My father wants to have a relationship with me. I have never lived with him and my mother estimated that I've probably accumulated around 30-40 days of time spent with him. Mind you I'm 26. So the bond isn't there to say the least. Recently he's been talking about my disappointment about me and that he thinks I'm gay (he's a huge homophobe). I'm not gay, I just don't chase women like him. After all, I literally have a total of 10 other syballins. I don't won't to be nothing like him. He wants a relationship with me so bad despite not talking to me like a man about the things he said behind my back. If dies today, I'm not sure I'll even feel anything

So i have to live with this **** cuz shes my step mom but everytime i think about her, i get heated beyond believe and thoughts of kicking her *** flow through my head. How can i control this?? I gotta live with this whore. Id love to explain why i hate her so much but thatd take forever

This is a long story and I will leave some personal details vague.. My parents brought my brother to this country and got him a good job, he met a russian chick and didnt tell us that he started a relationship with her, then he said he has to travel for work and was gone for about 2 months but after that long we started doubting him and we started looking around and stuff until we caught him living with her, then we found out that he borrowed money from several banks that equals to almost 50,000$ and spent it all on her in just 2 months, like he paid for her shopping at victoria secret and aramni and ridiculous things like that. Thing is, my family income is below average and they fought hard for us to have good education and degrees, my parents love us so much yet he did all of that, my parents told him they dont have money to buy their medication and he just ignored them, it was my father birthday and he didnt come saying hes in another town 2 hours away when he was actually next to a russian chick 3 freaking blocks away !!!!!! my parents love us and they're trying to pay his debts so he doesnt go to jail and after catching him with her several times he promised that its over and they just caught him with her again and he ran away if this was happening to u and ur family, what would u do?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years he wants me to take my medusa piercing out, I have already taken both of my nose studs out for him. He doesn't like piercings but I love them and Ive wanted them since I was 12 and my 18th birthday is coming up and I have always wanted to get cheek piercings but he doesn't want me too. I think he's going to break up with me if I don't take my Medusa out, and he would definitely leave me if I got my dimples pierced. Piercings make me feel more attractive and like myself more, but I don't wanna lose him, so should I be choosing him or the piercings?

I fainted in an office... I basically lost consciousness and when I opened my eyes I saw the most gorgeous guy on earth holding my forehead with his hand. I didn't realize I was bleeding so I took his hand off of me, although he was handsome and looked worried. Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to act like this or I was rude? I really didn't mean it but I was so embarassed I blushed and wanted to run away but he said: lay still, you could faint again..so I let him take care of me, let him wash away the blood from my face.. I was so ashamed but felt like intimidated by him although he didn't do anything..ha was so handsome and perfect, blond blue eyed, with a perfect shape of head and face, tall and everything.. Then came over another guy who worked there, same as this guy but only with green eyes. He said: who the hell did this? Yuri will get mad.. And the blue eyed guy said: shut up, the girl almost broke her head and you think about the floor and a stupid vase of flowers (i broke that while falling).. And I told him to call my mom, he said ok and told the othr guy to go upstairs looking for my parents. When my dad saw this boy holding my forehead and giving me vodka he misunderstood completely, shouted at the boy, said he was a ********, he said: no I didn't do anything, I swear to God..and I told my dad: why do you talk to him like this, he was just hlping me!! He's helping said dad, with vodka?! Dad I fainted, it's not his fault! And dad took my arm and made me go Outside in the car, and said: I'll never tale to to Ukraine again, this is the last time! Then an old man came over and said: what have you done to the girl? And he said: nothing I swear to God,! Amd he started shouting at him and said he was fired.. I almost cried watching the scene and wanted to g inside to explain everything but dad didn't let me, said: you stupid why do you care so much of him? And I started hating my dad, and have another look to the boy,he looked at me and lowered his eye Eyes and had a sad look on his face. .. I started cryingon the way home, I like this boy so much, yt I caused him so many troubles, and I did everything wrong, I took off his hand like he was doping Smith wrong when he did nothing wrong, I caused him to be shouted from dad and fired... I am so madre at myself why am I so stupid? Because dad took my arm and didn't let me go to him, I tried to explain but they didn't listen to me, they were sure the guy did something to me and started attacking him, I was so afraid that dad or his boss would beat him... Dad said: stay in the car and dont move, mom said: listen to dad and dont make him angry, I was even not allowed to cry because dad started shouting saying that I was stupid to cry for him. Problem is that I dont know how to fine him, I dont even know his name, and soom We'll go back to the uk and I want the boy to come with me, I dont want him to stay in Ukraine I dont know if he had already come the militare draft but I dont want him to do that, I want to marry him

He doesn't want to get into a relationship and likes his own space, but he wants to see me. That is selfish because even though he isn't looking for anyone else, he's not considering how I feel. It's his way or no way. He wants to see me later and go for a drink or dinner and watch a film. He says he likes going out wth me. Obviously, we can't be friends because of the sexual attraction, and I made the mistake of sleeping with him and holding hands and cuddling after we broke up, but I told him we can't anymore. He doesn't seem to get the message. he has a fear of relationships as all of his break down, including his family's. Should I just tell him I do't want a friends with benefits type situation, as that is what this boils down to in the end.

I use paper plates and don't use cups I go to work and offer to pay bills but my dad refuses and gets mad because I don't wash dishes. It doesn't make sense to wash someone else's filth. Am I in the wrong?

I have a co-worker who is 5'7", thin. and weighs 115 lbs. She told me she used to be 50 lbs. heavier and showed me a picture to prove it. I asked how she lost the weight and she said her fiancé, now husband, decided she should be a size two, and now she is 115 lbs. because she decided that "was a better weight for her too. I just find it weird to let a man dictate to you what you should be like.

I met a much older man when I was separated from my husband 2 years ago. My fling and I were both going through some things...we were lovers and loved going out to dinner and movies. Our situations were crazy yes but the both of us supported each other mentally and sexually. The problem is after 2 years and missing my husband I want to work my marriage out and my husband and I agreed that we must put our past behind us to do so. My fling won't stop calling and hes upset claiming my husband stepped his game up. Mind you my flLing can't talk because his so called female friend lives with him and honestly that's his woman and her grown kids and grandkids he claims as his own. I know he still loves her so why can't he realize the reason why I haven't called him in the past 4 months is because Im trying to work my marriage out. My fling told me that he loved me, he's addicted to me and that he has to see me.

i know he didn't. my mother gave her whole life up for us and all he does is talk bad about her and blame her. how do i overcome this so we can have a better relationship? it really bothers me he tries to blame and talk bad about my mother when she did more than him.

I m currently a college sophomore, I go to school in NYC and have great friends. I live only a couple hours away and back home I am still close with childhood friends and love my family. So I don t know how to fix this feeling, but the main issue is that when I m away all I want to do is be home but when I m home all I want to do is be away? and it s been like this every year, every break. What s wrong with me?

This woman never goes grocery shopping even for her husband or children. She never spends a penny on her children's toys, food and clothes. She always wants the latest smartphones and even demanded a new $50,000 SUV. She never throws out the trash and leaves trash on the floor which attracts mice and roaches. She never gives her husband rides to the airport (for work) even though he's always jet-legged and even refused to drive him to the ER when he fell ill. So how would you describe this woman?

I've expossed a narc and called his bs on our 1 year relationship. He has blocked me on Facebook and my number, but no other social mediums. Just wondering if that was intentional or he is trying to hook me by reaching out?!

Been seeing this girl for a few weeks, and we are both really into each other. Just found out i will be deploying for 6 months. How do i tell her? What should i expect? A couple weeks isnt long enough to expect her to wait for me, is it? I really like this girl. Like a lot.