A while back i found a dating website on my dads computer with his description in it and it said looking in cozumel mexico and he always goes on "buisness trips" there. I also found that he doesnt have any numbers saved in his contacts (They are just phone numbers). And he was once texting his female friend and i glanced and saw that she sent him a nude photo. I really dont know what to do about this and i know that if my parents get divorced my life will completly change. I am 14 also have a 16 year old brother.

I met a much older man when I was separated from my husband 2 years ago. My fling and I were both going through some things...we were lovers and loved going out to dinner and movies. Our situations were crazy yes but the both of us supported each other mentally and sexually. The problem is after 2 years and missing my husband I want to work my marriage out and my husband and I agreed that we must put our past behind us to do so. My fling won't stop calling and hes upset claiming my husband stepped his game up. Mind you my flLing can't talk because his so called female friend lives with him and honestly that's his woman and her grown kids and grandkids he claims as his own. I know he still loves her so why can't he realize the reason why I haven't called him in the past 4 months is because Im trying to work my marriage out. My fling told me that he loved me, he's addicted to me and that he has to see me.

I heard that they actually prefer a woman who has meat on her bones rather than the obvious beautiful supermodel.

I am really struggling with how to deal with this. My wife is very upset that my 20 year old daughter is choosing to attend a friend gathering instead of my wife s side holiday gathering. My daughter has the opinion that she doesn t need to develop relationships with her step-mom s siblings and their kids, etc. She will just go to this party and not know anybody and not talk to anyone. I understand her concerns and realize this was not her choice to be in this new family situation. Looking for answers from anyone who has experience in this situation.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, he is married but we don't have sex. Mainly because I don't want him to commit adultery/fornication. We get along great, he opens up to me, tells me his deepest, darkest secrets and we never argue. He has been promising me that we will get married soon. We even agreed to stop having sex until we get married! I'd believe him if he proved it, my heart is slowly breaking as time goes on because a part of me feels that he will never actually marry me. It's just taking him too long and I can't waste another year of my life. Whenever I ask him about it he always say he needs more "time." How much time does he need? I love him unconditionally but I need commitment. This is my first time ever being in a situation like this but I wouldn't be around if I didn't love him. I know I have to show him I'm serious that's why I have planned to leave although I really don't want to. Why is he with me if he isn't going to leave his wife? Do married men do this only to go back to their wives? It's breaking my heart but I've made up my mind not to let this continue into the new year.

A girl I dated and loved very much and I broke up in February and she moved back to Utah while I stayed in Tennessee. I found out about the baby when I was visiting friends in Utah and saw her pregnant. Her husband and her were having marriage problems while we had an affair and they were legally separated. We were together for 6 months. I love her and I don't know how to ask if the baby is mine. I know she got back together with her husband in march and we last had sex was very late February early march I just feel really hurt about this. One of my friends in Utah said they've been fighting non stop and he left her/ she threw him out. I'm having to go to Utah for a meeting how should I approach her? Should I contact an attorney

Hello , So I wanted to see if any one out there has any good stories or advice they can give me My boyfriend and I have been together for four year's and we have a small son we are not married yet and I know you can't pressure some one to marry you but here's a little back story So we finally moved out on our own we were living with his parent's and it was ok but i knew we needed our own place so I am much happier having my own place to call home but i feel like I still wish I could have a dream wedding nothing too big or crazy but have that dream that every girl wants so it just seem's like he's never ready and its frustating I would love to get married and have the same last name I know this might be silly about a last name but it would mean so much to me that we would always be connected I hate applying to thing's and it's always separate last names When we went to one of the family's christmas party's they said if if he would be next to get married he still say's he isnt ready so I am not bringing anything up but it does hurt it feels like were together but then were not something is always missing I thought maybe some one on yahoo answers would read this and give me any advice or anything to think about

A girl I dated and loved very much and I broke up in February and she moved back to Utah while I stayed in Tennessee. I found out about the baby when I was visiting friends in Utah and saw her pregnant. Her husband and her were having marriage problems while we had an affair and they were legally separated. We were together for 6 months. I love her and I don't know how to ask if the baby is mine. I know she got back together with her husband in march and we last had sex was very late February early march I just feel really hurt about this.

Hello not sure if anyone got correct answer but I finding hard myself to find answer on Google. its only new relationship but I hope to get married at some point. Im on high care and low mobility on both esa and dvla but my boyfriend has full time job. if we get married would it effect my money and if so how much. its important to me as well I don't want unmarried mothers on benfits. i have kids one day not live in sin. I currently don't have kids btw its a dream marriage and then kids if it is all possible if anyone can help with useful links for me

I was with my gf and her friends a waitress, we talked a few times at the table as she came by, I have good self esteem and confidence in myself, I don't hit on other women, but every time she would mention her husband to us, I got irritated and started feeling uncomfortable, like indirectly saying she ain't attracted to me or girls do that s*** if they think a guys hitting on them, I Was note. I don't care they mention a husband, but repetitively made me feel like, did I do something to provoke it? She was very respectful and kind with me with the service, but her constant mentioning of her husband after a while was bothering me. Does her mentioning her husband have any thing to do with giving another guy indirect cues?

She really is the one. I feel guilty for saying this, but I love her more than anybody. What should I do?

I'm asking this for people who have been together for an extended amount of time. So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and have been friends for over 2 years. We know just about everything about each other and our lives are pretty intertwined. When we first started having sex we honestly had sex just about every day. Without even living together we'd somehow find time for each other. In the months since then its slowed down periodically up until this point where it's about once or twice a week. Nothing seems like it's changed between us but it seems like she just isn't as passionate like before. Is this normal? I mean we were friends before going out, so could this have been like a honeymoon period?

My wife gave birth to our third child on Nov. 1. We have two other children who are 3 & 4 years old. This holiday season has been a bit hectic with my wife returning to work just before Christmas and still trying to get our new home in order. We tried to get holiday shopping done beforehand, but it didn't quite work out that way. My wife's boss told her not to be too hard on herself, she has an excuse and recovering from childbirth and taking care of the baby are more important. She wasn't ready to return when she did, but she did because he and her replacement were calling with questions 5 times a day. Now she's mad at me because she's been late every day this week. I'm on vacation, so I'm at home taking care of the kiddos. Before me and the kids, she was the type of person that had to have everything perfect. What can I do or say to show her that not everything has to be "just so" all the time? She's always been the type of person that believes she has to do things herself for them to be done, or be done correctly. She's never really had anyone to help, so she doesn't know how to ask for it either. I'm not sure if she could be suffering from depression or is just overwhelmed with everything. Any thoughts? Just to clear some things up: I do help out around the house without being asked. I'm the one who does most of the cleaning, while she does the laundry. Laundry for a family of 5 with bedding every week takes time. We share in the cooking, as we share in the childcare. Whomever is available is who does what needs done. She's late because she can't wake up. She has 2 alarms set on her phone, and doesn't hear either one of them. I have silenced them so they don't wake up the baby. We don't have any family here. With our first two children, I was at a job that didn't allow for paid time off. So rather than lose two incomes, I went to work. Bad choice of wording, sorry.

I need to know what I should be thinking, feeling, or doing. Yes, im officially confused. My wife says she's a godly person, then tells me she can't stand me, tells me she is intentionally going to "torture" me mentally and emotionally until I leave her and my kids, she tells me she will max out our credit cards until we have nothing, she has encouraged me to cheat so she can divorce me, she constantly throws the past in my face (6 to 8 years ago stuff), she calls me selfish and then won't tell me how I am, she calls me evil and ugly to me and then talks about how I am devilish to my kids, she tells my kids I don't care about them. I feel into depression about 6 or 7 years ago when my best friend was murdered, I emotionally neglected my wife and I was just out of it. I came out of that mess and worked towards getting my family out of this horrible town and we moved, I got promoted. We live in a better town, better schools, better community. I don't know anything anymore!! Sorry this is just everywhere. I guess I don't know what I'm looking for here

Well , my wife and I have been married from five years now. She is bisexual and had a girlfriend in 2008 . In 2010 they broke up and in 2012 we get married . But although they broke up they were in touch and that did not make me worried . In December 2013 her girlfriend came to visit us . Her girlfriend is very beautiful and has an attractive personality . It was like a normal visit. But after that she started visiting us every December and she will stay for 5 days ! This time she came to visit us on 21 December . She seemed to be very close to my wife and showed a lot of affection openly and it made me very jealous . What to do now ? Should I say my wife to avoid her or let it happen for a week every year !

My wife and her family DO NOT get along. It's so bad things have been physical between them. She once pulled a knife on her mother. We are on vacation with them and today her father slapped her across the face because she was talking supposedly too loud in the lobby. I can't take it much more and I've been considering a divorce. The thought of raising children in this environment concerns me. She's a totally different person when not with her family. Calm, not at all violent totally different person. I can't stand her family. Any advice? I don't want to tell her to cut ties with her family. My family wants nothing to do with hers.

on his day off, my husband was making several work calls.He called this woman and started his conversation with "i cannot talk a lot with you today, i am off today" .when i asked him who is she? he said she is my partner with his face lighting up ! always always when he talks to her he is his extra nice person. well, she works in a totally different department and isn't his partner!! i found it inappropriate calling her that.. but i could feel that she is the one he liked. when she leaves a whats app voice mail i can hear her extra softness for him. then he made her a hidden contact which doesn't show on his whats app list. when i confronted him, she appeared again as a contact.But she is always the last one on the list, even if she sent something on the same day (probably he is deleting her msgs). He stays late at work and i never bother him with questions..and when i ask about his day at work he does not want to talk about it .well, i need to be his partner and the one he talks a lot with not her .. There is another woman at work who starts her conversation with" hey how much do you love me ??"then states her request !! i usually do not snoop ..but i feel something weird ..should i feel suspicious? is this his 40s new behavior or i am making stories ?

I did not say anything to him while making the decision other than I'll support him in what he decides. I do not want to have the responsibility of keeping him from going after his dream job. But here's the thing: -We leave 6 hrs drive away from the place. In the metropolitan area. Being a foreign myself in this country, and not mastering yet the language, this is my place to leave. -We have been leaving 9 years here, and last year for the first time I was able to get a very good job in my own field. -We have 2 children, one diagnosed with ADHD and aspenger. We are currently getting lot of support from pre-school and occupational therapy for him. -For years I feel its been all about his job, as I did not have any and was home raising kids.... So no, I do not want to move away (we have lived there 9 years ago for few months, I felt so lonely, not many foreginers there. No, I do not want to be unemployed again, even though they told him they will help me get a job there. No, I would not like to take our kids off their environment, even though they said they will help us with school and services there. I know I told him I'd support him in any decision. I did make clear I am not moving without a job and I am not moving until his trial period is over (6 months), But he never even asked me, do I want to live there again? After few days, and no I did not want to say or express any strong feelings about it. I wanted it to be his decision and what would make him happy (he knew hed have to move by himself for months), he told me he took the job. I want to be supportive, but I feel I cant. I am disappointed he chose to change everyones lives because of his dreams. I am disappointed he put me in this hard position. What to do? What to feel? Am I wrong for not feeling supportive?

My husband recieved some really nice presents for Christmas. He recieved $100 from both his grandfathers, $500 from his parents, and a few gift cards from my family and his friends/work. I recieved silly gifts, mostly knicknacks, bath stuff, and a $100 gift card from my grandpa which I spent on groceries. I also recieved a gift card to a restaurant from work and I picked a restaurant that I knew he would like. We didn't but each other gifts but I spent my Christmas gifts on him and our house. He refuses to spend any of his money/gifts on me and I just feel like he is being selfish. Is He? Or am I overreacting?

If your wife let child do housework and use all children's money will you still love her or divorce her?

Well, I mean the only love I've had is with the two that died...well I suppose I would've got rejected in the end anyway

My husband and I went to honeymoon and he was being sadistic to me in sex.