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So, today is my boyfriend's birthday and last night he told me he was having lunch with his friend and then probably dinner with his parents. I was a little surprised he hadn't thought about us getting together but figured maybe it was my fault for not trying to plan something (he kind of hates his birthday so I was trying not to be too pushy about it). We then talked about him coming by after lunch with his friend so I could give him his gift, which he said he would do. It's now 3:30 and I've heard nothing from him. I don't want to pester him but it seems like he won't have time to come now, which would make me feel kind of bad but I could get over...the biggest thing to me is that he hasn't gotten in touch to say it'll be later than he thought or that he can't come. I'm feeling a little taken for granted. Am I overreacting?

I ordered food through a pizza hut app. But, it was the wrong pizza hut. They said that they aren't all connected like that and I paid through the app already. I said I didn't have time to drive to that pizza hut since I'm at lunch. They suggested I call and cancel and just buy from them since I'm already there and I had the phone# for the place I ordered since they sent a confirmation email. I called & was put on hold for a while. They later asked me for the phone# and the name of the people so that they could take care of it!!!

a few months back ex boyfriend said it wouldn't work with us again and he wouldn't let him self have feelings when i texted him after 2 months of being broken up. I gave him a dirty look whenever I saw him staring. It's been 3 months he's always staring at me in church. One day as he saw me as he was walking past he smiled then said hi i did too. The following week i looked up saw him looking he smiled and i smiled back. by the way he also fidgets with his hair, watch, touches his face when I'm around. To explain his body language i don't get why he's not making a move.. What he meant is we were fighting he insulted my moms clothing saying she dressed like from the club and i said his mom came form the stable and he doesn't buy her any clothes. That's what he means by not forgiving me. ALso in the beginning we would fihting and I'd always break up and he wouldn't let a day go buy and he'd chase me. Then the tables turned he stopped and I started so he thinks i love him and will go back he'd say "history has shown you'll be back" but no more

My grandparents bought me some T-shirt's and they're just basic T-shirts nothing special. I like them. My step mom just came up from washing them and she told me they're trash and to throw them away. I told her no and she told me again that it's trash. I told her I don't care what she thinks I'm not throwing them away. She does that a lot with my clothes, does she have the right to throw them away? She has nothing to do with my life idk why she's telling me what to do I do my own laundry but she does them sometimes if there's more room in the washing machine. I'm 17 and buy my own clothes and stuff. I do everything for myself, the only thing I have to do with her is i live in the under the same roof as her.

So I am 21 year old, I work a full time job in management. I have a bank account in MY name, my name only. I have good credit, and Im not in debt. But my parents are always asking me how much money is in my bank account and I tell them I dont feel any need to tell you that anymore sorry. They than tell me its a rude and ignorant attitude to have because apparently it is there business and they have every right to know. They do this with almost every aspect of my life. I understand they brought me into this world but it doesnt really give them the right to control me like they own me.

Ok, so it's guilt, but how do I get rid of guilt?

I'm from Poland, I've read a very funny article recently, but maybe the word "funny" is not adequate here because of the seriousness of the topic. I read recently that in my country, Poland, one guy went for a divorce because his wife was cheating on him, both of them were 34 years old, he cheated him with 24 years of guy. The couple had several children, of which the oldest, the boy had 10 years old. There was a big scandal, because it turned out that it was not the husband who had fathered them, but her 24-year-old lover, and the first child had sired with him, as he was 14 years old xD They lived in small town, they started having sex by accident, the first was pregnancy by accident, but she not regret that because her real husband really want big Family. But later it turned out that he is completely sterile, and can not beget children unless he went through some cures. She said she did not regret it then, because the boy was very good looking for his young age. This woman has not been charged with any crimes because of the statute of limitations. I wonder what you think women who seduce younger men, I mean adult young men. I wonder why young men or boys want to be associated with older women or girls. For example, when I was younger and I was in first class (Polish) junior high school, my peers chased girls from the last grades of junior high school, when it was known that it was not their league xD, I personally am homosexual, I do not like who I am, but that's what I am but at least i can be "neutral" here xD When i showed the article to my friend, that i know since we both was little kids, he joked why that wasn't me xD

She is really shy with me can't talk bright red ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Every so often my boyfriend will be asleep while I am awake next to him & he cries in his sleep, no tears more like sobbing & whining while his jaw wrinkles up & moves up & down . I've found him doing this maybe 4-5 times & when I wake him up & ask him what he's dreaming about he says he wasn't dreaming & I tell him he was crying & he has no memory of it & doesnt believe me. He will then go back to sleep & almost immediately start crying again , Anyone experience this before ? I've done research but I haven't found anything that pertains to his actual situation.

I met this guy a few years ago and we were really good friends, but one day a few months ago I posted a link to that Sarahah website (where people can message you things anonymously) and I got a really sweet message from someone saying how much they liked me and I just knew it was him, so things got really awkward after that because he also knew that I knew it was him lol. We stopped talking for a while after that, but then I started thinking of him a few weeks ago and messaged him basically saying that I'm really sorry that I kind of just stopped talking to him, but that it just got really weird for me and that I missed him and didn't want to lose a great friend because of something like this because it's happened to me before. He basically just said he understood and just decided it was best for himself if he just backed off a little because he figured I didn't feel the same way. So we talked for a while that day, but after that day, we never talked again. But ever since then, I just haven't stopped thinking about him and I think I'm starting to get feelings for him. But I feel like if I message him again, it'll be the same thing: we'll just talk for the day and then stop. That day he seemed very uninterested in me but I can't tell if it was because he was just trying to protect himself, or if he really just lost interest in me. Now I'm worried that I'll just be annoying him if I were to message him again because what if he DID lose interest? Should I take chance? What should I say if I SHOULD talk to him? Thank you :)

so me n my x boyfriend had a short relationship he was the first guy I had ever had sex with and my first love and I thought he loved me too. Well we broke up n now he's my coach since we both do the same sport and when we were at a fundraiser which was the first time I had seen him in a while he would not stop bragging about his new girlfriend and how pretty she was and he was just being petty about his new relationship while staring at me the whole time n now I've seen him again and is mentioning another girl he likes and he had the decency to touch my head and play around with my hair WHat does this mean?

She gave me her number last Monday haven't talked since Thursday. Do I sound thirsty or annoying if I just text her how have u been. I don't want to ruin my chances with her but I think I already have. Idk

I decided to go over my mom and her fiance's house to see my baby brother for his birthday and spend time with them on Christmas. Tell me why, my boyfriend got upset, talking about I never spend time with him for the holidays... First off, I have been over my boyfriend's house since May, all the way to December. I told him I will come right back. It's not like I'll be over my family house for a couple of months. Only for a few days. I told him, we still have New Year's, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick, April Fools Day, my birthday, his birthday and so fourth, to spend time together on the holidays. So you can say, I stay with my boyfriend. And you know what's funny? When I be over my family house, he always talking about how we going to hang out, ride our bikes around the neighborhood, chill at the park and blah, blah, blah. But when I come over there, we don't do sh#t. He either play his game all day, be on his phone, or talking to his brother all day. When I tell him, let's do something fun, like riding around, chill at the park, sit on the porch or whatever, he always he comes up with an excuse. But when I want to chill with my family, he wants to complain. What does this means? Am I tripping? Or is he tripping?

Hi! :D Right now and since I was exactly 5 years old, I live with my sister and my grandparents, and I'm 16. I've always wanted to know my dad, but my mom, who frequently called and visited, would never give me a name. When I was 13, she finally told me his name, the name of some of his brothers, what he was like, etc. Recently, I looked him up on Facebook, and found matching family. I quickly clicked on his Facebook, and saw his face. He only had that one picture and nothing else. No posts, tags, emails, phone number, work, etc. It was weird, until I found that he had a business Facebook. It had his picture, location, email, and a phone number to contact him. I've had the number for a few days now, and have saved the picture of him. I've been staring at them both, knowing that the man in that picture may possibly hold half my DNA, and he's only one message away. I've even written a practice letter in my iPhone notes to send to him in text message. The problem is, I don't feel confident about it, so I wanted advice on what to say. I'm so sorry this is long. I just wanted to give some background information. My mom said she took off before he even knew she was pregnant, so my existence may come as a shock to him. My mom also passed away in 2015, so his name is all I got to go off of. He's my last living parent, and he doesn't even realize I exist. What do I do? What do I say? Please help. THANK YOU! :D

Okay a very close relative that I grew up with, slept over our house as kida, basically like a brother to me recently got married to a young lady who is very close friends a woman who does not like me. I have never had words with this person outside of saying hi or bye. This woman tried to take my boyfriend and has turned others against me for as far as I can see no apparent reason. We are in the same social arena because we attend the same church. And its been hard for me to see people that I cons idered longtime church friends turn on me because she comes from an affluent family Lately when there has been a event like a bridal or baby shower or youth social event I have been getting excluded. Im friendly to everyone but its like ive been blacklisted. Now my cousin and his wife are close friends with this woman and are always invited to every event...and thats fine. But its always as if they and others are always careful not to speak of any event around me. On Christmas my cousin called our home and invited us to dinner. But I and my family declined. Reason being that we felt like if they are that close to this woman who does not like me and always supporting her. I have come to distruat the ir motives and dont feel comfortable with anyone that can keep the confidence of someone who dislikes me for no reason. My cousin and his wife and I are supposed to be family. How would you feel if this was happening to you? Do you think I am wrong.

I saw this on a website about jealousy from people towards other relationships: "They say their opinion on every aspect of your relationship- Sometimes silence is better than constant negative comments. Because your friend is jealous of your relationship, they will try to take down this relationship in every way. One of the ways is by commenting. When you talk about your relationship, they will exaggerate every flaw in this relationship and they will try to make you feel insecure about this relationship. When they do this, ignore them. These negative comments only comes from their insecurities." Do you experience negative comments from others possibly due to their jealousy? I've not experienced this since middle school. But I've also not had a good relationship until the past 3 years with my husband and it's been so happy and peaceful and loving. I just got my first snippy comment over Christmas and it's sort of hurting my feelings a little, enough at least to google search about jealousy concerning other relationships wondering if this is the root of the rude comment.

This girl I know is so shy with me she can't talk to me her voice is so quiet, she blushes goes bright red and she couldnt talk on the phone she passed it too her colleague and when I booked a hair appointment at the salon it had to be cancelled cus she was to embarrassed, with her last boyfriends she was confident as if she didn't have a care but me it's different, it doesn't feel like intimidation, but I do feel she is flustered and I went in in October and she went bright red and her pupils got big? So why is it different for me ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

I have a 14 yer old daughter with a man who had both me and another woman pregnant at the same time. He married the other woman, I got him for child support to make sure I get the financial help I needed to raise my child. I raised the child own my own. Getting child support whenever he felt like paying. I moved on with my life. I now have two other children who I raise by myself. I am doing very well. I went to college and got my degree and got a good paying job. I just recently bought a house for my children and I. I struggled to get to where I am but I made it. Anyway my daughters father have never had anything to do with her. He have not seen her since she were 18 months old. No birthday cards, Christmas presents--NOTHING!! He also owes me 10,000 in back child support. He decided to make contact with me about wanting to be in her life. He now have a new wife and a 3 year old son. This man abandoned his child and went years without paying child support and now demands to be in her life when he walked away from her for many years. His new wife wrote me a letter on messenger about meeting my daughter also. I am furious!! There are pictures all over Facebook of him with his son at birthday parties while my child had none of this from him. He also sent videos on Snapchat to my child of him playing with his son. How do I handle this am I wrong for being upset?? I do not want him. I have moved on with my life and got a good career and live a fulfilling life.

Bn. Yo vivo cerca de la playa y por lo general uso camiseta, bermudas y sandalias descubiertas. Cuando recién cumplí los 12 mi madre descubrio que me comenzaron a salir vellos en las axilas por lo que me obligo a depilarme o me quitaría mi cel, por lo que esa misma tarde le llamo a mi tía para decirle que iría a su casa para que me depilara con cera y entonces llegue y me dijo que es muy estricto que los hombres se depilen o si no, no atraerían a las chicas. Entonces cuando cumplí 14 mis primos y mi novia me preguntaron que porque yo todavía no tenía vellos, a lo que dije que tal vez todavía no era el momento. Porque mi madre me prohibió decirle a alguien que me depilo. Cuando tenía 16 estaba con otra novia e hicimos el amor cuando mis padres estaban de viaje y ella me dijo que no me volviera a depilar, a si no cortaría conmigo. Y entonces a los 17 me tuve que ir a otro estado para estudiar con mi novia, por lo que deje de depilarme. Cuando regrese a mi casa decidi entrar a clases de natación, pero cuando me puse el traje de baño el instructor me dijo que me tendría que depilar todo el cuerpo como requisito fundamental. Por lo que le comente a mi novia sobre la depilación lasér y dijo que no se me ocurriera que porque ella no me quiere hacer el amor con un niño. ¿Qué opinan? Aconsejenme.

I have a fantasy involving a married man. How do I find one unhappy in marriage? I don't want a relationship, just a hookup.

I have a friend who used to be my boss. He is married and has a family. I respect that and am very supportive of it. I've known him a year and a half, we've only been friends roughly 9 months. I've had feelings for him on and off the whole time I've known him. We both are no longer working there, but left at different times. We see each other 2-3 times a month at church. We used to flirt a lot when we worked together, but it has tone down a lot. He's been extremely generous this year and has asked for nothing in return. His wife has even helped me out a couple times. She and I aren't friends per se, but we're cool with each other. I decided to pay them back for their generosity by giving them and their kids some presents for Christmas. Now, my friend is a smart man...very smart. I'm not convinced he knows how I feel about him, but I sense he might know. My friends and family say I'm "transparent" when I have feelings for somebody (yet oddly enough, my family hasn't figured out my feelings for him even though I talk about him at least once a week) Also, I have recently started referring to him as "bro" or as "the big brother I never had". Anyways, them and their kids opened their gifts today and were very appreciative. If you're a married guy, what would you think if your single, female friend gave you and your family all these gifts? Especially if you're not SUPER close. charles, he hasn't been my boss in 7 months. He got a new job and quit and I quit 3 months after he did. Btw, I don't need my "daddy issues resolved". My dad died when I was a kid and was out of town for work a lot when he was alive. I liked my married teacher when I was 5, before my dad even passed away. I know all about my daddy issues, but thanks. MoneyMen, I've been single for a year and a half. I'm picky and selective as hell. I don't just date anybody and I haven't found the right guy for me yet, but don't think I haven't been trying to find somebody because I have been. The only two "dates" I've been on, were total duds. Even this friend thinks I deserve the best.

he wants me to his girl friend.he has a wife and all the money everything he needs.why hes coming behind me..why he wants be his girlfriend.He has amazing lifestyle..what the reason he wants me to be his girlfriend..why hes very kind to me. sorry please ignore millionare..hes worth more than 500 not sureee..but very rich