I will be getting married next year to a wonderful man who already owns a home. My parents are telling me that I should own a home before I get married, even if I will be moving in with him. They say I will regret it later if I don't. Can someone explain that to me?!??

I hate that my fiancé watches porn and he knows it. A few months back, I tried to be open minded and watch it together during sex. He wouldn't even look at me during sex, only the porn and other women. I tried to lean in and kiss him, and he pushed me away. It made me feel so small and unloved. It made me feel like we were disconnected and hurt me. I tried my best to be understanding and watch it with him but now it's affecting our intimacy. I don't want our sex to be like this for the next 50 years if I marry him.. I deserve to feel beautiful and loved. The sex felt so cold like I wasn't important

I am skinny/average natural blond. He's very attracted to me and we have a phenomenal sex life. I recently discovered he had put an ad out on craigslist a while ago looking to fulfill his "fantasy". I've always been in shape (not a gym kinda person, just hard working outdoorsy girl) and so has he. I'm struggling to see how he could fantasize about someone so opposite from me yet still be attracted to me. He claims he was never really going to go through with it but I have my doubts. I've even considered finding him a woman to fulfill that fantasy, maybe even participating...but I don't think that will magically make his desire go away.