I'm bisexual and I notice this in both guys and girls equally. Ftr. I'm not talking about players, even - I'm talking about people who CLEARLY aren't interested, at all.

I met this dude who is pretty well off we fell in love and him. I am currently 4 months pregnant with his baby and he married me right away when I told him I was. He lets me live with him but he is cheating on me and he is very controlling. I don't know what to do I don't want to leave him cause I'm having his baby and I won't have any other place to go. I have no family or friends. Help plz

I am 28 years old and never had a girlfriend. Every girl I speak to lately rejects me. Yes, I am nice guy. I am depressed and feel like I will die a lonely man. I do my best to keep a smile on my face and to love myself but I can no longer be happy because I want a girl to share my life with. It just feels like no girl wants me no matter how much I try. Everytime I see a couple walking by holding hands, I feel jealous and wonder when it will my turn. I feel like giving up and accepting that no girl wants me. I don't know what to do with myself. Asking for help please and thank you.

I am bi and I have no problem dating woman of any race but when it comes to guys I tend to like white guys. Is this wrong of me to do?

think my colleague flirt me several months. i think my colleague flirt me several times . i told him i was leaving abroad for master. when i told him that he teared up and i saw his lower lip quiver and he got emotional. one week later he told me lies his girlfriend doing her master in france. and after he smiled at me why? i told him again for my master and he teared up. one other time he told me some want do their master. why?

At work we are all ripped out of our minds and fit as hell, considering we work at a ski resort. As a result, we work very hard and do things that most human beings could never even dream of. However,recently some jackass manager hired a rounder than hell guy and he basically can't do anything that we do. Therefore we now can't take hot pics together or run train on people at the bar. How on earth should we deal with this bubble boy? He needs to go like yesterday.

I have a crush on god guy that I don't know very well and he added me a little while ago but we don't talk. I need some ideas on how to maybe make him start a conversation first?

I asked why the laughing emoji and she replied with "no reason?" Is this bad?

It was our first date, we are both 16, I had known this girl for a long time and i finally had the guts to ask her out. We went to a movie this night, the new star wars, and we held hands and everything, and then when it was done i kissed her, but she didn't pull away she just kept kissing me. She checked her phone, but i couldnt see what was on her screen, I believe she was just seeing if her dad had texted her. Afterwards we left outta the theater and she said i gotta go to the bathroom, she was in there for 7 mins, which is a long time if you ask me. Then she walked out, brushed past my shoulder and left building without saying a word, she hasnt answered any texts since then. I dont know what I did to **** up and I dont know why but im in tears at the thought that I did something to make her feel like that

two days ago, i told my crush i like him by telling his brother, the next day which was yesterday, During passing period in schooL his brother told me to come over to his posse and i went my crush was like " i didn't want to talk to her??" and he walk away ;( the day i told him i liked him he kept looking at me. should i just move on??? ;(

Me and my girlfriend want to run away and get married she said she can't stand it ay home anymore she's having lots of problems needs to get away for a while. She's 25 I'm 22. Can we run off and get married ?

1. When Noah first approaches Allie while she is dating someone else at a carnival, she says "No" to him and looks at him in disgust as he keeps moving in on her. "No" means "Yes?" 2. He stalks her to the Ferris Wheel where he watches her and waits for an opportunity to jump onto her cart, again, as she is WITH SOMEONE ELSE! As the wheel spins, pushing the cart further from the ground, he hangs himself by a metal pole above it and threatens to drop himself if Allie refuses a date with him. He then makes her keep repeating "Yes" out loud. 3. When he encounters her on the street later, he harasses her much the same as he pursues while she keeps pushing him back. "No" means "Yes?" He even says, "When I see something that I like, I gotta- I LOVE IT!" Ladies, is that anything you'd appreciate a man you knew for a few minutes saying to you? Especially one you repeatedly pushed away? 4. What the **** was up with his laying-in-the-middle-of-the-street fantasy where a car nearly ran both of them over and they knew in advance this would likely happen? And how the hell was this charming to Allie? I know they saying goes we will never understand women, but this went over the rainbow. 5. The moment after they ****** the 1st time said it all: Allie asks Noah, after noticing her mind raced during the sex while his did not and in general noticing his emotionless nature after all this time (notice, throughout the movie, his vocal tone and body language is flat?), does he have a care in the world? To which he does not respond, and she blames herself. As someone who has studied sociopaths, I noticed both what she noticed, the fact he lured her away from her family into the woods and a broken house, and how he told her "none of this was planned." All someone who does not feel is calculate, premeditate how they are going to make what they want to happen happen. And his silence as she asked him a question was the perfect way to get her to make her feel like any problems rested on shoulders, making her "confide" in him and feel for him further. Again, he displays no emotion. 6. So yelling at and hitting each other is a normal part of a romantic relationship? Everything I have ever read says you keep your hands to yourself unless the other person is an immediate threat to someone. Which, I guess given young Noah is a borderline sociopath, makes this semi-okay, but I think most counselors would agree women attacking their aggressive men is not a smart choice. 7. Again, I speak to the ladies: how would you feel if, in this day and age, a man texted you 365 times? Does it not make sense for him to stop after being ignored the 5th time, and then become creepy for him to reach out another 360 times? Why was Allie not disturbed by this? 8. Allie being emotionally flippant as a teenager is logical, but it is not when that behavior carries into her 20s. I know many people do not grow up as fast as they should, but why is this portrayed as part of one of the most classic romances ever? 9. Noah threatening potential house buyers with a shotgun after they asked to buy his house above his asking price because he thought them purchasing it was their way of seizing his relationship with Allie when they never knew about it. This is sensitivity at its peak, and I literally backed away from my monitor as I watched that. After everything I said, he is far from a mentally stable man.

So, this girl really liked me, she literally fell in love with me. I hung out with her a few times. Even though I told her I'm not into a relationship, and I told her I see her as a friend. But throughout the time we hung out, she asked for many hugs, which I gave her. She then asked for a kiss two weeks after hanging out, and I denied it. She even wanted to marry me. She kept on bringing it up when she had the chance. Eventually, I just wanted to make it clear that I only saw her as a friend. which she said she knew. Later on, I got talking to this other girl, when I told my other friend about her, he told the girl that liked me then she got depression. She still likes me, but there is this other guy who she absolutely loves. She met him in another country, and up until this point, she thought she wouldn't have much of a chance. But now she's talking to him again and when she told him that she liked him, he told her he just wanted to be friends. I can see she is attached to him. She is giving herself depression by looking at his pictures on her phone and thinking about her. I'm trying to help her get over him because this guy doesn't seem interested in a relationship with her based on their texts. I've told her not to get attached as it isn't promised he will get with her. If he chooses someone else, she'll get depressed. This girl's friend, also my friend, told me she's desperate for a boyfriend. She's seen her asking other guys out. @bon nuite, I don't like her anymore than a friend. but this other guy doesn't seem to like her and she's trying to get with him even though he's told her he just wants to be friend. I'm just trying to help her get over him so she isn't depressed if things don't work out between them, or at least not as attached to him.

This is a long story. I m 16, and am in the middle of a stressful junior year. It actually started off really nicely, believe it or not. I liked most of my classes, had lots of nice friends to be around, made the varsity soccer team, and had a new crush. I spent the first quarter enjoying myself as much as possible, and hoping that maybe something would work out between me and this girl.

Hi guys! I'm a really lover type of guy who falls in love with almost every girl I see around the world. Especially at college, where it is a home of thousands of beautiful girls.I'm very nice to girls. I'm consider sweet to most girls. I'm looking for a lover type of girls such as sharing personal feelings with her, protect her, support her, be there for her, if she cries, she can cry on my shoulder, hug her and kiss her. Then after a few years later, I will marry her. I enjoy making friends with girls more than guys to be honest with everyone. I also love to spend time with my female friends more than my guy friends. I pretty much don't care of any guys makes fun of me liking girls a lot or spending time with girls. However, most guys don't treat girls with respect. They always seems look at girls as a sexual object. They don't care how their girlfriend feels, and whenever they hangout with their guy friends along with his girlfriend, they mostly ignore because he put his friends higher than his girlfriend. On the one hand, most guys call girls sexy/hot which is offensive to most girls. Mr on the other hand, I like to compliment girls on positive comments like,I like your hair, outfit, boots, and I call girls pretty, gorgeous and beautiful because every girls should be called beautiful by guys. So girls, do I sound too romantic, or weird? Is this the right thing to say about girls? I don't care what guys think of me like this because I do prefer girls over guys.

Like for example when someone asks him why he walks away from relationships so easily as well as friendships he says cuz he no room for stupidity or ignorance or liars

Almost 24, and still a virgin. I have no experience in bed and very little dating experience. My problem is I have a great personality and I'm really hardworking. Women flirt with me more than ever. I got serious about my health and lost a ton of weight, but that didn't help. All of my insecurity and lack of confidence come from my lack of size and experience in bed. I don't know what to do. I get so depressed this time of year. I want to know what it's like to spend the holiday season with a girl. New Years. Valentine's Day. St. Paddys. The hardest part isn't fear of rejection, it's being afraid to let a girl I really like down once she see's my problem. Please help. I'm too embarrassed to talk to friends or family about it. I feel like they think I'm a Oder.

So last year I gave my crush a invitation to Sade s and never heard back. He kept subtly flirting with me every now and then, but the week after Sadie s he hung around with a girl I ve never seen before. I m assuming they re dating now since they always walk together and touch each other in a couplely way. I basically was rejected, so I m ignoring him and going on with my life. Why do they keep hanging around me? They sit in front of me or behind me, even when it s a huge room. Why won t they leave me alone? It s driving me nuts because I just wanted them out of m y face. I don t act like it bothers me but it does.

guy I know I don't really know him with all each other on social media we saw each other there for the first time at a party he hugged me when I was leaving I know him he knows some of my cousins. I saw him again at another party and he went up to me to say hello I was going to shake his hand and he Pulled me towards and hugged me. It was a little awkward for Me I didn't expect it , When he was leaving my cousins were standing up and I was sitting down he said bye to them and he shook their hands he was coming towards me and he bent down to hug me so I had to stand up to hug or why was he hugging me and shaking their hands

So at school, I was sitting next to my teacher s desk waiting for her to give me my homework after it finished printing up. So while waiting i was bored so I decided to spin around a little bit on the chair (its the type of chair that has wheels on the bottom) and so when I turned to the side where the computers were, I saw this guy sitting there using the computer and he turned around and saw me. We locked eyes for like 4 seconds... on the 5th second he smiled at me, I broke eye contact and turned back around because at that moment that was when **** got really awkward.. We never talked before or know each other.. So what does that mean?? Could it be love at first sight? Does it mean he likes me or was he just being friendly?

I a]have told him why I broke up with him and given him like 13 reasons all true and valid. He won't accept it. Even after he finally understood that I don't wanna see him he continues to say I'll test you when we have free time over summer. I made it very clear but he just keeps trying to make me say that I'll start talking to him again later but I have not once regretted breaking up and DO NOT LIKE HIM AT ALL. I'm afraid if I'm more strict or mean he'll do something stupid. He knows where I live and I wouldn't put it below him to vandalize my house or key my car. I'm 17 he's 19. He is also in therapy now. He's very insecure and dependent on those around him and has no plan in life. That's partly why we broke up, he didn't trust me as much as he wanted too his insecurity in himself wouldn't let me. I hate to admit it but I'm afraid of him... help? Young* Text not test* In the second to last sentence I meant him not me for the last word.

And how much money do you need? I'm currently not rich and don't have that many statuses. -_-

it's lke Risk it, but together something like roll of the tongue easier

I love it when my girlfriend farts on my face

Can you not get a girlfriend if you live with your parents? Are they incapable of feeling attraction towards guys who don't live in fancy houses?

I knew this girl in college she was behind me all the time I was not interested on here at all I was triying to take care of school one day She brought me some food to class Haha never in my life someone did it for me that really made me feel something for here and I decided to invite here to see a movie and I she was so happy haha 😂 good times and I was so happy too we went to see the movie and That night after the movie because we went late at I went to here apartment I mee with here roommates and was cool after that I went to my home I did hug her and everything was good that day she told me me that ssshe really like me I feel more more her an told here if I could kiss her and she agreed with me and I did I know the kiss was right because I take care of my mouth and I saw she did like it I did see that but next day after she did not answer me she did forgot about me and that just broke me in 2 I really don't know what about she decided no to talk anymore She just left me until know I can't firget he I have like a year and still thinking why she did acted like that

I think one of my female friends wants to hook up (have sex). I'm kind of a dope when it comes to girls, but I think I can see it now: she is talking about her sex life, and she invited me over her apartment later next week to chill & have drinks. I'm not an expert, but these are not things girls normally say to me, so I am thinking she wants to hook up. Can anyone share some wisdom?

Would you date a guy that lives an hour away from NYC ,also he works in Manhattan

My girlfriend was watching a show on the Reelz channel about a guy who copied a scene from Kill Bill she said he beat her tourted her then buried her alive on a box. She loves scary movie's but she's never seen Kill Bill. She's been wanting too. The other day she told me she was pregnant so I proposed but after watching this shes not sure if she can trust me. We've been together since April. I really love her and want to be there for our future kids bur she doesn't know she can trust me. I can't tell her this isn't just a movie. How can I make her trust me ?

So I thought he liked me because he was showing major signs. Then we were alone and hanging out so I just asked him because I am that type of person. He said he didn't. And I was fine cause I wasn't really into him. Then all of the sudden he wants to call me and "chat" on the phone for a little bit. These convos are no less than 2 hours and they're not forced either. Like they're great. He also shows me signs of him liking me but I'm so confused because he said he didn't. Why all of the sudden would he want to talk and when I said we're in the same class next semester he got really happy. Can't tell if I'm friendzoned or not. Please help

I watch a movie about Perseus. he will love andromeda when he sees she sleep ... he risked life to get married with her. no games, pure love. Where's my perseus?

So there's this girl I really really like and I want to successfully flirt with her. BTW I'm a lesbian and she is too. We were talking about hot models and she said "I wish I was a model" How can I text back a flirtatious and romantic text?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6 months and things weren't going as great I wanted to be. We would argue sometimes or I wouldn't treat her right or I wouldn't take her out like she wanted me too and she kept telling me and warning me that I wasent making her happy because I didn't give her the attention that she wanted. So like a month ago she started talking to this guy friend that is jail too often she would even buy him food and stuff. One day I told her that every time I see her she seems to so excited to talk to him and she said because he listen to her he gives her attention and I didn't that I kept pushing her away and then she started posting pictures of him and she broke up with me because i was checking on her and said that she was done with my b's that she didn't want to hear from me so I don't contact her anymore until she started contacting me. She would text me and call me and would invite over to sleep with her and have sex but she doesnt let me kiss her or hold her hand and yesterday I went to her house and she said that shes can married him but he's in jail and shes really clingy she always wants her boyfriends to be with her so I don't know how that can workout. I don't know why she calls me and texts me if supposedly she move on from me . I still love her but their was no closure and I don't know what to do I really don't want to be wasting my time with her if she doesn't want me no more please help I would really appreciated

For instance, instead of a guy just automatically coming and sitting at her table asking "how are you doing?", is she more likely to drop her defense if he doesn't appear like he's gonna talk long at first, like walking up and continuing to just stand and say "hey, real quick" at first, and then mentioning at first that he can only talk for a minute, to see if it actually goes good at first. Could something like that make a girl more comfortable?

Im a junior and there this freshman girl that has been recently saying "hey" to me. It started when I got out of the bathroom, and happened to be walking her, she turned and just said hey to me, I didn't even expect it. Then it progessed, whenever she saw me in hallways she shouted it out hey or hi and 1 ocassion even giggled after. I usually say hi back but im wondering what if this girl is being polite or something else. She doesnt do it to any other boys. I dont even know this girl not one bit. Any advice

My ex of 10 mths broke up with me via text. He has been stressed/depressed over financial issues, plus he has to move hours away to care for a family member and will be far from his youngest child (and me). He said he loves me but is no longer in love with me and he wants to be friends. He texted me the next morning, calling me my pet name, making small talk (I briefly replied in an upbeat manner). Then second day after (in the evening) he texted again, hoping I had a good day and briefly telling me about his day (I haven't responded to that).

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