Whenever my brother leaves my room, he leaves the door open no matter how many times i ask him to close it. help!

I'm 27 now. My dad passed away in April last year. He had cancer, but his death seemed very sudden since they had said he will probably live until December. I was extremely close to him so his death has been very hard on me. My mom had surgery about a week ago now and came home with several drain tubes. It was supposed to be a simple out patient surgery to fix a hernia, but they found other issues once they were in to fix the hernia. I don't live with my mom, but she watches my children during the week. I have been finding it really hard to talk to her like I usually do either on the phone or through text, and it is extremely hard to look at her and be around her physically with the tubes all around her. I've been going out of my way to not look directly at her or to not speak to her. I feel bad but when I do see her like that all I want to do is run far away. Do you think it could be because I am still grieving the death of my dad? How do I get past it?

My son just turned one December 6th...i haven t seen him since October..his mom is keeping him from me just to hurt me..i haven t done anything wrong..no we don t have a court order..im not on his birth certificate.

My parents are divorced and I much like staying with my dad more. Unfortanutely, we have to spend time with my mom especially when he go on business trips. Making gingerbread houses has been a family tradition and I have asked her to get me a $5 gingerbread house for months, now that Christmas passed, its kind of a lost chance. She doesn t get us any present for any holidays, besides $0.50 pencils and erasers. My dad buys me and all my siblings clothes and pays for most of our food. In fact its like 20 degrees outisde and she keeps the house at 60 degrees to save money... what the heck. Its not like shes super rich, but she isnt poor either. shes at like the bottom of middle class. But despite this, she redid our kitchen costed like $10,000 and redid our deck like $15,000, but refuses to buy literally anything for her 4 kids. Ive tried to talk to her but she just says we dont appreciate her. She has a boyfriend but only likes him bc he gives her lots of money. IDK what to do.

My ex fiance came to see friends and a cousin. I haven't seen him in 3 years. We ended it because we were too far away from each other as I am from Texas and he is from New Zealand and neither of us could move as we were both working on careers. He came to see me yesterday because I was off and he was in town. Nothing happened, we just talked and hung out and did go to lunch. He asked if we could stay connected I told him sure. He hugged me and left. I do not plan on seeing him again but he did mention he is in town for rest of week. My current fiance is historically jealous at times. We have fought over me saying hello to someone at the store. Should I tell him this? I don't want to keep it from him but nothing happened and I know he is going to blow it out of proportion...any advice? Thanks ahead of time!

I've never in my life been the sort of person to hate simeon. But recently I have really started hating my half brother. He talks behind my dads back and then calls him when he needs money and my dad is so blind to it. I've lwatched everything I was ever promised go to him and honestly I never wanted it but my dad would promise me something and my half brother would always swoop in and get it and then nothing was left for me, I never complained but he's now 35 raising two kids.Neither of them have degrees and they both live spending recklessly because they know my dad will bail them out. They didn't have money for a down payment on a house so my dad gave it to them yet they have 3 high end cars in the driveway even though they only need to cars in general... it's Hard bc I've always been responsible and if I ever need help for whatever reason it's a huge ordeal yet my half brother calls and every wish is granted even though he didn't wish my dad a happy Father's Day or anything!!! Meanwhile I'm there for every event with gifts and always go the whole 9 yards. It's just hard watching my dad get used and it's hard for me to get pushed out of the way every time my step brother calls. Ive tried to talk to my dad about it and my dad never lets me say anything bad about him and he starts getting really defensive. He says "what did he ever do to you?" nothing but I'm still hurt and I hate him and I don't want toI just want to stop thinking about this and move on. Please help me.

We often visit my husband's family since we live only an hour away and usually stay for a whole weekend at a time. My husband has a younger sibling 10+ years younger than he is (almost 17 years old). I've been noticing that his younger brother is quite babied by his mother and is not given much responsibilities which really bothers me. I have kept quiet the past couple of years, but now that he is close to being an adult the whole thing bothers me more than before. The most recent incident happened before Christmas when the whole house was preparing for Christmas. He had baked cookies a couple of days prior and left the cookies along with a cookie sheet and a rack on a table that was to be used for Christmas. I suggested very nicely to clear the table before his already stressed out grandmother sees because she is very on edge before guests come. To the point where she had a stoke on Christmas a couple of years back. He cleared the table and put the cookies away but just threw the cookie sheet and rack in the sink and went away somewhere. When I saw him again, I let him know that he should finish the job fully and wash and put away the sheet and rack because other family members would be over soon to prepare food for the party and will be using the kitchen. And to not leave is for others like his mom to do and that it's his responsibility. His mother happened to hear and told him don't worry and that she would wash it for him. Another incident happened when my husbands family and some relatives went on vacation and stayed in one big home. Whoever doesn't cook is responsible for cleaning and tidying the kitchen after dinner. Long story short the aunt got upset because the 17 yrold was not helping and called for him to help. He eventually came, washed 2 dishes and disappeared again.He is showing these signs of being a flake.Other relatives see is and call him out on it but the parents just don't do anything. Is it that bizarre to remind a flakey teen to go do something he is responsible for? Especially when the tasks would take 2 minutes tops? I just remember growing up and my friends' older siblings would never hesitate to tell us what we were doing wrong or to fix XYZ or pick up after ourselves.

I'm 18 and I do baby sitting part time. I know a couple who have a 7 year old son who I'm very close to. I've known him since birth and I've told him he can always come to me for anything. His parents recently did his physical check up and knowing that I occasionally go to the gym, they asked if I could have him exercise with me after school on Friday. Friday came and I took him with me. I went to the locker room and slipped into my usual workout attire, sports bra and tights. We did some basic things like push ups and pacing for about 45 mins and we had a great time. When we finished, we sat in the kid's area the gym set up and ate some sandwiches I made for the both of us. While eating, he innocently pointed and asked what was the silver thing in my stomach. I looked down and he was talking about my belly button ring. His folks are a bit touchy when it comes to attire and I didn't want to give a wrong message so I just said I was born with it and rambled into some science mumbo-jumbo. I told him it was a secret and he had to help me by not telling anyone. He said "sure, what are friends for?" and we did this pinky swear not to tell anyone. It's been a few days since then, and I feel a bit guilty for lying because he believed me so easily and I don't want to have lying become normal for him.

My parents let her live in one of our houses that we don't live in for several years FOR FREE. Then something happened so I had no place to live but to live in MY parents house with my cousin. We got along as cousins before I moved in because we weren't close enough to have any conflicts. However, it became a disaster after I moved in. She is so bossy and even told me "We are no longer relatives but roommates, you better follow my rules." She's 3 years older than me BTW. Then a foreign girl joined us because of my dad's idea. My dad said that girl should pay rent. My cousin would keep the money for herself! What do you think? It is MY parent's house! Just because they let her live them for so long, she thinks that is her house!!!

My aunt is very attractive (in her 40s, not blood-related, married into the family) and I'm 23. She was swimming at our pool and was wearing a 2-piece bikini. She's hot and has big breasts and a big butt, I started watching her from my bedroom and started to masturbate (my bedroom window faces the backyard pool) and I was completely naked. Anyway she got out of the pool and I saw her butt crack and then went inside the house but I continued masturbating thinking of her body, but all of a sudden she opened my bedroom door and saw what I was doing! She just stood there in her 2 piece (which was so hot) and I sat there naked in my chair, she looked at my penis which was really arousing to me. Anyway she smiled and said "i'm sorry!" and my face apparently turned red and she said "Oh no, Hamza you're blushing!" But then she just came and SAT DOWN in my bed next to me and proceeded to talk to me for a couple minutes! saying how it was "normal" at my age and it's ok if I get "hormones" and "urges". But she also promised never to tell my mom. She also said she was perfectly comfortable seeing me naked. I just sat there naked and didn't even cover up while she talked Anyway when she left I just couldn't believe it, it REALLY REALLY turned me on and made me so horny that I continued to masturbate. That all just turned me on so much...my aunt sat and talked to me while in her small 2 piece bikini. Is it weird that she turned me on so much?

I'm 17 years old (male). It seems like whenever we go on vacation or such my parents are always expressing how important it is to be "together as a family" and everything. I know lots of people my age who are very family oriented and put "family first" and welcome any opportunity like that with open arms every time. However, I've always been the complete opposite. Like hearing that stuff really makes me cringe and I don't really care that much about spending quality time with my family. For some reason, family just hasn't been a huge part in my life. Don't get me wrong, I live in a very stable household and all, but I just never really put family first or care that much about being together and such. I feel something's wrong with me, but I really don't have the desire to change my mentality. Again, I'm 17, and I've never had a girlfriend or anything just because I don't feel I'm fit to be a good father or spouse. I feel that I'd rather live alone and spend all my money on stuff like vacations, alcohol, or just stuff I want without having to worry about the cost of children and grandchildren and everything. Plus, I think that if I did get married or have kids, I wouldn't really love my spouse and kids that much, and I'd probably just get divorced anyways. I can't really think of why this is, except for maybe the fact that I've been diagnosed with major depression, and I really just enjoy being isolated and living alone in life. I just want to know what could be wrong with me.

I had to come home from college about a month ago and am miserable as I do not really enjoy my home environment. The problem is that I am graduated now and am fearing the possibility of having to stay here for a long time as I associate the home environment with physical and emotional abuse. Today, I snapped at my brother for being rude to me, and told him " You do not have to be rude or try and bully me". I was a but loud when I did this as I have been bullied by him for years and remained silent as I am a very quiet person by nature. I am 22 and he is 25. He then threatened to hit me and insulted me. My mother was there and started crying which prevented him from hitting me. What do I do about this? My family is very controlling as they are traditional Indians and very conservative and controlling. I really need to get out of here. I am not a happy person.

I was going through my phone cause I wanted to show my mom and my cousin a few pictures, but they accidentally saw a pic of me half naked, that one was my fault because I should have been more careful but I wasn't showing anything on the pic, but my mom took my phone to see that one and then she goes to another album with more pictures, and I got more pissed that she went through my other albums to find other pictures. Now she's mad at me and asked me if I send them to anyone and I said no, but she didn't believe me. Now I'm 21, bit I live with her but I'm still pissed she went through my phone and she's mad at me for having those pictures. I don't know what to tell her now. Btw the front photo of the album she went through wasn't even a naked pic, just a selfie.

I am from a small immediate family and a very large extended family on both sides. I only feel comfortable around maybe 3 extended family members and only 2 immediate family members to the point where if I never saw anyone else again I probably wouldn't care. It's not because of bad blood or anything, that's just the way it has been for the longest. Anyone else feel this way? Is it weird? Could something be wrong (I also have pretty moderate social anxiety)? By the way, I'm 33 years old.

My dad is 48, and my mom is 45. They're almost *shudder* 50! How do I come to terms with this?

my mom is nice but she doesn't think im pretty like the rest of my sisters.But when i agree with her she gets angry. She told me she didnt see me getting married or a bride because i wasnt pretty enough and if i was sick she wouldnt really care and treats me like im not. But when im around guys and i flirt with them she gets really protective and tells me to get away from them, its like I cant hang with a guy without her watching us or searching info about the guy. I was talking to this guy once and she went up to him and goes "who are you??????" She doesnt care about me when im depressed or sick but when i act promiscuous she cares.

I live with my mom and my dad expects me to call him every week. To some this may seem normal but I hate it, it feel like torture. I feel that eventually go crazy if I will have to awkwardly chat to him about nothing every week. Ideally I would like to maybe chat once a month at most. I guess it s just my personality but if I tell him I know he ll get mad and won t care at all.

Why? She ain't got her period still. Acts like I'm the worst person alive. I'm female too. And yes I am respectful and nice to this woman. So dont get me started on tired of this b.s. How do I stop enabling this retarded crap from her thanks

I have limited contact with her. Her sister is the same way.

So annoying. Such an ugly person inside. She will start getting nasty with me and I'm the worst person on earth. She's old as hell past menopause

I am OCD so I rate and judge important occasions like Christmas. My Dad is an alcoholic unfortunately but I would feel bad not seeing him. 5AM to 1PM were great. 1PM to 6PM were bad. The rest of the evening good except when I got home for 2 hours and felt depressed. So I counted 11 good hours and 6 bad hours. So since the majority was good did I have a good Christmas or is it wrecked? My OCD keeps telling me it is wrecked despite almost 2/3 being good. OCD is Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. I am 15 by the way, and Christmas Eve was also good.

They never say no despite her being selfish.

Im a twelve year d girl. I m crying right now because it happens a lot. I ve read on here many times that parents break their promises of getting them iPhones and cars, but mine is much simpler. I wanted one day we re me and my dad could hang out on the couch and play games, one day were he wouldn t go and get pissed. It was that simple, I need help because I don t know what to do. I often think of suicide because I always think I m not good enough. And this doesn t help. What should I do, isit my fault?

I don't really know where else to go at the moment to ask strangers. I had a huge fight with my mother and she threatened to have my daughter taken away from me and then threatened to murder my husband. Over an accidental Hulu charge on her account which we said we would pay back but didn't have to cause she fixed it, and an oil change for the car she let me use (I couldn't afford to take it to the dealership but she refused to let us take it to somewhere cheaper). It honestly escalated too far and I told her she couldn't see my daughter if she was going to threaten me like that. Anyways, back to my question, I was thinking of starting a gofundme to get help moving. I am sure a lot of you will say we should just raise the money ourselves, but I am desperate to get out fast cause I now have no family that supports me, they all believe my mother about the fight. They don't realize she threatened me and I stood up for myself but to my mom it is the other way around, that I was taking advantage of her. The possible family I have left is my father and his family, and of course my husband and his, but everyone lives so far apart. I just would like to move as fast as I can if possible. I just need advice on it as well.

Does autism make someone truly uncomfortable like a phobia or is this just selfishness on her part (she is narcissistic). It is her nephew she won't be around (her sister's son).

I am a 21 year old guy, and my mother and brother treats me like a child. They dont see me growing up. They are always totally against me hanging out overnight at friends place or even going on a holiday with friends. They are not okay with me going out too much with friends (according to their dictionary, too much is like, 10 times a month). The last time, they even called the police because i wasnt coming home. What can I do? They go to all these lengths just to control me like this. It was really embarrassing one day when they tracked me down. I was with my friends and my phone was out of battery. And then my friends brother called him and said that my family is looking for me. This was when I was 20 years old. I didnt even know how in the world they got my friends brothers number. How can I handle this? My mother cries a lot and my brother shouts if I go against their will. The scariest part is that im gay and its illegal here. My mother knows, but she thinks I might be fine, because she prays. She things I will do bad things (have sex) if I go out. And im afraid she might tell my brother im gay. If he finds out he will almost kill me. What to do??

so to try and get to the point as quickly as possible. 3 years ago my father died and my sister and i grew very close in the following months. after a year of doing nothing but spend time with her. i thought about having sex with her because our relationship had just grown way too intimate. but i didnt want to hurt her in anyway or make her carry a regret so young. i know that she wouldve said yes because i went so far as to ask a hypothetical and when we gave eachother backrubs she was not shy. went so far as to get naked. my family took off with almost nothing but the clothing on our backs to live on the west coast, but not before i had a severly traumatizing event that my sister felt was her fault. when getting there i took up an addiction that takes so much from me because i was very mmuch not in my sane mind(i was a valedictorian) i worked a minimum wage job with her and she kinda assumed a protector roll for me until i quit. its been a few months and at the absolute depth of my despair/ solipsis, she told me if i could be clean for 6 months,whenever i have 'an urge to feel good" shed be my **** buddy. i dont really love anything or anyone else as much as her despite my fervent attempts to push her away. im in a moral conundrum. id do it and i wouldve done it when we were close and not broken. it seems almost like the only way out that seems worth it after losing so many braincells. what would you do? edit: the ptsd/traumas happened during the very important developmental stage of transitioning to adulthood. i have lived on the streets and in communes and have further compounding events before this faux death. you could say my heart is almost unacessable to anyone else. she knows the weight of my past, and is the only person i know well enough to trust.

for a while now I've noticed that both my mom and my dad have lots of prescription medicine. My dad has like 7 different prescriptions and they all say take one daily. My mom has lots too. It's been like this for a long time so it's not like it's came out of the blue. Ik both my parents have had a history of high blood pressure or something like that. Is it anything I should be worried about? Is it normal?, my dad's 45 and my moms 42

I felt it was not worth it. In turn my mom said horrible nasty things to me and about my girlfriend since I moved out. My step brother too. And aunt. I felt a bit sorry for them and I wished I had that perfect family you see on tv. I am recovering from a lot growing up with ptsd and guilt but am staying strong to stay away and cut off all ties I don't have to worry about being treated like a pos anymore too. Or controlled, or verbally and physically abused.

I have very strict Chinese parents, and although they have recently come to accept that I am not a math/science person and will pursue a design career, my dad isn't fully supportive. Because his friends' kids are all in great colleges and all that, he's pretty ashamed of me. We just had a talk about my SAT score and it's pretty average, so he kept sighing and sounded really disappointed. He mentioned how during his trip back to China a few months ago, he never mentioned me to his friends. He described how he acted as if he doesn't have a daughter, and only has pictures of my little brother on his phone. He kept saying that my brother is his only hope right now, and that he doesn't care what happens to me after I graduate high school. Bottom line is, I'd have to move out after age 18 and he's no longer interested in the well-being of my future. I'm actually pretty scared of my dad and has been for most of my life. I understand why he feels so disappointed, it's completely my fault. I haven't tried hard enough at school, and I'm pretty lazy most of the time. Right now, I'm in 11th grade and I'm in need of some inspiration, something that can trigger or threaten me enough for me to give it my all. Even if my achievements show up well after school years, or come in forms other than a college acceptance letter, I really hope to earn back the pride and hope my dad had in me years ago. pls understand that the reason why my dad is rlly disappointed is because i used to be a top student, but everything went downhill as i became lazier. He knows that if i actually put in the effort, I'd still be a great student- he knows that I'm simply not trying at all. As for the pursue of design, my portfolio was shown to art teachers and they agree that I have the skills to make it into great art colleges aka im not a complete rando who chose art path cus i have no other choice

My son is 25 years old. He lives with me and goes to college and works full time. Sometimes I let him bring his girlfriend over to spend time with him for a few days. My son became sick over the holiday weekend. He was admitted to the hospital because the antibiotics he had already wasn't working, so the doctors decided to give him something stronger and observe him overnight. On Christmas day, the hospital discharged him. We both go home and we both ate and took a nap. When I woke up, my son's girlfriend was there. My son never told me ahead of time that she was coming over. That really irritated me, on top I stayed by his bedside and missed work to make sure he is well. Now they both expecting to spend the rest of his sick days off together, in our home. What should I say without blowing my top?

I am seeking help in emancipation. my mom doesn't let me see my sister anymore just because my mom ruined their relationship together. My mom lies all the time and talks bad about us to her friends and to random people that she does not know. She will tell others my business. And when me and my mom fight which is usually because my mom starts it by yelling about me asking her a simple question or when I tell her that her "friend" yelled at my sister and called her a *****, My mom will yell at me and say "he never did that" and my mom tries getting me arrested all the time. When she is really mad she will walk by me and fall for no reason and I never touched her and she will yell "lee come here she hit me call the police". (Lee is my dad). And she has done that to my sister all the time and to me all the time. And once I told her that if my moms friend yells at my sister again and ever calls her a ***** I will lose all respect for him. So she got mad and told me I will respect her friends no matter what they do to me or my sister. And I told her I won't if they disrespect me or my sister and my mom slammed on her breaks In the middle of the highway and almost got hit and slapped me. And then pulled over to the dirt road and yelled at me. And she took off speeding down the dirt road and the car end was going side to side because of the dirt and I told my mom " mom stop your going to crash" and she said "I WOULD RATHER KILL US BOTH THAN BE HERE". My mom takes Xanax All the time

Me and my children's father are not together but we still live together until he moves. My question is over the past few weeks I've notice how much time he spends on the phone with the same three male friends for hours and hours a day my number one problem is that that is a lot of time that he could have with the kids. Also helping you with the kids by reading them a book before bedtime and also helping with bathing. Another thing is that it annoys the heck out of me because he talks really loud and I don't care to hear his conversations. Is it normal that he spend so much time on the phone and he's almost 50?

Hi! :D Right now and since I was exactly 5 years old, I live with my sister and my grandparents, and I'm 16. I've always wanted to know my dad, but my mom, who frequently called and visited, would never give me a name. When I was 13, she finally told me his name, the name of some of his brothers, what he was like, etc. Recently, I looked him up on Facebook, and found matching family. I quickly clicked on his Facebook, and saw his face. He only had that one picture and nothing else. No posts, tags, emails, phone number, work, etc. It was weird, until I found that he had a business Facebook. It had his picture, location, email, and a phone number to contact him. I've had the number for a few days now, and have saved the picture of him. I've been staring at them both, knowing that the man in that picture may possibly hold half my DNA, and he's only one message away. I've even written a practice letter in my iPhone notes to send to him in text message. The problem is, I don't feel confident about it, so I wanted advice on what to say. I'm so sorry this is long. I just wanted to give some background information. My mom said she took off before he even knew she was pregnant, so my existence may come as a shock to him. My mom also passed away in 2015, so his name is all I got to go off of. He's my last living parent, and he doesn't even realize I exist. What do I do? What do I say? Please help. THANK YOU! :D

My mother is one of those people who believes you go to high school then find a job right after. The fact that I enrolled into college caused her to bit** every single day until I got a part-time job at Mcdonalds. However, my grades started slipping. I'm always exhausted, I have a hard time studying and I'm also dyslexic so I put more work into my schooling than a non-dyslexic person but having this job keeps her mouth shut. School restarts late January and I don't want to multitask anymore with this job. My plan is med school after undergraduates and I understand how important a good GPA is. I have plenty of financial aid money refunded to me so I never ask her for a dime. To her, it's not about having money, it's about working a job whether it pays a little or a lot. Most of my family is like that. I have an uncle by marriage who doesn't work cause he inherited so much money from his relatives who died so he doesn't have to and my aunt fights with him constantly about getting any type of job regardless of the pay.

My dad cheated once that we know about, and i found out and told my brother who eventually told my mother. After quite a lot of crying and my father begging she gave him another chance. He cried for days saying that he forgot the value of family and that he regrets it so much. It wasnt just a thing that happened but rather an affair for months. I found out by looking at his phone sometimes out of curiosity and seeing kiss emojis or hearts with someone who clearly wasnt my mother. I kept it to myself for months and then told my brother. Fast forward to now he got a bit too comfortable, he and my mother are fine and again she doesnt suspect a thing, neither does my brother, as far as i know. Again i see his phone and the name of a girl with love stuff, clearly another affair just like the first time (trust me i have no doubt). And i dont know who to tell or what to do since this time i am sure it will end in divorce and my mother has no degree or anything since she was a housewife. I also cant help to feel concerned for my school stuff since i am in a rather strict program and this would mess it all up. O well, i wish i could get some advice as to what to do.

She is really talented in her field and she graduated from school about 5 years ago. She just won't find a job because she is scared of rejection and other things. I know she may have other problems which she won't go to the doctor for but...how can I help her to do something with her life...I've tried talking to her, so have her parents and so have her relatives. Thanks!

I am married and have 2 kids. My wife stays at home while I work crazy hours so she doesn't have to go to work (I wouldn't mind her getting a job but she wants to be a stay at home mom). She will not let me have my daughters alone outside of the house. She however lets her Mom, aunt and sister all take them and spend more time with them than I am ever allowed. If I put my foot down and say I'm taking the kids for the day she threatens to call the cops and it becomes a huge fight. My parents have seen my 2 year old only a few times and my 1 month old only at the hospital. They live 10 miles away and are dying to see their grandchildren but the wife always has an excuse. I'm considering a divorce because I believe I will have more parental rights than I have right now but I'm wondering what can I do?

I have been struggling with school since I was 8 years old (I'm 15 now). Ever since then, I haven't noticed a single positive thing ever come out of my parents. I honestly try at school, and this year I brought up 3 F's to Cs and Bs. But it feels like they don't care AT ALL. They just see the F I had left. I feel like they base my entire worth off of grades. I am not a bad person, I do stuff in my community and went on a mission trip last summer, but it seems like none of that matters because of my grades. But I feel like if I had straight A's, they would have thrown a goddamn party for all of that. I guess I wanna hear from people who experience this and maybe even parents themselves. I know my parents want me to be successful, but I don't think that this is how you express that. I'm like, forreal about to give up. I only do this **** for them and they don't even notice it. I'll just live on the streets lmao

She has been our family pony for 15 years but always acts like we are nothing more than a food source. When I hug her she looks back at me and goes back to eating. Is there a way to establish an emotional bond with her or is she too used to her laissez-faire lifestyle?

both my parents passed away in the last couple houses and they left our house behind. none of us lived in it after they passed. my brother just let me know that he sold it and it doesn't seem fair. I feel like me and my sister should get some of the money since it was our parents house too. he was our half brother who shared a mom but not dad. i'm 14 my sisters 16 he's 23. did he have the rights? what do i do

im only 12 and my parents are fighting and i guess my mom hit my dad and my dad yelled, "you promised you wouldn't hit me ever again!" and she said "i never said that!" my mom went to the bathroom and puked and i could hear it and im so sad and about to cry because they are arguing really bad they stopped arguing cuz i cant hear it anymore but my dad came out the room with a cold stare and grabbed his keys and went back inside! what does that mean omg i wanna cry what if they hit each other :( help me my mom isnt drunk. and idk if she puked blood or like food im crying right now becuz my little brother went to their room and saw my mom packing her stuff and he came back and told me and we r both crying i know my grammar is not good rn but im soooo sad liek hellp plzz and thank u for nice comment also i am not old enough to drive and run awayy i will die if i do that! i texted my friend and her dumb a$$ told me to record it on youtube to get subscribers and now i know why people hate 12, 13, 14 year olds :( and it was a normal hit and not THAT hit.

I'm 27, I live with my Dad who's single. I help him alot with cooking, cleaning and just about everything. He let me stay rent free while I was in college. Now I'm about to graduate and really want to move to another state. I just feel so guilty because I will worry about him. He's 58 years old. Any advice?

Me and my dad don't have a good relationship at all. He always insults me and it hurts my feelings and I can't do anything but cry. Everyday he does the same thing and I'm tired of him. I distanced myself from him since it seems like he doesn't really like me, for Christmas he gave me a Jacket , I really like it I was quite surprised he got me something (but this is the thing, I'm still a minor I can't work since I'm only 15 I have to be 16+ to get a job)He always says things like "Give me that since is mine because I bought it with my money" And is annoying. Anyways I really like to draw and he gave me a Sketchbook and had a lot of drawings that I was proud of, we got in a fight for a dumb reason and he went to my room and ripped apart my drawings and threw my Sketchbook away I was so sad and broken since I put a lot of effort in them. my drawings mean a lot to me ): I was so mad and sad but I couldn't say anything since he's my dad so I started tearing up. I help him around the house and I'm good to my mom. I feel like he's stressed out but can't he see he's taking the stress on me and it hurts me. I been clean from cutting for 2 years but today I couldn't take it no more . How can I fix my relationship with him? As far as I can remember he has never been sweet to me only to my mom but that's it.

So I m currently 7 months pregnant and my fiancé is currently deployed. I m basically paying for all the bills on my low income salary, expect his car. I have no connections to his money. Here s my biggest issue, his mother. She talked him into letting her have a bank card instead of me and if I need money I go through her. She s very controlling and is always causing an issue in our relationship. We were suppose to be buying a house with 20 acres and she s been asking if she can put a trailer on the land with us, so I finally put my foot down and I told him I m not living any where near either of our parents. She got mad. Then she asked to be in the room when our daughter is born and I told her I only wanted me and my fiancé in the room.. she got mad. Since I m working so much to pay the bills I m in a lot of pain, however, she constantly wants to hang out with me (probably to be noisy), but recently I ve been blowing her off bc she s so rude and starts so much drama plus I m worn out and in pain. Then she starts this big fight between me and my fiancé bc I don t constantly want to hang out with her and when I do what s meant to be an hour visit turns into an all day thing. My fiancé always takes her side and jumps my *** over her. I m never rude or disrespectful to her, but it s getting hard to keep my mouth closed. I just need advice 🤦🏻‍♀️

My brother (19) beat up my other brother (21) because he slept with his girlfriend. He punched him in the face multiple times, busted his lip, and gave him a black eye. He nearly gave him a concussion. I think what he did was fine and my other brother deserves it, but my sister says she thinks my brother took it too far. What do you think?

What about your husband's step brother's wife?

What about husband's uncles wife and husband's cousin?

I met my sister in law's (again, no real relation) brother and we really clicked. After a couple months of talking we admit to each other we shared a liking. My half brother doesn't like him but my bro is known to be selfish and i personally don't like him much. What are the cons of my liking towards the wife's brother? Is it wrong?

my sister and I have different fathers so she lives with him, but from time to time she gets on the phone to talk to my mom. I havent seen her in 10 years (shes 13 now) and she's talking about running away since her dad wont let her see our mom or anyone from our family. she isnt even allowed to use the phone. is he legally allowed to do this? I also have suspicion shes's also being abused in some way as well since she misses many school days. Is there a way my mother can at least be able to visit my sister from their home? or would this have to be dealt with in court? ( I live in texas and im 19 )

Basically, we were all at hers for Christmas, me and my boyfriend were talking about money problems and we got onto the topic of inheritance, and then it came out. My grandma overheard and she told us later when everyone went home that she was very upset. To clarify - I said it mostly jokingly, but she doesn't want to listen to our explanation.