Family: Question: Do you go to family get togethers? Are you close to you're siblings? I don't really have a relationship with my siblings.?

Question: Do you go to family get togethers? Are you close to you're siblings? I don't really have a relationship with my siblings.?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 01:46 PM PDT

I've been thinking about not going to family get togethers. I don't really have a relationship with my brother or sister. Sure we have helped eachother out in the past. My sister once lived in the same apartment complex has me for 3 years. I was only invited twice for a get together. We do get along we just aren't close. I've been ignored in the past by them. My sister met her boyfriend who lived in the same apartment complex has me so that's how she moved in. Of course I don't try to call them because they don't call me ever. Now my brother lived 10 mins away and we never talk either. At one point my sister did't talk to my dad for 3 years. My brother didn't talk to him for 2 years. No contact at all everyone is talking again though. Even for fathers day my brother will send my dad a e-mail saying happy fathers day instead of calling or a text. There was a cook out I went to this past weekend at my sisters that I went to. Yes it felt weird because we never talk. It was my first time talking to them since thanksgivimg. My brother and sister don't ever try to call me so why should I try. I do want to stop going to get togethers for good. Would anyone else go if they had no relationship with there siblings?

Question: I just sent my stepdaughter a text have a wonderful day Pops loves you?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 12:36 PM PDT

She calls me Pops. and she texted back with a picture of Mona Lisa what do you think she meant by her response

Question: Why does my mom stay home all weekend and then ask if I want to go to the beach on Monday?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 12:21 PM PDT

It infuriates me I was home all weekend and she did nothing and Monday comes around and asks about the beech? Stupid

Question: Need advice with my mom, please help?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 12:03 PM PDT

I m 20 years old and sexually active. My mom knows this and is fine with it. Recently, I had unprotected sex and was too embarrassed to go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, so I ordered one on amazon. I got my period the day after I ordered it so I didn t even open the package when it arrived. My mom opened my package thinking it was hers, then proceeded to keep it. I m very upset because she opened my mail in the first place, and didn t just leave the package in my room. Since it was a pregnancy test, she took the package and hid it from me. What should I do?

Question: I am very sick and on vacation with my family. I am feeling incredibly guilty about this and don t know what to do to help. Any advice?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 11:44 AM PDT

Question: Did you know when your grandmother gave birth to your father, she actually gave birth to you as well?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 11:38 AM PDT

because you were already a sperm in your dad's testicles. این a way you came out of your grandmother's vagina... Lol

Question: Suicidal hated no mater what i do?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 11:04 AM PDT

I'm a guy 30 and i am hated by the world. Mom and dad hates me, sister hates me and think she is better,despite he fact i have done things for her. Parents defend her on everything, and always have an excuse as of why they treat her better. I have faults and flaw but why hate me? my faults are always brought up. If they ask me to do something, i do what i can to help. I help people if i can, generally nice, and laugh when i talk. Try not to offend people But everybody think i'm some bad person. I guess because i'm tall and Black, and generally keep to myself. But there are other's that aren't hated. Mom says i hate my sister, but i don't, yeah we have had arguments, and she can be rude but i don't hate her. I have done things for her, and have been willing to have a brother sister relationship,but it's obvious she don't want anything to do with me. She can yell at mom, or be rude and it's ok, if i defend myself it's an issue. Now i am hated because i haven't been going to church, i was going to church, but haven't been going because i am not where i want to be in life. So parents and other family members hate me. Though i have been hated, when i was going to church. Dad is ashamed of me, and wants nothing to do with me. I keep the yard cut so he doesn't have to do it. But mom says i hate them. But i try and do what i can to help. Should i kill myself? hard to have confidence when you are hated. I don't feel i need to work on social skills. I generally keep to myself, but don't mind talking to people. Depends on my mood though. My socials skills is just as good as anybody. I'm not trying to be somebody i'm not, just want to accepted for me. I feel i am hated by everybody, maybe i am maybe i am not. But as i said, my social skills is just as good as anybody. Want to be accepted for me.

Question: My uncle's wife is leaving him. For the sake of the children should I still be nice to her?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 10:42 AM PDT

My uncle's siblings including my mother hate her now that the divorce is happening. She has never been one they are particularly fond of but they have been nice for the marriage. Now that she is leaving him they hate her. I got grief for going to the service for my cousins' sake when the soon to be ex's father died in May and I rode out to the funeral with another aunt who is forgiving. My Mom and her other brother boycotted out of hatred and were mad at me for going so now I regret that I went. Should i be nice to this woman for the sake of the 3 children or will they not care if I passionately hate her for my Mom and her family? The son is now with his Dad and my Mom and her family adore him for being Daddy's boy. The daughters are with their mother and so we ignore them. We're civil if we see them but nothing else. My Mom is being loyal to her brother I know but her family has a love/hate relationship with people it seems. They are Italian.

Question: How can I get my sister to come to the family reunion next summer as she blows it off every year like a you know what?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 10:37 AM PDT

She is not a nice person but is still family.

Question: My Dad's sister-in-law wrote to him and said "I love you and I always have". Does this sound like she is trying to start an affair?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 10:37 AM PDT

She has been largely estranged from the family and she and my Dad have not spoken in 2 years. My father made an outreach a few weeks ago but my step-mother, her sister, has remained estranged. The outreach was cause my step-mother found out the sister's son made a suicide attempt. I think my step-mother wants to reach out to the son. She has been accused of being too nice to the sister's husband. Her sister thinks she is trying to hit it on with him. So all this possible romance, does the sister-in-law sound as though she is trying to win my father over with "I love you and I always have"? I can see if he were her estranged brother but it is her sister's husband. Is adultery in the air? PS----I don't think my Dad would sleep with her as he has told me she is a pain in everyone's ***. I know my step-mother's other siblings well but have only met this one twice.

Question: I’m 20 and can’t stay the night at my boyfriends.?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 09:40 AM PDT

i am 20, in college, i get good grades, i work, i pay my phone and car insurance, and give my mom money for groceries. i don't go out and party, or do drugs anything bad. i've NEVER been that way. but my mom will NOT let me stay the night with my boyfriend. i am the baby of the family so it's always been like this with anything! it's so frustrating because my mom won't let me stay with him. we are both responsible and i'm on birth control as well if that's what she's so worried about. my boyfriends is about an hour away. and since we both work and have things to do during the week, we usually just wait for the weekends to spend time together and hangout. we usually switch off, i go see him he comes and sees me. but it sucks having to leave at 11:30 or midnight and make the drive home because my mom won't let it happen. i really want to stay with him. especially since right nice i'm on summer break, and once the semester starts things will get a little more difficult. i don't know what to do!

Question: So... my older brother touched me once?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 09:23 AM PDT

he thought i was sleeping, stand over me and then touched my butt, i moved a bit so he d go away. it was really creepy. i didn t tell this to anyone, and it was like 3 or 4 years since then. he was out of city for a year and now he s back, my parents and grandma always tell me to spend time with him together, but i m uncomfortable around him... i wanna tell somebody, mom will probably understand, grandma won t. but i don t know if i wanna paint him this way, cause he s a good guy... please help, i m so lost (english isn t my first language, sorry for grammar and spelling mistakes)

Question: My Dad likes to get mad at me and raise his voice if I am upset about something making me anxious. How do I correct this ignorance in him?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 09:23 AM PDT

I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and OCD

Question: Does this mean she missed me?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 09:02 AM PDT

I've been overseas for a while (visiting). I was FaceTiming my mom and she started crying, her face looked normal but her eyes started watering and she was wiping her tears away. Was she crying because she missed me?

Question: My cousin is 14 and in 3rd grade(not joking)?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 08:55 AM PDT

How is this normal? He'll be like 27 in 12th grade lol the heck

Question: Moving out of parents home?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 08:28 AM PDT

Hi there, I'm 25 m, I have enough in savings (~80k) and would like to move out of my parents house and move to another state to live freely and pursue my career. My parents are concerned, and would prefer I stay at home until marriage. What am I missing out on if I don't move out and stay with my parents? - self confidence? - self dignity - pride etc?

Question: How much of a culture shock will my daughter go through moving from a large city to small town?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 08:06 AM PDT

So my husband and I and are 4 year old daughter are moving from Melbourne Australia to a small town in Canada with a population of about 15,000 people. My daughter will be starting preschool there and my husband got a job there. We always have lived in Melbourne city all our lives.

Question: Should I keep helping my ex mother in law?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 07:36 AM PDT

I got a call from my former mother in law Pam asking for my help moving programs and data from her old computer to her new one. I really liked her when I was married to her daughter Lisa so I agreed to help her. She offered to pay me but I told her I don't charge friends for my help. Much to my surprise about a week later I got a call from Lisa asking me not to help her mother any more. She said her mom should be calling her current husband for help, not me. I told her that I would have a hard time not helping a friend that asked for help. About 6 months later I got a call from Pam asking from my help again to get her computer up and running. I told her about what her daughter Lisa ask me to do. Pam said Lisa had told her the same thing and she ask Lisa's husband for help with her computer and he fouled it up so bad it would not boot up. I went to her house and fixed her computer problem. I am having second thoughts about helping Pam again. Am I going to cause Pam a problem with her daughter or is her relation with her daughter none of my business? What would you advise I do in the future? THANKS.

Question: How do I deal with uncaring sister-in-law?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 07:16 AM PDT

over the past 2 years both my wife & now my daughter have dealt with major health issues. My sister-in-law lives and works 20 mins and even while my daughter was hospitalized never comes by or calls to check on her niece but she came by when she needed to borrow money. Its disappointing - but I think now just best to wright her off like we have no family here..is that the right approach?

Question: Do you talk to you're siblings? Do you go to family get togethers? How often do you talk to you're simblings?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 07:09 AM PDT

I have 1 brother and 1 sister. I'm the oldest and I really don't have a relationship with them. When family get togethers come I think why should I go. My brother lives 10 mins away and we never see eachother. My sister used to live close by and we never seen eachother either. Just at family get togethers. There is no drama between us. We can get along. We have helped eachother out in the past when we needed it. Still though I decdided to move on from family get togethers.

Question: Grandparent troubles?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 07:08 AM PDT

I have a little girl that I adopted from my husband and even before we got married, I knew his parents were overbearing. Specifically his mother, unfortunately. So during the day, while my husband is working, my daughter is here with me and we have a schedule for how we do things, I found that it was the best way as she preferred a schedule as well. We get up at 7, she has her medicine, she gets changed then we have breakfast with her having juice with some of her medicine in it. I've been doing this ever since I have adopted her and it worked very well. Just this past weekend, my in-laws wanted to see her. No big deal, they love their granddaughter to death and it gives me a bit of time to relax and not be worried about whether my little girl is getting into something she shouldn't. She left my home, Friday evening and came home Sunday evening. When she returned, my husband put her to bed, because it was late and she did something she has never done before, she threw a fit (the scared kind) when we turned off the light. Of course, I'm baffled because she's never ever done this before, shes always been very brave/indifferent to things like that. She wouldn't go to sleep for hours, it was the first time in a very long time that I had to hold her and sooth her to sleep. Monday, today actually, I found out that not only do her grandparents have blackout curtains over the windows in her room now, but they give her a pacifier and a bottle at bed time. I'm lost. I don't know whether to stop allowing them to see my daughter, or to make another attempt to enforce rules (because right now, my little girl is upset because she has milk in a sippy cup rather than a bottle and that isn't exactly acceptable). My husband is irritated about it and is just as lost as I am. Any suggestions?

Question: What should i do about my mam?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 05:36 AM PDT

My mam and dad split up 5 months ago they were together 12 years but my mam got a new boyfriend and is prwgnant by him but i told her that i hated that guy but she still got oregnant and went out with him knowing i couldnt stand him and i dont trust him ehat should i do

Question: Is it normal to feel uncomfortable when hugging your mom ?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 05:18 AM PDT

I am 20 years old and I have been living with my mom throughout my whole life. I do remember being more cuddly with my mom when I was younger, by the time I was 11 I was still giving her kisses on her cheek or forehead and hugging her good night. But as I can remember, I got older and sort of stopped giving her hugs and kisses cause in some way I got over it , to be honest my mom isn't that type of person who will give us hugs if we ever do something good. Or really is the person to give us hugs for whatever reason. But I'm actually much more comfortable giving my grandma hugs than my mom . Now it's really awkward to hug my mom , I am a girl but still feels uncomfortable. Is it me or is it my mom that sort of caused the awkwardness in the relationship.

Question: Would you be hurt if your niece/nephew or cousin did not invite you to their wedding, even if it was ONLY for immediate family, bro/sis,etc?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 05:07 AM PDT

Would you be mad or upset or hurt if your cousin or niece/nephew didn't invite you to their wedding, and they only invited their parents and brothers/sisters? Seems a lot of family can't understand this and feel slighted, but I don't understand why.

Question: Should I tip off my Mom's sister that her family is planning an intervention on her?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 04:54 AM PDT

Her sister has something wrong psychologically. No one knows what but she does have narcissistic tendencies and mood swings. She has even turned on one of her children. After a temper tantrum she through when she was in town for a funeral in April the family has decided to do an intervention like another aunt did on her alcoholic husband ten years ago (and it worked and he is 10 years sober). Meanwhile this aunt oddly likes me and has me on the Facebook site. I think I feed her ego by staying in touch but I just do cause I grew up playing with her kids, including the son she has turned on. She's divorced so there is no husband involved. So do I tip her off that her 3 siblings and mother are planning a family intervention with help from her aunt (another recovered alcoholic)? She thinks they are getting together for lunch next Saturday.

Question: I have enough money to move out of my parents house in the next year or two but where should I leave and how do I do it secretly?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 04:46 AM PDT

Hello people, I am currently a 17 year old man that lives in London. now I've saved up around 500 pounds so far in these last two months and I want to move out of my parents house, I cannot stand them and I absolutely hate all of my family, I believe I can save up enough money in the next years so money is not a issue, but the issue is that I need your guys advice, how would I secretly move out of the country and live somewhere else without my parents acknowledgement and if you guys could suggest any country I could move to to start a new life and leave my parents and family and never know them again, then please tell me.

Question: Advice/Help? MIL takes pics of only fiance and baby together and didnt ask me to be in any of them!? Am I right or wrong to feel this way?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 04:38 AM PDT

Myself and my technically m-i-l never had the best relationship for way too much to type. Regardless my fiance was in jail for 3 mos for a stupid probation violation and his mom asked to visit. We went over to my parents and she came over to see him and my daughter since he just got out of jail this past week. This is the first time she seen him since he got out but I let her see our daughter a couple times when she asked to see her.. she never took any pics of me holding our daughter or asked me if she could! She also told him to smile and look at the camera after saying "I want to get a picture of your and Natalie " then ahe proceeded to take atleast 5 pics of my fiance holding our babygirl. I was livid because I waited to see if she would ask to take a pic of our FAMILY together and she just sat back down after clearing her throat!! Would anyone else be annoyed, irritated and offended or is it just me? My fiance didnt ask me to get in any pictures either and didn t seem annoyed. He got annoyed when I brought it up and wouldn t agree or disagree with me. He said he wouldn t care if it was the other way around (my Mom only taking a pic of me and my baby and actually saying it out loud without inviting him in and telling him to get in since we are a FAMILY!!! Am I right or wrong here?

Question: Is it normal to ignore my step dad like this?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 12:21 AM PDT

I'm 14 and live with my mom and never visit my dad he has had like 5 wives or something and has a lot of kids and probably doesn't care about me. I moved in with my step dad when I was about 2 years old and he always seemed nice to me when I was little. Around when I was 11 he started yelling at me if I did something stupid or because of some random thing. I think it was normal because I was growing up but he would always act like he is in charge and I don't like that because he is not my real dad and I have no connection with him, nor do I ever want one. He owns some weird hypnosis buisness in my house and he gives me a weird vibe. Whenever I'm doing something or pass by him I know he looks at me but I ignore him. I hate how he would always yell at me and get so mad so now I just ignore him and love my mom like always because she has done everything for me. If she were to die honestly I would kill myself so I don't have to live with everyone I hate. My mom means everything to me and no one else does besides my grandparents.

Question: Ad died in June 1970 and want yto connect with his family still in Italy entirely estranged by Moms side and my siblings/?

Posted: 09 Jul 2018 12:07 AM PDT

Question: Why does my mom call sex gross though she has had 8 children and she is married?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 11:44 PM PDT

She also sees her hubby naked all of the time.

Question: My estranged father is trying to connect with me, what do i do?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 11:18 PM PDT

so classic story. my father was absent most of my life, and when he was there he was abusive in every way. i haven't seen him in 5 years. a few of my other siblings have a relationship with him. i have never called this man "dad," he made it quite clear a very long time ago that he does not like me - i always thought he hated me. my sisters all think it's because i'm not a boy.. anyway, last year my mom got ahold of him and told him things about me - what i was doing w my life, where i was going to school, where i was working, etc. it upset me because i felt that if i wanted him to know things about me, then i would tell him myself. he started sending me money. so i wrote him emails, thanking him. i was polite, appreciative, and direct; always leaving out his name altogether, and never signing love. i don't love him. i hardly know him. he bought me a plane ticket to go home for the holidays. he didn't know my birthday or my middle name. i don't care about money, i appreciate it, but it isn't love. when i was a kid he would hurt me, and then buy me something, and send me home to my mom seemingly happy. i am not a little kid anymore, and i will not stand for the abuse. what do you think? he keeps sending me emails... i guess he wants to try again. i am so hurt i'm so many ways. all my life he's hated and hurt me, and now he wants to pretend it's never happened?

Question: Who do you love more? Mom or Wife?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:52 PM PDT

Question: I caught my little brother masterbating... I wouldn’t have really a problem with it but it was on the family couch.?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:43 PM PDT

Question: I caught my little brother masterbating... I wouldn’t have really a problem with it but it was on the family couch.?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:40 PM PDT

Question: What should you do if your husband told you that the teenage boy next door keeps calling him gay, making him break down in tears?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:21 PM PDT

Question: How do I deal with a disrespecting sister?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:20 PM PDT

My sister for a while has been nothing but disrespecting to me and my family, she had talk's over me very time I have something to say, tell me what I could have said and act like she know better than me and that anything I say is wrong or need to be says different. She had been hanging out with the wrong crowed of people who are teacher her to tell swear and act rude to family members. She even start to question the authority in the house. My Dad does nothing to tell her to stop and my mom just make things worst by yelling and blaming. I love my sister, I know she can be a good person but I just don't know what to do, she getting to a point were I just don't want to be or hang out with her anymore. Please tell me what I should do, I really feel like I'm losing my sister and the person she becoming is not someone I like at all.

Question: Mom told me I would be a lot prettier if I would take care of my skin. Is she telling me I'm not pretty or what?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:18 PM PDT

Question: I'm a JACKASS, PLEASE help me?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:10 PM PDT

I'm 16 and my life has been hard since My mom kicked me out. I say we've had a rough relrelationship since the beginning because she is unstable and shes mean. My grandma and my elderly aunt thats 85, have taken me under their wing since, and they support me with everything a kid needs and doesnt need. They bought me a car fpr 2k since I needed one. (Im paying then off as I work my job) I would say they try their best to do everything for me even though WE even have a few problems. But I think most of the issues is me. Im a JACKASS. I feel horrible. My elderly aunt I feel is annoying sometimes and I have to repeat myself to her about a million times and I try my best to not give attitude and I still act like an asshole. I scream and yell. My attitude is out of control. I feel like she treats me like a baby and I tell at her constantly for that. Other times I think about what I have done and I want to break down and cry. I dont know how to deal with this and I dont know how to stop my anger issues. I love my family and I feel like I'm giving them a living hell. Can someone please help me

Question: Mom wants a divorce but my dad brings home all the money. Any help?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 10:01 PM PDT

Question: My Divorced Parents?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 09:34 PM PDT

I remember being 10 years old, all of a sudden my parents stopped kissing each other, hugging, sitting next to one another and so on. My mom, my little sister and I started going on vacations without my dad and they only really talked to each other about the bills and stuff like that. They used to really love each other. When I was little my mom used to say "marry a man like your father" and my dad used to tell me to go tell my mom that he loved her and more cheesy crap like that. Although now. about four years later they announced to us that they were going to get a divorce. I am not shocked like my sister was and unlike her i did not cry, begging them to stay together. I am in a way relieved. them living in two different houses is going to be better for everyone. even though my little sister is a little two young to fully understand. I used to hate being at home and all I wanted to do was go to school, which is saying something because i hate school lol. I used to come home to hear my mother complain to me that my father drinks too much or my mother nags and complains too much and although I agree with both of those statements it was completely unnecessary to tell me all about it. I used to feel like **** when my mom would complain to her friends in front of me about my dad and it just makes her look like a jerk. I hate it when my dad calls my mother calls my mother a *****. yeah, she is a ***** but she's my mother so keep that to yourself. Thanks for letting me vent. Now they are trying to one up each other which is kind of good for me because my dad is buying me a puppy and my mom is letting me sleep in her giant basement and she's also buying me a ping pong table. I could get used to this.

Question: Is it bad that I don’t drive a lot?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 09:09 PM PDT

I turned 16 almost a year ago and really haven't driven much. I have some serious confidence issues when it comes to driving because I worry so much about what I'll do wrong. So driving for me is stressful and anxiety inducing. I haven't found myself being greatly affected by not driving a lot because I really have no reason to drive much yet. My dad teaches at my school so there's my ride to and from school. I don't go out with friends a whole lot because I'm not much into the same they like. Me and my family go on shopping outings together so I have no reason to drive myself to the mall. I hardly ever find myself needing something from the store. My mom orders her groceries and picks them up on her way to her job so I never need to run errands for them like most teens. I work with my mom so I always have a ride to work with her. I don't mind driving when I need to but since it isn't often I don't much. This gets me lots of problems with my friends who are annoyed with my lack of driving. I feel like it doesn't make sense for me to drive constantly but what's your opinion?

Question: Should I tell my parents that an 18 year old guy likes me and I just finished 7th grade?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 09:02 PM PDT

He doesn't catch on or leave people alone. My friends at his Highschool say he's known for going after 6th-8th graders who look really grown up and developed. I am not the first one he's gotten into. At first, he made small talk with me. I thought he was really nice and offered to give me stuff. When he started acting weird, I gave small hints that I'm uncomfortable. He doesn't get it, as if he cannot read body language. This guy ignores the hints or maybe he truly does not catch on. He just graduated senior year very recently. At some point he wanted me to attend after-prom and another party with him (but my parents said No, so I couldn't).

Question: My brother is abusive and my mom won't do anything about it?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 08:54 PM PDT

Everyday my brother curses and yells at me and my mom and I really can't take it anymore. I tell my mom she needs to do something about it but she just says "there's nothing i can do" and then she complains about all the **** he does to me. I hate my life so much and i feel like there's nothing i can do since I'm only 14. My mom works all day and then when she comes home my brother and her get into an argument that always lasts for hours. My uncle will take him but my mom says that she wants to send him to live with someone who will make him better not worse. So she basically just lets him get away with it every time... She keeps brushing it off and it's killing me. I can't take it anymore. She keeps complaining about him and then when i tell her to do something about it she starts being mean to me. This has been going on for so long.. i really want to die Thank you to the person who responded. I know that no one here can really help me but I guess i just needed a place to rant Thank you for the advice but I do online school so there's no one i can talk to

Question: What should I do about my friend?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 08:15 PM PDT

So I'm 18, my friend is 18, and I live with my dad. My friend, who I'll call A for privacy, just moved in with me last month when her dad kicked her out. Cool I guess, I didn't want her not being sure where she'd stay. She never offers food or drink to anyone. Now, I grew up in a southern family, so I was taught to always offer food. She grew up a few miles away from me, and she wouldn't even offer my dad a wafer bar or chocolate when he was having a diabetic episode. Up until we became broke (lol) we'd get people to buy us UV Blue and wine coolers and we'd have so much fun watching movies and getting drunk. But since we haven't done that in a few weeks, she's become BOY CRAZY. I say boy crazy in that she talks to a guy in the morning while she smokes, everytime she goes out on our porch to smoke, and then for the hour or two at night after she comes home before we go to bed. Now I get it, she's probably hypersexual, but she keeps on gushing at me that they're soooo cute and she loves them, then she has sex with them, breaks up, and then is back when them 3 days later. Rinse and repeat. She also virgin shames me, even though I've chosen not to have sex from a sexual assault I had as a child. But she calls me a "child" and "pure" to her boyfriend and takes pictures of me without my permission and sends it to them. What do I do? We're going to the same college soon and I hope she moves out, but what do I do about A until we move into college on August 12????

Question: Why does my mom bully me?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 07:26 PM PDT

Like 90 percent of stress and anger come from my mom. Like since 7th grade she pressure me to be thin and she hit me and call me names. I was socially akward because mom made me nervous. And i asked her now why i dont have friends she said to me " i was a virus". It hurts a lot. Why is my mom mean? Why didnt she try to be positive but she just insults me? She use to call me cow and mooo and insult the way i look and smell but i was 13. Now im 16 and thin but she screams at me not to gain weight. Why cant mom let me enjoy life?

Question: Why does my dad not want me?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 07:14 PM PDT

My whole life has been a **** show. My dad is an alcoholic and doesn't realize the repercussions that follow his actions. My mother is narcissistic and believes that I have to be the perfect daughter (but I am unable to fit her standards). I have dealt with depression on and off for a couple of years, although my mother is completely oblivious to what is going on. My father also doesn't notice how much he has hurt me in my life starting with abuse, his drinking, seizures, and attempting suicide. Also, throughout my lfie he has said to me (sober) that he doesn't want me beacuse I am not worth his time. My parents have gotten a divorce when I was four years old, which caused me to grow up independently and have to become mature at a young age. Life is incredibly difficult and when my own dad doesn't want me it makes it that much harder. My father has always mentioned how he wanted to spend less time with me and not see me as often, and currently he has gotten his wish. He has rejected me and pushed me out of his life, and even though he has done indespicable things to me and ruined my childhood with his putride drinking and wrong doings, I consistently and incoherently am drawn back to him. I want nothing more in my life than for my dad to love me, why does he have an inability of wanting me?

Question: What's wrong with my son ?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 07:10 PM PDT

My son 3 soon to be 4 in September lately he's been really worried about his mom. She's back with her ex boyfriend the one she had before she met me. He said he can hear her and her now fiancé having sex he said he can hear her crying and screaming he said that it sounds like he's being too rough and hurting her. He was very abusive to her the first time which is why she left him but she said he's getting better and hasn't hurt her lately. Even though he's almost 4 he's really smart for his age. He was crying yesterday because his mom had a baby he didn't want to leave her side at all. The other day we were coming home from lunch she and him were sitting in the back the song Tough Little Boys by Gary Allen came on the radio he was hugging her he wouldn't stop crying or let go of her until the song was over. He's even old enough to understand what these kind of songs mean. I don't know if he's afraid of loosing her or he might be a mommy's boy. I don't know what's going on with him. He just started this he's never done it before. What's wrong with him ? Is this normal for a kid ?

Question: My 14 year old brother is so mean to my mom?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 07:08 PM PDT

He's always cursing at her and calling her names. And anytime I try to get him to stop he tells me "shut the **** up no one's talking to you". I've fought him a couple him a couple times but whenever i do my mom always freaks out and says stop.. He thinks he's tough and in intimidating because he's 6'1".. I don't know what I can do. It's ****** up my mom has to be treated like this and no relatives will take him. My dad died when we were little so it's just me, my mom and him. Our neighbors hate us since our walls suck and they can always hear him yelling.. what do i do?

Question: What's wrong with my dad? Can I motivate him?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:53 PM PDT

He's 63 but the thing is he never wants to do anything. Ever. It isn't really a recent thing, it's been at least 5-8+ years that I've been aware of it. He's never had any hobbies. No real interests. He likes to sit and watch TV. Sometimes he takes walks. But if it involves money he's out. He quit his job a few years ago but he's always been weird with money like that. It just stinks like when we're on vacation he would rather sit in the car or sit in the hotel room while the rest of us go out. I can't get him to participate in anything. Even if I offer to pay for it he won't want to go. He has excuses for any activity .. "might get hurt".. "might damage something"..."it's a scam"... etc.. the guy is NO FUN EVER. He is supposedly healthy and totally fine. I just wish he had interest in something rather than watching TV and sitting all day. Any ideas how to motivate him? I wonder if he's depressed. He says he wants to live to 70 then he's ready to die. What a weird comment.

Question: Should I contact her again?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:47 PM PDT

I was in a student film for the director's final. I was in a small scene, but still. The student film was filmed on June 18th. I avoided contacting her because I thought I would be a pest, but I contacted her on July 1st about when the film would be completed. She said that she's almost done with it and that it would probably be done by the middle of the week. I said okay. It's June 7th now and still nothing. I'm very anxious and I want footage of the film. I want to contact her again, but again, I don't know if I would be a pest. Should I contact her again? What should I do??

Question: My mom wears tight jeans which shows her ***..I’m not that pervert..but she has a nice , round , thick ***...Men even look at her butt?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:41 PM PDT

Question: My sister has lymphoma, how do I stop being so jealous of the attention she is getting?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:34 PM PDT

I am 16 and female. Asking on here so I can ask anonymously and not be judged. Even my birthday last weekend sucked as all the attention was on her being hospitalized after fainting. I know she can't help it but I am jealous. How do I get over my jealousy? I am even a little resentful of her. The sister taking up all the attention is older, 22.

Question: I hosted a party with the family 2 weeks ago and felt disappointed after that I wasn't relaxed. How do I change my perspective on it?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:32 PM PDT

About half of the party was still good. It was 50-50. I am obsessed a lot that it was a let down as I looked forward to it all spring. How do I change my perspective so I can consider it a good day even if it wasn't great? Can half be good when half is just as much bad? Please help

Question: Would you let the dog sleep in bed with your son?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:17 PM PDT

Question: Sexual abuse?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:17 PM PDT

I was molested by my stepdad at a very young age. He was the only father figure I had known and has always been dad to me and the first time it happened I was 5. I don't remember much from it, just certain moments that stick to me. My parents seperated and my siblings and I used to spend the weekends with dad. I don't want to get into the details of it but I told my mom and i just wasn't allowed to stay the night anymore. My question is about me. For so many years, I locked it up inside myself and continued having a relationship with him. The subject had never been talked about, it was just quietly swept under the rug and that's where it remained. Every once in a while, those walls I built come crashing down and I feel so much anger and shame and hurt but strangely enough it was all directed at my mom. I'm confused on why I continued to have a father/daughter relationship with him. My question is, why?? Why did I continue having a relationship with him? Why did I have so much anger towards my mom? I know I need help, I know I need counseling. I have a child of my own now and I have never allowed him to stay anywhere without me. I stopped working because I'm terrified of letting someone else watch him and have something happen to him. I would never forgive myself if it did.

Question: My father is trying to connect with me, what do i do?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:05 PM PDT

so classic story. my father was absent most of my life, and when he was there he was abusive in every way. i haven't seen him in 5 years. a few of my other siblings have a relationship with him. i have never called this man "dad," he made it quite clear a very long time ago that he does not like me - i always thought he hated me. my sisters all think it's because i'm not a boy.. anyway, last year my mom got ahold of him and told him things about me - what i was doing w my life, where i was going to school, where i was working, etc. it upset me because i felt that if i wanted him to know things about me, then i would tell him myself. he started sending me money. so i wrote him emails, thanking him. i was polite, appreciative, and direct; always leaving out his name altogether, and never signing love. i don't love him. i hardly know him. he bought me a plane ticket to go home for the holidays. he didn't know my birthday or my middle name. i don't care about money, i appreciate it, but it isn't love. when i was a kid he would hurt me, and then buy me something, and send me home to my mom seemingly happy. i am not a little kid anymore, and i will not stand for the abuse. what do you think? he keeps sending me emails... i guess he wants to try again. i am so hurt i'm so many ways. all my life he's hated and hurt me, and now he wants to pretend it's never happened?

Question: How to deal with an uncivilized, lunatic father who is always yelling, bullying, threating physical abuse even when it is unwarranted?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 06:02 PM PDT

Question: Should I confront my father ?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 05:57 PM PDT

So my father and mother have been together for 30 years my dad seems to think anything related to my mother is a favor his doing to my siblings and I , taking her grocery shopping for her to cook for him picking her up from work when she helps him financially when his sick take care of him over the course of their relationship he had a affair wich resulted in a child, he never told my mother about this we found out one day he never apologized and instead got mad no one was allowed to bring it up growing up my dad has always left the house for long periods of time example 7:30am to 4pmbefore my mom arrives from work never answers his phone never says where he goes when we ask him he gets defensive this schedule has been for years my father is not honest I always catch him in his lies make up lies that their is no logic to I feel he has an affair, he refers to my mom and my Siblins and I responsibility because he says his busy , please if anyone has had this situation and has any opinions I would love to hear I can't continue to keep seeing this it's not normal thank you

Question: Fiances mom takes pictures of my fiance and our 8 month old daughter together while I am right there and never tells me to get in pictures?!?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 05:42 PM PDT

Myself and my technically m-i-l never had the best relationship for way too much to type. Regardless my fiance was in jail for 3 mos for a stupid probation violation and his mom asked to visit. We went over to my parents and she came over to see him and my daughter since he just got out of jail this past week. This is the first time she seen him since he got out but I let her see our daughter a couple times when she asked to see her.. she never took any pics of me holding our daughter or asked me if she could! She also told him to smile and look at the camera after saying "I want to get a picture of your and Natalie " then ahe proceeded to take atleast 5 pics of my fiance holding our babygirl. I was livid because I waited to see if she would ask to take a pic of our FAMILY together and she just sat back down after clearing her throat!! Would anyone else be annoyed, irritated and offended or is it just me? My fiance didnt ask me to get in any pictures either and didn t seem annoyed. He got annoyed when I brought it up and wouldn t agree or disagree with me. He said he wouldn t care if it was the other way around (my Mom only taking a pic of me and my baby and actually saying it out loud without inviting him in and telling him to get in since we are a FAMILY!!! Am I right or wrong here?

Question: Why is my life like this and how do I change it.?

Posted: 08 Jul 2018 05:39 PM PDT

Starting from the beginning I was born in a bad neighborhood without a father. My mom believes she and my sister are cursed because they got fat and have acne and bad lives. I am smart but lazy which is what made me fail 4th grade online. Now I tell my friends that preschool put me in school late to explain me being a year older. My mom also never got her drivers license so my whole life I have walked miles to where I need to go. The first day of school I had to walk 3 miles in snow and cold. We are also poor. We have no family at all and my mom never graduated college so she can't even get a good job. My sister is the worst of allMy sister makes me suicidal she recently graduated hs and now lives with us since she never tries to get a scholarship. All day she is in her room and doesn't clean anything while I try to make our house look decent. Keep in mind I am 15 and she is 21. I had gotten two cats two years ago but one of them got pneumonia and has been sick since we got her. At school it's so hard for me. Everyday I see those rich kids who have no idea how Good they have it. I try to fit in and fake everything. I pray to god they don't ask me how old I am or driving somewhere or where my 21 year old sister goes to college. I'm so depressed because my mom and my sister get along so well. It gets harder and harder everyday arguing against two adults then seeing my friends and acting like I wasn't just called an asshole or jackass or "it". I think about suicide so often