don't know why but I don't let it bother me. Also when we hang out with other people he gets quiet when i'm around. Anyway, I walked up and him and his other friend were sitting on a chair and I walked up to him and he put his arm around my waist pulling me to sit on his lap and when I pulled away to sit on his friends lap he got mad and when I got up to sit on his lap he didn't want me to signst on his lap anymore so I went back to sit on his friends lap. I'm cool with his friends and I don't see them like that and we all hang out together. Does he like me? And what should I do?

I am a 28 year old guy who is married, but I hang ot with the 14 year old neighbor girl cuz, one I crossdresses wear women's clothing, two she likes the same style clothing as me and share same interests. I don't plan nor ever plan on having sex with this girl, I just hang ot with her at the mall cuz I like her company and we go clothes shopping together. Is there anything wrong for just hanging out and shopping with a minor?

and it turned out badly. I periodically go through my list on FB 'friends' and subtract those I no longer feel I want all up in my biz. And sometimes my a 'friend' will get on my nerves and I block them. This is usually on a whim. I've never had any regrets unfriending or blocking. Well, yesterday I realized this 'friend' I had for a few years wasn't someone I felt I wanted in my life. So I blocked her. Dudette later calls my house and leaves a rant~~ on my LANDLINE~~so long that the machine cut her message off before she was finished! I was walking out the door when the phone rang, so I didn't hear the rant, thankfully. But when I got home, my partner told me a little about it. [I simply deleted the message without listening to it. Why make myself mad over that nonsense, considering just hearing that she did something so immature made me MORE glad I blocked her?] Has anything negative happened to you when you've blocked/unfriended people on social media? This is the first for me.

Hello everybody Am I Wrong to see any sort of Revenge? For the 12 years that I have lived with my aunt you are about I also lived with me always deliberately wanted to fight me and always told me that they didn't like me and wanted to kill me and I always wanted to fight me there were a few times I had to fight for myself and stand up for myself and it would only make things worse. I had to deal with this for 12 years of my life and at this point I don't feel anything I feel numb and I want revenge what should I do some of the things that they have done to me for very very uncalled for choking me throwing me up against the wall thing that they're going to kill and my mom would always tell me that it's okay they're not doing anything and I will tell her this and she just wouldn't listen to me I have no feelings in life anymore and I want revenge what should I do

I am 30 years old, still single, so I tend to have some free time. I find myself bored to tears on weekends because most of my friends have gotten married and are having kids, so no one wants to go on a night out anymore or do fun events. I have many friends in the area but basically no social life because of this. What are some ways I can get a social life again?

My friend is mean to everyone. I feel bad because he has had trouble finding work, but this has resulted in him saying petty remarks about any of our friends or acquaintances success. Any good advice for talking to them? I feel bad but all they do is drag others down.

My roommate does this strange thing, where she opens the bathroom door first (after using the bathroom) then flushes the toilet. THEN, she doesn't wash her hands until moments later. Like, she'll put something in our room (dorm) from the bathroom, then she'll go do something, then she'll wash her hands.

I said "He gets harassed every day I feel bad for him" my friend replies "He's successful in his work, it comes with it" The person being bullied though isn't a jerk, he's genuinely a good person. How do I have this conversation with my friend to show him bullying is wrong?

Help! A girl (Used to be my friend but suddenly got popular) is being so annoying and turning everyone against me! I don t know why though, I didn t do anything! The only person who understands and knows that everything she said was fake is my best friend... but my other good friend seems to see me differently now after all those lies! What should I do?

idk what to do at this point. the world has damaged me so much that they have forced me out of here soon. depression has caught me my entire life. nobody wanted to be friend. nobody likes me. never had a girlfriend. they ignroed me and i was nothing but a ghost to them. i hated school because i was outcasted. complete loner. i remember at 13 i blurted out to my father that i wanted kill myselfg. at that time i never thought of really doing it, but just as an emotional reaction to my dark and hopeless life wish would keep on going til now. and aint shiit changed. thats why i hate people life and everything. i believe in curses. and the supernatural. and idk why im here to allow myself to get bullied by the world. and put through torture. it's like being forced in the corner by the whole world. and im all alone in this world with no love. it's hell on earth. everyday for months i think of either killing myself and/or killing others. people who pissed me off. i cant go on any longer in this cycle. ive ben eduring it all my life. ive given myself a limit. if things dont move still by the end of next year, im capping off. i cant stand it. nothing in life is working in my favor, not even moving. not even just one friend gained, not even just 1 gf, my music "career" still hasnt moved an inch. no fans, not a dollar earned after years of recording and putting out. i swear i never asked for much. just to move even an inch in life. but it wont allow me and im so angry and this whole world of problems and resistance thats keeps pushing me away. it's like i keep paddling thru the ocean trying my best thinking i am closer to reaching the land, reaching the destination. making progress. but it's just never ending for me. there's no land. and it looks the same and when i first started paddling. it's just an ocean leading to nowhere. it all looks the same. point is ive tried pushing so hard, only to see it has taken me nowhere and still nothing accomplished nothing gained and because of all the shortcomings and outcasitng my whole life, my social anxiety has reached an all time high. it's a sickly feeling when i walk through a crowd out somewhere. and my heart gets and uncomfrotaqble sensation. thanks to the trauma and severe depression

idk what to do at this point. the world has damaged me so much that they have forced me out of here soon. depression has caught me my entire life. nobody wanted to be friend. nobody likes me. never had a girlfriend. they ignroed me and i was nothing but a ghost to them. i hated school because i was outcasted. complete loner. i remember at 13 i blurted out to my father. at that time i never thought i really doing it, but just as an emotional reaction to my dark and hopeless life wish would keep on going til now. and aint shiit changed. thats why i hate people life and everything. i believe in curses. and the supernatural. and idk why im here to allow myself to get bullied by the world. and put through torture. it's like being forced in the corner by the whole world. and im all alone in this world with no love. it's hell on earth. everyday for months i think of either killing myself and/or killing others. people who pissed me off. i cant go on any longer in this cycle. ive ben eduring it all my life. ive given myself a limit. if things dont move still by the end of next year, im capping off. i cant stand it. nothing in life is working in my favor, not even moving. not even just one friend gained, not even just 1 gf, my music "career" still hasnt moved an inch. no fans, not a dollar earned after years of recording and putting out. i swear i never asked for much. just to move even an inch in life. but it wont allow me and im so angry and this whole world of problems and reistance thats keeps pushing me away. it's like i keep paddling thru the ocean trying my best thinking i am closer to reaching the land, reaching the destination. making progress. but it's just never ending for me. there's no land. and it looks the same and when i first started paddling. it's just an ocean leading to nowhere. it all looks the same. point is ive tried pushing so hard, only to see it has taken me nowhere and still nothing accomplished nothing gained and because of all the shortcomings and outcasitng my whole life, my social anxiety has reached an all time high. it's a sickly feeling when i walk through a crowd out somewhere. and my heart gets and uncomfrotaqble sensation. thanks to the trauma and severe depression

I had a very close friend I met in grad school. It s my 2nd year in the program and she turned into a huge mean girl. She is now an enemy that uses me when she wants something or has nobody else. The problem is we share friends. She does extremely nasty and passive aggressive things to me every day. It takes so much for me to control my temper. I know if I unload on her, she will either tell people I am crazy, people will turn against me, or people will be hesitant to help me with school work. I hate this girl so much and it takes me so much to not scream at her. I just smile at her instead. She thinks she can walk all over me. I pretend nothing is wrong, because my parents told me its best not to burn my bridges in grad school. I hate her though, I want to start acting like I hate her and I want her to know I hate her. What should I do?

I knew this girl for a year now. Never started out as friends. She told me she liked me various times, (had sex, went out on dates, did a lot of stuff together. One night when we were at a bar she told me she liked me and asked me if I liked her. I told her as a friend. Since then we sort of drifted apart. She went away to study abroad for a month and we sort of drifted apart. I asked her to be my gf when we got dinner when she got back. She denied me and told me she doesnt do fwbs and that she wants to be alone. Since this talk she started texting me more being all flirty. I still treated her as a friend though. So we really didnt talk for a month and The other week we saw each other at a halloween party. She was prety drunk. I told her roommate ill drive the girl I used talk to car back. The roommate agreed and told the girl. She didnt agree. i told her "ur out of ur ****** mind" and that she was ****** drunk. She just shook her head. So i texted her and i feel shes playing stupid, just look for yourself: https://imgur.com/a/XSFfTjN https://imgur.com/a/Rz1UpAP As u can see i texted her that night at 3 AM she never answered.

My best friend and I have been best friends for a year and I care deeply for him but I've realized I've become way too dependent on him, to the point where it's become unhealthy. He has similar mental health issues as I do which is how we became such good friends to start but we deal with it in very different ways. I deal by holding it all in and exploding, not very healthy but I digress, and he handles his issues by... lashing out. He says things that I know he doesn't realize are hurtful but they are. Incredibly so, because every time he says something offhanded I feel like he's going to abandon me like I've been abandoned by people before. Which brings me to my predicament. I know that in order to stay sane I need to step away. Take a breather. Let the both of us cool down. But I also know that he could take it the wrong way because, as I mentioned in my question, he too has issues with being abandoned by people he cares about. I'm also afraid that he'll be glad I'm stepping away and will never want to be friends with me again, but that is probably my irrational side talking. I don't want to lose him because we've admited to each other on several occasions we probably literally couldn't live without each other. Which, again, probably unhealthy but I'm in too far deep to let go now. Any advice on how to handle this?

So I had this best friend for two years. We got on great up until a few months ago I begin hanging with this new girl. My best friend then told me this new girl had bullied her. But she'd only ever tell me whenever I went to hang with the new girl. She told me not to say anything to her, but I did, because she was my best friend. The new girl had no idea what was going on. She confronted my best friend on it and my best friend admitted that she must have mixed it up then everything was okay again. We were all friends. But the more I went out to this new girl, the more crazier the lies got. We got into countless arguments because she would never tell me about this apparent bullying, she would only ever tell me on the days I was going out to her. She told me not to tell her anything so I respected her wishes this time. Just for her to tell everyone that I never stuck up for her despite the fact she told me not to say anything. The thing is, she only ever told me about the bullying when I went out to the new girl. And when I asked her why she'd never tell me before, the answer was always "I forgot" but how do you forget being bullied? What's confusing is, she'd only ever talk about this bullying when I went to hang with the new girl but because I didn't say anything like she asked, she'd talk and be friendly with the new girl, hang out with her and even attend the new girl's birthday. Why would you do that with your bully? Am I just a bad friend?

What happened was that her arms were sore on one day and she wanted me to get her lunch from the cafeteria but on her lunch account. At our school, your picture shows up when you enter your lunch number so I said no because I didn't want to get in trouble as they will know its not me on the picture. Then she said just go its going to be fine but I still said no. I also said I would buy her lunch on my account but i didn't have any money in it or on me. After that she got really mad at me and started ignoring me. I felt really bad and apologized for not getting her lunch but she still wouldn't talk to me or text me back. Today she refused to sit with me during lunch. Honestly, am I at fault? Or is it a stupid reason for her to get mad at me? I just didn't want to get in trouble with the lunch people. Also how do I get her to talk to me again or should I just stop trying?

She's 21, I'm 25, we use to work together. We mostly kept in touch online since she found a different job. I have a crush on her but she just got out of a long term relationship of two years. I texted her asking if she would go with me to see this movie she wanted to see, and she said shed love to! She said she very excited can't wait to Catch up. I'm paying for tickets, she's paying snacks. The past months we've talked about personal things with each other. We're both lonely and she said if I ever want to hang out or grab dinner let her know. I'm excited for this movie thing but is it a date? Do you have to specify it's a date or does it become one? I've never had a girlfriend, she's had boyfriends. I texted her this morning wishing her a good first day back to work (she was sick) and she said I was the best and so sweet

Ive noticed that i've had a lot of male best friends and ive know a lot of them for a while. one of them ive know them for 5 years and another ive known for 3 years. but my female best friend who i have only known for 1 year, is the closest to me out of all of them. Why is that?

We've known each other for two years. Does that mean he is interested in me?

So she and I went out to have fun a jumping place and she was like" can I flirt with guys just for one night?" and I said not a very good idea because she had a boyfriend at the time but she did it anyway. she wanted this guy Instagram so she asked me to talk to him and he was with his friends( who were girls but they were like family to him) and I got it for her. let's call my best friend A and the boy B. all of us started hanging out and I admit this guy was pretty cute and apparently earlier B said I was cute. I became really good friends with them that night and we got along really well. So we are hanging out and getting to know each other better and then A and B start talking. B said A was like a shadow and kept following him but I got really jealous with A hanging out with B, even if B is not mine. they went off to a table and talked leaving the rest jumping and doing tricks, including me. they finally came over and A sat next to B(of course) -_- where we were which was on one of the trampolines and I was so jealous and annoyed so I just left and did rock climbing. before that, I asked A if she wanted to play dodge-ball and she said she doesn't like to play but then later i was "like anyone want to go play dodge-ball?" and B said he would go and A said fine and I said so you won't go if I ask but when B says he would go you come?