In our culture , your brothers wife is regarded as a second mother and my bhabhi(sister in law) is a very shy person who wears decent clothes at home and acts very good . I respect her like god . But 2 days ago I had to sleep in another room due to guests and it was right next to my brother and bhabhi .. I could hear them having sex and bhabhi kept moaning and talking vulgar language while doing sex for half an hour . Now when I saw her in morning wearing a Saree and praying to god .. I feel so conflicted . I know sex is a basic need for every couple and I can't wrap my idea that my pious bhabhi Moans and talks like a whore I try avoiding her as when I see her, those Moanings come to my mind and I feel disgusted

Crazy about in highschool. Found out he got married about 2yrs ago, then I heard hes not happy and is separating from his wife. He shows up at my house to say sorry, my heart still goes crazy for him so we r currently talking. I did research on separation in the state of NJ. Can someone tell me this, does this go to courts, r there rules, he has 2 kids which r both young minors. I hope I get answers ty

On top of all the lies that was exposed, I found out that my wife has herpes. She failed to disclose that information to me. We are now separated. All my tests have been negative but during the time we were together I was having respiratory problems and had an episode of Bells Palsey. At that time my doctor asked if I had been exposed to someone with herpes. Of course my answer was NO. Rewind to the first lie I caught my wife in. When we started dating she told me that she was divorced. In fact she was in a contract marriage which didn't get finalized until a month before we got married. She's in the military. So the Herpes news was the last straw. I've contacted a lawyer (initial consultation )about an annulment, because I would have never dated a married woman and definitely not marry someone with herpes (I have Lupus) a herpes exposure will be detrimental to my health. I was told once her commander finds out that she failed to disclose her STD that she will be chaptered out? Is that true? With her being military will an annulment be a long process? And is this something i could represent myself because my funds are limited. I have children to take care of.

I have been with my husband for 5 years and I love him but I am at my breaking point. On the outside he seems to be a great guy but at home is a different story. He cheated on me in the beginning of our marriage; he has caused me physical injury in the name of being "playful"; makes "joking" comments about my weight and looks; gives me silent treatment when he gets upset over the smallest things; and he just generally seems not to care about my feelings. Today he has upset me yet again. We aren't spending Christmas together because he refuses to spend a holiday away from his mother and this Christmas I wanted to be with my family. So I made plans to stay home and have my family down next weekend to do holiday activities and spend time together. My husband had already planned to travel home for Christmas. Well I told him that I made plans with my family starting next Friday and invited them to stay at our place and he told me, " you don't make plans for people to stay at my damn house without discussing it with me." And now he is saying he may not even leave until Christmas Eve, though he was previously planning to leave earlier than that, and he won't allow my family to come while he is there, so he is basically purposefully ruining Christmas plans. When it comes to his family he has no problem inviting them all the time but mine is another story. I am upset but not surprised. I don't want to call my family and cancel everything. Was I wrong not to ask him first?

We fight a lot about our differences. We're two very different people, different taste, life style everything... we fight daily. It's exhausting. The other day we fought for 4 hrs strait..next time would probably be 6 hrs. No matter how much we communicate, it doesn't seem to change the situation, nothing comes out of it. The only way we get along is to avoid each other, when we actually have that little time for each other.. we fight. When I try to introduce him into better things (he's out of date) and be a better version of himself. He's too stubborn and unlikely to change or try anything. When I try to express my feelings, he'll pick up his sword and think I'm attacking him. ? He's very defensive and stupid, he takes my guidance for granted. I grew to hate him. He doesn't know what communication is.. he just know how to fight, he's boring.

they been separate 1 year they had sex in September of 2017 they have not cohabited. i really would like to know if the one time sex would qualify as an interruption of the separation?

I am trying to forgive my husband, I am not a mad women anymore. I think it's the right thing to do. But I am not sure

We live in a small town, my husband had a flirtatious relationship for about 1month at work and1 week texting with one of his coworkers, which resulted in a kiss. The OW knew he was married, and still went along. He claims he doest like her at all and he doesn't have an explanation why he did it. He is doing everything in his power to make it up to me. If you have gone through something silmilar how did you react or feel when you or both bump into her for example store, dr. Etc. Did you feel ashamed, proud, disgusted, or? He tells me she is nothing to him and for me to keep my head up high cause I'm way better than in every way and that he was the dumb one. I just hate the fact that he shared words and a kiss that were suppose to be for me with someone I may bump into any time.

They call their mother several times a day and their mother calls several times a day(6-10 times a day). They work for their uncle and their mother is also involved in that same company. Mother comes over to the house 3-6 times a week for dinner. Their mother calls late at night while you are in bed together. Could this effect your marriage negatively?

My husband had "fling" with one of his coworkers. After about a month of flirting at work , they started messaging each other, and a week after that they met and exchange a kissed. He can't belive himself and is the most remorseful man on the planet. I don't understand how he was able to commit such a thing and I'm extremely hurt. Ever since I caught him, he stopped contacting her and called her to tell her how wrong he was for ever talking to her and that he loved his wife. This happened about 7 months ago and I'm yet to forgive him. I can't understand how someone can act hat way and still love his wife. Throughout the 7 months we have had good and bad days, he actually just admitted to kissing her 3 weeks ago. He was afraid to overwhelmed me with that after finding out about the messaging. I'm actually an awesome wife that he is proud of. He use to tell he was so lucky to have as wife and now he realizes it even more. We have been married for 10 years never had any problems . How someone cheat with someone they dont like, but act like they do?

My ex mistress called me to tell me that she is pregnant with my kid. She said that she will get an abortion only if I come along to support her and if I don't come she will keep the child and tell my wife. The thing is, my wife knows about what went on with us and she decided to give me another chance. We moved our family to a different state to try to "start over" meaning I would have to go all the way back there just to be present when she gets that abortion. I don't really want to tell my wife because it'll be a major step back and she most likely will end up leaving me and taking our kids with her. I don't know what to do?

My husband of 17years. Wants to seperate from me due to endless arguments,my attitude and trust issues. He said that he wants to move on to his on place so that he could be more independent. He feel that he didn't get to experience being a independent man living on his own being that we were together since the age of 18 years old. He refuses to go to marriage counseling, because he work too much. I asked him would he like to save our marriage and he answered yes; but only if i make those changes in my attitude and become more independent. He fell out of love with me because of the way i get angry and handle different situations. He tells me that im still a beautiful woman to him and that he want a year living apart from me to see If he would miss me again. He say that his heart is blocked from loving me he just cant seem to get pass all the hurtful situations we both put each other through. I Love my husband and I dont want him to leave me. Please I need helpful advice.

that's got to be terrible on marriage. Many Moms then blame the kid for the rest of their lives for getting mom fat. Mandatory exercise programs for women who just had baby.

6 years ago I got married to a loving man. In these 6 years we have accomplished a lot. I thought we had the perfect marriage. We both graduated university together, and became parents. Yes we have bumps in the road but we have managed to get thru them. 4 months ago he developed a relationship with another women. Started off just texting, and went from there. Lunch dates, gifts, ... their relationship seems to be as if they are a couple. But how so if he is my husband? I have read the emails, texts, ... he let's her in his up most personal feelings. As does she. He tells her he loves her and loves me. ( from the texts she found out about me 3 months into their fling.) I have not told him I know, and not sure I want to. Can he really love her? Can he really love me? I hold him accountable for his actions. Even tho as a women I would expect her to end it, I hold him responsible. There's so much more to this story, but this is a quick short version. Can my husband be in love with another women?

Question is pretty much blunt. I don't make a lot of money, besides school aid & Uber . My husband enjoys drinking, video games, guns , rick and morty, Jordan's, typical guy. I can't afford anything expensive, but he always out does himself for me for Christmas, I want to give back. Thanks :)

So me and my wife have been together for a good 24 years now and we love each other but last month on her birthday we went to the club and she started to grind up on a few African American men. I wasn't aware at it during the time maybe i was in the bathroom but she got all their numbers. She said she wants to sleep with one while I watch. I'm unsure how I feel about this, it does kinda turn me on I don't know why but should I go through with this? Would this make her unfaithful? She said she will only do it if I say yes

Does the kind of legal status really matter,as long as the two involved are really happy together and commited to eachother? I mean,I know for some it might not last forever,and that's the part it differs for separation laws,but isnt that just the couple's bussiness? Or what if they never separate? What I'm talking is why some judge depth of a relationshp based on the legal status? Does it really define how strong a relationship is? Like if you decide to be common law,means you don't love the person as much,or not as commited to them,because you are not having a marriage license? Just a side note: since the answers are reffering to States,I had Canada in mind when I mentiond Common law,and US when I mentioned domestic partnership (although,this one also exist in canadian law) And as far as I know,common law,in canada and the states of us which it is recognized,is a legal marital status,so it is serious,and it is commited,so I dont think anything is odd and out of place about it.but still some judge it,like only a license can garanty the strength of a relationship🤷‍♀️

I'm a 15 year old girl, obviously no where near the age of getting married. I haven't even had my first boyfriend. But my mom and I were talking about the future and we got to the topic of marriage and she told me marriage isn't worth it. I asked her why. She was just like it just isn't. Then she talked about her past relationships and how bad her exes were. My parents are still married. For 17 years. I know they aren't ever going to get a divorce. They depend on each other too much. Even though they fight a LOT, they always bounce back. If they were to, it probably would've already been done. But her words have been stuck in my head all day. It just had me thinking what advice did your parents give YOU about marriage if they ever did. Like any thoughts or opinions on this topic. I can only assume anyone answering this is years older, probably married or about to get married or just have some experience or knowledge. And I know I shouldn't worry about this bc I'm only 15 but her words scare me. Like is marriage not worth it in my generation. On the outside looking in love is meaningless nowadays anyways. I just started high school in august and I think I'm just going to avoid relationships at all cost in HS. Because you date to get married. And it's better to save yourself for someone who deserves you. So my plan is just to venture out when it is my time. Which is probably in 10ish years when i'm in my early, mid twenties.