Family: Question: Can parenting be applied to older siblings watching their younger siblings too? |
- Question: Can parenting be applied to older siblings watching their younger siblings too?
- Question: What'smy mum in law's name?
- Question: How can I but adult without my parents noticing?
- Question: My sister is 26 and needs to grow up?
- Question: Should i call my father?
- Question: What would you do if this was your adopted little brother?
- Question: How do I get my aunt not to hate me for being nice to her daughter who she hates?
- Question: When Will I stop Growing ?my parents are small to me. my mom is 5,2 and my dad is either 5,5 or 5,6. I’n nearly 5,7 and a boy at 13?
- Question: Should I be worried about my sister ?
- Question: I got raped recently, should I tell my parents ?
- Question: Would you let your second cousin live with you permanently?
- Question: I never speak with my dad?
- Question: Do you think he regrets what he said?
- Question: I hate being a woman?
- Question: Abusive parents- am I a bad person?
- Question: Feeling stuck?
- Question: Kid following me?
- Question: Kid stalking me?
- Question: Got into a car accident?
- Question: Should I apologize in person to my "ex" & his mother?
- Question: My parents are divorced and it makes the holidays miserable. How can I make them happy when I only see Mom and she is bad mouthing Dad?
- Question: My sister in law sent a Christmas card addressed only to my husband. Should I be offended?
- Question: What should I do about my mom?
- Question: Why do white people like to hook up with their cousins?
- Question: How to deal with boyfriend's bossy sister?
- Question: May I know your opinions about my situation?
- Question: What does it mean if he stares after all this?
- Question: Why does my family suck so bad and how can I fix it?
- Question: Should I keep nursing?
- Question: Feel guilty when my parents spend money on me?
- Question: Girls would you be pissed?
- Question: My grandma is abusive. What will the police do if I call them?
- Question: What would you do.,?
- Question: Girls simple question?
- Question: Can parents hug you without permission?
- Question: My sister came at with a knife. Need Advice?
- Question: My brother in law has been married to my sister for a little over a year. When she was engaged to him, he would always act either ungrateful?
- Question: What documents would I need for bah if I m not married but have a dependent?
- Question: Relying on my narcissist mother..?
- Question: My dad wants me to go, but I don't want to. He wasn't going to go either. How could he even feel good enough?
- Question: I forgot my girlfriends birthday, She said she’s embarrassed??
- Question: Is this child emotional abuse??! PLEASE HELP!!!?
- Question: Is my daughter depressed?
- Question: I forgot my girlfriends birthday? HELP!?
- Question: My uncle is weird?
- Question: My relatives were abusive and I don't want to see any of them again, what can I do to stop them from trying to interact with me?
- Question: How do I lower my expectations this Christmas so I am not disappointed?
- Question: How do I ask my uncle if I can stop by on Christmas and see his family in a way that won't be rude or intrusive?
- Question: My Mom and Dad won't let me see my grandparents on Christmas cause my uncle will be there. How can I still have a good Christmas?
- Question: Mother in law doesn't like me?
Question: Can parenting be applied to older siblings watching their younger siblings too? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 02:26 PM PST a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation? |
Question: What'smy mum in law's name? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 02:13 PM PST Is it Mary? |
Question: How can I but adult without my parents noticing? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 02:04 PM PST I'm seventeen, and the only reason why I like diapers is because they make me feel safe. I'm currently living with my parents, but I'll be looking for my own place in about a month. |
Question: My sister is 26 and needs to grow up? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 01:51 PM PST My sister is 26 and moved back in with me and my mum recently. She rented a house for a year and didn't want to pay £500 a month. I'm getting sick and tired of her selfish and immature behaviour. She has issues. She's always trying to get my attention and a response from me, lectures/criticises/ puts me down, gets frustrated and irritated so easily when I ask her for help or when I'm explaining something to her. It really pisses me off because it's so pathetic and she's too old to be like this. She needs to grow up and take responsibility instead of dumping herself on me!! How can I deal with this?? |
Question: Should i call my father? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 01:17 PM PST The reason why i want to call him because i need $50.00 for a cab to take me to hershey for my interview and i really need a job. Hershey jobs will automatically hire me. Should i call him? Ive text him asking if he could send me some money but he didn't respond back and he stopped calling me. Its been 2 weeks since ive spoken too him. I Honesty don't want to speak to him because he haven't seen me in 12 years (i was 6 years old) because my mom didn't want to married him. But at the same time, i have to because need the money so i could pay for my cab to take me to hershey so i could go to work. I need a job real bad and this will be my first. Should i call him? |
Question: What would you do if this was your adopted little brother? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 01:12 PM PST Let's say your in high school parents adopted a 12 year old boy who came from a broken, poor abusive family. His mother was caught selling drugs, got arrested and also was given a felony because she was dating a sex offender who would do unspeakable things to her son. A month after meeting him, Dustin says he will kill you and hits you. He also punched your father in the face and ran away. He bit your mother as well. Kicked your parents and they had to hold him down because he threatened to run away. One day he came into your room called you stupid and how you had a fat stomach. After arguing with you he pulls his underwear down and says I'll tell everyone you raped me. OH, Dustin is the adopted little brother |
Question: How do I get my aunt not to hate me for being nice to her daughter who she hates? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 12:41 PM PST It is messy and I am nice to the daughter as she is my cousin and is excluded by her own mother and siblings. Mother is a narcissist which runs in the family. |
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 12:38 PM PST Look like my parents so I don't think any generation of my genes were skipped Have dads eyes but personally from moms side plus hair |
Question: Should I be worried about my sister ? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 12:32 PM PST My girlfriend likes to watch the show on the Reelz Channel called Copy Cat Killers it's about people who grow up watching shows and movies they get obsessed with them then go out and try to comment the same acts that happen in the show or movie. Some actually do and get away with it. My sister is obsessed with Charles Manson she watches every single movie or documentary about him she's fell in love with him since last year when she first watch Manson's Lost Girls her favorite movie now she has it she watches it almost everyday. She was upset when Charlie died he died a week after her birthday she wasn't very happy but she tried to get over it. She's been watching everything of him. When she watches stuff about him she feels like she's in a different world she acts like she's one of the girls. She has really bad asthma so she can't do drugs or smoke or anything crazy like they do. She thinks she looks like Sadie from his family she kind of does in a creepy way. She doesn't care about Sharon Tate or her kid or anyone else she just focuses on the family especially Tex Watson she has a massive crush on him more like an obsession with him. After watching these Copycat Killers I've been scared to be around her. Our parents are divorced neither one are very nice to us. She lives with me. Should I be scared of her ? She's 15 |
Question: I got raped recently, should I tell my parents ? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 12:30 PM PST I'm 21, already went to the hospital and did the kit. It's just hard, it was really hard to tell my aunt. I don't know if I can tell my parents. |
Question: Would you let your second cousin live with you permanently? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 11:24 AM PST They have Chronic Fatigue & can not work. They have no money and no where to go. |
Question: I never speak with my dad? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 10:42 AM PST I think i'm not normal because i never talk to my dad. i've always been a introvert and silent kid even around my family but i never speak w my dad and sister. i have a reason for my sister because she'd abuse me when i was younger but no reason for my dad. i felt bad for him to have this ungrateful and useless child. i tried to speak with him so many time but my voice wouldn't come out. sometimes i think it's probably better im gone. i just cant speak with him and i receive a lot of hate for not doing that. |
Question: Do you think he regrets what he said? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 10:40 AM PST 2 months had passed and when I saw him stare at me 2 Sundays in a row in church I texted him he said wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me and wi should know why it won't work. He iinsulted my mom 's dress and I Insulted his mom's back a bit harsher. It's been almost 3 months and he constantly stares at me in church said hi and smiled a couple weeks ago and smiled last week. He stared again this week. Think he wants me back? |
Question: I hate being a woman? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 10:37 AM PST My family is traditonal.Women clean and cook for men and there is a bride price. I felt like my parents were raising me up to become a slave for men so I hated doing chores.I was abused verbally and physically. I've also attempted suicide. I've tried therapy, counseling, and family counseling but it's never worked. What should I do? I wish I was lesbian, bisexual, or transgender but I was born straight and can't do anything to change that. |
Question: Abusive parents- am I a bad person? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 09:31 AM PST To keep this short my parents were physically and emotionally abusive all my life, until I became bigger than them. They're still emotionally abusive although not physically anymore, but the damage is already done. I still live with them because of financial reasons. Anyway, they VERY often have screaming matches (to the point where I'm surprised the neighbours haven't called the police) and most of the time I mediate things between them to try and prevent them from getting violent. A couple of hours ago my sister called me and told me to go to the other house (we just moved and my parents were there cleaning and packing) because my mum had sent her messages saying 'this assh*le is treating me like sh*t' and 'can't talk now' with a crying emoji. I said I don't care and whatever happens between them is well deserved karma. I also have an exam tomorrow and am sick of constantly having to babysit adults, abusive ones at that. Am I a bad person? I feel guilty. |
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:44 AM PST So I graduated in spring of 17 and I've been having a hard time with jobs. I had one about two towns over (I live in the middle of nowhere) but now that winter is here I had to quit my job because it's winter and my mother refuses to bring me to work because she doesn't drive in the snow. I helped them out a bunch with bills when they were behind and gas money so I never could save enough for a car. Now I have no job and no way to get to one. There's a job about 3 miles down the road and I'm willing to walk but my mom says she doesn't feel good about that because we have a lot of traffic on this road. I really want to work and I really need a job. I just don't know what to do. Any feedback helps, thank you |
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:58 AM PST I was feeding ducks with bread and then there a small boy that was there. I gave him some bread and taught him how to throw to ducks. When I started to leave he ran after me and asked "Where are you going?" WHY? |
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:51 AM PST Like I was feeding ducks with bread and then there a small boy that was there. I gave him some bread and taught him how to throw to ducks. When I started to leave he ran after me and asked "Where are you going?" Like why? |
Question: Got into a car accident? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:26 AM PST I'm 18 and recently got into a car accident with my OWN car and I pay my own insurance... anyways my mom now hates me because I got into an accident even though it wasn't my fault and has kicked me out of the house and I've been staying with my friend for the past week trying to save up to move into a motel or something... do you think my mom is being reasonable? |
Question: Should I apologize in person to my "ex" & his mother? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:52 AM PST So today me answer my boyfriend of three years broke up. I m only 16, so keep in mind i make mistakes. We didn t break up by choice. His mother found out we had sex once and it was a long time ago. We used a condom and we re safe and what not. Anyways today, i was on my way to school and my mom came home telling me to stay home. She tells me that his mother thinks i m a bad influence because we cuss and we had sex (even though we both decided to & he cusses too) she decided to defend her son and make me seem like the bad guy. She s doesn t want me around her son nor to date him anymore. He plans on moving to FL with his dad now because of all this. The thing is i cannot get in touch with him because his mother still has his phone and going through everything. My mom think it s best if i go over and apologize to his mother and try to talk it out with him. Should i? Btw. This all happened because his mother found out we had sex. We haven t been fighting or anything, this is literally just because of that. Him & I didn t end it by choice. |
Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:52 AM PST Dad lives in Seattle and doesn't get us until spring break. I feel like the only person who is rejected by his Dad and my Mom only rubs it in. I am 13 and a boy. |
Question: My sister in law sent a Christmas card addressed only to my husband. Should I be offended? Posted: 12 Dec 2017 05:46 AM PST I've been married 30 years. My inlaws have never liked me and my mother in law has come to visit for 2 months. I wait on her, do her laundry.. I'm stopping all that today. She's compared me to a pig mask before (an example of how they all treat me). Today my husband brings a Christmas card home and it is addressed to him and says brother on the front. Inside it says to Jim and family and then she goes on to say that she loves him so much to thank only him for taking care of their mother. My husband works. It's me who has been doing it all. Well, he tells me that the sister is now wanting to come down. She's a very overweight woman with health issues and a very jealous spirit about her. I don't want her here. Am I wrong not to want her in my home? Should I be offended?? I also don't want to set the card on my mantel . Should I set it out, or put it by his bed?? Please help? Thank you.. |
Question: What should I do about my mom? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 10:44 PM PST I don't know what to do about my mom. The whole time my boyfriend has been away at basic she has been just about as unsupportive as someone can possibly be. I'm a person that loves to talk and yes talking to the lovely ladies on here does help but I prefer to talk to someone I am close to. Whenever I try to talk to her she says that I'm obsessed and that it's not normal for me to be this upset just because my boyfriend that I've been with for over 2 years is now all the way across the country and I have had practically zero communication with him for a month. On top of that a found out that my boyfriends family wants to move from Utah (where I live) to Colorado. He's in the reserves and still lives with them so he was still planning on living with them when he gets back. I tried to explain to her how upset I wise and she went off about how she's so tired of hearing about my problems and that I should have dignity and not cry in front of her. She's my freaking mother and all I want is support and someone to tell me it will be ok. I don't understand her at all. To top it all off she is unsupportive of the idea of us moving in together or getting married. She practically bit my head off for even suggesting it. She has threatened to never talk to me again if I do it. I am only 18 and I live in a college dorm not with her but I am still technically her dependent and I live here during the summer and such. Any advice is appreciated. |
Question: Why do white people like to hook up with their cousins? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 10:33 PM PST |
Question: How to deal with boyfriend's bossy sister? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 09:49 PM PST Boyfriend's sister and I are cordial at best. She doesn't know how to get along with people because she's so used to be a tyrant since she's the oldest in the family. She has no regard for others and calls the shots and expects people to drop what their doing and follow, including boyfriend sometimes. He's been okay but there a little things that irritate me. For example - he texted me, "honey, we're gonna take pics with Santa on this day. My sister wants us to take group pics." Me: Mmm okay. And you didn't ask me first? I could've been working that day and you just said, "yes"? Him: omg honey, don't make it a big deal! And he huffs and puffs. Why are people making plans FOR me without consulting me? And stupid boyfriend is the little brother that goes along with everything. |
Question: May I know your opinions about my situation? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 09:29 PM PST It's part of our culture where children takes care of the parents. I want to work in a handcraft business. I can't support my parents with a handcraft business salary, at least in the first few stages. So it's really difficult to find that balance, in terms of doing what I love, but then also supporting people that I love. My siblings have been successful in their careers. Before, they are able to give a large sum but now since they've got their own family to support, they can only give little money. I haven't finished schooling due to financial issues. My dad keeps insisting me to work with him. His business isn't doing well for many years & he's a very difficult person to work with. There are days that he & I would have a row. I told him that if money is the problem to launch your business, I'd like to find employment outside for a few months & earn capital for his business. He said: "Don't argue with me any further! Stay here & just work! We'll ask more money from your siblings!". Of course, mom couldn't do anything about it 'cuz dad could turn into a hulk when he's really pissed. Sometimes I wish I'd leave them & run to my relatives' home. At the same time, I feel the strong guilt for giving & on them. Even though my parents give my siblings all the credit & praise because of their achievements, I still love them. I mean they have sacrificed for my education & other expenses. I'm now keeping a leather craft business a secret. It's hard but I think I can manage. |
Question: What does it mean if he stares after all this? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 09:21 PM PST 2 And half months ago I texted my ex and he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me(he had insulted my mom and insulted his mom back- he said my mom looks like she came from the club and I said his mom looked like he came from the stable and didn't buy her new clothes. At church he constnstly stares at me and 2 weeks ago he smiled and said hi And last week he he again was staring and when our glances met he smiled. What does this mean? |
Question: Why does my family suck so bad and how can I fix it? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 08:12 PM PST Okay, so I m not old enough to get a job or move out, so I m stuck living with my mom, dad and sister for a few more years. I m online schooled, so I have literally no friends. No way for me to make any friends either. Now that that s out of the way, my mother is really bad. She has fibromyalgia which she believes is a physical condition while I believe it s mental. She also just had surgery recently to get a hysterectomy (?) because she had cervical cancer which is all gone now. But anyway, even before her surgery, she lays in bed literally all day long and sleeps and is on her phone. She only leaves her room to eat and smoke cigarettes. This is taking a toll on me because I have a perfectly fine mother (she s been recovering from her surgery for the past few weeks so she s not perfectly fine right now) who refuses to spend time with me and the rest of her family. Also another super annoying thing she does is complains literally all the time. Whenever she comes out of her room she s constantly talking about how she "hurts" and it s driving me crazy. She s been like this with her fibromyalgia for about 3 years now. My sister and father don t really bother me too much, it s just my dad s kinda annoying with him reminding me to do stuff even though I already know to and my sister being in really bad moods often. Please does anybody have any ideas on how I can try to have a happier life? Thank you for reading, I know it was a lot. |
Question: Should I keep nursing? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 08:10 PM PST A good friend of mine tragically passed away yesterday, leaving behind her 2 year old daughter. The child's father isn't in the picture, so the little girl is currently with another one of our friends. My friend who is looking after the child called me yesterday in hysterics because she couldn't get the baby to calm down. She apparently woke up from a nap and was frantically searching for her mom :( this little girl is still nursing and that is what she does every day when she wakes from a nap. After exhausting all options my friend asked me to come over and nurse her. She was confused at first but settled and started nursing within about 2 minutes. I came over and did this again before she went to bed last night, and again this morning. As much as I want to help (and am happy to help), I don't think I am doing much good for this little girl... She is only going to become attached to me. My friend keeps reassuring me that it's just a temporary fix until she's stopped grieving. This poor kid has no idea though, her mom is just gone, someone else is looking after her and I am stepping in "temporarily" to nurse her. I feel a bit uneasy about it. My friend is super stressed though and I think by helping her calm the baby I am taking away a great deal of that stress. I am in such a hard spot right now, should I keep nursing her for the time being or should I stop? |
Question: Feel guilty when my parents spend money on me? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 07:48 PM PST I rarely ask for anything from my parents just because I want it, it's normally things I need (for school or something) but anytime I do want something, I offer to pay because I feel so guilty for some reason? My parents offer me so much all of the time - telling me to go buy anything online or to go shopping with my friends. I know we have no issues with money - we are probably more on the wealthy side rather than the poor but I just can't help feeling the way I do. Especially now with Christmas coming up and all these gifts they're buying. Is this normal? (idk if this is relevant but i'm 14) |
Question: Girls would you be pissed? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 07:42 PM PST my crush unfollowed me on social media just because of me liking chick in bikinis/half naked pics? wtf. Yes sometimes i will put in love emoji faces but it's just to play/entertainment/some of these girls i've known forever since hs. would you be mad if the guy you liked did this stuff? would you too cut him off? just like she did to me. She had warned me before hand but i thought she was playing... |
Question: My grandma is abusive. What will the police do if I call them? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:38 PM PST So basically I was at my grandmas house because my parents wanted me to visit her and I'm 14 so she hugged me when I arrived and we went upstairs to talk about my life and while we were talking she gave me a cupcake and let me eat it so I took a bite and part of the cupcake accidentally fell to the floor and I immediately picked it up and apologized but my grandma SCREAMED SO LOUD "HOW DARE YOU!!!!!!" And came over to me and SLAPPED MY FACE HARD and started beating my HEAD with her spoon which hurt a lot and I actually started to bleed and she grabbed her belt and started whipping me with it so I ran out of the room and she SCREAMED "YOUR NOT MY GRANDCHILD, YOUR AN IMPOSTER" and I thought what the heck? And she came over to me and grabbed her kitchen knife and actually slightly stabbed me in the arm and I barely missed and she grabbed the plate and threw it at me and ran to me and tried to stab me but I ran out of the house. This is a serious question I told my parents and they don't know what to do because it's their family member... please help advice this is serious troll answers ignored and reported |
Question: What would you do.,? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:26 PM PST My GF of 5 years, had a one night stand with one of her friends during a bad period of mine.( binge drinking and drugs), I believe it was just that one time. Anyways she didn't tell me then.. she told me she was prego and I became clean ever since and was there for her. The child is 3 months old and just confirmed it's not mine . Idk |
Question: Girls simple question? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:13 PM PST so my crush unfollowed me on social media just because of me liking chick in bikinis/half naked pics? wtf. Yes sometimes i will put in love emoji faces but it's just to play/entertainment/some of these girls i've known forever since hs. would you be mad if the guy you liked did this stuff? would you too cut him off? just like she did to me. She had warned me before hand but i thought she was playing. |
Question: Can parents hug you without permission? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:12 PM PST (I'm under 18) My mom always hugs me, holds hands, or touches my butt or face (in a non-sexual way) without permission. She is a very touchy person and it is her way of expressing love, but it makes me feel like I want to jump out of my skin. I've tried to tell her many times that it makes me uncomfortable, but her response is pretty much that she doesn't need my permission because she's my mom. Is she allowed to do this? How can I get her to stop? |
Question: My sister came at with a knife. Need Advice? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:05 PM PST Okay not a troll or anything, and I usually never ask questions on here but could use a third party opinion. So before I explain what happened, I come from a dysfunctional family. anyways.. Christmas is coming up and my brother came home for the holidays. He's working for the railroad and making some decent money now, so he just bought a new truck and phones and all. Then he gathered most of the family to go to my uncle's for the day, but like the whole day he was bragging and making comments like "I wouldn't be able to make it on the railroad". It was bugging me so I got pissed after letting a lot of comments slide. I said my piece and apologized for getting upset. Here's where I need advice. My brother wouldn't let it go, he kept wanting to talk about it and explain why what made me upset was not his intentions. I understood that completely but he didn't understand that I didn't care anymore. We all just wanted to go to bed. So we stayed up all the way til 4am talking about it and that's when my sister and mother finally jumped in. We all wanted to just go to bed and let it go, but out of no where my brother said "and remember what I said, F*** that baby". (he was talking about my sister's baby, we live with each other and he thinks I shouldn't treat my nephew as if it's my responsibility). And he said that right in front of my sister. So she blew up and said he had to leave, but she was screaming, banging on the doors, and I was worried about cops coming so I told her to calm down but when I told her to calm down I called her a b****. I didn't even mean it, you know how it is when people are yelling and emotional. She took it very seriously and swung on me so I had to restrain her. Then she went to the kitchen and came at me with 2 knives. My ear got cut pretty bad, everyone has been asking me about it and I just really don't know what to do about all of them at this point. I want to forgive and forget, but I don't think I can. Basically my question is, what would do if it happened to you? I know it's hard to relate because my family doesn't argue like normal families that love each other. Thanks for your time , and answers. Thanks for all the answers, sorry for forgetting to add how old I am. I'm 21 and I know my family is dysfunctional. I left and have been taking care of myself since I was 18. But me and my sister have always been close so after living with a roommate and it ending bad, me and my sister decided live together again. That was 7months ago and stuff like this is starting to occur. So yeah I'ma focus on getting a spot of my own, and forgiving my sister. I can't forget it though |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 06:00 PM PST My brother in law, had criticized me and my parents along with my cousins. I busted my butt working to save up money for her bridal shower $3600 and he had the audacity to say I didn't pay for it and that my mom did. When she didn't pay a cent. When I bought him a Xmas present he was ungrateful and claimed my sister bought it. Which she didn't do. I bought him a cake for his bday and he claimed my mom bought it. He acts like I'm unemployed when I work 5 days a week 40+ hours. What's wrong w/him? |
Question: What documents would I need for bah if I m not married but have a dependent? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 05:53 PM PST |
Question: Relying on my narcissist mother..? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 04:49 PM PST It's basketball season my mom and dad is divorced and my mom is a narcissist so for basketball my dad buyer me my shoes and got me my physical last year when I played my mom got me reduced lunch even though she makes a lot of money so my dad is not getting reduced lunch cause he makes way more then what it says on the paper so my dad sayed if he pays 100 dollars he not getting me christmas and my mom don't buy me anything for christmas or really does anything for me and I really want to play basketball cause it takes me mind off bad things don't make me depressed and keeps me in shape and I want christmas because this is the one time of the year that I actually get clothes and I don't have many clothes or shoes and can y'all actually ANSWER the got damn question instead of replying with dumb **** about punctuation I don't have time for that all I want is a ******* answer and y'all old mofo on here think everything is a joke |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 04:45 PM PST My dad recently had a baby with a woman from his work. I don't think they're even together anymore and I haven't met her or know what she looks like. They're supposed to have the baptism thing tonight. He wants me to go. I'm a 17 yr old male, I don't care about a baptism! My older half sister is going and bringing her two kids. It's something I just don't care about. Originally my dad wasn't going to go either because he was dealing with a kidney stone and had some serious pain, so i was like I'm off the hook but then he passed it this afternoon and now wants to drag me to this. I need an excuse too to get out of this. Who would think he'd even be able to go after passing a stone. I heard that's like childbirth through a man's.....you know! I feel awkward being that I never met this woman too and there will be some of his work people there too. |
Question: I forgot my girlfriends birthday, She said she’s embarrassed?? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 04:00 PM PST Her birthday is the 26th of December and I accidentally blurred out (ON FACETIME) the 24th because my moms birthday is the 24th. I apologized and said, "I'm sorry I've been sick and I guess I was thinking about my moms birthday" she acted like it was ok but I know she was upset. She said she was embarrassed.. I feel absolutely horrible. It's probably going to eat me up for my entire life because I love her more than anything this universe has to offer. What should I do? How can I fix this? Why would she say she's embarrassed? |
Question: Is this child emotional abuse??! PLEASE HELP!!!? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 03:48 PM PST My mom always makes fun of my auditory processing disorder and comes up with excuses to tell me that she isn't abusive and it really hurts my feelings. My mom will point out to my brothers that I can't take "obvious" jokes to my 2 younger brothers and lie to me that she isn't emotionally abusing me because "she always takes up for me", but I can't really see how she takes up for me as much as makes me feel awful and stupid all the time. This has been so detrimental to my self esteem, I can't even put it into words. It makes it worse that my grandparents get onto me for disrespecting her, when they don't know how bad my situation is and how bad I feel due to this on a daily basis. This has affected me so deeply that I don't even know what a healthy mother daughter relationship is supposed to look like anymore. I cry myself to sleep every night. Finals haven't been better. I'm a freshman and worried I'm going to fail 2 of my finals too. I need to know if this is abuse and if so, what steps I can take to improve my situation. Btw, I am a freshman in high school if it helps. Help is highly appreciated!!! I will admit that I yell at my mom all the time and she justifies her behavior based on how I yell so I deserve it. Is that true and/or is what my mom does still emotional abuse? Why is it emotional abuse or why not? Help is appreciated!!! |
Question: Is my daughter depressed? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 03:11 PM PST She's 25 & came home. She said she thought it would be better if she died. Then next day, called out from work to use it as a personal day |
Question: I forgot my girlfriends birthday? HELP!? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 02:55 PM PST Her birthday is the 26th of December and I accidentally blurred out (ON FACETIME) the 24th because my moms birthday is the 24th. I apologized and said, "I'm sorry I've been sick and I guess I was thinking about my moms birthday" she acted like it was ok but I know she was upset. She said she was embarrassed.. I feel absolutely horrible. It's probably going to eat me up for my entire life because I love her more than anything this universe has to offer. What should I do? How can I fix this? Why would she say she's embarrassed? |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 02:40 PM PST He keeps on telling me to punch his hand to see if I can fight for my safety, he keeps saying he'll break any boys legs if they try to date me, and he tells me turn around and comments on my body, plus he plucks my phone from my back pocket and he asks me to wipe down his sweaty back, when I was around 9 he'd watch sex scenes when I'm around and he'd never tell me to leave. He's been like this since I was little. Plus he keeps bragging to me about all his girlfriends and how he sometimes has more than one in secret. My mother doesn't like him very much but I'm begginig to think most men are like him. |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 02:24 PM PST Two of them would come around for a brief visit every 2 years or so and cause me extreme emotional disturbance. I have not seen any of them in 12 years. They said mean things to me "You are a fool" "Don't call here again" "You are a very small part of the world" "you have nothing" "You look rough" "you are **** out of luck" "you are just a lonely person" My aunt told me "Don't ever have kids" 14 years ago. This was the last time I saw or heard from her directly. |
Question: How do I lower my expectations this Christmas so I am not disappointed? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 02:15 PM PST I miss the joy of the days it was a big family get together when I was a kid. We had 19 cousins on my Mom's side and 12 on my Dad's side. Now I am an adult. All four grandparents have died. Naturally after the grandparents died the family events were less. My Mom had disagreements with her family so while they get together at Thanksgiving, we are not welcome. I see them at other times of the year at funerals and they still ask me to weddings. On my Dad's side everyone lived out of town but after the grandparents died they stopped coming to town. We are still close but summer is when we gather and not Christmas. So Christmas is just my parents and I, my 3 siblings and their spouses and two nephews. Also one aunt stops by with her son sometimes (one sister my Mom sees still). All the joy we had is gone and I feel so sad that it is a let down. How do I not let this happen on Christmas this year? |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 01:58 PM PST I am the OCD social person. I am terrified of rejection by a family member at Christmas. We will be seeing all of my Dad's family on Christmas night and on the 23rd. I'd like to offer to take a gift by to my Mom's brother's family also. I am hoping to go when his kids (young adults) are there and not just him and his wife. He is the only family member of my mother's in town for Christmas as the grandparents have died and my Mom caused us to miss Thanksgiving, So since I don't want to be intrusive but also don't want to get rejected how do I ask politely if I can bring a gift by at a time convenient while his children are over? As a kid we didn't see my mother's family much cause of grudges my mother liked holding onto so if I only see my Dad's family for Christmas it is going to feel like the dark Christmas' when I was a kid and we only saw his side of the family and it will wreck Christmas. |
Posted: 11 Dec 2017 01:54 PM PST This will be the first year I am not allowed to see my Granny and Papa. My parents won't let me see them cause my uncle who is a bad man is going to be there. The uncle had an affair on his wife and got a woman to leave her husband for him. So as a result we don't speak to this uncle who is bad. I feel so sad cause all my cousins will get to see my grandparents but not me. I see them the weekend after New Years when the uncle and his bad wife leave. I feel so bad and like I am hurting my grandparents though they say not to worry about it. Christmas will be awful this year, how can I make it not so bad. I am 13 and it is the worst year of Christmas in my life. Anonymous: I have never asked this before. Why do you say I keep asking it? |
Question: Mother in law doesn't like me? Posted: 11 Dec 2017 12:28 PM PST I've been married with my husband for 2 years but together for 6 years. Before we got married his mom loved me & we got along well I would always go to his house & help her clean, cook and take care of his siblings. Even when we had a breakup she was there for me but the second my husband told her he wanted to get married with me she completely changed towards me. I did absolutely nothing to her. She would talk down on me to her family. She said that I thought I was all that & thought I was better than them. When in reality I'm not just because instead of having a big wedding I wanted to buy new furniture for our apartment. She even told me that her son didn't have friend because of me. When they just ask to hang out with him when they need a favor from him or want to drink.. so unessasery drama. Idk how to confront her without her taking it the wrong way. I just want to clear the air. |
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