I'm in the worst relationship I've ever been. I'm engaged to a man who physically and verbally abuses me. He is bipolar and doesn't want to take medication. I'm treated like crap and I'm ready to leave. I cant communicate with him because he cuts me off and calls names. He said it's all my fault that he treats me this way because I'm the one who escalated it when I don't. I can't get a word in. Today he physically tried to pick me up and throw me out of the house without letting me grab all of my things. I want to do it when he's at work so I can leave a short letter and grab my all my things. Is the best way to end it?

My husband decided to start having a full relationship with a stripper. She had a daughter that is not his she had already had the little girl. Anyways they would go put and do family things and he would help watch her from time to time. I found out about this and it has ended. I love kids and know that with her line of work and the stories my husband has told me random people come and going. I feel bad for this child . Should I call this women and tell her that i could help when she needs help but that she is not to contact my husband at any point. My husband is no longer in love with this mistress and wants nothing to do with her but we want to help out the baby. These are all very fresh wounds . What should i do?

i gave birth to her 5 months ago and she looks nothing like me and my husband has had multiple affairs. i really think he had a baby with another woman and now he's trying to make me take care of her. i'd be heart broken to know if she's not mine but i don't want to be the mother of a baby that belongs to someone else.

This girl has always hated me and hated her life so she took away all my happiness, and everything that is good inside me. I have never done anything to her. she was a girl in our group of friends and everyone never liked her because she was a *****. I want revenge so much I don't know how to let it go. I imagine myself doing terrible things to her and doing things to mess up her life. How do I let this pain go, I try so hard but I can't

On big fat gypsy wedding they where like 15-16-17

Look I know a lot of troll questions get asked on here but this is an honest question and I need answers I'm a gypsy and in my culture girls aren't really taught about sex only boys and girls don't have sex until there married at around 16-17 and the men don't even explain to there brides they just rape them on there wedding night thankfully my married friends have told me about sex so I know what to expect when I get married 2 days after my 16th birthday but there to embarrassed to explain what it feels like and I wanna know I doubt my husband will be gentle about the matter

And she always be relying on other people; like she needs to fend for herself.

I have been working with my husband for 2 years. I told him not to smoke marijuana with the employees (he's a director) as it would not look professional, about 3 weeks ago. Last Friday & Saturday, he smoked marijuana, in the office, for the 1st time, with them. I told him that it is NOT a good thing, but really doesn't care about my opinion and confirmed it by saying that he doesn't need to ask me. My colleagues asked me if i wanted to smoke, in front of my husband & director, but i said "no".

We agreed not to get each other anything. We have been together for over a year. I spent my Christmas money all on my kids from my previous marriage (5 and 9) and didnt get my girlfriend anything because she said not to and that she wasnt getting me anything. Is this ok?

Hello, all! Just thought I d ask the above question because I m not able to find much about it here and there on the internet. Do you groom your spouse and/or does your spouse groom you? By grooming I mean a few examples, such as picking acne, lathering lotion on your body, insisting on clipping your nails for you, or even clearing out your ears with q-tips? My wife INSISTS on doing these things for me and to tell you the truth, I love it! No, it s not like I don t know how to do these things myself, trust me, I have great hygiene! What she says is she loves to do it and she reads it as a form of acceptance from me, so by all means, I let her do what she fancies! I ve never heard of another couple speak openly about the same type of thing, so I want to know if any of you have the same type of behaviors in your marriage/relationship to see how common it is! Curiousity has killed the cat, so comment below!

I supported my wife for a year with income while she stayed home with the kids. I do smoke a pack a day, but it seems to annoy her all of the sudden because in two weeks I spent $90 on cigerettes. I asked her today "Can i go get a pack of cigerettes?" She said "Nope im done paying hundreds and hundreds of dollars a month on cigerettes you shouldnt be going through a pack a day" I supported her for a year when she would need new makeup I would buy it for her, and shes mad because I blew her 1,200 dollar tax return last year and Ive spent so much on cigerettes in her opinion....what are your thoughts?

I tell my wife all the time she has beautiful perky (small) breast. I hate that when she wears a bra, the bra chances the shape of her natural breast. I will say that she does have rather large nipples. It's always been an argument between us because I specifically ask her on occasion to go braless. The other night we planned to go out, I asked to to go out on a date ( yes I still date my wife ). I specifically asked her since we were going out and ony her and I if she would go braless for me. We planned to go grab some dinner ( she would wear a jacket in the restaurant, she's always cold ) Then we planned to go out to a nightclub, have a few drinks and do some dancing. Well me asking her to do this for me seems to piss her off every time. She knows how much I love the way she looks going braless !!! I just don't understand why if this is something I want her to do, she knows I love, why won't she do this for me??? I don't enjoy cooking dinner but I do it because it makes her happy. So my thought is.....If she knows it's something I love why won't she do it???? In all fairness she says she thinks someone will see and think it looks trashy or slutty. So my thought is that she is putting what SOME people might think above my desires and I loose every time !! As I said before she has rather large nipples that are most of the time hard. So, yes you can see " pokies " which I think is sexy as hell !!!! It is such a turn on for me.

Been in relationship for 7 years, no children together. When things are going fine things are good . But when lately we haven't been on the same page. I haven't been in the live making mood simply cause I feel like he doesn't take the time to make anything romantic, he just wanna get right into it. He told me that I was wasting his time and I'm not doing anything for him. He had a issue and just simply showed another side to him . I caught him several times texting / talking to other women but let him tell it nothing ever happen. Recently I found a text him texting a girl at 2am asking her did she make it in? She replies yes, so when can we chill? He says you let me kno whenever your free. I'm truly numb to everything that's going on.